₦airaland Forum

coogar:
what are we hearing?
any good news? cococandy - i am starting to suspect you.

MadCow1:
LOL @ Female Hunter... These Newspapers can lie..



We all know females cant be hunters.. The Animals can smell their pheromones from 10 miles out.

crackhaus:
Did you miss the point by a long shot?

He is a traditional ruler, his office/position requires that he be married to as many wives as possible.
So it's not NORMAL for him to have just one wife, that's what makes it newsworthy.

kstyle2:
Don jazzy's back up na die

plaetton:

@ Op,
That man's life may have just fallen into your hands to save. Do the right thing and let it play out anyway that it can.
Try your best to see this man and tell him what you saw, as long as you are telling the truth.
This act might just be one of many or few important tasks of your life.
Do it.

Madampinkolo:


To add to the discussion,I completely understand that people cannot believe a married woman would share her body with someonelse.It is completely distasteful to the ear and the first rash reaction is 'impossible','online warrior' 'jackie chan' etc.BUT married women are cheating as well.Who are these married women?Some must be on nairaland?
They find it hard to believe cheating can destroy a marriage,that the woman will walk out.I understand that as well because they feel after taking stock of everything,they must find reason to stay back and continue.It may be hard for them to realise that it's BECAUSE after taking stock,it will be torture to stay back.
They do not understand the torture of being haunted by the image of Dh and another woman/women writhing around bed,car,floor is unbearable.The blow to self esteem,the questions,loss of trust,paranoia,emotional withdrawal,the betrayal.
Emotions run very very deep,the more you love someone,the deeper the betrayal..you lose everything you believe in in just one instant.Everytime he talks,you become bitter and call him a liar.When he steps out of the house,you wonder where hes going.If he comes home late,you rant and rail.The love will be irretrievably broken and the marriage will NEVER EVER be the same.Some part of you will be jaded forever.
I watched my mother lose the light in her eyes.My mum is the most cynical human being on this planet.Sweet woman,accomplished but deeply unhappy marriage wise.A different child may see this and move on,but for me a very emotionally sensitive and temperamental child,I was scarred.I took it personal and knew early that I wouldn't be able to live side by side with a cheater
I find it disgraceful that the emotional well being of the woman/man cheated on is rarely explored.We mostly have the attitude of bear it and get over it.Very terrible.

If i choose not to leave,my emotional make up insists that the books be balanced.I won't be able to continue if i don't get some form of justice.Whatever that justice is,I have to be satisfied that i am desirable,someonelse wants me.How far i choose to carry that out,I don't know.No one knows my se x -o - meter or my views and attitude towards s ex.So don't automatically assume that I may have to fall inlove inorder to have an or gasm.Now the response may not be today or tomorrow but the fact remains I may now be more receptive to flattery and flirting in a bid to validate myself.

Now,if i don't do anything I will be bitter,I will be screaming daily,i will nag,i will be an angry person and i will make life hell.I will remind him of it everyday.I may mock him whenever he talks. I won't be able to have s ex with him without the mental picture of them moaning and screeching.Who would want to live like this forever?Sorry won't work.
The Jesus/prayer brigade shouldn't bother,it won't work.I feel like it's only when i feel some kind of balance that I will be able to move forward.
Imagine having children in this sort of environment..It's a horrible thought.Now,is it better for a temperamental person to raise kids in such an atmosphere?You must take into consideration the emotional stability of the person cheated on.I have lived this nightmare with my folks abeg,can't repeat it.

People should not underestimate the next person or believe their expected response should be this or that just because they've seen it as the norm.Mrs Bobbit hacked out her DH pe nis,who would have thought that possible?

Now,if DH caught me cheating i wonder if he'd be viewed as jackie chan if he decides to leave me,if he'd be insulted for going out and sleeping with other women inorder to make himself feel better.Very very funny...
100 years an excellent mother,excellent wife and mistakenly shagged a man at a WHO conference..would that change the outcome for me?Male/female for me it's no different.

The more deeply you love someone,the more likely you are to respond crazily to betrayal.

20-30 years down the line when im much older,my feelings may be less volatile but I know the rebel inside me would still find a way to respond.

ShahzadNonso:
Huh? Hw many husbands does she have kwan?

alutacontinua:
Where is my wife, cococandy?
I want my birthday gift-in the room

Serenity22:
Lol, when we tell these men to learn how to cook they'll be shouting fire and brimstones. I just pray all her evil machinations fail and boomerang.

berem:
as a muslim,he must not marry more than four wives. What does he need another wife for anyway?

berem:
are you planning to be his 5th wife coco nne m?

berem:
She is the last wife and fourth.

pickabeau1:
both genders have a part to play

crackhaus:
As a guy who's got some love for ya, I gotta ask though - why do you always want to get in the way of a wannabe who's only achievement is riding shotgun and playing messenger for the real niggaz?

jaybee3:

SirShymex:
And all my victims converge!

Residual effects of proper beat-downs!

https://stream1.gifsoup.com/view1/2038969/tupac-hit-em-up-o.gif

babyosisi:
No be only Jamaica o
Nigerian women too

SirShymex:
Lol, Michael Jackson "BAD" - smack a biitch and make her ya dog.

Dirt off my shoulder. On to the next one, can't give a sket the attention she craves.

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crackhaus:


Na wah oo

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1857453_jonalaffing_jpega708b6fb7b1c54189c91ff44ca462616

Godmystrength:
I thought it was on this same NL that someone opened a thread and people came over to abuse women who breastfeed babies in public...... the person even described to details, the breastfeeding process bla bla.... Now the question is about whether women are shy to breastfeed in public.....o ga o

surveyProf:
The story is for real, it happens in far away Jamaica......

http://iupdatejamaica.com/get-husbands-pastor-undresses-kisses-female-church-members-asses-beach/