Romance › Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by cococandy(f): 4:59pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
100 Sophyrocks: The only point i have a problem with in the Op is Number 5. Please please please, ladies should endeavor to stop confusing the preferences of others with that of theirs. Who told you Nice guys are boring, are not self confident and all the other bad qualifications you have given them? This is a way of saying what is bad is good and what is good is bad. You cannot associate a good word as "Nice" with something bad. There are many guys who are nice and confident and not boring as well. If you see a guy who is boring, dnt call him Nice. Just say he is boring. simple. if he doesnt have swag or good dress sense, just say so. dnt call him nice. if he has body/mouth odour, stick to that. If you are not physically attracted to him at all, say it. Even a cheat and an abusive guy can form Nice guy for you in the begining to trap you before he unleashes his inner "demons". Anybody can be Nice. Focus on the issues that dnt seem to attract you at all. Thats all. Its pure fallacy that Nice guys are geeks, boring, have no swag and bla bla bla. Too many guys out there have a mixture of qualities so you cannot paint every Nice guy with the same brush.
And by the way, ladies, you will be making a huge mistake sending the wrong signals/messages to guys out there with the ridiculous fallacious statement "Girls dnt like Nice guys". I pity you all who stand by that statement. If you dnt get a good husband, blame no one but yourself. I'm a lady but i gotta say the truth. Ladies, you have used your mouth to drive nice guys away but you keep talking about getting a God fearing man. You are not encouraging men to be Nice in the actual sense of the word and you are not encouraging them to be responsible with this fallacious statement. You will get what you think you deserve. Stop being confused beings. Its disgusting!! Stick to what doesnt appeal to you in a guy. Leave the word "Nice" out of it. |
Romance › Re: Former Escort Who Slept With 10,000 Men Is Ready To Settle Down by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
Jonwesley: ! I will threaten to unfollow you if care is not taken.  |
Romance › Re: Welcome Your Crush On This Section To This New Month Of December 2014. by cococandy(f): 4:50pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
Isaacmacdon: wish u both a happy new month....cococandy thank you . Same to you |
Family › Re: Is It Right To Stop Poor Folks From Having Kids They can't Cater For? by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
thorpido: It's their right to procreate even though it's not right.The society can only increase awareness through education and improvement on the standard of living. i did not say it is not their right to procreate. I only asked you in response to your comment that everyone should be advised to have the number of kids they can cater for. How many can all these dirty beggars on the street be advised to have. Because last I checked they can't even take care of themselves let alone another human being. |
Family › Re: Is It Right To Stop Poor Folks From Having Kids They can't Cater For? by cococandy(f): 8:39am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Aprime: Enforcing birth control measures on the poor alone?  where did I say that? |
Family › Re: Is It Right To Stop Poor Folks From Having Kids They can't Cater For? by cococandy(f): 8:38am On Dec 02, 2014 |
kilokeys: advocating that the poor folks should be gathered, castrated and locked away.. that is what u r saying? you have a way of reaching awesome conclusions |
Family › Re: Is It Right To Stop Poor Folks From Having Kids They can't Cater For? by cococandy(f): 8:09am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Aprime: Are you in support this? in support of what? |
Family › Re: Beyonce Physically Abusing Jay Z? - National Enquirer by cococandy(f): 7:36am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Truckpusher: That is the beauty of African marriage ,even if the man is an iidiot trust his mom and siblings to give you the heat of your life.
Trust me ,Omotola would think twice before embarking on that journey.
