LawMan44:
Too many pain, sadness and tears in this whole wide world. Today you are basking in happiness, bliss and passionate about your life, you don't know fate take you next and you might just be surrounded by hoards of folks, friends and sympathizers.

Then, the cycle continues. It's a world full of emptiness. I can't remember how many times I have felt like quitting. It's always a silent voice in my head urging me to move to the other end of the divide and just end all the misery.

So what if you can just , maybe just challenge this silent voice and shout it loud to tell the voice over and over again that you are not a quiter and not ready to give up. May be if you can just push yourself and say ; SELF IF I AM STILL ALIVE THEN THERE IS A PURPOSE FOR ME BEING HERE AND THAT PURPOSE MUST BE ACHIEVE.
Life is war be ready to fight for yourself and please don't give up

Your story will be a beautiful one soon. take care

Chidera,you no dey japa go any where. na all of us go take our eyes see the end of this Naija . We don depressed, repressed and we are currently going thru underrepresent. so stay beauty Sis. My prayers goes u.

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

I BELIEVE YOUR CONSCIENCE IS JUDGING YOU AND THAT'S THE REASON WHY YOU BROUGHT THIS HERE.

FIRST, I WANTED TO WAKA PASS BUT FOR THE SAKE OF OTHERS THAT WILL BENEFIT FROM THIS MY SMALL 'TORY' .

MY DEAR,
LIFE IS UP AND DOWN AND GIRLS/WOMEN USE TO HAVE THE UPPER HAND FROM THE ONSET BUT DOWN THE LANE BECAUSE OF RESPONSILITIES AND CHILDREN WOMEN WILL FOCUS MORE ON FAMILY AND MEN WILL KEEP HUSTLING AND KEEP LOOKING FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THEIR WIFE, CHILDREN AND EXTENDED FAMILY.

NOW, ASSUMMING YOU HELP ALL THESE YOUR BROTHERS NOW THAT WILL AUTOMATICALLY MEANS YOU HAVE SOW A SEED WHICH WILL GERMINATE IN THE NEAR FUTURE., THAT MEANS : ONE OF YOUR BROTHER WILL DEFINETLY BE YOUR FUTURE HELPER THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW WHICH ONE IN PARTICULAR BUT YOU WILL NEED THEM.

HELP COMES FROM THE HEART IF YOU REALLY WANT TO HELP IF NOT JUST LEAVE THEM BECUSE GOD HAVE A WAY OF CARING FOR HIS PEOPLE.

WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.

GOODLUCK.

Prism:
Hello nairaland family

Before I begin let's define toddlerhood;

Toddler: 1-3 years. Preschooler: 3-5 years. School-aged: 5-12 years. Teenager: 13-18 years.

Is it necessary to start flogging toddlers?? I married a yoruba man And I noticed his sisters like flogging their kids including their toddlers. I'm not used to seeing little children being flogged not to talk of toddlers and I get this cringe feeling when I see it. Is it a cultural thing? Is that how the whole tribe Is like? Does flogging a child actually make him or her better Or is it not just child abuse
I do feel somehow seeing people flogging 2yr old, 3yr old kids. I feel somehow. What do you guys think

Send her this vids

There are some thing we all need to learn.

Most times we act out of ignorance.

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Corridon:
Foolishness and stupidity combined. Ritual money exists but it is not worth it.

WORTH IT YOU SAY? ??

WHEN DEM GO COMBINE ALL HARD CURRENCIES WHEN THEM GO JEJELI SPENT FOR OVER 100YRS TO NAIRA COME GIVE THEM TO SPEND FOR 5 YRS WITH NO REST OF MIND UNDER DURESS. ;DWAHALA BE LIKE BICYCLE INDEED.

THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO SOMEONE IS TO BREAK UP WITH A TALKATIVE. MOUTH DIARRHEA , OF COURSE THIS TWO AIN'T MEANT FOR EACH OTHER.

BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER.

