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Rubbiish:
Often times I hear people say old age this, old age that etc I laugh. It is good to have a family, but having one doesn't guarantee a perfect end for anyone, it is all about trying our luck. Our neighbour back then was brought down by stroke, the illness got to a point his biological children were wishing for him to die.
This is not hearsay, they were my neighbor. The man was such a good & kind man. U know who was taking care of him, a distant relative they brought in to live with them, his own kids got tired of his sickness & abandoned him. When he died everyone was suspecting his children, because they were already complaining he was stressing them. My point is, let us not pray for an awful end, because family can also fail when it gets serious.

Uprightness100:
The Signs of the times we are in are all over the places. The Dumb can hear it ! The blind can see it clearly



REPENT now Run to JESUS..
There is no more time..
JESUS Christ is Coming!
JESUS Christ is Coming!!
JESUS Christ is Coming!!!

Sit up! Get Ready! Get Prepared!!

They all have heard the good news but refused to change because they have ears but can't hear and eyes but can't see. it is better you leave them in their chaotic system and hold on to your faith before they pollute it with their uncircumcised mind.

MadeINchenzen2:
Yeah at my old age I will have enough money to hire your kids to help me get to the hospital... I will pay them good money to clean my ass and do some domestic chores.

Money is all that counts at old age. You can afford to buy a complete human being to do all that crap !!!

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

EastisBae:
Damn, this woman is ugly and lacks class. I'm glad Bianca gave her a well-deserved dirty slap.

PrimadonnaO:
Laudable.

ULiTv:
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Yes o, I am planning on doing that in the future.

hassinho707:
what is SEN please?

Igbamatigbi:
I am a social work student, we did a course on child law and we were taught that children from age 12 can be left briefly with the younger siblings, I don't know how long the time is I think for few hours, you can check young carer under the children act 1989 ( that's the act social workers currently use)

We were told that you can enroll the young child under the younger carer program. Do your research, I think your 13 year old is legible and can take care if the younger ones, I didn't ask where but I know it's the local authority that will help you sign up for the younger carer program.

GENES11S:
No it's your click-bait headline that is fake. I don't know what you get from misinformation.

BigBashiru:
The western European savages convinced africans to think less of themselves and it is working on your mind. That's the same thing they did to the native Indians.

There are 190 countries in the world many of who have more inventions than the 5 imperialists of western europe.

Is it really possible that out of 190 nations of the world that it's only 5 from western Europe that God blessed with "superior brains".... can't you smell that it's a lie??

Even many African countries are more technologically advanced than the 5 western European countries.

Iraq, Qatar, Jordan, all hv finer scientists than the western European ones.... be proudly African you are capable and have so many inventors and scientists and mathematicians way before the western European savages had a clue what science was all about!

DropsMic:
Lol...


Typical case of woman protesting in solidarity for her friend wey her husband beat for the first time when she get husband for house wey dey beat her on a daily basis with plank.

We are a very peculiar people. Very very peculiar.

Freedom2022:
Hello people. Please i beg someone here who is sincere and have the fear of God and want progress for his fellow human being to recommend a place where i can receive deliverance. The last 8 years of my life has been HORRIBLE. MONEY CANNOT STAY IN MY HAND FOR 48 HOURS and it is gone. I will not exaggerate, i have lost over 30 million naira over the past 10 years and i have been in DEBT for over 8 years consistently. I have NEVER been happy for straight 1 week for the past 10 years. Once money gets to my hand, it vanishes within 48 hours. I don't want to mention what it goes into because people are actually making millions from it so as not to discourage people. IT IS JUST ABOUT ME.
Now let me say something.

Whenever I have money with me, a mysterious cough starts and once the money is gone, the cough goes. It has been like this for the past 8 years. I cant explain it.

Right now, it has gotten to the worst and no matter how much is with me, it goes within hours. For example, if someone send me money right now, a mysterious cough will start in less than 30 minutes that the money gets to me and immediately i will not know what i am doing again (for real). Then i deposit all the money immediately into my Forex account, then this cough will get intense, i will cough and cough without stopping and before i know what is happening, the money is gone. Then that is when i realize and come back to my senses. I am been real and this is a true life situation.

Please guys dont joke with this because my life ruined right now. I can't boast of anything in my life right now. I have NOTHING. and the worst part of this is that i owe all loan apps money. I owe about 20 apps money as of today and all loans due and they have rubbished me already which as been going on for the past 8 years too.

I have tried to find out what could be wrong with me and i believe there is an unfamiliar force in my life. I can't explain somethings here but i need a powerful/powerful men/man of God to lead me through because i am ready to embark on a journey to redeem my lost glory. I have tried several time on my own but i think i am facing a lot of resistance and i give up almost immediately. Some people call it "agbana" but this type is so strong in my life and needed to be broken else i will be finished completely because right now, i am at the last days of destruction.

To shock you guys, i have someone in my family that experienced this thing too but in a different dimension and recently another person (i dont want to give too much information).

I have come to realize or believe that its is either a generational curse (ogun idile) or something i dont understand. See guys, something is happening spiritually in my life that is manifesting physically and this has to be broken IMMEDIATELY. Some people here may think otherwise which i agree with for a long time until i begin to see a pattern and i can tell it is not ordinary.

Right now, i have run away from home and i have promised myself never to return until this chain is broken.

I will be reading advices and recommendations here and i pray God guide me to pick the best because i know someone will recommend something that will change the narrative.

