₦airaland Forum

Shiver99:
You are completely correct Op, and I have been meaning to begin a thread about this.

Colonists even noted the first Igbo children forced into early missionary schools found it difficult to adjust because of the physical brutality they passed as discipline then. Nigeria's culture of 'discipline' has been largely shaped by poverty, insecurity and decades of living in a callous or unempathetic culture.

But you have to be careful because there are many cultures in this country, particularly Islamic, that historically used these methods to discipline the child.

ivolt:
When you started your post, I thought maybe this one will be different.
But here you are displaying your inbred slavishness by bringing up Sweden.
You probably also believe that the white man teach you how to speak.

Corporal punishment is universal and natural among humans, that is why laws are needed
to combat it.
It has nothing to do with religion.

Now to the issue of Swedes, the Swedes of today are the product of yesterday.
At no time did the Swede sat down and say let us stop beating our kids so they can
be incorruptible.
Nope. Swedes beat kids when other Europeans did and stopped when their neighbours did.
It was even outlawed until 1979.
Are you saying the Swedes became "incorruptible" by then?
BTW, your perfect Sweden is the rape capital of Europe, yes, you
read that right. Maybe it due to lack of beating?

The vices and crimes in a society are a product of income and poverty.
Beating or lack of it is irrelevant.

You are confused about cause and effect.
You need to review whatever is giving you such a ludicrous idea.

Undyinglove:
Is Amh of 1.97 ok for a 29 years old

RenegadeX:
Better than Nigerian ladies

michael1508:
What's this one saying?
They should get married to an average Nigerian woman who ask for money before sex,who sees sex as a tool to exploit or you have a set of girls you are importing into Naija different from the girls we see around here?

Ireportlive:
Plausible deniability

You catch me with Olosho, I will claim I asked her out and want to marry her

Afonjanawerey:
That is why we are buying every piece of land in your region so that you can continue to big cows for Nto Oku and Aso-Ebi for big party,
when we are done with you guys una no go ever remain the same again.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
POVERTY IN AFRCA HAS MADE AFRICAN WOMAN OF TODAY SEE MEN AS SOLUTION TO ESCAPE THEIR POVERTY. THAT IS THE SADDEST REALITY OF TODAY,ESSPECiALLY IN MARRIAGES OF YOUTHS,THE MAN PAYS FOR EVERYTHING:HOUSE, FOOD, MEDS,BUYS CLOTHINGS FOR FAMILY,THE DAY HE IS BROKE,THE WOMAN WILL TOMENT HIM WITH MOCKERY AND INSULTS TILL HE REGAINS HIMSELF FINANCIALY.YET THEWOMAN CANT SPEND A PENNY WITHOUT ASKING FOR REFUND. Oyibo sees marriage as shared responsibility but Africa man(Nigerian man in particular) suffer alone Advice if you are a man in a young marriage make sure you hustle and pray well to remain financially up there,otherwise you will loss focus as the man in charge,especially if you were not born into riches.

lexylaw40:
This would have been the fate of all yorubas and their leaders if LP had won lagos and if Obi had won the presidential election

Adexgentle005:
The truth is that black can’t rule themselves,especially in a country like nigeria. Sometimes, I wonder why we fought for independence when we are not rip to be. It’s so crazy when you see politicians using religious and ethnic to divide us.

Look at South Africa for example, they are so well with the help of whites around them. Look at some of the tournaments around the world that some African countries don’t participate in but SA do.

White people should just come back and rule this country once again. It’s so obvious we can’t rule ourselves.

Some group of people just call themselves leaders to milk this country dry. I’m tired of hearing someone is arraigned for 100bn fraud. Another one is arraigned for 20bn fraud. It’s all audio arraignment that won’t see the light of the day. Giant of Africa my foot!

Fineman2:
She made a serious mistake by getting pregnant for another man

SAMUEL1947:
Women......fear that gender. A prostitute, I wish am not married. They are all same especially those kogi woman, am regretting mine

Raalsalghul:
Fool forever.

You Nigerian men/simps have been advised severally against investing in a woman (especially those with girlfriend titles) but as usual, your small-mindedness would tell that your case is different coupled with your inability to reason rationally after been flooded with emotions.

Remember you lamenting on how much you have spent on her and your investments as if you have nothing in your life which you could have used that money to improve: maybe even plan your own japa self. Now you have successfully built her for another man and coming here to cry wolf. Right now, she is loyal to how she feels and that does not include you in her future plans.

Gerrard59, can you see why I'm vehemently against investing in "Girlfriend" titles that's if there's any iota of truth in the story.

There's no gain in it whatsoever.

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Edoreborn:
A country that has enough to feed..

igbeke:
The biggest name in Nigeria politics today is PETER Okikiola Ilufemiloye, the son of OBI.
You think I'm lying, go ask Tinubu.

Eteka1:
50 hecters of land (beside major tarred road) for sale @ Idundu, outskirts of Calabar. Title: Registered Deed. Price: N150m. WhatsApp: 08180756637.

Gerrard59:
Why is that you people have this predeliction for ban, regulation, block etc? Huh? On TwitterNG, some say government should regulate house rents or food prices even when those policies have never worked elsewhere. So, I ask, where in the world do you know that the government arrested men for having sex? Desiring to have sex? Why should the government arrest a man because he has sexual urges (which is natural)?

Sirchiboy:
If a man comes to marry you now, how much are you willing to use and support him? Or you think it is the responsibility of a man alone to foot all the wedding bills?
Do you have one kobo to support him with or you're looking for who to borrow money from people just to impress you, your friends and your family members? You better calm down oh. Time dey go! Most men are no longer interested in ỌRỊAKU now. They want someone whose mindset is on multiplying the money the money they met before and after marriage. Except there are unseen forces fighting you or him. If not, you should be a blessing to each other and not office or money spender.

Depriest2020:
Don't say that, even south south can not sacrifice what the south east sacrificed for them. 2015 south east gave Good luck about 95% of vote. 2023 south south gave the Peter Obi about 60%.

What the south east is suffering politically today is as a result of giving Thier whole to Goodluck in 2015.

Gensanusi:
Good, is it msc maritime law?

Gensanusi:
I thought you study maritime related courses

Gensanusi:
Where do you study

Ofunaofu:
The south east have been asking for this Biafra

Is that not the reason Nnamdi Kanu is being locked up

Grant them Biafra let them go while you all remain in your indivisible one Nigeria

Sergio101:
Hmm...

I'm not partaking much in politics nowadays but....Need I ask a question.

Who are really the problems of Nigeria?

All fingers are pointing a culprit which in actual Sense ain't.

How the hell did MC Oluomo walk free and this man arrested in a similar unfoldings

Gensanusi:
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