Bilabong:
The white looks super cool but u see that other Ankara it's a total no no, even some Ankara fine pass am self.

YOU TAKE THE WORLD OUT OF MY MOUTH . IF NOT FOR OUR ''MUDDY'' ROADS , MY PEOPLE GENERALLY LIKE WHITE WITH A HINT OF ANY OTHER COLORS.

Fireandblood:


you quoted the wrong guy bruv.im not op

NO WORRIES. THANKS

Fireandblood:



Boohoo!! op . Boo fvcking hoo!.


* oh no , I'm from a relatively well off home and didn't have to work a day in my life.
* oh no, my parents love and care for me.

* oh no , I have 270k {werey) that I didn't have to work for either.


*oh no I wasn't allowed to stay in a place of rioting instead my parents took me back home where I'd be safe.

* oh no I'm shy and quiet-it must be my parents fault and I must punish them for it. ( you might be introverted, you spoilt dumb fvck)

*oh no ,my poor roommate has babes and me that has money doesn't- I must kill myself.( I just want deck you better slap)

* oh no I'm depressed because my life has been good and I did not face any tribulations at all. why God why?!



I just want to give op the slap his parents never gave him.


some of us had to scrounge to survive (introverted or not) we had to suppress our nature to eat.

some grew up in toxic abusive homes.

some have parents that abandoned them, that don't give a shit about them but of course they(we) move.




if you don't know what to do with the money,then you have no problems.
There are no real stakes for you concerning it.



if you cannot have a personality of your own ,my advice is for you to be a chameleon and mirror your environment.


I'm pretty much the same as you minus the codling and pampering. I'm super introverted, downright antisocial but I'm also a chameleon. I can change when the situation calls for it.

I'm quiet but I can be loud.
I'm shy but I can be outspoken
I'm depressed but I smile always.

you are the master of your sea , so act like it and quit the stupid blame game.

YOUR PARENT ARE NOT TO BE BLAME FOR THIS BECAUSE THEY MIGHT NOT KNOW ANY BETTER ,YOU MIGHT BE ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDER .PLEASAE, TRY AND GOOGLE THIS ...

ADHD, ASPERGER AND ADS.

THE EARLIER YOU DETECT IT THE BETTER FOR YOU, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

STAY SAFE.

kk

Adazeal:
Hi guys, please look at this issue and let me know if I'm wrong or not.

My power supply tripped off very early in the morning of a certain day, unfortunately, it was only mine that went off. I called 105 and my energy supplier, after series of questions and information I gave them from both my gas and electric meters, they confirmed my meters were working fine and that I should contact my landlord for internal issues.

I called my letting agency as I got the apartment through them and complained to them about the power cut. They didn't get back to me and I called them later in the afternoon (meanwhile I had no power supply or even gas as the gas switch works with electricity) and they said oh they'd contact their emergency technician. Meanwhile, I received a voicenote from them when they couldn't reach me saying if it's not an emergency they wouldn't pay the bills.

Late into the afternoon I didn't hear back from them and decided to put a call across while telling them it's an emergency as it's almost dusk and I still have no gas and electricity. At the end of the day, the electrician came along, went to the electric meter and turned a number of switches on and off and the power was restored. Few minutes later, it tripped off again as a socket was about getting plugged which was what actually led to the first power cut but we didn't know it was what caused it. Because of this, the electrician checked some sockets in the apartment and found nothing wrong with them. However, he removed a partially faulty bulb and it's placeholder which I earlier complained about when I initially moved into the apartment and said that might be the cause of the tripping.

Now, the letting agency is telling me that I'm liable for the bills as it wasn't an emergency that I should have switched the circuit breaker/ switch board, that it's expected of me to do that. I told them I'm not liable as I had no idea where the fault was from and moreover I'm not an electrician. They're claiming now that they asked me over the phone if I have turned the switch board which they never did ask me. I told them I believe they record their calls and should go and listen again (they said they don't record calls and I recommended calling the telecommunication company for them to verify). I went ahead to tell them that even if they did I wouldn't know how to do it (the switch boards) as there are couple of switches to turn on and off which I wouldn't have known which is the right one. I also reminded them that the power tripped off again when a socket was about being plugged which indicates there must be an internal issue, in addition, that a lamp holder which I earlier complained about was completely removed by the electrician which he actually said might be what is triggering the power cut.

