₦airaland Forum

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Run for your life before she kills you.

Strafudeen:
What goes around comes around

Discriminate against people at home , karma comes right back at you

I thought Egypt was your brother Muslim country...so what's gwan?

They can't even open their doors for fellow Muslims, including the boy writing a thesis on fighting Christian growth in nigeria....you see una life?

God is sending you a warning, stop fighting Christians , stop discrimination against non Muslims.


I have said my own

Did Christian Poland open its borders for Nigerian Christians durung Russia-Ukraine war?
No country allows unregulated migration of fore8gners into their country exceot Nigeria.

Reminderz:
the thing is that the latter scenario is very rare... women rarely marry someone below them... a rich woman still wants someone richer unless she's old or no options... women are very selfish in nature, they don't care about you as a man, they always put themselves first, any decision she makes is for the betterment of herself and children... this is why the live longer than the man..

as a man, you should learn to put yourself first, else you'll die before your time trying to please others.

Dont blame women for men's decision to marry a woman because of man u and arsenal.Every female specie of any organism think of comfort first for rearing little ones.

Tinubu started the one day Governor for kids in Lagos State.Will he replicate the same gesture at the Presidency?

Which teaching/goid hospital offer ivf and at what rate in Osun/Lagos State?

mikaael:
Pls where can one get CoQ10 Ubiquinol tablets either online or physical

Jumia

ChizzyBuna:
Don't be fooled Op

She has already delivered her service

After she gave him puna to knack
He transferred 200k to her
She left his house

Due to network delay, she got alert the next day.
So she told you "a guy just sent her" 200k.
Na payment for services rendered.

Instead of you to divide the money
Collect 120k and give her 80k
Mumu go collect 30k
You just show her say you no get level..

Greedy boyfriend spotted.

lanjum:
Good day House. Please who has an idea how much hydrotubation cost and is there any alternative to blocked tubes apart from hydrotubation?
And also how can I boost my eggs.
Thank you

1.Micronised DHEA 25mg 100 tablets.
2.Vitamin E 400IU 100 tablets.
3.CoQ10 Ubiquinol 600mg 100 tablets

Read about it starts with the eggby Rebecca Fett

Which pharmacy can i get these in Lagos?

1.Micronised DHEA 25mg 100 tablets.
2.Vitamin E 400IU 100 tablets.
3.CoQ10 Ubiquinol 600mg 100 tablets.

Lesgupnigeria:
Yes, we can discuss on +2349031147593

Please i need advise on my plantain and pineaple farm.Are you on whatsapp so i can show you the farm one of these days?
Thanks

Obi can change his tribe to Tiv,Hausa or Efik.

Hmm.Yoruba jobs for Yoruba children.

HITsquad:
Lol we don carry our own tradition here go dey spoil their way of life.

I have been with several other African girls, one thing they all have in common is selflessness and they are easily satisfied. They don't try to turn you into her entire family's financial source like most Nigerian women. As in they care more about you as a person and less about your pocket!

That's exactly how it should be...

So Mek Nigerians no go spoil that beautiful lifestyle for south Africans. We are already used to impressing girls with money in this country that we no longer know their are other means to impress a girl smh...

Some go say why I carry this matter for head, bro! One of The worst feelings in this life is not knowing who's for real with you and who is coming because of what they need from you.

Nigerian men groomed Nigerian women to love money.Naturally the female species cherishes comfort to cater for her young ones so she will akways choose the one who can afford more comfort for her unless she is madly in love.

piyoo91:
the Man that predicted doom for Tinubu. why hasn't any of his prophesy regarding this election come to pass

Tinubu Alfas do back to sender to him.

Preacherrr:
YOU ARE MORE STUPID THAN YOUR PAY MASTERS. YOU THINK YOU CAN COVER TRUTH FOREVER. YOU THINK YOU CAN STOP TRUE PROPHETS OF GOD FROM SPEAKING AGAINST EVIL GOVERNMENT. THE SAME GOD THAT GAVE BISHOP FEYI THE WORD OF PROPHECY WILL DELIVER HIM.

When did God start speaking to Nigerians?

GeorgeForeman:
It was a mistake marrying at that time.I didn't have foresight.Let me just focus on getting better.It has been wearing me down but it will not break me.i will keep managing myself while doing the apprenticeship.

