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APOSTLECHUMA:
PEACE WAS TAKEN OFF THE EARTH FROM THE DAY ISHMAEL WAS BORN.

You could Say Abraham,futher of the Abrahamic religions of us vs them devoid of humanity.

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Masterito:
Even if Iran joins, Isreal will have good reason to level that Iran nuclear facility. Hezbollah is welcomed. Is it same Isreal that fought all muslum countries from all sides that will be over stretched by just Hezbollah and Hamas? it will be difficult but Isreal won't lose. Lol. Have sense o.

Israel won the Muslim countries in 1973 because they were attacked on a high muslim holiday season.So it is pay back time for Israel.Besides Jews and Arabs are cousins what concerns Africans when two blood relations from another continent fight themselves.These two dont give a damn about Africans.Only a compromose from Jews and Arab can solve the conflict but Male Ego,quest for control amd power on both sides will be their doom.

Let them continue to fight but they should not extend their crazy wars to Africa,we dont need it.

prickahantas:
All men should be banned from this Earth!!

Including your daddy and brother.Without men in the world,humans will go into extinction unless you harvest their sperm in a sperm reserve bank b4 sending them packing,this will only serve the female folks for sometime b4 it runs dry.When the reserve finishes,where do you get replacement from animals abi?

tsephanyah:
I always knew IPOB is christian militant group... the funny thing is Jews hate christians more than Muslims
They call christians idol worshipers and Islam more similar to Judaism

IPOB minions will be used as "cannon fodders" for their Jewish Matster.Mumu goyim group.

Offpointng:
Why wouldn't this Palestinians just let sleeping dogs lie and just take to Peace FGS??

Without provocation, they launched bout 3000 rockets into Isreal this morning, then moving from house to house killing Women, innocent kids, men and making a mastery off Isreali women by stripping them naked and matching them till they die. This is barbaric and heartbreaking. Then tomrw they'd inturn become the IPOB wing of Middle east claiming victims after beating the drums of war at first.

Hamas terrorist should be utterly bombed even to their 5th generation. Idiots

You should let sleeping dogs lie when refugees in your region take over your land with force.Only through Justice can peace be achieved.
The Isreakis did the same thing in 1948,read about Irugun solution,anonymous soldier.

Silentgroper:
the females would protest against it...

Females wont miss men.Only the married men will stop taking the pills.

Dest8sman:
Will they succeed?

If Israel could in 1948,the Palestinians can but only time will tell.War is unpredictable.Hamas attack could be another Russian distraction for the West.

englishmart:
This will be a very tough war for Israel. The entire Arab nations will unite against Israel, including Nigeria. Let's see how everything pans out.

Leave Nigeria out of Arab wars.It is none of our biz where two Arabian descendants fight.Do Palestinians care about you in Africa when war ravages our continent?
They dont give a damn about you Black Africans.

Silentgroper:
the only way to achieve that is becoming gay . I might be wrong... It's natural to want to eat from women pot of warm soup by the women exploiting us for it is what's wrong...

Men should develop a pill for men to stop wanting women.

spearman:
Yoruba women hardly will marry an Ibo man. When they do, it's more like a funeral than a wedding. That only Yoruba men marry Ibo women and not the other way round tells a lot more of the cultural superiority which Yorubas posses over nomadic/gypsies. Na Ibo dey struggle to attach everywhere.

Igbo women marrying Yoruba men are part of Yoruba harem girls.

Ride on Minister.I feel the same way.

PinkNature:
Because they can see beyond each others bull crap.

But most men can't. Most women believe every man is after their pot of soup.. which is mostly true, and most men will grant their request because they wanna have a taste of the pot of warm soup.

Men should stop looking for women pot of soup so they wont be exploited.

Let them go,others can take their jobs.

dkidd:
A dirty act not "An dirty act" . Stop giving us headache this afternoon
Btw only self righteous, over religious, pretenders see it as dirty. It's normal to life and living. It's the most important aspect of human existence and ensures the continuation of the human race. It's a beautiful thing.

It was a typo error.corrected

Sx is not unclean or a sin.Sx and food save humans from extinction.Religion made sx unclean.How can an act you are created from be reffered as "dirty"? A dirty act create a dirty creature.

If animals/ plants dont have sx we wont have food to eat.We will all die of hunger and starvation.
We as humans are foodies and sexual beings that is why tbese two sell like hot cakes.They are essential for human survival.

I agree sx need to regulated and practised in the confines of marriage to protect a family unit,prevent incest,single parenthood,unwanted pregnancies,reckless sexual behaviour etc.

What are your views?

$100

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0ok_o_zLCM?si=LxAvJeeO10DG7Yq8

Where is Simon Ekpa,Biafra's Prime Minister when you need him?

StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?

Never dump a loyal girlfriend for a cheat of old flame,you will leave to regret it.

A WOMAN...✍🏾
● changes her name
● changes her home
● leaves her family
● moves in with you
● builds a home with you
● gets pregnant for you
● pregnancy changes her body
● she gets fat
● almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pain
of child birth
● even the kids she delivers bear your name.

Till the day she dies... everything she does... cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefits you...sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies and beauty. So who is really doing whom a favour?

Dear men, let's appreciate the women in your lives always, because it is
not easy to be a woman.

A salute to ladies!

WOMAN MEANS :-
W ➖ WONDERFUL MOTHER
O ➖ OUTSTANDING FRIEND
M ➖ MARVELLOUS DAUGHTER
A ➖ ADORABLE SISTER
N ➖ NICEST GIFT TO MEN FROM GOD

Pass to every man to know the value of women & pass the same to every woman to feel proud!

Sonnobax15:

It is well bro...

