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RomanceRe: I Just Discovered This Problem my Fiancee has been hiding (Pics) by CokeBar(f): 2:50pm On May 25, 2020
Oluromantic:
You shd learn to tolerate others more at this stage. It's necessary than expecting to find a man to tolerate you
Lol!

It is either you're acting like you don't get it or you don't just want to get it.

Who is talking about tolerating or not tolerating something?!

Nigga created a thread to whine about his gf's inability, it shows that it is a bother to OP. I donot care how flimsy the 'bother' is.

If you donot like someone snoring next to you then you should not sleep with someone that snores. If you can tolerate it then you shouldn't create a thread about that person and the snoring habit.

People like you would make people jump into marriages with a lot of maybes just to prove a point that 'things are negotiable'.
RomanceRe: I Just Discovered This Problem my Fiancee has been hiding (Pics) by CokeBar(f): 2:28pm On May 25, 2020
Oluromantic:
This is a proper marriage-ready suggestion. Keep up the optimism and belief in your spouse. It's good.
You have a long way to go. If you keep this reasoning habit till marriage, you will be faced with a required level of patience you're not prepared for
Honestly you're just typing English!

If he considers it a priority and she is unable to deliver, he should break up with her...

There are no two ways about it.

No one said his "wants" are reasonable but if that is what he wants then he should go for it.
RomanceRe: I Just Discovered This Problem my Fiancee has been hiding (Pics) by CokeBar(f): 1:49pm On May 25, 2020
If it's a deal breaker for you, then break up with her.
CrimeRe: Please, How Do I Go About This Matter? by CokeBar(f): 1:47pm On May 25, 2020
What exactly is the question?
TravelRe: With 16500 Security Agents Will Allow You Travel From Lagos To Abuja Despite Ban by CokeBar(f): 12:35pm On May 25, 2020
Righteousness89:
If you don't have something that cannot wait don't Travel!

My kid Brother had an Experience few weeks ago..

Infact He had a dream few days before the Journey where he was caught with some people and only him was allowed to go free..

It happened exactly like dt! After over 24 hrs on the Road, all the passengers and driver where arrested and taken to court with the Exception of My bro Miraculously!

If your Journey is not Extremely Essential don't go!

Triple negatives, how does that make you feel?
AutosRe: How Much Should I Pay Someone To Drive My Car From Lagos To Abuja? by CokeBar(f): 10:31am On May 25, 2020
ableguy:
Where to where?
I can run it?
grin
Lagos to Abuja
AutosRe: How Much Should I Pay Someone To Drive My Car From Lagos To Abuja? by CokeBar(f): 10:15am On May 25, 2020
I actually need someone for this exact reason.

But you have to be trustworthy.

Quote me if you can
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong For Breaking Up With Him? by CokeBar(f): 6:03pm On May 21, 2020
You're his BUDDY... azin you're his G!

Lol, what's now the good quality in him?

ComputersRe: Hp 8460p Elitebook Core I7 500gb 4gb Ram 70k by CokeBar(f): 5:50pm On May 21, 2020
Techjoe:
the one of 500gb 8gb ram is available, but the price is 80k
Picture?
ComputersRe: Hp 8460p Elitebook Core I7 500gb 4gb Ram 70k by CokeBar(f): 5:21pm On May 21, 2020
Nicee... I need 8gb though
CareerRe: Have You Ever Been FIRED At Work? Share Your Experience! by CokeBar(op): 2:56pm On May 21, 2020
tot:
Welcome.
Thanks I am! Hope you are too.
Yes, yes, I am... thanks for asking.
CareerRe: Have You Ever Been FIRED At Work? Share Your Experience! by CokeBar(op): 1:52pm On May 21, 2020
tot:
This thread has lots of really helpful comments and experiences to learn from. Glad you created it!
Awwn, thank you for the compliment.

I trust you're staying safe!
CareerRe: Have You Ever Been FIRED At Work? Share Your Experience! by CokeBar(op): 6:27am On May 21, 2020
Joshua62:
First time posting on nairaland,

Let me share my experience

Am a freelancer specialized in Graphic design (Brand identity design and visual communication). Have worked remotely for different establishment via upwork although i have a full time paying job presently before the COVID-19 issue.

Around last month, i applied for a remote position as a graphic designer for a company in Germany via upwork, luckily i was shortlisted for interview(video via zoom)....After 2 weeks it was my turn to be interviewed, i was sent some messages as regards the time for the interview...to cut the long story short, i got the job....the offer was not bad....$10/hr to work 40hrs/week. There after on-boarding was done for all remote workers that was employed via zoom.