They're not happy with my stand and they're saying they'd report me to the landlord that I've breached the contract as my call wasn't an emergency call (was without electricity and gas for close to 12 hours) and that if I don't pay, the technical company might charge me to court and I told them to go ahead as I did everything within my ability to tend to this issue before coming to them and moreso, I am not the cause of the electrical fault.

Please, I just want to be sure that I'm right so I can stand well or just close eyes and pay the so called bills.

Your opinions please. Sorry for the long read

Let it slide please, its one of those things. I presume you must have used a faulty eletric kettle or some faulty appliances that triggers the power off from the circuit breaker/ switch board. Once you know what the trigger is next time just go to the board and switch it on (its second to the last switch in most cases). If you want to push this further you will end shootn your own foot. Take care

StagethemTVee:
Oh my...she must have really missed her Husband. When one half of a couple who have loved each other over several years pass away, it always weighs heavy on the other half that's still alive. It's by God's grace that the remaining partner stay alive and well for long.

YOU SAID IT ALLL...THAT'S TRUE LOVE FOR YOU ....

NO BE MAMA JOHNCOOK WEY DEY WAIT MAKE BABA JOHNCOOK DIE MAKE SHE ENJOY THE CHILDREN AND HIS PROPERTIES ALL BY HER SELF ...

IYAAA OKO BOURVITA.

sammieking2017:
Is it a crime to be honest in this country ? Referencing to the post I saw here yesterday.

https://www.nairaland.com/7315480/thought-honesty-hardwork-pays

I had my own share too, though it's long but I need your advice.

The episode started when the Suffocating and comprehensive ASUU strike is becoming more elongated.

My mum discussed with her boss if I can be working with them depending when ASUU will call off their strike.

Fortunately, they affirmed to my mum's request and I was employed to work as a secretary.

Note: They are both husband and wife running the organization.

My role is to write receipt for all payments entering the organization account, write and ensure all the payments of the day are updated before the next day.

As a result of the nature of my work, this give me access to the boss office as I may need some things to take there. Even if other staff want to access the office, they will inform me first, then I will collect the key and give them whatever they need in the office.

Things was going smoothly until a fateful Friday I was accused of stealing.

The scenario happened like this.

As the secretary of the organization, I do resume work by 7:30am and close by 5:pm.

Apart from the cleaners that tidy the compound. In most cases, I'm the last person that leaves the office. And whenever I'm leaving, I collect the key to the office and park the bags of the boss and his wife into their car, check whether they bought something and ensure everything is placed in their car.

That fateful day, as usual, His wife wasn't around, then I look for the husband to collect the office key and he told me that the office is opened. With no further delay, I moved into the office and carried their bags. As I was going, he stopped me and check the bag. He claimed that inside the bag, where he packed money, the money has been rough handled and the nylon bag that housed the money was found tore.

Then pandemonium began. He insisted that a person has accessed the money and I was the only person that has the privilege to enter the office. I was troubled and confused. My perplexity was so high that I don't even know what to say.

I tried to explain to the best of my knowledge. I tried my best to exonerate myself that I knew nothing about the money. I told everyone that I met the office opened and I ain't aware that the office was opened. Most times, if I see the office ain't closed. I will close it because it's close to my office. But on this day no one to bear me withness. Every odds look against me. We left there around to 5:30pm that day.

I even told my boss that he should count the money that I don't perceive anyone entering the office. But he kept saying that he didn't know the amount he put there and he can't give the precise amount that has been stolen.

