Lighthouse7: Please dear Daddy and Mommy, forgive me for bringing this here. am doing this because av run out of options and I don't have any other choice. My name is kelly, I gave birth to my boy Ayomide 2 years ago and since then it has been a rollercoaster of one event to another. My fiance abandoned us and I move in back with my parents taking care of my son all alone without any assistance even though he was always falling very sick all the time. I notice that he always feels discomfort when his trying to breath so I looked for money to take my son to the hospital. He was diagnosed with congenital heart defect, a hole in his heart, as the cause of his breathing problems. I've cried my eyes out but if only crying can solve problem. I can't stand to see my child in pain.
I've gone almost everywhere I can possibly go but no hope except for hospital. Doctors say that he will need to undergo surgery at UCH for N4.5million and my family with the help of some very kind hearted people have been able to raise part of N3 million. We have sold off almost everything valuable to us but it's not yet enough, that why I am appealing to well meaning Nigerians, if you're touched to save my son's life, please find it in your kind heart to extend a hand of help to him. Nothing is too small in the sight of God. Am calling kind hearted people, please help save my boys life. Please am also calling upon any NGO that can accept my sons condition please. May God almighty bless you immensely and wipe away sorrow from your eye. Amen.
…and you’ll lose more, bad energy attracts more bad luck
Funny enough any time millions is coming I always loose a few change. On God I got x50 of that amount 4days later. I no go curse you because e no follow u.
Bolt458: I am not writing this for religious people to come with their funny talks, I am just putting this out here to hear from people who might have tried this methods or who heard about this methods and still proceeded or did not. I want to hear your experience. I have been dating someone for 5 years now, it happened that I began to see her as someone I would want to spend my life with. Last year we did our genotype test and we were both AS. Now , I know some of you will say this should be the first thing you ask when you meet someone but c’mon, would you say people in university that are dating now, would ask their sef that question? That theory is only feasible when you are single and ready to get married and want to start a new relationship, then you can always ask, but we all know some of our relationships started when we no Dey even see marriage in the nearest future, all of a sudden you just see them as the right person and you take the bold step. Now, I had to meet my family doctor here in Canada, I explained to him my current situation and he referred me to a GENETIC COUNSELOR. I am trying to take the necessary steps cause I am not ready to bring in a child with Sickle cell to this world, and I am not leaving anything to faith. A fone appointment was set with the counselor and we spoke at length. She told me that in every foetus, there is a 25% chance that we can get an SS child. Now , how do we mitigate this percentage to the barest minimum I asked as I am not even ready to bring in a sickler to this world. She gave me three options, I would rather say two because the last involves test when the baby comes, and that is out of the question.
Option 1: A) CVS: They take a sample of the fluid in the womb through her vagina, at 12 weeks to test, if it’s good then fine, if not we have to terminate.
OR
B) At 16 weeks, they take the fluid using a needle directly from her womb, and if it’s SS , they terminate. Both procedures are cover by the government and we don’t need to pay a dime.
Now, she assured me that abortion is a very safe procedure if done properly, and it is even a bigger risk that one can die from a penicillin injection or carrying a pregnancy to term than any harm during an abortion.I know many people would come here and say abortion is this and that but let us be frank to ourselves. If you were told that the child in your womb would have cerebral palsy, or Down syndrome or a neurological disorder, would you still keep that pregnancy? Is there a 100% assurance that two AA people would give birth to a healthy baby? I have come to a realization that pregnancy is just a risk that people take, cus you really don’t know how your child would turn out.
Option 2: PGD. This is just like IVF, where they would select the genotype before they insert back to the womb. She told me the government doesn’t cover this, and it could cost between $10K- $40k. However she mentioned, just like IVf, it is not guaranteed as it can fail and your money is gone.
I discussed this with my girl in Nigeria and she said she was fine with option 1a. I then asked her, that if the first, second are SS would she still remove it. She accepted. I would not lie to you, this girl is everything I want in a woman. I am not just looking at just love because I know love fades with time, but she is a really nice person, and has a good character. She has always been like this from my days in Nigeria because I was with her before I moved outside. Now after finding out our genotype, I tried to get into a relationship with AA. The first one Dey nigeria, she is a nice person, beautiful, but I just didn’t like her or feel attracted to her. She got tire and we just free ourselves, the second one is here in Canada, I just don’t like this one . Please note, I never slept with any of these ladies because I feel it’s not fair.