Sometimes when I look at my dad,I only wonder how he managed to do it....As in,how he managed to take care of my brothers and I after the death of my mom despite being jobless..............There was never a time we went hungry...We were even privileged to attend one of the best private school in town...Tho there were challenges along the line but it really helped shaped us into being what and who we are becoming....



Op, it's never been easy...........But trust me, there's no wicked father anywhere who would fold his hands and watch his children lack when he has the ability to solve their problem....

May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏

There is nothing you can do about your father if your Mum couldnot do it.

naptu2:
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The truck driver and his employer should pay for the repairs.

Hayzed203:
I broke up with my girlfriend about 3months ago and I still struggle to convince myself that I did the right thing and I believe this is affecting me in the process of trying to move on and meeting new people. We both live abroad and you don't meet a lot of Nigerians easily around here.

She was very caring, admired me and always supportive but still I made a decision to end the relationship. Why ? It was based on some sort of things that happened when we started being together. We started as friends with benefits while in school though she was in a distance relationship at the time. We both agreed it was just sex and nothing more when we started and I was fine with it. However, we started acting like couple - sleeping over, going out together, doing everything exclusively, and all that despite not defining things officially.

She wasn't always happy when I'm on phone with any girl irrespective of whatever relationship I have with such girl and I just sort of started distancing myself from all other girls. On her side, I acted 'maturely' by not interfering during her phone calls and all. Things continued that way for some months till the pressure was just too much that we had no choice but to define things. At that point, I was hooked already - in that, I was saying in my mind that it was just friends with benefits but I couldn't even leave her and I also found it difficult to make a decision to commit to her forever due to some number of reasons:

1. She once asked me to give her MouthAction which I have never done before at that time. I told her I wasn't ready and her response was that If I don't do it, someone else will do it for her. She went on a dating site, hooked up with a guy for one a night stand and I was aware of this though shocked at such boldness. I couldn't complain because we were not dating officially though we were always together at this point.

2. Another time during our time together, I was on a night duty and she went to a party which I was aware of. I saw a guy with her and her female friend and she earlier told me the guy came with her friend. Unfortunately for her, her female friend left early without the guy. I added 2 + 2 together and fixed it that she had something with the guy that night. I subsequently saw their sex chat on her phone. She later confessed they had a one night stand only.

3. There was a guy disturbing her that I was aware of, she always told the guy off until one day she told me she was visiting the guy for the weekend. I was shocked because we were literally talking about building a genuine relationship the previous night confessing how we have come to like each other. She was love-bombing me throughout her stay with the guy and I knew they were probably having sex throughout the 3 days. She came back on the 3rd day and started acting all nice and all to me.

4. She has a bit of bad temper especially with others. She is not the most likeable person out there and she doesn't care and can say anything when she is angry. She can bullshit anyone and I was always wondering if she will do it to me too one day. She was an angel towards me but opposite towards others.

5. Unlike me, she was very experienced in Nigeria with series of sexual partners littered on her phone. I stumbled on her nudes being with different guys on her snapchat. Sex wasn't a big to her and that was a total turn off for me since I didn't live that kind of life.

I know this might not make sense to anyone reading as you may assume I have reasons to make an easy decision but trust me, it wasn't an easy decision for me as I was almost used to being with her which I have never had with any other woman. My mind kept tricking me saying maybe it is not totally her fault as I didn't commit her. Plus, I have never been with any woman that showered me with so much care in my life before this girl. I have met very decent girls that still showed me shege despite being ready to commit.

I have only seen things like that on movies and I would have said it was juju but it was not. I have never experienced that kind of 'love' before and I didn't even care if it was fake or real. I enjoyed it as we both went on dates, vacations abroad and all but I was scared to commit to her.

Eventually I had to make a decision on whether I should stay or leave her and that was I how started going back and forth. I didn't want to leave or stay. I had never been so confused in my life. It was as if I was getting the kind of love I have always wished for but I am not exactly settled with our circumstances. I wanted to forget but I just couldn't given that I knew these men and it doesn't appear she has sexual discipline as well. I felt so bad for her and myself.

Though we ended up dating officially for 2months, I struggled to let bygone be bygone as she had requested. Not that I am so concerned about it but I just hate the fact that if anything happens in the future, I can't say I didn't see the signs but she was still a good person to me.

It is been 3months since we parted ways and I still randomly wonder if I did the right thing. Should I have given her a chance to change and prove herself ? Could I have influenced her positively ? I guess I will never know.

Who has experienced this before and what are your thoughts please?

You are dealing with a female narcissist,you will regret it if you call her back and start a family with her.She is giving you the kind of sex you want and this is blinding your eyes to see the bigger picture.Read about narcissitic women.

https://liveboldandbloom.com/09/emotional-abuse/female-narcissist

Find a decent lady to date and marry in the future.

Kogi First Lady.

dopedan:
She is 3 weeks pregnant now, please wat drugs can she take to abort, shes 18yrs, also im not responsible for it, just wanna help out cuz shes emotional

She is not too young to have a baby.Let her tell her parents.

Love

McStoic:
So she being a female shares a flat with a male? No one is taking note of that..

In Western world,women share flats with men.Different room in the same apartment,shared kitchen,sitting room and toilet.

chiagozien:
But why are Uoruba men like this.

Ekanem na Yoruba man,read again.

PaulOtl:
You're absolutely correct, Sir.
But just find the lady or girl who you feel suites you. A behavior that you can sha cope with. No extremes.
Like the Whites say, " women are necessary evils for men "
We cannot live without one another.

Women are not necessary evil.Every human came from a pair of male and female.Man and female genes is embedded in our make up as humans.
Just look for a woman who suit your kind of lifestyle and mindset.