Aren't we all Nigerians again? of course every man's problem is his family's problem.  you make yous sound like weaklings who hide behind mommy for defense.  And that to you is the beauty of African marriage? |
Family › Re: Is It Right To Stop Poor Folks From Having Kids They can't Cater For? by cococandy(f): 7:33am On Dec 02, 2014 |
How many kids can a beggar on the street adequately for? One? Zero? thorpido: You can't stop them,it's their human right. The society can only increase the awareness on family planning and the need to have children you can cater adequately for. |
Crime › Re: 36-Year-Old Man Arrested For Raping A 9-Year-Old Girl by cococandy(f): 4:10am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Na wa. Don't know what to say even. |
Romance › Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by cococandy(f): 2:07am On Dec 02, 2014 |
The Friendzone is an Excuse. It's an excuse for when a guy likes a girl but the girl doesn't like him right back. It's a sense of entitlement. It's the idea that just because a guy gives a girl his time or affection, she's in the wrong for not giving him sexual or romantic favors back. It's a defense mechanism, a way for the guy to make the girl seem coldhearted or callous or dumb for simply acting on her feelings, or rather lack of feelings this is the summary . |
Celebrities › Re: LOL! Actor Remi Ogini Proposed To Girlfriend At Shoprite, Ilorin (photos) by cococandy(f): 11:28pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Op I bet you're the guy in question. Congrats to you and your babe  |
Romance › Re: Former Escort Who Slept With 10,000 Men Is Ready To Settle Down by cococandy(f): 11:23pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
She will still get married to a nice man who will love her until death do them part. |
Family › Re: Some Lies Can Save A Family And A Marriage by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
You want these nairaland guys to come and kill you now ehn |
Celebrities › Re: Meet Jacqui Beck,girl Without Vagina by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
ty265: No vagina?!?!?...wetin she dey use pee den hoyinkansola: i guess she has an uterus Dumb and Dumber  |
Family › Re: 10 Things Wives Should Stop Doing. by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
pweetixandy: . All these mumu threads will not help. Shuoooo!  |
Family › Re: Will You Still Leave Your Child With The Housemaid? by cococandy(f): 9:38pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: New Job Scam Tactics In Warri by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Can't these folks be traced with those account numbers they drop? This is getting too much and almost the same pattern. It seems like nobody is checking them out |
Celebrities › Re: Don Jazzy,Iyanya, African Artistes Remake "We Are The World",against Ebola (pix) by cococandy(f): 6:22pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Since praiz and diamond are part of it, I will love to watch it when it comes out |
Celebrities › Re: VIEWER'S DISCRETION ADVISED: Top Singer, Zee Dies Mysterious Death(photos) by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Everything is a mysterious(or spiritual) illness to you people. They will soon start pointing fingers at those they suspect.
Ignorance is really bad. |
Family › Re: Do African Men Make The BEST Husbands And Fathers? by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
This one he did in public in the presence of other officers and in full camera glare . Who knows what they do to helpless young women when they are in custody ? Especially the weak ones with no one to fight for them. Pig  |
Family › Re: Do African Men Make The BEST Husbands And Fathers? by cococandy(f): 4:04pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Family › Re: My Family Issues! by cococandy(f): 3:09am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Op if they live far away and always take the pains to travel to your house and spend nights without you being first aware, then I see that as disrespectful and you shouldn't hesitate to let your wife know that you don't like being taken for granted.
But if they live close to you, then unscheduled visits may not be very bad unless they begin to stay with no plans to leave and not telling you before they came if they had plans to stay over.
No matter what, I think people should stop taking others for granted. It is simple courtesy to make sure a host is fine with you being in their house especially if you plan to stay for a while.
But dear op if the visits are just drop-bys, I don't really think you should complain. |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Strange Image That Was Inadvertently Caught On Camera In Benin Today by cococandy(f): 2:46am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Gullibility is a disease. |
Crime › Re: 4 Suspected Cultists Arrested For Allegedly Raping A Girl During Initiation by cococandy(f): 2:31am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Elantracey: @topic if she willingly wanted to be initiated I really don't see it as rape , those are one of the things she should have expected .  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:14am On Dec 01, 2014 |
bukatyne: Fedex never reach my side 
How are you doing over there?  fine darl. Just that This winter wan kpafuka for my body I had to microwave my oil before I could pour it out of the can to cook my egusi soup.  |
Family › Re: Fell@tio and cunnil!ngu.s-a Taboo In African Marriages. Where Do We Start? by cococandy(f): 9:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
miredia: Oh I know that... nope. Not douche. Just a kind of liquid soap that is specially prepared to prevent odour in the V area . Just go to any mall or mart and look in the ladies hygiene section. |
Family › Re: Fell@tio and cunnil!ngu.s-a Taboo In African Marriages. Where Do We Start? by cococandy(f): 8:54pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
jennykadry: Madam the world is coming to an end. Listen to the preacher and secure yourself a sit in the gold kingdom  ok ma. I will be back |
Family › Re: Fell@tio and cunnil!ngu.s-a Taboo In African Marriages. Where Do We Start? by cococandy(f): 8:43pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
jennykadry: Go to church and sin no more . Pray for us cunnilus lovers I'm not even listening to the preacher . Just reading up the juicy stuff here. This is so bad  |
Family › Re: Fell@tio and cunnil!ngu.s-a Taboo In African Marriages. Where Do We Start? by cococandy(f): 8:18pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
I'm on way to church now only to stumble upon this thread  . Chai God will not be happy with the inevitable distraction I'm going to suffer in church today . |
Family › Re: Fell@tio and cunnil!ngu.s-a Taboo In African Marriages. Where Do We Start? by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:00pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Btw, you cheated, why did you post it twice.  for better view  |