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SultanOfPuna:
I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023
Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them

Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid.
I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life.


My parents are really old
My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents.
I'm the only one closer to them

I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order.
But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family.

If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age.
Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them.

What should i do?

iampeterben:
How will all this borrowed funds get to the poor masses, what is the borrowing of this funds impact to our economy?

benuejosh:
FAKE NEWS!!

Edited:
To those quoting me without thinking, who in those interior villages they mentioned that is so interior and bordering Taraba State has a cell phone with such sharp camera to snap those pictures? But, agenda must agend.

Mjshexy:
She will soon dump herself on one innocent man who knows nothing about her terrible past and when child bearing becomes a problem they will be running from one church to another

Rearealki:
Take time out and build yourself.
Don't try to date for 6 months and during this period hit the gym( to tone your muscle not necessarily to build muscle), Get new haircut (new style). Change your wardrobe(your style not by buying new clothes, mix match your wardrobe), polish your skin, work on your finances,and dream of meeting the right girl then slowly watch how things will turn around. Luv yourself first bro.


I wish you well.

I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

KnowledgePower7:
First of all, looking at the blogger talking

1. He has been paid to post this
2. Carrying private family dispute and putting it on social media to gain views
Private family matter should ALWAYS be solved PRIVATELY.

Na two of una swear in front of altar
Say for better for worse till death do apart
No be me and you do swearing
Noooo Na una two
So any dispute una get you solve it in private not the public

Back to the issue

When the man gave her gifts
Did we see any hidden video??

When the man made her happy
Did we see the video??

Nobody was hiding camera videoing them during their good times. Best times
When they were laughing kissing

But when one private issue happened
The video am
Post am to the world to see to judge the man

Who place the camera??
Who release private video to public

Una never talk una agenda

Back to the video

Who placed the video at that angle?
You people underestimate women


If you look closely you see that the man was in deep anger and was throwing objects blindly in rage missing almost all the things he threw.

That is the type of anger you display when you are really mad at someone you love.
If he wanted to kill her, he won't be throwing objects missing all his shots.

He could go and bring a weapon, stick or belt snd deal with her heavily
However you see in the video that his rage was short lived meaning he was deeply angry but still maintain his anger after throwing objects and missing them.

Now the question NOBODY including the simp blogger.

What did the woman do??

Abi the woman is an angel virgin mother Mary
My babe confess to me say she purposely wanted to make me angry just to see how I act when I'm angry. I swear on my life!!

Women are experts in doing that one thing that will annoy the living hell out of you.
Just to see how u will react.
Then they play victim like a harmless princess in danger
Meanwhile na she be the Chief instigator of the whole wahala.

Life is the greatest teacher!!!
Una go learn when you enter marriage.
Go ask UK brothers what the shege Dem see

I will humbly ask again
What did she do to provoke such anger??
For every ACTION there are 2 sides

The Cause and The Effect

We did not see the Cause of this action
The origin, the genesis of the issue
We are only seeing the Effect of this action.
So to isolate and focus on the effect while neglecting what caused it is a clear case of BIAS.
To get full judgement
First find out what caused this action
Then compare it with the effect of this action
Then you have a Solid Judgement.

King Solomon used this same principle to judge the woman that claimed another woman's child.
If that blogger was alive in king Solomon time
He will emotionally support the evil woman that tried to claim another woman's baby.

Mr. Blogger leave judgement for the wise.
Thank you

Zonefree:
An institution for higher learning giving accolades for producing bread, I mean BREAD


When other universities in the world are breaking records in Aeronautics, medical sciences, Engineering etc, Nigerian universities are busy celebrating producing Bread. Not like the Bread is even Bread of Life.


Nigeria is retrogressing rapidly.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think I must give kudos to our Muslim brothers and sisters for living by the tenets of islam. No Islamic ruling nor nation will give a nod to this madness and we wonder why they are more morally up right than we Christians? Weird acts and cultures are common amongst Christian nations yet we think we are more righteous. Sometimes I regret being a Christian

all4zionlover:
What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.

He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.

Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.

The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?

Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

Eketem:
He should apologize for lying and trying to mango people with his personal bias and claiming it is a revelation

Frank25:
Let's gather and discuss

Supers:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/just-in-us-to-return-954000-alamieyeseigha-loot/%3famp

MITCHELL96:
Omo, this question hard oo but I'll do it this way.

I'll keep FOOD because man can't live without it.

I'll keep FOOTBALL because FOOTBALL is life to me as it's written in my signature 😊⚽❤️

Now, it's between MUSIC and WOMEN 🤔 now let me break it down so I'll finally conclude on which to delete.

MUSIC helps to ease pain, improve our mood, gives peace, inspiration, motivation, it also makes our journey sweet (Can't imagine travelling without playing songs with my ear pods on) oh, yes 😊 MUSIC DEY GINGER! 😎 Let me put it that way as an African man yunno 😉

WOMEN: Hmmm 🤔 Only sex that this people have to offer oo (Unless you meet a girl that's not Jezebelic, yes Jezebel the wicked and evil woman 😹 or Kim Kardashian daughters.

And even the sex sef, it's not only you they're giving 😒😹

Plus them go unnecessarily bill you join and rip you off your hard earned money. (I mean the Jezebelic ones oo not all girls before NL girls go kill me here) 😏

So, I'll delete WOMEN 😑

FOOD ✅
FOOTBALL ✅
MUSIC ✅
WOMEN ❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌

Jennyclay:
True Love
Sex
Money

If a man can't satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will leave the relationship/marriage. Biko, I'm speaking for myself. I don't know about others.

zimmaking:
I think i love this girl and i want to settle down with her this year.I saw her father who is in his 50s wearing stud/tiny earing yesterday crossover.is dis a red flag on the family?