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When a woman makes this argument they call her emotional, tell us we are challenging the nature and being illogical.

Whats more illogical than ignoring the math of existence?

GloriousGbola:
https://punchng.com/yoruba-men-dont-mind-their-women-cheating-funmi-iyanda/

controversial when it came out but the gist of it for me is in a society where polygamy is celebrated this will happen

it is not as if there is a giant pool of women who are not with someone else

the same guys cussing chike would have celebrated him as a playboy in school if he had 10 or more chicks - even if they knew he was stealing or chancing or taking them from other guys. the guy wey dey knack OPP for school, will he stop as he grows older?

most polygamists on some level know some of the kids may not be theirs. its why the late mko ordered dna test for all the kids as a prerequisite to his will if i recall. and even before now, a lot of african cultures imho turn a blind eye and the children are for the man and that is where it ends. no one with a harem of wives who he knows he cannot be available to every time one is feeling Hot will lie to himself in reality that she is content with that

it is only on the internet that a person who has painstakingly raised a child for 3 or more years can casually say i no dey do again

when linda ikeji decided to release a story about how two of femi kutis kids were not his own he called her out - asking why she was sharing information he was fully aware of and that would simply make the children's lives hard

Fine girl. You’re better than me. I think men who are heartless and don’t think twice about hurting women should have some of their kids fathered by other men.
It’s only fair.

See I didn’t earn my man hater title by being nice🤭 🤣😭

Sorry to all the good men. May they not suffer from the evil of their fellow guys.

pocohantas:
Either way, paternity fraud is terrible.
Away from all the agenda and gender war, no woman should cheat and pass off a child to another man. It is unfair to the child and the man too. A very high level of betrayal that should be shunned. If everyone continues like this, the family unit would breakdown in a few years.

Sphinx419:
The kind ogun when go kill you eh... omo e go be like Instagram like and share ... And you must get blue tik from am... old and archaic mama

You’re upset 🤣

Here to enjoy MAGA’s daily dose of embarrassment. 🤣

Republicans are only good for wasteful spending

But he’s not racist

Another one bites the dust.

Cursed by Trump’s kiss of endorsement.

basilico:
You are more likely to find paedophiles among liberals than conservatives. Both sides have their own lists of convicts, the side with the loudest megaphone is the left.
The left perpetuates ,celebrates and normalizes violence against the right .

All a bunch of lies. But I’m not interested in going back and forth with you on it because you have a complicated relationship with the truth.

I wrote all that and realized I said nothing.

The only truth you’ve said on this thread

DeepSight:
So lucid, so clear, so rational, so rightly said. I just dont know how something this simple can be impossible for some people to understand.
Well said, classy woman.

😊

The fact that we can recognize that corruption is holding Nigeria back but turn around and support an administration that is so corrupt it makes Nigerian leaders look like angels is wild to me.

I support banning gender reassignment surgeries in minors. Same way I support banning marriages in minors too. I don’t even think teenagers should be having sex (even with each other) but definitely certainly not with older people who are pretending the magical hour of the clock hitting 18 makes them grown and mature enough all of a sudden.

What I don’t support is 🤡s using kids as political props when they’re trying to scapegoat certain communities. But when it comes to actually being against harm to children, they support every measure that goes against it. While supporting those actively and credibly known to harm kids.

basilico:
Kansas judge sets aside law banning gender transitioning surgeries to under 18 albeit temporary.

In his opinion, Judge Folsom wrote that the Kansas Constitution protects “personal In his opinion, Judge Folsom wrote that the Kansas Constitution protects “personal autonomy,” which includes “the fundamental right of parents to the care, custody and control of their minor children.”

The judge described genderbending care as “the treatment with the most evidence of being helpful to treat gender dysphoria” and said it is “harmful to withhold medical treatment or withdraw medical treatment in progress that is safe, effective, and medically indicated,” which includes “the fundamental right of parents to the care, custody and control of their minor children.”

The judge described genderbending care as “the treatment with the most evidence of being helpful to treat gender dysphoria” and said it is “harmful to withhold medical treatment or withdraw medical treatment in progress that is safe, effective, and medically indicated
[/i]In his opinion, Judge Folsom wrote that the Kansas Constitution protects “personal autonomy,” which includes “the fundamental right of parents to the care, custody and control of their minor children.”

The judge described genderbending care as “the treatment with the most evidence of being helpful to treat gender dysphoria” and said it is “harmful to withhold medical treatment or withdraw medical treatment in progress that is safe, effective, and medically indicated

I have been seeing cococandy criticize a 19 year old getting married .
What do you think about this law? Under 18 shouldn't be allowed to mutilate their bodies by all means.

It was never about coming in the right way.
It’s always been about having the right skin color

Yes there are exceptions and yes hardwork will pay eventually but black people are not at the bottom of the wealth gap because they do not work hard. That lie falls apart the moment you look at American history and the actual data. Black people worked through slavery with no pay.