Beforehand, I noticed that the environment is full of jealousy. The staff jealous themselves. They envy each other and there are lots of faction within the organization. To be on a safer side. I didn't join any caucus or faction. I play my role diligently and discharge my duty responsibly. I don't do favouritism as I make myself to be honest in all things. There are many evil things that I'm aware of that goes underground but I don't interfer in it or report it except the bosses know by themselves. With my altitude, well with this I thought, I was loved by the boss and his wife.

When I got home, I wept profusely because no one to bear me withness, everyone seems I'm the thief.

I explained to my mum what happened because she has left earlier. She pacified me and said. If I'm not guilty of the stealing, nothing will happen to me and they should use whatever they want to use to look for their money.

On Monday we resume back to work. What happened on Friday kept pondering my heart, the wound hasn't been healed yet another mysterious thing happened again.

My own office is at the front of the boss office. My table and chair are placed there but it doesn't look privately. It looks like a reception before entering the main office. I got to my office next day to find that #3,600 has been smuggled into my drawer.

Chaiii! No one to bear me withness again about the money I saw. All things look like I was the one that stole the money, and just hiding under the guise of innocency.

I was extremely perplexed, different thought were ruminating my mind. One thought said if you give them the money they will say you are lying that you just kept it there. Another thought said, who knows, perhaps they are putting you under integrity test. Well! I carried the money, luckily the wife was around and I explained how I saw the money and handed it over to her.

When the husband came, she told him exactly what I reported to her and the husband responded, he might be the money they stole on Friday. He continues, definitely the thieves has returned the money as a result of their actions on Friday.

The matter dies there and no one ever made reference to it again until today when the boss (he) asked me to prepare a bill for a customer.
I've done that already and also listening to him and the customer while they were conversing. In a nut shell. I heard the customer telling him that he wants another bills too. Therefore I was preparing that too, unknowingly as I was preparing it, I have covered the first bills with lot of books on my table. As the boss arrived, he requested for the first bill he asked me to prepare. Unfortunately, it's no where to be found again, �‍♂️. I tried to explain to him that I was also preparing other bills the woman mentioned. I think that was the only mistake I made thinking that would make the work faster for the woman to collect the bills.

All of a sudden, I noticed that he has been seethe with anger. He shouted at me that I don't have regards for him, he said, he asked me to do something but I'm doing otherwise. Before I could utter any statement to clear myself out. Everything has already scatter, he remained deaf to whatever I wanted to say. He insisted that I'm not working with them again, he chased me out like a dog that I have to go back to take my phone.

Amongst all the turbulence, I kept begging him. I prostrated on the floor to show that I'm sorry. But he didn't even looked at me.

For the sake of my mother. I don't want to do anything that would affect her relationship with her bosses, I would have said. I'm not working again and not even bother to beg.

To cut it short. His wife signaled to me to meet an erderly man close to the place, possibly he might listen to his pleas. I did as instructed by his wife, "God bless that woman" The erderly man followed me but another thing bursted. He said apart from this, that he can't employ somebody that he doesn't trust. He made it known to the erderly man that I'm not trustworthy using the past money that was stolen as a case of study.

That moment, tears began to roll down from my face. I didn't know what to say in the midst of everyone. Everyone was just saying, please forgive him, he will change, he won't do that again. I looked at myself and said this is humiliation of the highest order. If I take any step, it might affect my mum too and lead to the termination of her appointment. I don't want her to be traumatized.

I remained calm and crying bitterly. Well! he accepted the elderly man plea for me and they concluded that this is yellow card, that if I do anything bad again, they will resort by giving me red card.
Since ASUU is still on strike now and there's no way I can say I'm leaving there without having implication on my mum employment. Who knows, what will happen next that might get me roped and I will be given red card couple with humiliation. I want men with wisdom to advice me on how I can justify my resignation peacefully.
I don't want anything to backfire on my mum. I don't want her to be traumatized and I don't want them to transfer their aggression on her.

