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seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

you got your dream man in me

can we meet to finalized things

eyinjuege:
Go through the court process to get your kids, or at least have a shared custody arrangement

The courts will decide how to do that. Either they live with you while she pays you child support (good luck with that as she's jobless), and they go spend the holidays with their mother, or they live with their mother and you pay child support (for their living expenses, and always pay their school fees personally yourself and keep your receipts) while they spend the holidays with you.

And always call to speak to your children at least every other day.

Is it possible to seek a divorce case in a state different from where one got married

bejeiodus:
INEC has not been the same since Prof Jega left. He is really a tough act to follow. Many of the elections that have held since he left office have been trailed by controversies.

Prof Yakub and his team really need to get their act together. The general elections hold in three years' time and the crisis ridden elections so far conducted are an ominous sign of what could happen in 2019.

As regards Edo election, Pastor Ize-Iyamu should seek redress in court if he feels he was robbed of victory. If I were close to him, I would advise him not to waste scarce resources on a futile project. The courts these days are reluctant to rock the boat. That's why none of the 2015 governorship elections was upturned despite the abundance of evidence to do so.

I blame GEJ for what is happening now.

If he had implemented Justice Uwe's report, INEC would have been completely independent but he refuse because he was pushing a second term agenda

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

No ECA4 Forms at Goearg Idah Primary School. Ward2 Unit2

APC are currently sharing money with the aid of some Mobile policemen in Ovia S/W, Iguebazua ward, unit 2

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

Ikpoba-okha ward 6 unit 2 some names have bein omitted in the INEC register

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Esan Central Ward 1, People escorted the materials with motor bikes but were attacked by APC thugs

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Uhuwode ward 5 unit 2, Churchill no pdp agent, but other party agent are there

Orhiomwon, Ward 1, Oza, materials have been tampered with

Orhiomwon, Ward 1, Oza, materials have been tampered with

Orhiomwon, Ward 1, Oza, materials have been tampered with

Orhiomwon, Ward 1, Oza, materials have been tampered with