₦airaland Forum

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

Have you thought about your old age when your strenght will fail and there's will be no one to help you get to the hospital or take good care of you except the bleeping hoes.

Un mumu never do.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

I think you are lucky to be in the ''Abroad''. your wife don't need to take up any job for solid 10 years because of school runs and nanny fees. she can start online business to help with income and you need to tighten up your belt and get good jobs. The lord is your strenght. Just cut your coat according to your size and what's for you will never pass you by.

Take care and congratulation.

EastisBae:
Damn, this woman is ugly and lacks class. I'm glad Bianca gave her a well-deserved dirty slap.

Literally this woman actually slapped Ojukwu oo

PrimadonnaO:
Laudable.

Sorry oo. Online English Teacher.

No, Typo error in your dictionary ?

ULiTv:
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Yes o, I am planning on doing that in the future.

What are you waiting? go look for way to package it once it can last up to 6 month to 1 year thats Made in Nigeria

All the packaging and the parts you will need are on ALI XPRESS which you can get at a very reasonable price

Be honest in your dealings and you will definetly achieve your aim.

This is Loudable.
WELDONE

WE ALL SHOULD START PROTESTING NOW AND LET OUR LEADERS DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS BABRBARIC ACTS . ITS GETTING OUT OF HANDS. OLUWA OOO. KILLING YOUR FELLOW HUMAN BEING I MEAN NEIGHBOUR NA NOTHING AGAIN.


#NOMOREKILLING4RITUALS
#END RITUALKILLINGNOW

hassinho707:
what is SEN please?

special educational needs

Igbamatigbi:
I am a social work student, we did a course on child law and we were taught that children from age 12 can be left briefly with the younger siblings, I don't know how long the time is I think for few hours, you can check young carer under the children act 1989 ( that's the act social workers currently use)

We were told that you can enroll the young child under the younger carer program. Do your research, I think your 13 year old is legible and can take care if the younger ones, I didn't ask where but I know it's the local authority that will help you sign up for the younger carer program.

Read Below:-

GENES11S:
No it's your click-bait headline that is fake. I don't know what you get from misinformation.

Why are replying someone that can't read well? all news na fake do them

BigBashiru:
The western European savages convinced africans to think less of themselves and it is working on your mind. That's the same thing they did to the native Indians.

There are 190 countries in the world many of who have more inventions than the 5 imperialists of western europe.

Is it really possible that out of 190 nations of the world that it's only 5 from western Europe that God blessed with "superior brains".... can't you smell that it's a lie??

Even many African countries are more technologically advanced than the 5 western European countries.

Iraq, Qatar, Jordan, all hv finer scientists than the western European ones.... be proudly African you are capable and have so many inventors and scientists and mathematicians way before the western European savages had a clue what science was all about!

Did the ''Western Europe'' hold your brain to think for yourself? Or did they tell the slaves not to come back to their roots? please did the westerners tell your forefathers not to find what works for them like the CHINESE do?

Oh, i guessed they must have told you to leave your country for greener pastures while they sit in their various offices abroad importing and exporting their own greener goods right under your nose ?

well, i pray that the gods bestow you with uncommon wisdom.

DropsMic:
Lol...


Typical case of woman protesting in solidarity for her friend wey her husband beat for the first time when she get husband for house wey dey beat her on a daily basis with plank.

We are a very peculiar people. Very very peculiar.

Exactly plugging out speck out fo someone's eye when theirs is full of beams.

Una mumu never do

Freedom2022:
Hello people. Please i beg someone here who is sincere and have the fear of God and want progress for his fellow human being to recommend a place where i can receive deliverance. The last 8 years of my life has been HORRIBLE. MONEY CANNOT STAY IN MY HAND FOR 48 HOURS and it is gone. I will not exaggerate, i have lost over 30 million naira over the past 10 years and i have been in DEBT for over 8 years consistently. I have NEVER been happy for straight 1 week for the past 10 years. Once money gets to my hand, it vanishes within 48 hours. I don't want to mention what it goes into because people are actually making millions from it so as not to discourage people. IT IS JUST ABOUT ME.
Now let me say something.

Whenever I have money with me, a mysterious cough starts and once the money is gone, the cough goes. It has been like this for the past 8 years. I cant explain it.