On a faithful day i got a mail that there would be a meeting with the CEO of the company, which was going to be our first time meeting with him via zoom and duration was 30mins....The meeting was scheduled for 10:00am, i got prepared and suddenly i was welcomed by a frustrating network (etisalat), God...it was so frustrating....i tried all i could cause it was the only option i had at that moment....but to no avail...i finally got a stable network at 10:25 or so......Having worked with white's remotely, i know how they operate, i knew this job offer might be terminated...I sent a mail immediately after the meeting that i had network glitch (mind you this isn't my first zoom meeting).

Some few days later, the CEO sent a message to me and terminated the contract. I was speechless but mehn i learnt my lesson...... sad

But God so good, i got some other jobs but will still keep pressing on!

-- I read the thread and saw some people doubting a N750k remote job------This is what i have got to say below

IT IS REAL......

- Learn a skill preferably in IT, be very good at it........you will get good remote jobs with mouth watery offer and crazy benefits.
- I have friends that earn $2500 comfortably every month working remotely.

Gracias!
Woah! Such a sad story...

When working remotely, it is always advisable to have a backup, maybe 2 backups.

Good thing you've gotten something else
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by CokeBar(f): 6:01pm On May 19, 2020
rockstarB:
It says it has been delivered to the address
Is it only the reference number that is needed for the EE? I was thinking I need to get the one in school and maybe scan it for EE.
Download the PDF version
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by CokeBar(f): 5:31pm On May 19, 2020
rockstarB:
My report is ready. Pls was yours sent back to your school only? I was expecting one at the post office cos I filled in the details. School is in strike now, theres no way I can get it
On my profile, it shows that it will be delivered at my stated address. For EE, I think we would be using the PDF version.

Why are you bothered?
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by CokeBar(f): 11:58am On May 18, 2020
michaelf284:
Goodmorning all,

I trust everyone is doing just fine and safe.

Please I'd like some clarification on the issue below:
I've been stuck at WES verification since February, after several back and forth, the school decided to respond last week.
I expected WES to update my status with a completion timeline, however, my status simply changed from awaiting verification to "we are processing a new package or document for your application".
Is this normal? Should I reach out to WES? Especially since I already lost valuable time on the verification stage.
Thanks in anticipation for your candid responses....cheers
No need to reach out to them...

That is the expected status... they'd provide a completion date soon.

After verification, my report was ready within 2 weeks.
BusinessRe: Timecrafts: Tracking Time, Improving Productivity And Reporting. by CokeBar(f): 8:09pm On May 14, 2020
techbros:
Thanks for signing up. I will contact you via the email you used to sign up if that's okay with you?
Sure! I have replied to your initial email.
BusinessRe: Timecrafts: Tracking Time, Improving Productivity And Reporting. by CokeBar(f): 7:45pm On May 14, 2020
techbros:
Sorry, I have corrected the URL: https://www.teracrafts.com... try again...
Okay, I have registered and I can see the UI looks just like WSPro...


Very smart one... there are lots of companies who'd be willing to install this.

You'd need to start writing proposals. Send an email so we can work together.
BusinessRe: Timecrafts: Tracking Time, Improving Productivity And Reporting. by CokeBar(f): 7:22pm On May 14, 2020
The website isn't reachable
CrimeRe: UNIPORT Student Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Murder Of 8-Year-Old Girl by CokeBar(f): 10:26am On May 14, 2020
NOC1:
I am in season 6 will finish it today.
Uhmm... Norsemen right?

I'm privy to just 2 seasons
RomanceRe: What May Causes Acens On The Face by CokeBar(f): 9:42am On May 14, 2020
Do you use your own clipper?
CrimeRe: UNIPORT Student Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Murder Of 8-Year-Old Girl by CokeBar(f): 9:37am On May 14, 2020
NOC1:
Will Odin accept their soul in Valhalla?

The judge must be a Viking, na them sabi all this ancestral punishments.

I thought Nigeria doesn’t execute like this again.
But such punishment is good for the crime.

Don’t envy some youths and their wealth, don’t cry much when some of them die Mysteriously.

I am not saying that some youths are not making legit money, many of us are but majority of our youths are on the highway in no distant time car will crush them.
Hahah, I just started watching the series...


