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A WOMAN...✍🏾
● changes her name
● changes her home
● leaves her family
● moves in with you
● builds a home with you
● gets pregnant for you
● pregnancy changes her body
● she gets fat
● almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pain
of child birth
● even the kids she delivers bear your name.

Till the day she dies... everything she does... cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefits you...sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies and beauty. So who is really doing whom a favour?

Dear men, let's appreciate the women in your lives always, because it is
not easy to be a woman.

A salute to ladies!

WOMAN MEANS :-
W ➖ WONDERFUL MOTHER
O ➖ OUTSTANDING FRIEND
M ➖ MARVELLOUS DAUGHTER
A ➖ ADORABLE SISTER
N ➖ NICEST GIFT TO MEN FROM GOD

Pass to every man to know the value of women & pass the same to every woman to feel proud!

Sonnobax15:

It is well bro...

Sometimes when I look at my dad,I only wonder how he managed to do it....As in,how he managed to take care of my brothers and I after the death of my mom despite being jobless..............There was never a time we went hungry...We were even privileged to attend one of the best private school in town...Tho there were challenges along the line but it really helped shaped us into being what and who we are becoming....



Op, it's never been easy...........But trust me, there's no wicked father anywhere who would fold his hands and watch his children lack when he has the ability to solve their problem....

May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏

There is nothing you can do about your father if your Mum couldnot do it.

naptu2:
Kazlaw @kazlaw01



Credit: @kazlaw01


Jubril A. Gawat @Mr_JAGs


@Mr_JAGs

The truck driver and his employer should pay for the repairs.

Hayzed203:
I broke up with my girlfriend about 3months ago and I still struggle to convince myself that I did the right thing and I believe this is affecting me in the process of trying to move on and meeting new people. We both live abroad and you don't meet a lot of Nigerians easily around here.

She was very caring, admired me and always supportive but still I made a decision to end the relationship. Why ? It was based on some sort of things that happened when we started being together. We started as friends with benefits while in school though she was in a distance relationship at the time. We both agreed it was just sex and nothing more when we started and I was fine with it. However, we started acting like couple - sleeping over, going out together, doing everything exclusively, and all that despite not defining things officially.

She wasn't always happy when I'm on phone with any girl irrespective of whatever relationship I have with such girl and I just sort of started distancing myself from all other girls. On her side, I acted 'maturely' by not interfering during her phone calls and all. Things continued that way for some months till the pressure was just too much that we had no choice but to define things. At that point, I was hooked already - in that, I was saying in my mind that it was just friends with benefits but I couldn't even leave her and I also found it difficult to make a decision to commit to her forever due to some number of reasons:

1. She once asked me to give her MouthAction which I have never done before at that time. I told her I wasn't ready and her response was that If I don't do it, someone else will do it for her. She went on a dating site, hooked up with a guy for one a night stand and I was aware of this though shocked at such boldness. I couldn't complain because we were not dating officially though we were always together at this point.

2. Another time during our time together, I was on a night duty and she went to a party which I was aware of. I saw a guy with her and her female friend and she earlier told me the guy came with her friend. Unfortunately for her, her female friend left early without the guy. I added 2 + 2 together and fixed it that she had something with the guy that night. I subsequently saw their sex chat on her phone. She later confessed they had a one night stand only.

3. There was a guy disturbing her that I was aware of, she always told the guy off until one day she told me she was visiting the guy for the weekend. I was shocked because we were literally talking about building a genuine relationship the previous night confessing how we have come to like each other. She was love-bombing me throughout her stay with the guy and I knew they were probably having sex throughout the 3 days. She came back on the 3rd day and started acting all nice and all to me.

4. She has a bit of bad temper especially with others. She is not the most likeable person out there and she doesn't care and can say anything when she is angry. She can bullshit anyone and I was always wondering if she will do it to me too one day. She was an angel towards me but opposite towards others.

5. Unlike me, she was very experienced in Nigeria with series of sexual partners littered on her phone. I stumbled on her nudes being with different guys on her snapchat. Sex wasn't a big to her and that was a total turn off for me since I didn't live that kind of life.

I know this might not make sense to anyone reading as you may assume I have reasons to make an easy decision but trust me, it wasn't an easy decision for me as I was almost used to being with her which I have never had with any other woman. My mind kept tricking me saying maybe it is not totally her fault as I didn't commit her. Plus, I have never been with any woman that showered me with so much care in my life before this girl. I have met very decent girls that still showed me shege despite being ready to commit.

I have only seen things like that on movies and I would have said it was juju but it was not. I have never experienced that kind of 'love' before and I didn't even care if it was fake or real. I enjoyed it as we both went on dates, vacations abroad and all but I was scared to commit to her.

Eventually I had to make a decision on whether I should stay or leave her and that was I how started going back and forth. I didn't want to leave or stay. I had never been so confused in my life. It was as if I was getting the kind of love I have always wished for but I am not exactly settled with our circumstances. I wanted to forget but I just couldn't given that I knew these men and it doesn't appear she has sexual discipline as well. I felt so bad for her and myself.

Though we ended up dating officially for 2months, I struggled to let bygone be bygone as she had requested. Not that I am so concerned about it but I just hate the fact that if anything happens in the future, I can't say I didn't see the signs but she was still a good person to me.

It is been 3months since we parted ways and I still randomly wonder if I did the right thing. Should I have given her a chance to change and prove herself ? Could I have influenced her positively ? I guess I will never know.

Who has experienced this before and what are your thoughts please?

