₦airaland Forum

Curlyzik:
You talk sense there it's all pointing at the man

WizBLANCE:
Really? And you have to mention goodluck since he is the only one using the drainage channel, You said it is public why mention him? You don't have to paint the dark man black... Don't ask me how cos the topic is so pointing at him.

Godmother:
@ Coldfeet and Pretimum

Thanks mamas for replying and I get your point, but what happens if the in-laws are difficult to get along with. Won't she be setting herself up for future problems?

Something similar happened to my mom's tenant, although with a slightly different scanaria. The guy brought his wife to be and we all liked her and got along with her. She used to come daily and soon we began to see her every faults and mistakes. My family didn't say a word as we felt it was not our problem, but the guy's sister who was living with him didn't have that reservation and soon it became difficult between them.

Godmother:
Wise mamas in the house, I would appreciate your input in a matter. My childhood friend called me yesterday with an issue. She and her dh are having accommodation problems and the hubby had to relocate back to his parents house while she moved in with her elder sister whose husband is away. Her hubby's hubby is about coming back and her sister has been politely telling her she needs to move.

She told her hubby and he asked her to move in with him; in his parents house. She's against the idea and in a way I support her cos I know how some Nigerians treat daughter-in-laws. She suggested moving in with me temporarily, but I had to tell her my dh won't agree. Now she's down and confused and she has to give her hubby the final reply tomorrow about moving in with her inlaws.

Mamas, how do you all see living with your inlaws? Personally, I don't support it but would love to know what others think.

cc

Other sabi mamas

ayoi:
I don't mind bt please I prefer the non alcoholic one

ayoi:
Hello. I'm just an Observer.The LMP is actually the first day of the last menstrual period not the last day.

lululuv:
Thanks mama. Am most grateful. Hubby is insisting I go for scan is that necessary now. @coldf.eet which folic acid should i get,God knows taking tabs is a big problem for me don't know how to cope. I already downloaded the app but 11weeks from my own counting is over the board, all the same God is our strenght.

Chanbaby:
Pls mothers did anyone experience this or is experiencing this my lo has been moving and kicking continuously for over 48hrs now. If he takes a break it's just for 5 or 10mins. Hope all is well? I'm 32wks now. Hope it doesn't have to do with what I eat or drink? It's makes me uncomfortable.

lululuv:
I have silently followed this post as a single, now married and expecting I have a question for my sabi mamas, I saw my last period on 2 Oct 2016 nd I
Met hubby on 15th Oct. Missed the next period. Now I want you to help me calculate how many weeks pregnant I am,so I can be able to know my due date. And other necessary things I should do at this stage. Note: am a FTM. Thanks

envynot:
i humbly disagree with you.
this place should be for scolding. that is why it is an anonymous forum.
i will rather have people scold me and judge me for my actions than
continue with the same action that i might live to regret one day.

if a mother or father is doing something that can harm that child,
such person should be scolded.

we complain that the country is bad
yet, we close our eyes to evil and try to gloss over the bitter truth.

i will not be surprised if there are bruises on the body of that 6 months old baby
as a result of all the smacking from the mother.
to smack a child that age to tears means it must be done directly on the skin.

the mother admitted smacking her everytime she feeds her
imagine if she is fed four times a day. that means she is smacked 4 times a day
multiply that by a week
and then multiply that a month.

yet people are castigating helovesme here and on whatsapp for calling her a bad mother?
will a good and God fearing mother do that to her own daughter?

baybeeboi:
[s]Dis girls sha, its time they need to take it easy, your complaints as well as support from the fans is big enough already.[/s]

hotmomma:
Thanks coldf.eet

hotmomma:
Happy sunday mamas, my ds poops hard poop and its been happening for some days now, he is exclusively breastfed and i drink water to the best of my ability, pls what can i do to soften the poop? He is 4weeks 5days

adebayo201:
I am completely lost now!

SirAweezy:
5years.... and still counting...

nicoleswizzi:
I friend of mine told me DAT already made baby bodysuits gets washed and slacks on time....DAT I should get ist grade okrika instead....and few already made ones....how true is this...ESP mamas that av had babies b4

SirAweezy:
What are you saying? Do you stay in Ajah atall? Go ask abeg Ajah is one of the safest place in lagos. I don't know about anything after Ajah. But I can tell you the main Ajah like ado-badore is violent free.

Opinionated:
There seems to be a recent trend of Lagos residents moving from the Lekki area of Lagos Island to the Ajah area and most people are wondering why this is the case. Yes, Lekki seems to be “prettier” than Ajah and it accommodates a certain kind of residents, but frankly, if you are based in Lekki because you want a better quality of life or you think it’s just a better area to inhabit, well, maybe we can make you reconsider. Jumia Travel shares 5 possible reasons Lagosians are now moving from Lekki to Ajah.


The rent in Ajah is not ridiculous

It is no secret that Lekki is a high brow area and so it accommodates some of the most expensive properties in the state. The rent is extremely high and unless you have a blue-collar job, you will be renting forever and struggling to make ends meet. Ajah, although not as cheap as areas on the mainland, offers various options way cheaper and affordable.


Cost of living is bearable

When it comes to cost of living on the island and peninsula area, Ajah is top because of the area’s relatively low cost of living, including consumer prices, utilities and transport costs and, most importantly, house rent. There is easy access to local markets, and people who live there have a better shot at getting some of the things associated with middle-class life.


Power supply

Lekki may seem fabulous, but they regularly battle with an inadequate power supply issue. Ajah on the other hand has better power supply and so, you are not forced to spend a lot of money on fuel or diesel for less electric bill.


Ajah residents are normal people

Unlike the people who reside in the Lekki area, the Ajah residents are unpretentious and down-to-earth and basically the people are easy to get along with. There is no silent competition among the residents as regards affluence or status. People live their lives normally basically.


Ajah is family-friendly

Because of its good-value housing, Ajah has been particularly popular with families. You have access to reasonable mortgage and pretty good schools. Also, restaurants are invariably family-friendly.

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/5-reasons-move-lekki-ajah/

LARRYDKING:
PhD is 5 years but if u fall into the wrong hand, ur supervisor can make it 15.

Jennifer89:
hello mamas how are you all doing

hmm a friend of mine visited me with her 3months old ds. she said she uses maggi to clean her ds tongue and also said she has been giving her teething medicine since she was a month old. she claimed that it will prevent her ds from teething 'wahala' when it eventually start.

mamas have you heard of the maggi stuff and isn't it dangerous to her baby?

FINA4804:
PLS MAMAS HELP ME, DO NOT PASS
My NANNY like eating ginger and garlic, it will be smelling all over her and she carries my baby, it is so bad. Pls what do I do.
And she is a woman, widow with three children, being around her is not funny, I can't even stand it.

niggi4life:
TO THE ADMIN WHO MOVED THIS TO THE FRONT PAGE, U HAVE JUST SUCCEEDED IN GIVING ME A SLEEPLESS NIGHT TODAY.
I SO MUCH BLAME MYSELF FOR OPENING THIS THREAD, ALREADY MY SKIN HAS GOOSE PIMPLES AND MY ONLY PRAYER IS THAT NIGHT SHOULDN'T COME

iomoge2:
Thanks much.
We took all today at kozito

Paid 9500 for PCV13 and 7500 for ROTA.
Then 450 for others.

They said thier pcv is different from health center pcv.
Sumtin about pcv 10 n 13.

thankz much.
We r home.