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Pinkpetals:
I'll pm you when I have time... It's hectic right now
Have a great day

tnks

FortuneTeller:
Speak for yourself. If my husband leaves for a year, I will get a "friend". I'm sure my husband will as well. It doesn't mean we don't love each other. It's just to satisfy a natural feeling. I don't know why the girl said anything. She should have remained quiet and told him she will be waiting when he returns.

u c ur life? God is seeing u

Pinkpetals:
Very good advice

Honestly I just got out of a relationship last year so I don't want to rush into anything now.

My only fear is I'll look back n realize I'm 30 n alone but I don't wanna rush

30 is just but a number or figure as the case maybe, nevertheless being lonely n alone at this stage isn't the best either. there are few suggestions will give to u but not for public consumption. if u welcome email let me know. remain focused. remember there is no hopeless situation, it might be the last key in the bunch that will open the door. I think ur good. be hopeful, thanks

Pinkpetals:
So what do you recommend I do?

ur case is just that ur afraid n tired because of past experiences n past failures.

Listen Success is not final, FAILURE is not FATAL, is the courage to continue that counts.

Take ur time n take stock of ur life. Conduct a critical assessment & indept analysis of wat u want & how best u can get it.

In addition, try to differentiate between wants & needs in relationship.
Having said that, relationship like marriage has no formula cos there is no two relationships that is the same world all over.

Do u no wat, life is like a race were all that matters is finishing & finishing well.

lovelygurl:
I don't have to be in support of most peoples' opinion. I have my own brain

but u have to especially wen it is the prevailing stance. more so u are created to procreate

Pinkpetals:
And I will wait for him

epic reply but am of the view that u shouldn't be lonely in the cos of waiting

lovelygurl:
Oh so because I'm not of your opinion I'm deceiving myself

not really but because ur not of larger opinion

Pinkpetals:
Not everyone is meant for you...

Also taking a break after my last relationship

Not everyone is meant for you! agreed but someone is sure meant for u

Pinkpetals:
I'm short of 4 months... I'll update you when reaching a year

why being lonely in a crowded world

lovelygurl:
Marriage is overrated abd not for everybody. I still haven't seen a reason to WHY I should get married

hey stop deceiving urself

Pinkpetals:
Honestly a year without sex is not that long... She should support your new opportunity and come up with ways to cope.

I think you should tell her that she is being unreasonable and this is showing holes in her loyalty.

You guys can still be intimate together... Through Skype , phone calls . Don't allow her to get a vibrator , it will only push her to want the real thing ( not a lesbian lol)

Will u allow her to atleast use her fingers ... A pillow or items in the house while you guys Skype? You also need to be accommodating

can u stay one year without bleeping

Why is tontolet doing shakara, after all ur mum is more pretty than her

modsfucker:
She's indirectly telling that during the course of your relationship/Marriage, should anything happen to you thag will render you unable to satisfy her sexual urge, she'll leave you.

My advice is, tell her point blank too that if that's her final decision then you two have to part ways.

but I so much love her n she madly loves me too. No quarrel since we started dating. In short she is an angel by my standard

Divay22:
It my pleasure to welcome you all to my birth month.....
Hmmmmm... I just hope certifiedfool will show up
On the 22 ....

HAPPY NEW MONTH to my family the [/color] PLURIMI [color=#770077]Heart you guys so much

Aderola15...Thanks baby girl for gating my back (sweetie, mini paddy )

McBrooklyn.. I no know if they use cry do you o, but i hope you go smile today

Twaci..He don tay way i see you o, hope you're good..miss you

Mayorski01...How far you.

Draei....your own na to breeze in and breeze out o,hand go touch you

Tosyne2much...the way you dey book space na,fear self they catch me o

Sleeknick....i wonder were he enter

Vivaciousvivi...Even this one too

Redbeans.....Hope you never kill yourself and your spirit run leave you

TheBossladyk...

Firstking01....make i just call you Broda

Ikp120....Aderola say you be husband material,abeg how many yards,he go reach me so upandan

Happy new month to you all
Happy birthday OP

happy birthday to u in arrears, wishing u God's grace in abundance dear. u no wat is better late than never. cheers

Fuckshiit:
..and yo friend might fúçk her when yöu fûçking aínt there

don't think he can do such wickedness. more so he is a correct Gee not a modafu*ka

Help I won't stay for one year without sex if you travel abroad

My fiancee cried out.


Hello my brothers and sisters, happy Sunday to you all.

Please, am seriously in dire need of an advice.

The company where i am working is about to send us for one year course outside the shores of Nigeria, but am having a problem with my fiancee who am about to get married to very soon.

Sincerely speaking she told me pointblank that she can not afford to stay alone without me for one year without sex.

Initially I thought this was suppose to be a celebration when i informed her about my travelling abroad but the reverse was the case.

However, a friend had suggested that i should introduce a vibrator to her but am not comfortable with that because of my hard stance on masturbation and the fear that it may lead her to lesbianism.

As it stands now, I dont know what to do because I love her so much and I dont want to loose her.

Be that as it may, this is a life time oppurtunity for me to attain the height of success in my chosen carer as a person if i travelled.


Please what do I do?
Matured advise needed, be nice am on a crossroad right now.

Thanks

While other countries export their prisoners to come & work in their oversea countries, we allow our prisoners to waste away. God come to our rescue

Happy birthday to u sir, may ur days be long

There is nothing new under the sun

Oyind17:
You are handsome

Smiles thanks. Will be my pleasure to see urs

Pidgin2:
Go to your church and tell your pastor also let your mom engage in lesson teaching or during her spare time she can sell cooked food

Do you have any siblings over 18? Child minding is a good occupations

As for you, if you like no go find children wey you go teach maths and English dey there dey disturb Nairalanders Sister u hash ooh

sister u hash ooh

Oyind17 abeg make una manage this one

JewelStone:
Lunch: rice, beans with peppered beaf stew.

di's looks edible. But doubt if u prepared it.

FortuneTeller:
We all need prayer, but no one is going to be a fool. I suggest if you are a chronic masturbator to stop now. It will ruin your life and possibly destroy your family. My sis is free and happy.

dear was the correlation between praying n masturbating? Is that wat led to ur in-laws present health status? Is DAT all u can c, if DAT is the case ur spiritually blind

Quinn22:
Why do you ladies always fall for their traps. e.g the op
you girls are supposed to waka pass the thread, ignore and leave the thread for them guys so that they feel foolish. Don't give them the attention or else you're stroking their ego the more. Deprive them of the attention they seek.

Good morning to you mademoiselle!...

sounding guilty as accused. Truth dey say is always bitter

Oyind17:
Me pm? Sorry I don't go private

kudos daz lovely. If ur real

FortuneTeller:
You are very late to this story. His money has been returned and my sister is free.

yet she still needs prayer in her future endeavors. Wait ooh tot u specializes in telling n reading the future. Wat went wrong that u couldn't see her predicament before misfortune befell on her

Oyind17:
Wey your pix?

hahaha pm things

lefulefu:
hehe make divay22 or oyind17 do the assesement of u two then .since dem both be babes na dem go know .

OK am watin

lefulefu:
8/10 na high mark ooo .more than try

he no fine reach me

amiibaby:
Hmmmm
Wasted resources why not channel it to ppl that need it most, like orphanages u had to give out to ppl that are already made

Carry on God d watch u

Mtcheew




Walks out of thread

thinking like a destitute. Have u not heard that more shall be added to him who have?

Divay22:
It was splendid and yours

gr8 thanks a million