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forget all that, i have family members who are muslim and they do not practice what they preach.

i have a rule if i can stretch my hand and i can touch you, then u are in my personal space, he was in my face.



the problem is black men feel that they can have it all the wife at home, the woman on the side ,clubbing the works what they should understand is when you are married your wife and kids become ya club,mistress and hubby, yes you can have your space but marriage is not a game,don't get me wrong women do it to and it should not be that way.

when we understand what marriage then it will last.

mrmayor

i am a black woman, very independent and i must say that i was a very good wife 12yrs and i did not once cheat on my husband or disobeyed him, i put up with a lot of sh*t to, now i do not go out with white men i am not white so i do not identify with them i only know about black men.


what do they want us to do? leave our boys and girls in the hands of use less men? no, if we leave we take our kids, that does not make me less of a women, i want black men to know that i want them to see a woman and find out about her before they open their mouths. assuming the she is a slag.

Dojo

Raymand:
i think you should be in a padded cell!, you seem crazy! ooops did i judge?!

men will do that some times.

we will

i will though, i have alot going on prob thats why,i can place you, and don't hold ya breath because the next time we talk i will be ready.

dojo i am a counselor, so you having an effect on me is not good seriously,i can't place you i do not know if you angry or funny i just can't place your emotions, it bothers me.

hahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Dojo:
I don't think you are in the position to think/say someone is new here.
Not posting but observing for a period of time is not how I term someone as 'new'.
So, welcome to Nairaland and it's nice to meet and chat with you, Ruth (Abokoku).

dojo you are having an effect on me and i do not know what it is yet ?? i do not normally have this problem.

must_a_far:
My baby and myself.

26 and 25, and loving it.

no you will not just drop it like its hot who's ya baby

Eurphoria:
not fair coco. 22 here(don't worry our discussions earlier was safe)

i will change it just fa you.

and kadee girl i can dutty wine all over the dance floor.

Kadeejah:
i dunnno lol therez this one song i like it goes. . .

gyal mi love how u wine pon mi
my girl dutty wine pon mi. goodas wine an bruk of mi
every gyal a frog back pon mi. mek up yuh face when yuh deh pon mi
dunnno who sang it either lol

coco do u kno that song? tell me who sang it if u do plssssssssss

girl you love dutty wine, the song is saying he love it when is woman give him de dutty wine ie f*ck him good get puntop de buddy and bruck it off.

lol

saying coco is not my name was rhetorical, my personality on NL is completely different to who i am i take it you are new here huh, OK my name is Ruth

i realize that there are a  lot of younger people here than i expected some times it is nice to know how old some one is before commenting so if you are over 20 introduced yourself here.


hi am coco 29.

for me it is coco is not my name .

sweetie exactly that is why i am upset, let me tell you why i am upset, this so call black men walked to me today with out asking a word started talking about how i should be ashamed of my self for having kids out of wed lock, about how he was looking at me for the past two weeks and never saw me with a man, i am standing there with my kids and he is going on on about black woman and their aggression and he was African to.

not all women, i will marry who ever i feel that passion for with or with out money.

bladerunna:
Coco please you seem confused.
Please read your opening post and now compare it with your last one. You are either happy with your lot or you are not.
The issue of whether you are caribbean or African has less relevance if you are living out of your cultural community. the only reason people stay together when they are clearly unhappy is for financial security. Once each member can fend for themselves it is a lot easy to up and leave.

every single friend of mine who is african says they will stay in a marriage because it is bad to be divorce in some parts of africa.

i am not confused black men upsets me, yes i love them but they need to understand women, if that man had undertsood, he would not have had his ass beaten today, coco is not a woman with issues, however she men can bring out her worst side.