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Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Op, You don't need anyone's advise please just read the TOPIC of this your post like 10 times then go and sleep on it whatever comes to your mind is what you should do now.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Op, You don't need anyone's advise please just read the TOPIC of this your post like 10 times then go and sleep on it whatever comes to your mind is what you should do now.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

Let me give you a genius advise but first make sure that you are not totally depends on this man if not please don't try this...

1,Call his family and tell them what happened please don't add jara or lie to them then do same with your family.
2, Get a fake signed divorce letter and make sure its delivered to him directly .. ASK someone to do the job for you.
3, Break all communication with him
4, Put your faith in God and pray.
5, wait for few weeks and see how things will unfold

Don't fight him or the lady in question. if you have her number then you can mistakenly send his '' Health report to her'' from a diffrent number ofcourse. Health issues includes all unimaginable condition.

Don't do this if you are not bold. If he want to Go by force he will have to come back by Force.

wish you well.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Really bitter and du**mb..

Reno the Diarrhea mouth should go and buy her latest human hair. Beauty is in the eye of beholder.

Tinubu has really age gracefully.

Can someone please remind me of the name of this damsel?

Thanks

Dey say her mama too snatch person husband and had five children for five husbands that mercy dey learn from her

GOSSIP FULL GROUND OOO AS PEOPLE NO DEY taya to gbeborun

vickydevoka:
I won't lie. If I become rich I can't marry a dark skin lady. Unless I de poor or average. Chai see woman

You are senseless. Period!

Why are people using picture of Bridget of Obodo Oyinbo in this Sammie' sphilandering issue?

She is not the one he cheated with .aa Bloggers

Boogiebee:
Hello Nairalanders,

So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.

1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.

2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.

May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen

IF YOU CAN'T THINK FOR YOURSELVE WITH WHAT TO DO WITH THAT MONEY NOW ,I'LL SUGGEST YOU SAVE IT IN A FIXED DEPOSIT UNTIL YOUR INNER MAN IS READY AND CAN SEE CLEARLY WITH A GOOD PLAN FOR THE CASH. PLANNING AND INVESTING IS NOT A DAY'S JOB. TAKE YOUR TIME

3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests


So Catholic Priets are more than gay's? Fallacy!

Maxymilliano:
Which one is "knowing fully well that he wasn't expecting such magnitude of money". Tell me don't you believe in miracles ?

Don't mind them joor , Na dat pastor when dey say '' rceieve alert'' pray for him naw. shiooo

WE NOW SLEEPS WITH OUR TWO EYE CLOSED

WE NOW SLEEPS WITH OUR TWO EYE CLOSED

WE NOW SLEEPS WITH OUR TWO EYE CLOSED

HOW CAN WE HAVE SO MANY HUMAN CAPITAL AND STILL LACK BASIC INFRASTRUCTURES?

Dem don come with tori again oooo Oooo.

I go school with no shoes ...na dem
I waka from Ibadan to Abuja ...na dem
Na my wife get the moni ...na dem
I will build road, give light and buy u na water from Togo ...na dem
I will print dollar and share for all u na family ooo ...na dem


My people run,run run my people run ooooo OOO

Sonnobax15:

Too bad.....

It could have been a case of depression..... Those thoughts of death,may God forbid such thoughts from our heads . Most of us here can't really give the exact number of times that we normally feel so depressed....But thanks to nairaland for always being there for us . If you dey para,just come online into nairaland,you must come across one mumu comment wey go ginger you enter laughter

Rip to the late pretty damsel

How do you know? Nairaland all the way! RIP to the dead.

Mom007:
Excuse me. So you could park your car and walk back after the guy called you to say he couldn't find the keys but you couldn't park your car to hand him the keys like one would do to a fellow human being instead of throwing it on the floor for him to pick as if he was a sub human! The time you didn't want to waste showing simple courtesy and dignifying your fellow man, did you not waste that and more looking for the key and trying to gain entrance into your locked office? Na waa o. What did you say is the topic of this your thread again?

So you know no say na were first dey call people were ni?

Degunners:
I have some few stuffs I can sell but my wife is the issue because I keep denying of taking any loan whenever she gets any message from them because I used her account to borrow from palmcredit.

She and my baby traveled and I'm tempted to dispose some few things like my home theatre, gen and fridge.

For me I don't mind selling everything to clear these debts and start over because I believe within six months I should be able to replace everything.

How do I handle my wife is my main concern because I have been lying to her

I'm sure you must have learn your lesson now. the only thing to do now is a way out of this mess firstly, don't ever sold your items without gining your wife a tangible reason for doing so if not she might start to take you for somethign else.

so call her and let her know that you have a serious issue concerning money at the office and you must pay this missing money back by selling all this things. Assure her that you will replace them back with even more better and bigger ones. if truelly your wife loves you she might run around to get half of that money for you.

if you have truely made up your might God will surely make a way.

You saw a loan app as free money but you don't know that its nothing but a trap for those who don't know how to pay gbese.

goodluck

techmo:



That Dele Adeleke is a bitch nigga

Atleast his brother Senator Adeleke already got a college degree so what's the fuse about his education

Imagine being an opposition to your own brother when other positions are free



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Exactly what got Davido angry ... Some people don't know what family ties is all about. cheers

spydera:
Goodmorning Nairalanders.
I had this completely randomized argument with one of my couzins early hours of this morning on the topic above. It was Unusual but deliberate given the fact that I said I love following church service online via the Net or cable dish.

She immediately opposed me and we both started to clearly state our points in bid to render the other person defeated.

It was like a rap battle until she said going to church will enable you, amongst other things take lots of selfies and pictures with others people– Òmó, I became mute and yielded.
Which do you prefer and why?

This reminds me of what one of my friends tolds me that he only goes to church to socialize and to meet new comers so many people asually have different purpose for doing things so don't follow the crowd. believing and doing what is right in the eyes of man and God is what determines your heaven.

Toyin Abraham's Husband, Kolawole Ajeyemi Gifts Mother-In-Law A Car

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFO10VXyg-U

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

ACTOR IBRAHIM CHATTA SPEAKS AT LAST AFTER COMING OUT OF HIS SHORT PHASE OF DEPRESSION.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYETYvV7Cp8

whirlwind7:
So, the same place you saw the pictures online didn't offer any explanation about them?

If they offer, will i bring it here? you need glasses

ednut1:
Gullible op

Ednut,
if i'm gullible then you are the first nincompoop in African . see how oyibo dey push you back to the dungeon. have you finish washing all the toilet in Canada? Weree.

i will catch on Insta.;

backbencher:
No problem

Google image search can be very helpful for images of doubtful provenance.

Thanks once again. I actually saw it on a friend's FB timeline post and i got a little curious . i didn't bother checking on Google because i wanted to see what Nairlander think of it but some have actually turn it to sunday morning tribal battle. To say the least my good friend is a reputable Hausa man.

Here is the screenshot of the post. thanks