I just want to leave there peacefully because I can't see myself working there again. Even all these things was written with my unbalanced emotions. I know I have been traumatized and accused falsely but I believe I will bounce back strongly and soon or sooner God will revealed the perpetrator in Jesus name.���.

I will be glad if this can be moved to front page.

TWO PEOPLE ENTRAPPED YOU INTO THIS MESS AND I'LL URGE TO LEAVE THE OFFICE AND LOOK ELSE WHERE FOR WORK AS THEY WANT TO RUIN YOUR REPUTATION BY ALL CAUSE JUST BECUASE OF THE SON OF WHOM YOU ARE.... PLEASE, PLEASE TELL YOUR MUM THAT YOU WILL BE FINE WITHOUT THAT JOB AND WRITE A LONG RESIGNATURE LETTER TO THAT BOSS BARING YOUR HEART OUT.

THEY WILLL END UP INDICT YOU, IF YOU WANT TO PROOF ''STURBORN'' TO THEM. REMEMBER YOUR NAME AND CV IS AT STAKE HERE.
KARMA WILL SOON CATCH UP ON THEM,GOOD LUCK .

Fira09:


SOURCE

HERE IS MY THOUGHT ON THIS ....


I'VE MET A LOT OF NIGERIAN WOMEN WITH TUMOR (FIBROID) IN THEIR TUMMY AND MAJORITY OF THEM WILL NOT WANT TO GO UNDER THE KNIVE (SURGERY) JUST BECAUSE OF FEAR. TODAY, MOST ARE IN THEIR HUSNABD HOUSE WITH NO CHILDREN TO CALL THEIR OWN, THEY RELY ONLY ON PRAYERS AND MAMA ALAGBO.

PLEASE SISTERS REMOVING FIBROID WON'T KILL YOU SO DON'T WAIT TILL ITS THIS BIG. GO AND GET YOUR DELIVERANCE IN THE HANDS OF DOCTORS THAT GOD HAS PLACED TO HELP YOU.

I SPEAK HEALING TO EVERYONE THAT NEED IT . GOOD HEALTH AND LONG LIFE.

I LIKE OLUOMO. HE'S A PROFFESSIONAL IN HIS FIELD SO BETTER TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.

BUUUUUUT, OYIBO NO DEY WHERE SUIT FOR THEM COUNTRY SELF AGAIN WHY HIN COME BE SAY NA HOT HEAVEN LIKE NIGERIA YOU GO SEE PEOPLE DEY WEAR ?

NA DIS CAIN THING WE DEY ASK WE PEOPLE TO STOP.

SHIRT AND GOOD TAILORED TROUSER ANY DAY....
BUBA AND TAILORED TROUSER TOO
BLOUSE AND SKIRT NKOOO

EcoLaw:
Good evening Nairalanders, a friend of mine came to me for an advise.

My friend is in his late 30s, he has been in a relationship with his woman, they have been together for a period of 8 years, and they have 2 kids together.

This my friend has a younger brother, the younger brother told him that they should go and collect traditional marriage list from his woman family, so that traditional marriage can take place by December.

My friend worry is that, one, he is not financially capable to do traditional marriage rite as of now and secondly, he doesn't have a good paying job now.

Another of his worry is that, he feels it shameful for his younger brother to sponsor his wedding, he is afraid won't he be insulted in the future by people, that he can't not pay his wife bride price, that it was somebody that married his wife for him. His brother told him not to worry about the financial responsibilities, that God will take control.

My advice for him was that he should tell his brother to give him the money to go start
a business, maybe when the business balances, he can go and do the marriage rite. But his brother told him that the lady has tired for waiting for 8 years, that they should do the traditional marriage first, every other thing shall fall in place. This his brother has been supportive to him.

Nairalanders please what's you take on this?