Lol! I like how ignorant they are cheesy
RomanceRe: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by CokeBar(f): 9:44am On May 13, 2020
dom80:
I have taken hepatitis vaccine 4yr ago before I asked her out. The vaccine will last 10yr in my body. I intend to conduct HIV test for her but I'm planning to book an appointment with a therapist because I know she has so many weakness which I have seen (level of thinking, easily deceive, parental upbringing, level of exposure, I don't care attitude, etc) in her and may bring more problems if I marry her. I know her too well but she doesn't know herself and I'm trying to help her out so she wouldn't destroy her life. I have tried my best to let know her weakness but she doesn't see it as big deal. So, if she doesn't change her attitude after seeing a therapist, I will have to quit the relationship.
Thank you for trying
FamilyRe: Why Are SOME People Mannerless On Public Forum? by CokeBar(f): 9:10am On May 13, 2020
To answer your question... it is an abuse of social media and it's liberty! Basking on the anonymity. It is mostly a faceless and no-identity forum!
RomanceRe: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by CokeBar(f): 9:09am On May 13, 2020
Dew04:
Like Cokebar, I don't get that expression,
"...I know guys are polygamus by nature and guys cheat for pleasure, but a cheating girlfriend/fiancee/wife is unacceptable..."
First of all, I wouldn't accept a cheating boyfriend back. That's something I can never tolerate.
I'm not a hypocrite though. I get that the girl messed up, but you've been having affairs since you started dating her and you feel that you're a better person? Cause you're a man, it's understandable that you would place your libido over your long term relationship.
She came out because she was pregnant, you should do the same too. Why don't you confess your numerous sins then come back here to report her reaction. Want to know the bitter truth? The both of you deserve eachother. To me, she's even a better person. She realized she did wrong and tried to rectify it by telling you. She didn't have to. You rather choose to justify your actions with that silly excuse. Majority of women cheat for pleasure too.
Simply let the girl go.
Awww! Let me get you a cup of chilled soda cheesy
RomanceRe: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by CokeBar(f): 9:02am On May 13, 2020
dom80:
I'm not wasting her time. That's I gave her another chance because I love. Its not matter of how I invested in her but the pain of seeing the one I love cheat on me is unbearable. I did medical check up for her in order to see if she has any complication after she said she has terminated the pregnancy. I conducted HVS and Urinalysis test for her in order to see if she has any infections but she has no bacterial infection. I treated her for yeast infection and I'm the one that foot the medical bills.

I wish for her to be the mother of my children but I don't want to get her pregnant immediately. I just want to watch her for some months to see of she has change or not and if she hasn't, I have no option but to end up the relationship.
Great response! Kudos...

I hope she'd be the person you want her to be. smiley

Meanwhile check for HIV and hepatitis.
RomanceRe: Can You Give A Cheating Girlfriend A Second Chance When You Are In LUV Wit Her? by CokeBar(f): 7:56am On May 13, 2020
Lmao at your last statement

"I know guys are polygamous in nature and guys cheat for pleasure but a cheating girlfriend/fiancée/wife is unacceptable especially when you have the intention to marry her."


Help me understand, if it is unacceptable, why exactly are you taking her back?

Please don't waste that lady's time if you made up with her because you feel you've invested so much money and time or you're scared of being lonely.

If you're creating a thread about it, it obviously means you're not over it. End the relationship and let her heal from the pain of a broken relationship she caused.

In fact, since she came plain to you, you should also tell her you've cheated.

I don't understand how people even cheat without protection sef... that should be the bone of contention here!

Unku, take her for medical check-up before your next 'fornication' appointment. Condom dey burst smiley
PoliticsRe: Niger State Government Further Extends Lockdown Order By Two Weeks by CokeBar(f): 7:09am On May 13, 2020
Thank God ChiefPress of Niger state is on Nairaland.

Can you tell us the LGAs with suspected and confirmed cases?
RomanceRe: Will He Loose Her For Telling The Truth? by CokeBar(f): 5:41pm On May 12, 2020
2dice01:
Well that's good
Am also an addict before i repent cheesy

Now i do Operation take Carbonated drink once a week
But not Coke or Pepsi
Great stuff!
RomanceRe: Will He Loose Her For Telling The Truth? by CokeBar(f): 4:40pm On May 12, 2020
2dice01:
Lol ..its been more than 5years i drank Coke

I can smell you got Packs in your freezer
Lol, I used to like it alot but I stopped... wanted to reduce sugar intake...

Been over a month I drank any soft drink.
RomanceRe: Will He Loose Her For Telling The Truth? by CokeBar(f): 12:47pm On May 12, 2020
2dice01:
Bar man give her a Bottle of Coke cheesy
Yasss!

I'd need that!
RomanceRe: Will He Loose Her For Telling The Truth? by CokeBar(f): 10:59am On May 12, 2020
1. She liked him enough to want to be in a relationship with him, he said the truth, she's sad that her wish might not come to pass. Which is normal

2. She's pretending to be sad so that your friend can press on and they'll start 'adultery'. Then later on, she will say "but I told you I didn't want to continue with the relationship when you told me you was married". Mind games

3. I don't understand why a married man would be bothered about losing a girl except he also has his own interests. Later on, he will say village people. This Egungun is on a bicycle heading to the express.

Any how, they both know what they want... this is just the story they have decided to play... 100% sure that they'll still do the do and blame it on the devil.

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