Right now, it has gotten to the worst and no matter how much is with me, it goes within hours. For example, if someone send me money right now, a mysterious cough will start in less than 30 minutes that the money gets to me and immediately i will not know what i am doing again (for real). Then i deposit all the money immediately into my Forex account, then this cough will get intense, i will cough and cough without stopping and before i know what is happening, the money is gone. Then that is when i realize and come back to my senses. I am been real and this is a true life situation.

Please guys dont joke with this because my life ruined right now. I can't boast of anything in my life right now. I have NOTHING. and the worst part of this is that i owe all loan apps money. I owe about 20 apps money as of today and all loans due and they have rubbished me already which as been going on for the past 8 years too.

I have tried to find out what could be wrong with me and i believe there is an unfamiliar force in my life. I can't explain somethings here but i need a powerful/powerful men/man of God to lead me through because i am ready to embark on a journey to redeem my lost glory. I have tried several time on my own but i think i am facing a lot of resistance and i give up almost immediately. Some people call it "agbana" but this type is so strong in my life and needed to be broken else i will be finished completely because right now, i am at the last days of destruction.

To shock you guys, i have someone in my family that experienced this thing too but in a different dimension and recently another person (i dont want to give too much information).

I have come to realize or believe that its is either a generational curse (ogun idile) or something i dont understand. See guys, something is happening spiritually in my life that is manifesting physically and this has to be broken IMMEDIATELY. Some people here may think otherwise which i agree with for a long time until i begin to see a pattern and i can tell it is not ordinary.

Right now, i have run away from home and i have promised myself never to return until this chain is broken.

I will be reading advices and recommendations here and i pray God guide me to pick the best because i know someone will recommend something that will change the narrative.

PLEASE GUYS, THIS IS A LIFE ISSUE AND I HAVE GONE TROUGH A LOT ALREADY. PLEASE DON'T ADD TO MY PAINS AND SORROWS. IF YOU CAN'T HELP ME PLEASE I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD TO JUST READ.

UPDATE

I think i need to add this. On 3 occasions, i got a very juicy high paying job with big companies in Nigeria. One is one of the top 5 big companies in Nigeria and have spread across some African countries while another is one of the to 5 companies in the world (It is a big company). But guess what? My offers on the 3 different occasions were withdrawn few days to resumption without any explanation. Is it a coincidence?

We can't debunked that there are no powers and forces but your level of how you believe and perceive it will eventually determine your qualitify of life either positively or negatively.

i can't say much but i will urge to do this 3 things:

1, Every morning for 3 consecutive days bath with your first urine and pray aggresively on it removing every barrier in your life.
2, Don't handle money on your own again. Once you have it either send it to your wife's account or a trusted person that knows your problem, someone that will help to keep eye on whatever you are speding the money on.
3. Go to the hospital and check the cause of your cough. Its like once you have money you put your body through a negative energy looking for ways to spend impulsively buying or spending on business.

You have to change your ways on how you handle lots of stuff regarding money.

Take care.

BoBiafra:
Nigeria is a failed country.
Using India as a case study.
India has carried out a round of evacuation of its nationals stranded in Ukraine. The first batch of Indian students left Chernivtsi in a bus for the Ukraine-Romania border. The Embassy of India in Kyiv announced that the evacuation was being organised with the joint effort of the Indian embassies in Romania, Hungary and Poland.

"Today afternoon more than 470 students will exit the Ukraine and enter Romania through the Porubne-Siret border. We are moving Indians located at the border to neighbouring countries for onward evacuation. Efforts are underway to relocate Indians coming from the hinterland," the Embassy of India in Ukraine said in a social media message.

India has 20,000 migrants and students and has successfully send back over 6,000 and the remaining one are on their way to neigbouring countries either by foot or train as air travel has being cancelled due to fear that Russian/Ukraine will blow their plane on air.

Humm, Nigerian the supposed AFRICA GIANT haven't say much in this regard. i want to believe that fundamentally AFRICA is faulty in a lot of ways. We always put sentiment in everything ...Life doesn't worth much here i guess.

Justinlean02:
If a country can just decide to take over another country in these modern times without fear of repercussions, then this nonsense they're doing called United Nations needs to end. It's of no use. UN is useless. My concern now is China. I don't like China. They have plans for Taiwan. But they're watching now to see how the world will react to this current situation. If nothing substantial happens, give it a couple of weeks and China will invade Taiwan too. That one will be a mess. If things get as sticky as I think they will, the only thing Taiwan should do for me is to put a big ass bomb in TSMC and blow it to pieces so China won't get it. Bleep Joe Biden!