PLEASE GUYS, THIS IS A LIFE ISSUE AND I HAVE GONE TROUGH A LOT ALREADY. PLEASE DON'T ADD TO MY PAINS AND SORROWS. IF YOU CAN'T HELP ME PLEASE I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD TO JUST READ.

UPDATE

I think i need to add this. On 3 occasions, i got a very juicy high paying job with big companies in Nigeria. One is one of the top 5 big companies in Nigeria and have spread across some African countries while another is one of the to 5 companies in the world (It is a big company). But guess what? My offers on the 3 different occasions were withdrawn few days to resumption without any explanation. Is it a coincidence?

BoBiafra:
Nigeria is a failed country.
Using India as a case study.
India has carried out a round of evacuation of its nationals stranded in Ukraine. The first batch of Indian students left Chernivtsi in a bus for the Ukraine-Romania border. The Embassy of India in Kyiv announced that the evacuation was being organised with the joint effort of the Indian embassies in Romania, Hungary and Poland.

"Today afternoon more than 470 students will exit the Ukraine and enter Romania through the Porubne-Siret border. We are moving Indians located at the border to neighbouring countries for onward evacuation. Efforts are underway to relocate Indians coming from the hinterland," the Embassy of India in Ukraine said in a social media message.

Justinlean02:
If a country can just decide to take over another country in these modern times without fear of repercussions, then this nonsense they're doing called United Nations needs to end. It's of no use. UN is useless. My concern now is China. I don't like China. They have plans for Taiwan. But they're watching now to see how the world will react to this current situation. If nothing substantial happens, give it a couple of weeks and China will invade Taiwan too. That one will be a mess. If things get as sticky as I think they will, the only thing Taiwan should do for me is to put a big ass bomb in TSMC and blow it to pieces so China won't get it. Bleep Joe Biden!

They have plans for Nigeria. But they're watching now to see how we will pay for the loan.

engrrichie92:
I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)

My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there

So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?

Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?

@lalasticlala...please help push to front page for more engagements

mhiztaNexy:
If you had the money and opportunity to changes this, what will you do?

C'mon kids, REST!.

PrimadonnaO:
If Tonto and Rosy haven't kissed and made up, then her post is pretentious.

She wants Tonto to be incensed. She's trying to play the "good girl, no hard feelings" card for the public.

She didn't have to post his photo on her timeline to prove she's wishing him well if she isn't in good terms with the child's mother.

SmartProf:
Oyibos will be shocked at the foolishness of Nigerian politicians...it's a shame that this foolishness they show by way of desperation won't end soon. Honestly, this is nothing but chronic iberiberism.

Oche211:
Send that girl away at all cost before your marriage scatter.
15 years old ooo
How do some men have such erections?

backbencher:
Well, yeah, because landing cost of fuel is N282 and we sell that fuel at N163.

And we have to pay the cost of the losses from our crude oil revenue.

Also, the difference between the landing cost of fuel, and the cost at the pump keeps on growing and growing and growing.

And yes, it is because we all want cheap fuel

I hate PDP and APC, but if GEJ and now Buhari have flirted with the idea of removing fuel subsidy, and not only them, but all our leaders for several decades, something is up.

Same way we wrecked the old refinereis...by selling petrol at a loss, so that we can help the poor.

And yes, I put the blame on APC. That is no way to run the oil sector.

Thank you, and good evening. As far as I am concerend, the more we keep this subsidy, the more we lose out. For ten years, I have not supported subsidy retention.


If you want good quality fuel from NNPC, then privatise the thing as Atiku suggested in 2019, and allow them sell fuel at a profit, so that they have the money to fix things.

OR


Pay a tax, everyone pays a tax...from richest to beggar on the street, to raise enough income to fund subsides.

P.S Calling me an APC or PDP supporter, or excusing NNPC misses the point.

Jman06:
YOU'RE AN ILLITERATE

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

Xcelinteriors:
So this customer(a nairander) called me and asked for 15 rolls of wallpaper and 15sqm of linoleum which the total was 90,000.

We reached an agreement and he told me to waybill it to bayelsa and he will only transfer my money only if I take it to the park and make video call with him showing the packed items. I agreed. I couldn't get any vehicle going to bayelsa from iyana ipaja so I called him to ask if he will prefer peace mass which he said yes. All this while he knew he didn't have any money to pay me but because he want to show the wickedness in him, he asked me to take it to park.

Everyone knows iyana ipaja to jibowu is a very long distance and I did not even charge him for the trip just because I want to please and make my customer happy .

I was in traffic for more than 2hrs and this devil of a customer didn't see the need to call me to inform me that he don't need those items again
I reached peace mass and was negotiating with the driver about the waybill fee and that was when I saw this message below. Funny enough he also blocked me.

As for the wallpaper I can always get another customer that will buy it but the linoleum has been cut into the square meter he want. Selling it won't be easy but God will bring a customer that will buy it.

When this man knows he doesn't have money to pay for an item while ordering it and giving me unnecessary stress.

Vendors please take note of this, when a customer request for anything and he /she can't send money first please kindly ignore them . Most of them are time wasters.

FuckDModz:
There's an illogical thug in every woman.

That said, she didn't kill the boy because of the broken mirror, she killed the boy because of her deep-rooted hatred against the boy.

Married women only love the family of their husbands from afar. They HATE to have to feed them their matrimonial homes.

No matter how close you are to your uncle’s wife, if you’re not fucking her (usually the case), she will secretly wish you were never born.

28+ women are evil, know this and act accordingly.

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .