Righteousness2:
There is no polite way to reject satanic advances except you are not serious.

The more you are being polite or negotiating with devil or his agent, the greater the chance of you falling.

Be bold , courageous and unapologetical to say I cannot do it and I won't do it

You don’t negotiate with evil, just like terrorists and janjaweedds... You don't negotiate with them... Just defend yourself either by attacking or by defending with all your power and might.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

If the institution is in Lagos. Let's talk privately!

When we have twitter , let her gather enough evidence , everywhere go stew my broda .

Him third leg go carry am go where he no no.

Redoil:
and do what with the rcording
See migeria is a jungle where Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she tell the lecturer no and no should be no then dam the consequece by not graduating for ever

She can threaten him with the record if he tries to fail her or play funny.. he knows he won't go free in this age of internet .. set a trap for him I beg.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Make she go hospital to run fake hiv result and she can use it as an excuse why she have been avoiding the man cos she don’t know how to tell him, remember to back date the report with at least one year and she can even pay to get hiv drugs and wait for the man response

Charly68:
She can threaten him with the record if he tries to fail her or play funny.. he knows he won't go free in this age of internet .. set a trap for him I beg.

Those lecturers are smart, the so call man won’t fail her but other lecturers who are friends will…

It happens before so it’s a long way job

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

She should set the lecturer up, look for friends that can help out, then deal with the idiot man.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

If the case is withing North-West Including Abuja quote me

pansophist:
Make it go viral.

Sacrifice him in the alter of social media judges. Then in an attempt for the school to rescue their image, will have to deal with him to satisfy the public.

Tell your sister to get evidence of his advances that can not be misinterpreted, then warn him that if he continues, she will have to report him. Naturally, he would be shocked, because in his eyes, your sister is at his mercy.

If he proceeds to fail your sister because she refuse to sleep with him, then your sister should just release everything online. This is a huge step and a point of no return, but only do this when he has actually made your sister a victim, by failing her.

Then it becomes tit-for-tat. Your sister will be at peace with her conscience because she has warned him, and instead of him to back off, he went ahead and punish her by failing her. Even deep in his heart, he won't blame your sister because he would do the same if the case is reverse.

You have to know that in every interaction with people/power/authority, you always have a key part to play. And play your part well. You'll be surprised that it's not only your sister that is under his pressure, but many girls as well. Its a noble cause to make him face justice and rescue other of his victims.

And you Mr man, you have a key part to play with this. You can guard your sister through this, and after gathering evidence, go to the campus and warn him to leave your sister alone. Tell him point and blank that you'll deal with him if he ever fail your sister because she refuse to sleep with him.

Then if he go ahead and do nonsense, then keep to your words. Deal with him. Send strong evidence, especially video clips to instablog naija. Be a man and a force for injustice. Being a lecturer doesn't make him immune to justice and civil conduct.

Thank you, sir!

That was how one warlord lecturer was threatening my kid sis back then. For school when we hold lol... Na him men I use warn am for occasion, some dreaded warlord boys wey be trigger lovers but them believe my way even when we no dey same levels. I just told him after that if my sister should have any problem academically he would be the first message for war. After then stupid man give her chance. My sister no know till date how it happened cos the buffoon was seriously on her case

Lovelyn451:
When she go dey show herself, they don notice am now she dey complain....tchew

During our time that's how they'll be causing distractions in class, lecturer never talk anything, excuse me sir, yen yen yen, talking rubbish,... while the girl with highest G.p no dey even talk pim, if not for her grade nobody will even know her, but those otondos will be showing theirself upandan...

You are so wrong.
She is one of the brightest in the class.

What the heck do you mean by it seems he's upset about the whole situation? Is it not her who should be upset? 😠. Involve the school authorities or police, will you?! What is this nonsense?!

Nobleou:
Bro ur last paragraph gat me confused...

Is the person a SHE or HE?

MODIFIED:
I sensed a fabricated Story...

I might have to translate it into your native language because you seem to be the only one confused.

achimendy:




She should set the lecturer up, look for friends that can help out, then deal with the idiot man.

Thank you

1Sharon:
Do randy lecturers pester girls that know their onions academically?

Yes!

Ola4lead:



Those lecturers are smart, the so call man won’t fail her but other lecturers who are friends will…

It happens before so it’s a long way job

True! She mentioned this!

And they will be crying for upgrade of salaries and allowances, and expect the general public whose children they oppress and exploit to sympathize with them.

Useless people!!!

a lecture wants to useless ur sister and you are looking for polite way to turn him down?

are u okay?

It's too late. Cos it seems you've been subtly promising to see him instead of giving him emotional excuses that will make him to pity you.

You have to rudely refuse and threaten him at this point and get video or audio evidence. Just now if you post lecturer on social media, the school will be running helter skelter.