They have plans for Nigeria. But they're watching now to see how we will pay for the loan. [color=#990000][/color]

engrrichie92:
I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)

My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there

So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?

Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?

@lalasticlala...please help push to front page for more engagements

Hum, Not going to say much i know that people living in UK won't even comment here..i swear they won't...Ask me why ? they will be praying for you to make the mistake and cross over before your eye go clear like tear rubber.

mhiztaNexy:
If you had the money and opportunity to changes this, what will you do?

C'mon kids, REST!.

And the Nose and Hair?

Mr Jeroboam, Our Literature teacher. he was a younger version of Wole Soyinka.

Hmmm, i thought he committed suicide Nija

PrimadonnaO:
If Tonto and Rosy haven't kissed and made up, then her post is pretentious.

She wants Tonto to be incensed. She's trying to play the "good girl, no hard feelings" card for the public.

She didn't have to post his photo on her timeline to prove she's wishing him well if she isn't in good terms with the child's mother.

She is a good example of a PRETENDER. Tonto shines on joor

This is the kind of restaurant i like to wine and dine. Take a little bite here and there. Which one of these Nairaland ''I AM NOT A SIMP'' will take me on a date this weekend?.

When dem no get money, you go dey hear ...If you can't eat in Domino please gooo joor because i am not a YAHOO BOY AND I AM NOT A SIMP...Oh boyyy ooo go and make MULA

SmartProf:
Oyibos will be shocked at the foolishness of Nigerian politicians...it's a shame that this foolishness they show by way of desperation won't end soon. Honestly, this is nothing but chronic iberiberism.

its so glaring that this people no get sense . no wonder we are in this situation

Oche211:
Send that girl away at all cost before your marriage scatter.
15 years old ooo
How do some men have such erections?

Its not only his marriage that will scatter ...his future too will ruin because of 5 sconds pleasure.

A real is the one that has all power but refused to misuse it.

backbencher:
Well, yeah, because landing cost of fuel is N282 and we sell that fuel at N163.

And we have to pay the cost of the losses from our crude oil revenue.

Also, the difference between the landing cost of fuel, and the cost at the pump keeps on growing and growing and growing.

And yes, it is because we all want cheap fuel

I hate PDP and APC, but if GEJ and now Buhari have flirted with the idea of removing fuel subsidy, and not only them, but all our leaders for several decades, something is up.

Same way we wrecked the old refinereis...by selling petrol at a loss, so that we can help the poor.

And yes, I put the blame on APC. That is no way to run the oil sector.

Thank you, and good evening. As far as I am concerend, the more we keep this subsidy, the more we lose out. For ten years, I have not supported subsidy retention.


If you want good quality fuel from NNPC, then privatise the thing as Atiku suggested in 2019, and allow them sell fuel at a profit, so that they have the money to fix things.

OR


Pay a tax, everyone pays a tax...from richest to beggar on the street, to raise enough income to fund subsides.

P.S Calling me an APC or PDP supporter, or excusing NNPC misses the point.

Even if fuel is selling above the landing cost it won't still clear all the corruption and shenanigans going on in that sector.

Jman06:
YOU'RE AN ILLITERATE

So are you!

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

SHUT UP YOUR TRASH TRAPPED MOUTH, THIS DAYS MEN AND WOMEN EQUALLY TAKE UP THEIR RESPONSILITIES. ITS NO LONGER THE WAY IT USE TO BE UNLESS YOU MARRY A LADY THAT DOESN'T GO TO SCHOOL OR OWN HER BUSINESSTHOSE ONES ARE NOTTING BUT LIABILITIES . YOU MIGHT CATER FOR SOMETHINGS IN THE INITIAL TIME WHEN WOMAN REALISED THAT YOU ARE CAPABLE SHE WILL BUCKLE UP AND BE EVEN MORE RESPONSILBE THAN YOU.

Them go just they talk trash as if no be their mother they pay school fees.

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

Dear Op, Apart fom putting blame of the condition of our country on this your issue... You knew that she has already cut the papers according to your measurement and it'll be by God's grace if she will sell it again and besides don't purchase any item if you don't have cash at hand because its like you are toying with her business and time.