It is never a mistake marrying young.You and your wife only need to dubble hustling so you both can take care of your child.
Marriage is a partnership not a slave house for the man.

GeorgeForeman:
I had to create a new account specifically for this post.

Today makes it 7 months my left with my kid.

I married my wife in feb 2021 in a low key ceremony.I have known my wife for years before get married to her as we lived in same compound.She is from Imo and I am from Enugu state.She is 23 and i am 26

We have a daughter together.Trouble began about 7 months after my daughter was born,my wife always complained i dont give her enough money for upkeep.I work as a security guard for a company earning 75k monthly.Out of that 75k,I remit 40k to her monthly for upkeep.She is a school teacher but i don't really know how much she earns.

Given the situation of things in the country,I know she may be right when she says the money i give her isn't enough but i am genuinely trying my best.it hasn't been easy.

Asides from her nagging about upkeep money,my wife is a good woman.She cooks and takes good care of our daughter.

Things got worse when the company i was working for folded up.I think the owner got involved in some shady deals and the company building and assests were confiscated.I was without a job for some time and we were surviving on my savings and and some menial jobs i was getting.

Times were hard.I opened up to my wife that i want to learn cctv And solar panel installation.I viewed this as a good skill to learn and have.I enrolled and i am an apprentice now learning alongside some other boys.

My wife couldn't bear any longer and she left with our kid without informing me.I have called her mom to beg.She said she will talk to her.I don't even know where she is though i heard she stays with her aunty.

I have begged her to return home to no avail.The issue is affecting me emotionally and mentally.I mean i'm already having a hard time trying to learn this skill,why should my wife add to it?

I really need the encouragement and warmth of my wife especially now i haven't been feeling fine for some time

Look for another woman who would build with you from the scratch.Your wife is selfish and doesnt love you one bit.Marriage is all about uplifting each other.

If your wife should meet obodo oyinbo bloke,she will dump you without battling an eyelid.

I think your wife once reported you on Nairaland about coming home with a special needs child from another woman.She left your home for her brother's house in Abuja b4 relocating to the village to do hairdressing work.

virginprincess:
I can see that china men are gradually taking over from nigeria men .

There is scarcity of women in China.They have import brides from Vietnam or kidnapped married women.

Eniitankorede:
Why would he have one? That’s the question you must ask yourself? Does he have business or family in Guinea? Is Guinea a wealthy developed country that can benefit Tinubu in any way?

What is wrong in having Guinea passport or not?
No law forbid a political office holder in Nigeria from having a dual Nationality.
Orji Uzor,Ahmed Lawan and many office holders in Nigeria own foreign passports.

Adakintroy:
This whole see a graduate who does this..blah blah. Just reek of entitlement. You a graduate so what?. you better pass people weh De do am. Is like farming are for peasants and low life

If you are really intelligent you for don invent something..not be looking for someone to invent while you work for him. Humble yourself. Nothing special about graduate. Nothing

True as if graduate dont need food.

FalseProphet1:
I see Bobrisky getting pregnant before the end of this year.

This I have seen.

Pregnant for you as your wife.

Obinoscopy:
If I were Tinubu, I would zone Senate Presidency to the North West. And my reason is very simple: If the Supreme Courts nullifies the election and demands a fresh presidential election be conducted, both Tinubu and Shettima will no longer be in power and the Senate President will become the Acting President. This means the Senate President will supervise the conduct of the fresh election.

The North West and the North East seem to be more loyal to Tinubu. That explain why there are fewer Obidient elements in those region. However in the South South and the South East, there is a preponderance of Obidient elements. This means that it is likely that there will be some people in Akpabio's inner cabinet that are Obidient. Same goes for Orji Uzor Kalu's inner cabinet. Thus if I were Tinubu, I would be very careful on who becomes Senate President because that person can become acting president with some influence should there be a need for fresh elections. He would need someone who is very loyal and whose inner cabinet is also very loyal.

This is my humble opinioin

Full effect of mkpurumiri on display.

The Governing Board of the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA) has approved the appointment of Mrs. Olubusola Obasanjo-Akande and Mr Christopher Amakulo as Directors.