Before now, I would have advised her to be very serous with her studies and wise as a serpent around the so called lecturer. When the advances started, she will place him as a father figure. Tell him you're his daughter and looking up to him. If he's relentless, she should also be relentless in giving him emotional excuses. You're taking care of your mother, someone is sick that she staking care of. Church activities. And don't be playing or laughing too much around him. Miss and don't return his calls. Do all his assignments promptly and attend clases. Never visit him at the office alone or spend too much time there. You can offer him alternatives like buy fruit juice and expensive cookies for him to give to his kids. His heart will begin to mellow. Just find a way to escape... Always escape!
It's better you graduate as 'my runaway girlfriend or wife' than for a lecturer to collect his share from you. You won't make good grades still.

Edoziesmart:

Are you referring to professor Mbajiogu of civil engineering department, ESUT that year?

Because that's same thing they did to the man that brought to his downfall till date.

No it was a lecturer in ABU faculty of Law , that year.

Good to know similar stuff happened elsewhere.

TheGift:


No it was a lecturer in ABU faculty of Law , that year.

Good to know similar stuff happened elsewhere.

It happen in almost all the government tertiary institutions in Nigeria.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

With due respect, I think your sister is not academically sound. That is why she is worried.
She probably gave the lecturer initial green light and gained some academic favours in return. Now she does not know how to vomit what she has swallowed.

Simple advice.......most lecturers, no matter how randy they are, will never fail a student who truly deserve to pass. Especially the senior lecturers and the professors. No professor will want to be faulted If an answer script must be re-marked.
Such situation can potentially damage their credibility and call their learning to question so they avoid it like a plague.


Let her just read her books very very very well.....then read it yet again. Let her do all assignments, buy all the required textbooks and generally leave no stone unturned. If she passes, the lecturer has no choice but to pass her.

Advice her to steer clear of anyone she has no intention of dating.... especially lecturers. She shud not act in a way that suggests she wants to be friendly, she shud NEVER ask for favours, she shud just keep away and mind her business in future.

By the way, I am a lecturer, so I think I understand my colleagues.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

She should report to her school Senate without hesitation

He should be reported to the authorities

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Let her tell the lecturer her parents want to see him as regards to introduction and bride price before anything happens.

She should let the elders know and ezemo will escort her to his family house for the proposed sex which must take place immediately while ezemo watches , the gods are wise , the gods will preside

I am open for setting up.

We can set the shameless lecturer up and possibly get some money for egusi soup and semo 😎

iHateFraudsters:
How my sister did it?

She turned a love-vendor for the lecturers.

She told the lecturers that she was a lesbian, but she can produce girls for them anytime they wanted.

And this worked perfectly.

Share the story comrade. And which university does your sister attend?

Mikel99:
Share the story comrade. And which university does your sister attend?

Very long story my brother.

She went to FUTO

I faced this challenge during my Nd days, lagos poly it can be very mentally draining , do all possible means to deal with dat evil lecturer , after we graduated i was telling a friend who was a cult guy , he said i should had inform him they could had just visit him in his office to back off me but the regrets were still.. with me till date , so use all possible means to scare him away from even him attempting it on any other female student , if na cult way fine , if its to record him and backstab him do that , n if na to set him up at a hotel all join na ni , i cant even imagine a full grown up man with kids at home wanting to sleep with young ladies all because they are just ordinary lecturers or professors , my advice to you as an ex victim , deal with him badly if you go easy on him he is not going to stop on her , dat is d bad eggs , we are here to face in the nigerian system , such lecturers needs to be dealt with mercilessly no mercy my dear

Redoil:
Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she is engage and everything will end

So you think.

In fact, that's when he will put more pressure on her, on assumption that she's already sexually exposed.

The best thing is to be ready to face the consequences of your righteousness and give thanks to God. He will deliver her from the mouth of the lion. She should also be sure she's not in any way causing it too. When they see the kind of friends you move with, how you dress, how different guys hug you incessantly in school etc, they sometimes also bring that nonsense. Though, I still don't exonerate them from making such foolish advance without any sexually provocative lifestyle of ladies. Some are sex addicts! God will expose him one day. Just one day!

At present, I have been able to save two girls from their claws here in my school.

Temi2468:


So you think.

In fact, that's when he will put more pressure on her, on assumption that she's already sexually exposed.

The best thing is to be ready to face the consequences of your righteousness and give thanks to God. He will deliver her from the mouth of the lion. S[b]he should also be sure she's not in any way causing it too. When they see the kind of friends you move with, how you dress, how different guys hug you incessantly in school etc, [/b][i][/i]they sometimes also bring that nonsense. Though, I still don't exonerate them from making such foolish advance without any sexually provocative lifestyle of ladies. Some are sex addicts! God will expose him one day. Just one day!

At present, I have been able to save two girls from their claws here in my school.

you nail it right