Now my question is for those who knew all this and still proceeded, how did it work out for you?
I repeat, don’t come here to tell me about how abortion is this and dat. Cus I know if they tell any of you that your child would be abnormal, 90% of you will go for the abortion
crusufixo: I dont know why we Nigerians take things for granted. Ever since hilda baci did the cook ha ton, every Nigerian have been coming up with one ha-ton or the other A time would come when GWR wont take Nigerians serious again
Wagwanbrethren: Good one from the US! They are quick to impose death penalty on homosexuality, but can't impose death sentence on their corrupt politicians! 🤣
Most Africa countries with their misplaced priority. LGB is here to stay, either you like it or not. Na just time. The death penalty is too extreme, and that's human right abuse.
I wonder why people are going crazy over what two adults choose to do with themselves. Don't you get it, they are not sexually attracted to the other sex, no matter how you try to change them, it's the way they are. No be your nyash I dey f;k, so why you carry the matter for head? ☹️
PrimadonnaO: Stop running things outside your home. It may seem like fun today, and that you're getting away with it, but you're creating cracks in your home. Giving the devil legal access into your home.
One day he'll come to occupy. So please desist and consecrate while the time is there.
Thanks a lot. Been working on it lately and trying to make everything moments count.
My wife know the passwords to everything I have including emails and Atm cards, as I know all her passwords too. If I die today she should be able to Access everything I have without stress. That one no mean say I no still dey run tinz outside once in a while
being: Those are relationships. In marriage, it can be very different. To be sure, constant retaliations like that is a leading cause of marriage breakdowns... OP get her(&u) counselling fast!!!
And you think even the UK is safe enough to hide in after your MONUMENTAL act of wickedness and betrayal against such a personality? Such unprecedented cruelty and coldness of heart?
I don't know Ekweremadu's ways and means, or if he has a sufficiently vengeful grown son with ways and means. Because... HMMM.
Grrrh.
Give dem your kidneys since you're their family friend. Btw they should have been sentenced to 30 years respectively
xavuv: What makes you think she's doing well for herself, Because she says so? Or you think so? ...She may just be hyping herself unnecessarily. Abroad is not a land flowing with milk and honey.
Romanoff: We cut our coat according to our fabric.
We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.
We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.
Everything no pass 800k.
The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.
Best decision of our lives.
I did my wedding on 15 of this month after I have given my inlaws what the requested for. We proceeded to wed on a Sunday during church service and na Donuts and soft drinks we share. Everything was almost 50k. But if you see my pictures ehn you think say we spend millions.
ATLIEN2027: Trash Nigerias want a competent leader not a pathological lying incompetent young leader. Age is not a deciding factor in good leadership. Competence, capacity and leadership skills are what really matters. There are many young incompetent Governors and LG chairmen all over Nigeria today. Been young doesn't make you a good leader especially when you were once in an executive position and you failed woefully like Obi did in Anambra.
Jones4190: If you like cry from now till 2023, Your CEO will hang tinubu ’s picture in his/her office as the 16th President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. And there’s nothing you can do about it. Argue, doubt, rant, rain abuses.. E go happen!!!
��. I will save a screenshots of your moniker, so I could congratulate you when tinubu ever win
This is done by family or someone close to him. They probably thought he would die in captivity so they took his belongings and now in order to keep enjoying his belongings they lay ambush on him
DrAkpamudehe: Peter Obi is a thief and a vagabond,...If peter Peter Obi had done his job well as governor, all this won't be happening.
What is the point of saving 75billion ( not confirmed) when your people need infrastructures to combat calamities like this? Peter Obi is from my village, but he will never smell Aso rock gate. Nonsense
Google all the floods that has happened around the world and share blames.
Offpointng: Peter Obi permutations wasn't smart at all...If Peter obi had intentions of winning, he ought to have call along Osinbajo to LP and allow Osinbajo be the presidential candidate while he become the vice. and when Osinbajo is done with two terms, Obi can then now contest and by then, nobody would have the popularity to contest with him
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; "Used by a banker" na wetin make me buy car wey I dey use now
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