₦airaland Forum

ObamaMessi:
How do you define someone who cannot accept defeat and go unnoticed? I don't engage stark illiterates but when they get so much on my nerves I descend with my vawentic nature on them to Devour them It's like you still haven't taken my previous advice I would suggest you take two glasses of water and rest before you invite my real self, then you will run away with your tail in between your legs but I will not cease chasing you untill I send you into extinction where your forefathers belongs.

Another load of garbage Still pained.
I'm sorry I revealed your true nature when I first quoted you. I thought you already knew.

I would trade words you, but you wouldn't understand them even if I explain.

Wait, why are you so mad about your true nature? You should wear it like a badge of honour

eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family members advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

Big mistake. Coming to nairaland for advice 🙊

ObamaMessi:
I wasn't intelligent enough to understand the point you were trying to pass across But your desperation has blurred your mental faculty so you became dumber than you think I am, in this case, you hurried up into my mention to unleash your chronic lunacy I would suggest you wash your eyes with acid before running into my mention to disgrace your generation This is Obama,Messi

You speak an infinite deal of nothing.
You still haven't correct yourself slowpoke! 😂

Borntosmoke:
Pls there is this Fulani girls by the road side, she is a begger and I'm in love with her. Who have had experience dating a begger. Are they wife material and also her beauty is out of this world she resemble Indian, I don't know what shift her to begging.

Love don't care.

ObamaMessi:
I was not expecting a sane human being to mention me while countering me You are the best description of what you just typed Now run along the gutter where you belong

Why are you whinging? 😂 I’d say you’re ‘dumb as a rock,’ but at least a rock can hold a door open.
I was buttressing your point referring to the OP, but you're in haste to haul insult at people.

Kindly modify your response.

siofra:
So I was going through a hook-up site (coderuns) out of curiosity since everyone has been talking about it here in the romance section.

I immediately recognized Mr. Jeromestarks profile. Hmm...these redpillers are number one in embarrassing themselves.

In case you're a woman with "nice battacks and virgin genítalia" jeromestarks is available for you.

You two will make a beautiful couple

I stopped reading when you mentioned masturbation

The halfwit thinks it's a spiritual attack. Instead of him to seek for solutions to his addictions. He's here whinging.

ObamaMessi:
Another useless black slave of a dirty Nigerian vagina Omo, where God dey see all these kain yeye animals him dey bring into existence? This one is a waste of missionary style and thick sperm I can't imagine the level of this idiocy and lunacy that's raised to the power of One million Your mother should be weeping for giving birth to a complete mess of a trash you are today And your father should be castrated so as not to bring more of your type into existence. Your community people should regret your existence and Nigerian gov'ment should send you out of this country with haste, we have no time to waste

Animals are true to their nature. This one has betrayed his.

My health

DaddyCork:
Three nairaland lady's juss sent me text message threatening to release our sexxxc tape on Facebook.. help....please help!!!

Name them 😏

Nicenancy:
I am the only lady at my workplace of very few workers. My boss yesterday called me and was like " come and let me enjoy you." I was surprised. I went and he spoke at length with me on several work related and life issues without mentioning love or sex. Is this normal for your boss to say "come and let me enjoy you?"

You know the answer🤨

crows2ravens:
This is how you know those that came from broken homes, or had bad fathers, and whose brothers too are same.

It's not an insult but it's fact.
If you have this much against Nigerian men, you won't like any man at all. You need some education about human psychology, and how it varies by gender.

Your mind is broken. Don't get married. Nigerian men don't want to marry you too.

Exactly. I wonder what makes her think other men from different nationalities are different 🤷‍♂️

These countries Maldives, Belarus, United States, Cuba, etc have the highest rate of divorce compared to africa combined.

Just making random generalizations. They never admit they're the problem.

siofra:
Only an idiot will take you serious. With all the ibon (let me borrow from ishielove ) in your post, you still have the mind to say Nigerian women have low IQ

Please proofread your original post and heading, spot the grammatical errors and correct them. Then maybe we can have this conversation. Olodo.

Are you part of the 1%?

🙄

Samantha123:
If you want ten kids, go and marry a Yoruba woman... I've heard that they have the highest twin births on Earth due to the kind of food they eat... Maybe there's an ingredient that they use in their food that makes them to produce a lot of twins.

Sounds like a farce. Perhaps it's a folktale

Samantha123:
Nigeria of course.. you guys are the giant of Africa for a reason... You don't joke when it comes to procreation..

You guys make sure that you impregnate your women either on the night or the week after the wedding..

What about you guys?

JoyousFurnitire:
Maybe because she's not Nigerian

I swear.

Samantha123:
Nah... If you want ten kids, go look for a woman that'll give you those ten kids to avoid marrying a second wife in the future and having troubles with your first wife.

And what's wrong?

Where do you think I can find such woman?

