Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 9:22am On Aug 28, 2021 |
placeofallure: I absolutely understand you. Thank you.
When I say love is about giving and taking, I simply mean it should never be one sided. Whatever is given in sacrifice must be reciprocated. It may not exactly be commensurate but little kind gestures go a long way.
I hope you understand now. Perfectly. Thanks for your contribution |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 9:01am On Aug 28, 2021 |
debbydams: hum mm,but we still have some ladies that can endure,,seriously. Love before money..money before love won't last Of course there are! If a lady go after material things or riches. It won't last. There would be times when these things won't count. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:56am On Aug 28, 2021 |
placeofallure: A lost trust, can it ever be rebuilt? Answer please.
In my opinion. Love is a dual carriage way of fortn and back, go and come, give and take. Just like the symbiotic association in Biology. Give and take? Kindly explain. To your question. This is a very tricky question and it's a hard tack. But I'll try and explain succinctly. A wise man once said and I quote; "Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered." Which means even our minds can play tricks with us. This is what I'm trying to say. Man can never be trusted. Why? Because we are humans! We have tons of flaws. This doesn't mean you should be stereotyped and turn a blind to people, or isolate yourself from people. No! Be logical with things you entrust to people but do not rely on them. Have it in mind that disappointment Occurs with humans.I'm going somewhere, stay with me. So, Generally, people are forgiving of breaches of competence and will consider situational factors and know incompetence can be temporary. I believe that people who are competent can sometimes act incompetently because of situational factors outside their control. But even when external factors are not to blame, people understand that competence can be improved; people can get better and develop from their experiences. It all comes down to how the response is handled. You shouldn’t blame other factors entirely, instead, the response should do the following: Acknowledge the failure Take responsibility Show what has been learned. So, yes. A lost trust can be rebuilt. But, it will take an extra mile to be proven. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:20am On Aug 28, 2021 |
bepositive11: Genuine love is patient, kind, understanding, nurturing, giving without expectations, forgiving -- with healthy boundaries though. Being a push over or getting taken advantage of is not love. No one should tolerate that any form of abuse or mistreatment in the name of love Mistreatment? If one is mistreated, then I don't think that's love and it should not be tolerated. Love should be a mutual thing don't you think? |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:15am On Aug 28, 2021 |
bepositive11: Love doesn't damage people. It nurtures
The problem is people mistake trauma bonding and infatuation for love. They're not the same Perfect answer! But, let's take a look at it from this dimension; what about someone who has been betrayed by someone they truly love? |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:06am On Aug 28, 2021 |
 Palazee: Lets welcome the redpillers |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:05am On Aug 28, 2021 |
dairykidd: So far its just one person using the other for their benefits, selfish interests and gains You think? I beg to disagree. Love is not selfish. In fact, love should be mutual; it should not be one sided like you stated. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 7:59am On Aug 28, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: there are no words to describe or quantify what true love is, only love can describe love You have a point there. True love cannot fully be expressed without action. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 7:54am On Aug 28, 2021 |
debbydams: it is a beautiful thing if someone is with his/her better half..I've bn tru a lot of heartbreaks and I still believe in love,,and I'm gonna love my man with every part of me (Chuckles) You know, you'd hardly find ladies do the above you mentioned if the guy is broke. This is where compatibility comes in. |
Romance › Re: I Hate Ugly People! by Cinema4d: 8:54pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
360clips: Sometimes when I see an ugly person, I use to wonder! Is it that both your mother and father are both that hideously ugly to have born such an ugly abomination like you?! I don't understand! Even if both your mom and dad are terribly ugly, it still shouldn't be enough reason for you to be very ugly like them because they're lots of factors that determines an offsprings appearance! I hate ugly people! And what annoys me the most about ugly people, especially the females is their boldness and guts! How can you see an ugly female that knows she's ugly have the audacity to approach fine handsome guy and start trying to chyke the guy? Is that not madness?! .Do you not look at yourself in the mirror?! I don't mean to be this shallow, but it's just the truth! Many females will reject you based on your looks , so why accept them if they're ugly? If an ugly female approach me anytime, anyday I let her know how ugly she is and reject her bluntly! . If people see an ugly new born baby, will anyone want to hold that baby? Definitely not me! Nobody likes ugly things! Ugly people stay far away for me! Your mentality is thwarted. Kindly define ugly in this regard. As far as I'm concerned, poverty is ugliness to me. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 8:42pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
debbydams: Love is a beautiful thing  A lot of Folks have been damaged by love. So, is love still a beautiful thing or a tragedy? Red pillars would strongly disagree with this.  |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 7:45pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 7:43pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Longevo: It is the best kind of love that I've experienced. I was rescued from damnation because of this sweet love, and today I'm living in this love. No turning back. God's love is unfathomable! Keep basking in his overwhelming love. I'm not an exception. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 10:16am On Aug 27, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 12:03am On Aug 27, 2021 |