Time is crucial and delicate to a business person once you give a final go ahead and then she has calculated the goods has being SOLD.

What i'll urge to do is to tell her to give you more time by reserving the items for you till you get the money.

PLEASE BE AWARE THAT ANY PROBLEM OF A NAIRALANDER WILL NOT BE TAKING LIGHTLY EVEN IF YOU WON'T UNDESTAND THE REASON WHY, ALL THE CURSES AND BAD AURA THAT HAS BEEN SENT YOUR WAY THIS MORNING MAY GOD WASH IT ALL AWAY AS YOU RESOLVE THE ISSUE WITH HER.

Xcelinteriors:
So this customer(a nairander) called me and asked for 15 rolls of wallpaper and 15sqm of linoleum which the total was 90,000.

We reached an agreement and he told me to waybill it to bayelsa and he will only transfer my money only if I take it to the park and make video call with him showing the packed items. I agreed. I couldn't get any vehicle going to bayelsa from iyana ipaja so I called him to ask if he will prefer peace mass which he said yes. All this while he knew he didn't have any money to pay me but because he want to show the wickedness in him, he asked me to take it to park.

Everyone knows iyana ipaja to jibowu is a very long distance and I did not even charge him for the trip just because I want to please and make my customer happy .

I was in traffic for more than 2hrs and this devil of a customer didn't see the need to call me to inform me that he don't need those items again
I reached peace mass and was negotiating with the driver about the waybill fee and that was when I saw this message below. Funny enough he also blocked me.

As for the wallpaper I can always get another customer that will buy it but the linoleum has been cut into the square meter he want. Selling it won't be easy but God will bring a customer that will buy it.

When this man knows he doesn't have money to pay for an item while ordering it and giving me unnecessary stress.

Vendors please take note of this, when a customer request for anything and he /she can't send money first please kindly ignore them . Most of them are time wasters.

Just let it slide. he will meet his waterloo too. meanwhile God will surely bring a good buyer. this are part of experiences will learn in business soon i mean very soon whenever you remember this incident you will have a cause to laugh a good laugh. have a lovely week

FuckDModz:
There's an illogical thug in every woman.

That said, she didn't kill the boy because of the broken mirror, she killed the boy because of her deep-rooted hatred against the boy.

Married women only love the family of their husbands from afar. They HATE to have to feed them their matrimonial homes.

No matter how close you are to your uncle’s wife, if you’re not fucking her (usually the case), she will secretly wish you were never born.

28+ women are evil, know this and act accordingly.

Seems all Nigeria Women hate their husband's family members. If they didn't kill husband family they will label them and start calling them names.

Na wa oo
Karma go surely catch up with them one after the other

When their parent put hatred in their heart they'll start hating even their helpers and transferring the same hatred to their own generations. This is so common agmonst people from polygamos homes.

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Dear sister , These boys to men are all the same except a few ones that have a little wisdom to control their ratarata. What will you have done if you are married to him? All this ones that will give you advise here already knew thier husband's and boyfriend side chick but ONE thing they do is to make up their mind to stay in the relationship and weather the storm.

The once that japa till today no get man again.

so you have 2 options here:

1, If you love him enough to stay please do so but you will still witness more of this senario

2, if you are the type that can't take nonsense from this Omo rataratas. break up with him now and heal your heart.

Revenge is a boomerang just like karma.

The universe is watching you

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Op, You don't need anyone's advise please just read the TOPIC of this your post like 10 times then go and sleep on it whatever comes to your mind is what you should do now.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Op, You don't need anyone's advise please just read the TOPIC of this your post like 10 times then go and sleep on it whatever comes to your mind is what you should do now.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

Let me give you a genius advise but first make sure that you are not totally depends on this man if not please don't try this...

1,Call his family and tell them what happened please don't add jara or lie to them then do same with your family.
2, Get a fake signed divorce letter and make sure its delivered to him directly .. ASK someone to do the job for you.
3, Break all communication with him
4, Put your faith in God and pray.
5, wait for few weeks and see how things will unfold

Don't fight him or the lady in question. if you have her number then you can mistakenly send his '' Health report to her'' from a diffrent number ofcourse. Health issues includes all unimaginable condition.

Don't do this if you are not bold. If he want to Go by force he will have to come back by Force.

wish you well.