Worked through segregation with lower wages. Worked through discrimination where jobs, promotions, unions, land ownership, business loans, and housing opportunities were deliberately blocked. You cannot build generational wealth when the system spends generations preventing you from owning assets. The average Black family is not starting from the same financial starting line.

White families were able to pass down homes, businesses, land, investments, and inheritances for generations. Many Black families were locked out of those opportunities through redlining, discriminatory banking, predatory lending, unequal schools, mass incarceration, and policies that stripped wealth from Black neighborhoods while wealth was expanding elsewhere.

And even today, Black Americans still work at extremely high rates across healthcare, transportation, education, logistics, retail, public service, manufacturing, and countless other industries. The issue is not laziness. The issue is ownership, access to capital, inheritance, home values, investment opportunity, and systems that historically allowed one group to accumulate wealth while another group was denied the same access.

You cannot tell people to “just work harder” when many Black families have been working for centuries while being denied the same return on that work. That is not a personal failure. That is a measurable economic pattern.

How do they keep up with his flip flopping?

IjeBos:
BWahahahhah
Even Basilico agrees he is so dull.

Can’t say I blame basilico. I don’t think it escapes anyone how soul sucking interactions with him can get.

But damn imagine basil agreeing on this. How much worse could it get?

He freestyles the lies as he goes.

So many lies he can’t keep them straight

IjeBos:
So, you married the teenager girl you impregnated? Lies.
The crazy this is that he said he was waiting till she was legal to have a baby with her.
Means he was dating her when she was 16/17.

If a simple generalization needs to be explained to you, then I’m afraid you’re even more incompetent than I thought.

Does your generalization here about black people include you and your lineage as well? Or do you magically understand how generalizations work when you do that?

bemeruca:
You just follow 😂
Nothing original.

Oga stop trying to clean up what she clearly said. You act like a simple thing always.

She said: When we talk about billionaires being evil…

That na broad statement. Not some billionaires, or not certain exploitative billionaires, or not specific corrupt business practices. She framed billionaires as evil.

And that is the issue, a lazy communist issue. Criticizing bad practices okay, fair. But saying billionaires are evil as a category is just lazy class resentment.

People work hard every day to feed themselves and their families. They go to school, learn skills, build careers, and many of those jobs exist because someone created or scaled a company.

Before someone complains about working hard for billionaires, they already worked hard in school and training so they could qualify for those jobs the billionaires provide.

Don’t hide broad hatred behind fake nuance.

She said she loves mone, but she wants to take other people's money. Only short broads can love money and save it.

bayelsaowei:
The Man has reiterated again oo.. he said it with his full chest.. but worshippers will say we don’t understand what he means..

You have to be a robot to follow Trump.

The people who voted “for him for the economy” are 🤡🤡

basilico:
Did I share that.dont remember.

“I do not recall.”

Typical Republican response when they get caught up 😭

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Imagine me going to a Sudanese forum and some dude there is arguing with me about him not being a pay dough because their law states that 10 is okay.

At what point do we start using our common senses?

DeepSight:
GBAM!

And it misses the point that if its about legality, there is nothing wrong if any country fixes it at a lower age according to its own legal system. Sudan permits age 10 for marriage for girls, Tanzania, 12 for Hindu and Muslim girls, Philippines permits at puberty for Muslim girls.

If we look at laws alone, we will claim not to be held by the standards of decency which any adult should naturally and intrinsically know.

Basilico which way bro?

I said Bemeruca is so so dull and you liked and shared it. What kind of friend are you? 🤣😭😭

DeepSight:
Even with 18 being considered adult, I am very hesitant about grown men who go after women that young, and by grown men I am referring generally to people in their early thirties and above. It not just about my personal preference (I cant go near a woman less than 40, or it would be rare) - but intrinsically, for men in the full bloom of adulthood and middle age (30s - 50s), truly an 18 year old should be considered too young. Its weird.

Adult men should be with women who are unambiguously grown. Anything other than that is simply weird. You’re absolutely correct.

When a man has to defend himself by saying they technically adults because the legal age is 18, it’s gives the impression that legality is the only thing stopping him.

We wouldn’t vote an 18 year old into the lowest office possible, we wouldn’t enter into business arrangements with them. We wouldn’t go into serious lifelong agreements with them. Why is sex and marriage the exception?

Just masking perversion with legal mumbo jumbo

DeepSight:
No one has ever said billionaires are bad simpliciter.

He likes to make up things and run with it

armyofone:
Using American tax payers money to inflate their pocket and build legacy wealth.

They’ll say you’re jealous for pointing this out.

Everyone who accompanied him on this trip was an oligarch of some sort. All expenses funded by the American tax payer. All benefits goes to them.

But what do I know, I don’t work hard enough I guess

The bla bla blas of a pay dough. Moving on

Phew

I know when you started your bragging about bedding teenagers, it was probably one of those lame attempts conservative men make at shaming women for waiting until they’re older to start families. Probably did it for a lil
pat on the back from other Neanderthals 🤭.