You are dealing with a female narcissist,you will regret it if you call her back and start a family with her.She is giving you the kind of sex you want and this is blinding your eyes to see the bigger picture.Read about narcissitic women.

https://liveboldandbloom.com/09/emotional-abuse/female-narcissist

Find a decent lady to date and marry in the future.

Kogi First Lady.

dopedan:
She is 3 weeks pregnant now, please wat drugs can she take to abort, shes 18yrs, also im not responsible for it, just wanna help out cuz shes emotional

She is not too young to have a baby.Let her tell her parents.

Love

McStoic:
So she being a female shares a flat with a male? No one is taking note of that..

In Western world,women share flats with men.Different room in the same apartment,shared kitchen,sitting room and toilet.

chiagozien:
But why are Uoruba men like this.

Ekanem na Yoruba man,read again.

PaulOtl:
You're absolutely correct, Sir.
But just find the lady or girl who you feel suites you. A behavior that you can sha cope with. No extremes.
Like the Whites say, " women are necessary evils for men "
We cannot live without one another.

Women are not necessary evil.Every human came from a pair of male and female.Man and female genes is embedded in our make up as humans.
Just look for a woman who suit your kind of lifestyle and mindset.

BayLord01:
The former CP turn herself to Islamic fanatics stoge that they used her to arrest non Muslim (Isese worshiper precisely ) without valid warrant and even jail without trial. I hope they demote her also, Well-done to Sowore for exposing her.

She is retired now.She will be colllecting pension now.

essentialone:
Ladies were created only for the sexual entertainment and pleasure of men. True or False?

Female members of your family were created for pleasures of men abi.
Every human is created from a pair of male and female.Every living thing follows this process to ensure continuity of life on earth and save us from extinction.
If female chicken,cows dont exist,how can you have them on your table anytime you want .No human is meant for pleasure.
Sex and food are most needed for continued human existence.Remove the two,humans will go into extinction in no time.

Put this under Health section and contact the moderators in the same section.

Liam and Dad

abba190:
the problem is that she is 19years old and an orphan

She is an adult.If she is working she can file documents for you,hope you have good intention towards her.
Check UK fiancee visa and its conditions on google.

abba190:
my girl is in uk we hv been together for 3years, hope i will be able to japa oneday to meet her

If she loves you,she can help you with fiancee visa or marriage visa.

TruthsFM:
Away from Nigeria 🇳🇬, America rapper, @Lil Durk pays tribute to @Mohbad after his sad demised days ago🥲

However, many netizens have been wondering why whole @Wizkid who be say many young upcoming talents look up to as their role model and pray to be like hasn’t shown any signs 🪧 of remorse over the entire Mohbad death 💀 saga that has spread like fire 🔥 nationwide & globally?🤔

Omo, hope BigWiz 🦅 don belong to same cult as Naira Marley oo cos the way he’s keeping silent 🔇 on this matter as all his celebrities colleagues don sent their condolences 💐 messages dey make us think anyhow oo!🤔

More evidence while people will always loved 🥰 Davido over Wizkid cos proud full that short man plenty!

#insighttheblog #entertainment #everyone #trending #highlights #mohbadimole

Wizkid is better than all of them.The other record labels are clout chasers.Wizzy helps former signees of these record labels secretly to relocate to safe locations.
Davido uses and dump young artistes without kobo,his timeless album was written by Yonder.Don Jazzy is the most brutal of all record lable boss according to revelations.With Davido,Olamide and Jazzy you must join Cult.
For wizzy it is not a must to join cult but you must be talented to work with his label.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2iP5-sfuuo?si=CXqk_DFxfIx9tVAy

izonborn098:
Imagine leaving your 17yrs boy to his fate, naija na cruise. Everybody just want to born but no tangible plans for this kids..

Looking for ounje-omo from a naive young adult who doesnt really understand what life and money is all about.

izonborn098:
You know this matter...

Nigerian parents put too much burden on these young naive boys to do what they couldnot achieve themselves.

The parents already see themselves as failure.The young boys are carried away by the fake glamorous lifestyle displayed on the Internet.

Parents need to do better.If you bring a child to this world,you must be responsible for him or her till he is independent in the society

Why must a young adult be responsible for his mum and father pleasure?.
Parents are only free of responsibilities when they are incapacitated,old or dead.

ajekpaks:
It's taken the death of one to liberate another...

No only 1 is liberated,other vulnerable yoith about to enter the trap under record label are enlightened.Mohbad is Akanda eniyan.There are some people you can never cheat in this world and go scot free.
Naira never thought the death of Mohbad will be his downfall as predicted in his song
'NOW IS NAIRA GOING DOWN'in the 'TIFF'.

westlius:
Ode that chicked out when Mobad needed him d most

Dont blame him,he is under bondage in the lion's den.I pray he can quit Marlian house and get a fresh start in life.
Young men with talent trying to provide for their families where their parents failed deserve a second chance in life.He is a vulnerable boy from the slum.
Hope he goes into rehab for his addiction and continue his independent music career.

The video titled "Weekend" was likely a diss to the Marlian gang and his struggles between darkness and light.
When he goes out to make money on weekends,he is beaten as displayed in the music video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjbEU0jAET4?si=tkSVMcu4cbmkMP5r

BloomingDale:
It’s the Yoruba musician touts like Naira Marley, Olamide, Portable etc. Not all. Fireboy, Asake, Omah lay etc are cool.

Don jazzy,Kcee na Yorubas abi.

OBIDIENTNAIJA:
Omo Buhari men are going to be kicked hard on their sponky assess. Na too much nepotism full that company.
But Ebola will surely fill his brothers in there too. This country no just get clear path direction.
SMH

Time for Southerners to chop,no be only North wey no get sea or oil sabi chop oyel money.