OP, YOUR TOPIC IS A BIT SENSITIVE BUT DO YOU KNOW THAT THIS LAD MIGHT NOT GET A CHANCE TO MARRY ON TIME IF HE REFUSED THIS OFFER? ASIDE THIS, YOU BECOME MORE RESPONSIBLE MWHEN YOU HAVE YOUR OWN FAMILY AND IT IS GOD'S WAY OF ANSWERING HIS PRAYER BUT HE CLEARLY WANT TO SPOIL THIS BLESING BECAUSE OF ''PRIDE''. YES, PRIDE BECAUSE ONE WAY OR THE OTHER HIS FAMILY WILL CONTRIBUTE TO THE WEDDING .

THEN DO YOU THINK THE BROTHER DOESN'T KNOW THAT HE NEED TO START A BUSINESS? HE MIGHT NOT BE TOO GOOD WITH 'EGO' I THINK THEY ARE WELL AWARE OF THEIR BROTHERS SHORT COMINGS HENCE THEY WANT TO GIVE HIM A WIFE.

GOODLUCK

Seunaj05:
Nothing concern me with Saudi. But here in Nigeria, some folks are aggressively defending the gods of Saudi and preaching hate against their Nigerian brothers because of a defenceless god of Saudi. They preach that a fulani Muslim brother is more brother to you than your cousin who for example happens to choose his faith(Christian/idol worshiper) differently. They demonize our traditional religions in Africa and said that thier own religion is perfect. No religion is perfect. The greatest mistake the Africans made was demonizing and abolishing our indigenous religions in totality(instead of modifying & modernizing it like they did to Islam & Christianity over the decades). We stupidly embraced the equally not perfect foreign religions that sets us against one another. The Chinese are 1.5 billion people, they are neither Christians nor Muslims yet they are more prosperous than all the Arab nations put together. They also pray and God answers, This is the fact!. Do you also know that the so-called holy Kaaba has been destroyed several times and what you presently have there is just a mere work of art and nothing sacred. It will also shock you that it took the United States of America (a so-called pagan nation) to defend a so-called holy Kaaba completely(atleast for now) from the Persians using gun powders and modern technology. This is why Kaaba has not been destroyed in the modern time. The USA still supplies Saudi's defense till today in exchange for Saudi Oil. So who is fooling who?? These people are just using our minds to do business and extend their territories in a bid to explore modern slavery(the slavery of the mind), and Africa is the worst hit because we don't think for ourselves. Them swear for black man make e node think at all Does all of these makes sense to you? Finally, when they wanted to padlock the mind of a black man and throw the keys into the river, they said that religion doesn't have to make sense..that we should just believe everything they tell us without objections and questioning. Oh foolish Galatians

When you have a continent that like everything READILY MADE and hate constructive thinking instead they embrace critical thinking. Wanting to be better than their neighbour instead of solving problems that affect all and sundry, they will rather love the Unseen God and their immeadiate family and every other person becomes their enemy with unending thoughts of evil toward others yet they will still pray and scatter.
They systematically lack empathy and want miracle for themselves only. Did anyone take advantage of the blacks YES and NO.

They will run to Jerusalem and Saudi looking for ready made miracles while the Arabs cashing in on this in the name of God.
WHY WILL GOD PUT YOU IN AFRICA AND KEEP IS ''TENT'' IN ARAB COUNTRIES? God is wherever you want him to be but of course we might spend enternity lecturing this . AAAAABA when we go wake up from our slumber?

God1000:
Beautiful woman

She looks like my Somalia neighbour, Her beauty is foreign and not like nija at all

PLEASE I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE NAMES ON THIS LIST HAVE DONE FOR THIS COUNTRY AND IT PEOPLE? THANKS



1.H. E Alh. Atiku Abubakar PDP Presidential Candidate
2. H.E Arc. Namadi Sambo Former Vice President of Nigeria
3. H.E Sen Iyorchia Ayu PDP National Chairman
4. H.E Gov Ifeanyi Okowa Vice Presidential Candidate
5. H.E Gov Aminu Waziri Tambuwal Gov of Sokoto state and Chairman PDP Govs Forum
6. H.E Gov Darius Ishaku - Gov of Taraba State
7. H.E Sule Lamido Former Gov Of Jigawa state
8. H.E Boni Haruna Former Gov Of Adamawa state
9. H.E Alh. Athahiru Dalhatu Bafarawa Former Gov Of Sokoto State
10. HE Amb. Iliya Damagum PDP Deputy National Chairman
11. HE. Sen Abdul Ningi
12. HE. Rt. Hon Abdullahi Maibasira
13. H.E Ambassador Aminu Wali