You didn’t imagine it would come back to bite you in the but like this. Now look at you. All embarrassed. Looking silly and clutching to fiction as a way to try to get a word in. You would shush if had any shame but we know you don’t. Carry on.

benalvino3:
You won't understand with short reasoning like this. It's not the website allowing it. It is them (women) using their given right as an adult to do it. Why the websites allows 18 and above when they can go down further? Maybe it's because they are not allowing it but the adults are voluntarily doing it.



You have no point. You should be denying doing multiple abortions as a teenager.

The state allow it because the state says they are adults.

Your side push and sexualize kids then encourage abortion. You have experience in abortion as a teenager.

I’m trying to understand your warped logic. So because unwholesome websites allow teenagers to participate in their unwholesome activities, that makes it okay for you to partake? What a weird take .

Also makes my point. If 13 was the limit we’d find you there as well. No consideration for maturity etc.

Pay dough.

Now we’re marrying and starting families with them too? Silly liar. Always lying .

benalvino3:
18 and above are considered adults. If you have issues with that go and stop the pron they allow them to act. Your advocacy should be that not men marrying them and starting a family with them.

You always have misguided priorities. You yourself did multiple abortions as a teenager

P

This shame of being a pay dough is yours alone to carry. You can’t project it on anyone else.

E
I know if the law allows them to marry at 13, you’ll be down there in the playgrounds scouting for a 13 year old child. Agadi na agwo ofe.

R
That’s why I never bought into the “protect the kids” hogwash of the right wing. They were only political props at the time. But at the end of the day, your precedents speaks for itself.

V
From openly lusting after them on the internet to admitting to sleeping with them and your law makers voting against outlawing child marriage, you show yourselves as the true danger to kids.

E
We can’t let you forget that. And you can never succeed at projecting it onto other people.

R

Kids are not safe around you guys. End of discussion
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benalvino3:
Give up what?
That young girls are allowed to marry from 18 or 19?

Or that your hosbiii is somewhere watching pron-hub of a young woman. You don't have issues with society letting 18 or 19 do pron but your issues is that men are having children with them.

To check on the hosbiii 😂

benalvino3:
19 is not underage, not even 18. Some of whom moms like you groom to follow older rich men. But for someone like you who aborted a couple as a teenager, I understand your advocacy for abortion.

Your lame attempt at rectifying this is embarrassing for you. Give it up.

Are you the “rich man” someone groomed their teenage daughter to follow? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

What do you call employing people at just below minimum hours so that you don’t have to pay health insurance as the law requires for all full time employees? Not greed?

What’s the proper way to describe lobbying politicians to reduce regulations so that you don’t have to observe safety rules. Just to save a few bucks while risking the lives of your workers and the communities where your industries are? That’s not greed?

What do you call monopolizing insurance companies and pharmacies and hospitals so that you as an organization can dictate how much an ICU stay costs (millions of dollars for week stay BTW) and the insurance company can’t refuse to pay you because you own it and the Pharmacy can’t charge the patient less for medications because you also own. And the people who regulate the system can’t say jack because you own them too?

You’re quite happily show us how slow your neurons fire with every line you utter. This conversation is beyond you because you don’t even begin to understand how American greed works. Just yapping to yap.

benalvino3:
you are confusing condemning greed with condemning wealth itself. We should use the Bible correctly and not use it to push our biased opinions.

The Bible does not say being rich is automatically evil. Bible warn against loving money, oppressing the poor, and trusting in riches instead of God. The position you hold is a failed system.

Many billionaires and wealthy people have created jobs, fund things like hospitals, paid scholarships, supported medical research, disaster relief, food programs, universities, churches, and charities.

That does not mean every billionaire is good, but pretending they only rip off the system is dishonest.
So do us a favour and tell us how they ripped off the system?

The same Bible you quoted also says:

1 Timothy 6:17-18
Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth… Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.

Notice the Bible does not say command the rich to stop being rich. It just says they should be humble, generous, and do good.

Even Abraham, Job, David, Solomon, Joseph of Arimathea, and others were wealthy. Their wealth was not the sin. The sin is greed, oppression, pride, and refusing to help others.

Proverbs 13:22 says:
A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children.

So the Bible supports building wealth responsibly.

What it condemns is wickedness and selfishness.

Even the passage you quoted in 2 Corinthians was about voluntary generosity among believers, not government-forced welfare or hatred of people who have more.

Paul was encouraging giving from the heart, not teaching jealousy or class warfare (cococandy)

So yes, help the poor. Yes, condemn greedy billionaires. But don’t pretend every wealthy person is evil or that poverty is solved by insulting people who create value, businesses, jobs etc. You don't even believe half of what you are saying.

benalvino3:
Leave conjure talk. Tell us, how many did you abort as a teenager?

I know you think this is a gotcha. And I’m responding to you against my better judgment because I don’t discuss terminations with men on the internet. But seeing as we are talking about teenagers I’ll oblige you. I support terminations in many instances and one of them is in immature mothers. Aka all underage moms. The kinds you and your ilk like.

Statistically most underage moms have adult partners in their 20s and 30s. Such a travesty. Your baby mama should’ve gotten one (or several). Since we don’t know how many times you abused her.