Prettygirl200:
Yes it is, it's wise to marry early as a man or as a woman, as a man u will be happy to see your child all grown when u are 40 years old at the same time sewing your grandchildren early before joining your ancestors and not not your first child clocking 15 when u are 60 years old. Although marrying early is not for everyone as some don't make money on time, see a partner they are compatible with and so on.

You just hit the point.
I think this is what the man is trying to say. This is the main purpose of marrying early.

Samantha123:
I'm an introvert and I prefer having my own peace of mind and space... So two is enough for me, and I'd still want to enjoy my man after having the two kids.

But ten kids won't make it possible for me to still be able enjoy my man and I'm not a baby making machine..

I'm an extrovert. Probably a SangChlor in temperament I prefer seeing my partner having their peace of mind, and their personal space. I think I care too much for people around me. So, the equation is balanced. I'll manage two though ...

Why am I replying this way something's wrong

Sixfeetbelle:
Because she said she will share her finances with her husband? Please

The only problem women have with sharing finances is being married to a man who thinks his marriage operates with a traditional setting.

I disagree. In my opinion, women wants to be pampered; in fact, most of them wants to be full house wives. Forget the paparazzi and the upitty attitude they put out there. Reality is often disappointing.
Some of them don't want to work, not to talk of sharing finances? They believe a man must provide every d**mn thing.

MikeofAfrica:
Some weeks ago, I was discussing with a technician who came to repair my generator.
He confided in me that he has miss great opportunities to become wealthy due to his early marriage.

He and his friend once had the opportunity of working in a factory in Europe but his wife put to bed within that period through caesarean section hence he could not raise the funds to travel to Europe.

His friend is now very wealthy and lives with his family in Hamburg.

Early marriage has advantages and disadvantages. It's main advantage is that you will likely have kids at young age. It's main disadvantage is that it will limit your adventures . A poor man needs to be adventious before he can defeat poverty.

Hence it will be difficult for a poor man who marries early to become wealthy unless his wife is from a wealthy family that is ready to assist him.

That's sad. Hope he doesn't live in regret for the rest of his life...
I guess he didn't plan properly before taking her down the aisle.

Samantha123:
Ten kids? Who said I want a football team?

I do! Because I want to be the striker just kidding. But why are you scared though?

Dimples2022:
This part confuses me. There are women who are doing better than their mothers and most people’s mothers both academically and professionally so are you implying these women don’t deserve vacations to Miami?

We need to stop selling this poverty narrative while whispering “men should be financially stable before marriage”

Pick a side man! Should men make more money or should women diminish their dreams and swallow *what* their basic lazy men bring to the table?

Good. So you agree women should be financially independent before getting married. So why are you modern women confusing us then?

Samantha123:
No, I'm not... But I'm already booked..

Beautiful. So, can he feed you and ten kids

Samantha123:

Are you married? Something tells me you're not of this generation
I like surrounding myself with people of like minds

habsydiamond:
those that went into marriage yesterday with only money, where are they today?? They re divorced or in the process.

But, why do we then capitalize on money and nothing but money?

pansophist:
I agree, but it all depends on the people involved. If the girl is productive and didn't enter the marriage with the mindset of consuming, receiving, and feeling good only, then it will work.

Marriage should make the life of two people easier if it's done rightly. For example, it's cheaper for two people to rent together, eat/cook together, and do basically everything, since there is, for lack of a better analogy, ''economy of scale'' involved.

Unless modern women are like our mothers who don't see marriage as a permanent vacation to Miami, men should be financially stable before going into one.

The definition of financial stability is quite confusing these days, and subjective.

yrhuhfy113:
you can say its... two sides of a coin.

Some followed this man's advice and now are too broke to even come online to complain... they married so early in the name of things will be better... then BOOOOMMMM wife delivers twins or triplets... or something else happens... and the meager 150k salary became minus 200k debt.... and over the years... the man has become bitter and sad that HE WAS LIED TO and those who lied to him that made him rush into marriage on a low salary, have all abandoned him.... Now they vehemently advice anyone against making their own mistake. THAT'S ONE SIDE OF THE COIN...

THE NEXT SIDE.... they married early, favor, luck or whatever good spirit, shined on them and things began to boom so well and now they are doing well and they think it is because they married early so they advice everyone else to marry early thinking everyone else has the same luck they had. THAT IS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.


So you see, no two marriages will have the same story... everyone can actually know which side of the coin they belong to. Sadly we lie to ourselves alot in Nigeria... meanwhile abroad, a 40 years old getting married is still very much celebrated like a 20 years old... age is just a number. Getting your life working wella before marriage is what counts.

Two sides bloody heh! What's the probability of falling in the good side? Or it's not just predictable?

Samantha123:
Well, I believe in financially helping out my man with household necessities because the last thing I want is to see him stressing and aging quickly because of all the financial burden that comes with marriage.

If he puts the bread on the table, I'll then put the butter.

Well, I've seen another rare one.