Skillsmaster:
Good evening all. Forgive my typos.
Please I am in a state of confusion right now. I posted here on nairaland last year concerning me starting a teaching job in Abuja. I have been teaching in this school for a year and half now.

My salary is 40k (on appointment letter) but there is always deduction of 10% (4k) every month which they promised to pay all the deductions by end of each session. Till now, they are yet to pay it, giving excuses of no money on ground. But they paid it to those that resigned as far as two months notification is given.

I applied in other schools before the beginning of last term, two among the schools invited me for an interview but I didn't go because of this 10% of a thing. I made up my mind to resign beginning of this term so that I can collect my 10%. Last week, I got another invite from one of those schools I applied. I went and came out successful but their salary is 60k.

I requested for 100k but they said they can only pay 60k. I didn't accept it because of the distance. Early hour of Saturday, I received a message from the school, congratulating me that I have been shortlisted for employment. I was confuse because I didn't agree with the pay. And I will be teaching in primary section.

Assuming they can even pay me 80k, I can forget about the 10% and start another hustle there. (I planned relocating to the area because of distance).

Should I accept this offer and forget about the 10% (72k+) in the school I am now?
Or should I talk to them if they can allow me to resume by January so that I can collect my money from this school? Will they accept?

Please house, I need your input on this.

Note: I will go to the school and confirm if they've agreed to increase my pay. Before the invite, I have already made up my mind to tender my resignation letter immediately school resumes.

THE 10% IS A TRAP AND THE ONLY WAY FOR YOU NOW IT TO HAVE A ''MASTER PLAN''

ASK FOR A LEAVE OF ONE WEEK AND GO RESUME AT YOUR NEW APPOINTMENT AFTER A WEEK SEND A MAIL THAT YOU W'ONT BE COMING BACK DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES THAT IS BEYOND YOU THEN GO GET A LAWYER OR A POLICE OFFICER TO SEE THE PROPRIETOR ON YOUR BEHALF REGARDING YOUR 10% AT LEAST SOMETHING WILL COME OUT.

BE PROACTIVE WHEN DEALING WITH ADMINISTRATIVE. ZERO YOUR MIND ON THE MONEY THOUGH BUT THE SWEAT OF THE TRUCK PUSHER WILL NOT GO INVAIN.

GOODLUCK

TheirFADA:
As much as i love rap music, it doesn't really sell here. Nigerians don't appreciate it

main reason why olamide and phyno switched to singing. In one of Olamide's song, he specifically said "I don't want to rap again, it doesn't bring money, singing brings more money"

Nigerians mostly want what they can groove and dance to, play at parties, clubs, receptions etc

May he should diversify, he can start to collabo

djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

PLEASE, CHECK YOUR EXPENSES AND ADJUST IT SEEMS YOU ARE SPENDING MORE ON FOOD. N45K ON FOOD FROM N65K SALARY IS A BIT MUCH. YOU AREN'T SAVING ANYTHING WHILE YOU STILL PAYING MORE THAN YOUR ANNUAL SALARY ON RENT.

GO DO YOUR MATH AND CUT YOUR COAT ACCORDING TO YOUR SIZE .

GOD WILL SOON UPLIFT YOU.

Halo22:
I have been working in this company for about 8 years now and to be frank, I don't see any much improvement both financially and otherwise.

In addition to that, I noticed some degree of negligence and disregard for old staff, it seems the more years you spend in the company, the less value you accrue. However, I attribute that to the administrative incompetence of the Director who took over from the mum before she( the mum) finally joined her ancestors.