Snitch24: Offers might be interns of Money Connection Safety Companionship etc I'm sure u wouldn't want to date an urgly girl That one self na part of the offers  This part you mentioned is another topic that has been argued about. |
Science/Technology › Re: 15ft Snake Swallows Entire Cow Before Its Stomach Bursts Open In Thailand by Cinema4d: 11:56pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Omo this snake don swallow more than its stomach can contain. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:41pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Lilsameey: ,..There's no love without trust, When the trust is lost in a relationship, That's the end of love. That moment you are in love is the moment you start trusting who you fall in love with. Trust. Well it's really hard to trust these days. Considering the fact that our generation have been fed with all sort of poison |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:38pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Pumpumking:
correction sir: Big booobsi, heavy yansh plus thigh & side yansh is 1000000% true love sir....I fall in love almost every day!! (true story sir) 
I just told you the fact that what you're experiencing is lust not love. There's a wide disparity between the two. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:37pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Longevo: Love is Sweet because God is Love I like this your perspective. The God kind of love. Enlighten us about this kind of love |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:34pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Snitch24: That type of love No dey again
As a matter of fact Nobody will want to have anything To do with you if you don't have anything to offer I'll agree with you on the part where you have to have something to offer. Buh how do you know one has something to offer in a relationship? Or, you talking about offer you mean showing equal affection you show towards your partner? Or is it monetary terms, material things, or even attention? |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:26pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine: You see ennnn love is like a course in a university that people study... And its very very wide... Naturally I would assume the kind of love u are talking about is boy friend girlfriend love...
Now the kind of love in a romantic relationship will be different from that of family member and also from neighbours...
My definition above can be attached to any kind of love in this life... Love of family member love of spouse love of neighbours
For the holy book made us to understand that love is the greatest of all thing... If my neighbour is progressing in life and am happy for him it means his happiness is essential to mine... And I can say I love him or her...
But not in a case where Chelsea is playing champions league and arsenal is no where to be found... My brother that kind love no dey exit for where I dey, I will be praying they lose ...  Of course I'm talking about eros (passionate love) not the agape love. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:20pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Lilsameey: ,..Love is trust. Hmmm... this is deeper than being deep. You'll have to unriddle this for me. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:19pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Pumpumking: ^^story. bro...for all men (me include), true love is all about Big booooobsi ... heavy Yansh plus thigh sir!!!   that's not love bruh. That's lust!! Men are moved by what they see. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:17pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Snitch24: Yes but not geniu People will love you for a particular gain Gain? But they say love don't care. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:15pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:11pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
sikirus81: Like this now the woman I love Don breakup with me ooo so love na rubbish. any woman I c now AHHHH I go stomp on that heart without mercy So, love Is rubbish to you... |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:08pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Polynek:
 It is well... I feel your pain bro  Hope you're not too emotional to share right now |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:07pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine: Love to me is that condition by which other people's happiness is essential to yours... Go on. Expanciate please. |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:02pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
SimplySonofman: ��   why are most if the guys speechless? Shey love don do you strong thing ni? |
Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:01pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 11:00pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Snitch24: Love is a long story Better left untold Why? Do you think it still exist in this dispensation? |
Romance › Define Love Through Your Experience (pics) by Cinema4d(op): 10:56pm On Aug 26, 2021*. Modified: 11:45pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Yes, define love based on your experience.
For me Love is all about emotions.
Lalasticlala Mynd Ishilove
Modified: for those asking, what kind of love are we talking about here? Well, it's the Eros (passionate love): Eros is all about romance, passion, and attraction. It describes the intoxicating and thrilling emotions that the initial stages of a relationship can induce. Relationships often begin with passion, including infatuation and attraction, As exciting as this is, it is mostly a fusion element, designed to draw people together.
Sexual interest, lust, or passion don't necessarily evolve into lasting compassionate love.
You can share your other perspective on love
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