The Board also approved the promotion of 22 Assistant Directors to Deputy Directors, 86 Chiefs to Assistant Directors and 400 other staff to their next grade levels. The Governing Board of the Agency ratified the promotion during a meeting held in Lagos.

The Director General of the Agency, Dr. Bashir Jamoh, while congratulating the staff noted the Board’s determination to boost the morale of staff by ensuring promotion exercise takes place, as and when due, and charged them to see it as a call to higher performance.

“I am glad that the Agency’s Governing Board has kept faith with the promise to boost staff morale through annual promotion exercises, which is aimed at ensuring staff remain committed to the ideals of the Agency, while helping Management actualise its mandate. I therefore use this opportunity to congratulate the promoted staff, and see the gesture as a motivation to improve performance on the higher task,” Jamoh stated.

The promotion exercise is the fourth under the Dr. Jamoh led management since he assumed office in March 2020.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/oasismagazine.com.ng/2023/04/obasanjos-daughter-appointed-as-nimasa-director/amp/

plaindealer:
Even though the world population right now is only 8 billion.

Obviously, 8 billion people all over the world no get better tin to do but to lament over some rubbish scribbles by some biafra woman..

Una no dey rate una self I swear..

Na IPOB dead ancestors dey read am.

Megabig:
Is something wrong with this our generation because I saw how my parents had a great marriage just like most of their friends.


I think relationships are not meant for some people and we have to all understand that it’s ok to be single for the rest of your lives.
Why put so much pressure to get hooked with someone when you know your mind is probably somewhere else, is it desperation, greed or the insatiable nature of the human life?

So I dropped my ex at the Chinese cuisine (yes I have to be specific because she will read this and should know I wrote it)she works at on Tuesday,this is usually our routine since she starts work at 8am and I start at 9am to end at 5pm,she gets home late at 9pm sometime depending on her shift.
On Wednesday,we drove as usual and on getting to her workplace, there were 3 police cars and yellow ribbons crossed over there with some people in front of it.This colleague of hers immediately seeing us trying to park there said “there is no need y’all,some 14 year old came to the store and shoot up the whole place around 5pm yesterday”.
I was shocked because she should be at work too and how come she’s not aware of what we both are seeing and she tried shutting the lady up and I then further asked the lady why she also showed up since it happen yesterday and she ought to have known,she said because she’s scheduled to work today just like my babe and she was just looking at my ex,you know when you look at someone like “ hope everything is ok”?

My ex didn’t exit the car and I had to ask her where she was the previous day because I dropped her there at work,she started stammering that she went to see her lawyer,I then had to ask,so after seeing your lawyer at 5pm(which is obviously a lie because corporate mostly close at 5pm),you didn’t return to work because you ought to have known that someone was killed at your job, she then said she went home, then how did I get home before her because I close at 5pm and gets home before 6pm, I didn’t want her to keep blabbing,I immediately called her lawyers office and guess what guys?Her next appointment is June 12(Again,I wrote this so she can see it’s me).
I immediately started recording a video with my camera faced down and repeated every question and she answered just in case she goes to court and I’ll nail the devil.
I sha took my key from the evil,cashapped her money to take a train to her brothers place.Till today she never reach her bros place because he called and said she’s not picking and she is constantly texting.

This is a girl that got to America two years ago(I didn’t bring her)and just doing menial job for now while she work on getting her documents and also,she’s not paying rent(In todays America),I was even planning on doing something serious before the year runs out because normally,she seem homely, peaceful and seem quite calm unlike most party-prone babes we have around(E be like na this one’s worst).

What shocked me most was that I didn’t even get angry, I was just disappointed that I wasted my time but it didn’t seem like I lost something(why is that?).

Another trust shattered… smh

I think you jumped into conclusions,she was never caught red handed with another man.She could be afraid of opening up somethings to you for fear of being dumped.There is no guarantee sge went to a man's place unless you caught her in the act.She could be at a friend's place.
Communication is the key.

bentenny:
Okay since you are desperate to let them go back to their village, why not compel the senate and house of rep where APC is in the majority to pass the TRUE FEDERALISM bill into law which gives each state the full autonomy to run their resources and other entitlements that were exclusively for the national!
Once there is true federalism,everybody esp the non-indigenes will leave your state!
Its that simple!

We will revert back to regional government not state autonomy.