Recall that in April this year, she fired the General manager without any explanation to the rest of the staff, no staff meeting nor briefing. Shortly after that, she reshuffled the managerial team and employed 3 unknown persons who were never part of the company to take over the Management of the company, while she still remains the Director.

All these she did without any form of recourse to her old staff. I never bothered as an old staff until recently, when we started noticing some more incompetency in administration and management of the company. It rose to the extent that workers receive half salary sometimes without any briefing, allowances are not being paid and when they pay, they short pay us.

I couldn't hold it any longer as a man of justice and as such, I wrote to the Director after having meeting with the new GM. In my letter I expressed on behalf of other workers, the feelings of maltreatment and administrative Injustice, as most of them are afraid of opening up, to avoid being sacked.

Then after, the Director herself called for a general meeting and instead of to apologise for all these financial and managerial malfeaseances, she chose to tackle the old workers particularly myself, thinking that we were working against her. I still stood my ground on the path of Justice, finally she tried to pacify the workers by promising a salary increase, based on the number of years spent in the company. But then, I have been on her watchlist all through.

Any little mistake I make, she would capitalize on that to weigh me down. I now seek ur opinions, whether to continue in the company or resign. Good a thing, I have a business that even pay me better than the job.

Your opinions please.

You can either look for another Job while still working there but from your write up...she's new in the system and as such will want to flex her power untill the reality set in for her. I'll want you to hang in there because as an old staff there's on edge for you to climb up the hierarchy, if you can be a little patience.

Goodluck.

RICH, INNOVATIVE BUT SENSELESS ABOUT SOCIAL MATTER.... I'M TALKING ABOUT ELON MUSK!

Aaaah, na wa oooo.
All na first grade made in China.
My people your future is in your hand ✋ start building your country and your own brand. Nike na every day slippers for obodo oyibo ooo.

dennis3888:
Good day everyone please i need your candid advise and opinion

Am about to leave my bank job of seven years with a salary of 100k for a new business note the business has already been set up already

my fears is that am married and you know what that means i have ready responsibilities. so am now having fears that what of it doesn't work (which have been praying about seriously).


probably the fears is just in my head. your opinion please

''What of'' Will never allow you to be great. Seven year on 100k salary? So what of if you are sack today? won't you find a way and start that business. if you can put all ego aside and handle that business like its for another person, it won't be long before you will get to your great height .

SO WHAT OF IF YOU STRATEGIZE AND ASK OTHER TO JOIN YOU BASE ON COMmISSION?

GO I SAY ....AND PROSPER NOW!

loosecanon50:
Davido will one day become president of Nigeria. A good one at that.

infact may God almighty keep him strong and healthy , when is off age, he won't have problem getting votes. WE WILL NOT CAMPAIGN WHEN DAVIDO WILL BE PRSIDENT. ONCE HE IS READY, WE ARE READY.

DO YOU NEED SOMEONE TO SPELL IT OUT TO YOU THAT 'THERE'S GOD'?

NO TIME AGAIN TO PREACH TO YOU BECAUSE ONCE AND TWICE YOU HAVE HEARD IT THAT ALL POWEER BELONG TO GOD.

RUNN TO HIM NOW., ITS NEVER TO LATE.

Akacollins7:
Nothing like having good family. You're among the lucky people

You can say that again and again. Not this one that will be planning to take their family members life because of properties and money...

they have no love for anybody...Awon olofo's

THE ONLY PROBLEM THAT I HAVE SEEN WITH TONTO IS THAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO MAKE PUBLIC SPEECH AS IN SHE JUST VOMIT TALK WITHOUT WEIGHING THE CONSEQUNCES. OMOTENE, WE WANT WOMEN IN POWER BUT A WOMEN THAT SPEAK OUT WITHOUT THINKING IS A BIG PROBLEM TO THE SOCIETY AT LARGE.

THIS IS HER NO ONE PROBLEM .