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Kalusam:
The Threadle Pump comes with a 25m 1' outlet hose, had to improvise by buying another 50m 3/4' hose, yet the pressure is still okay for my farm. The black object is the sprinkler(also included when you buy the Pump)...See picture

imam07:
so u totally believed all wht d OP posted here. Kai. U never know women. Heat d man side of d story b4 writing this. I know if u understand women. OBINRIN. U wld nit have said this. Women will never say they are at fault in anything. Nah u d husband needs wisdom or else u go die. The woman's parents too understand their daughter than d husband. That's is d reason they gave that decision. A very rude girl will learn her lesson in her husband house.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Seriously?

You're very delusional, I must confess. What do you mean by 'it makes a man feels you can't be controlled'? Is that how your husband controls you? Is she a child to be controlled?

Madam. If that's how you thrive in your household, hold on tightly to it. Don't come on a forum like this to show your ignorance. You're seriously ignorant. And this advice belongs to the trash can.

ngwababe:
As if there's work somewhere waiting for you. See as you dey nag, as if say, if him leave you now, you go just find work now now now.

My sister, sit down and chop your husband's money. Save from whatever he gives you( maka tomorrow).

But then, any man that thinks like this, him money no dey last and they always end up frustrating their wives.

Fountainofyouth:
So are you saying it is better for the wife to also be jobless when the husband loses his job? So it's better if they are both jobless and eating sand abi? Smh,

Even if the job can't sustain them for six months, What is wrong in her boasting of having her own money?

TonyeBarcanista:
Omo these feminists are useless

therajah:
Ahhhh......break marriage just like that!! O ti le to yen ni.. ??

Obason22:
Is only baby mama or club girl can offer such advice.

Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.

Forward77:
Take my advise.

Men are big babies and you know babies are possessive and stubborn.

You have to understand that he’s your husband and not just anyone else.

He said clearly that women who work are not submissive.
He’s right about that.

Don’t argue with him. Show him that you are not going to be rebellious.

Don’t nag at him Learn to negotiate with your husband. Treat him you will treat yourself, because you won’t nag at yourself, but you’ll rather negotiate.

Don’t destroy your marriage now It’s obvious that he’s no more comfortable being around you; you have to make him feel comfortable. To have him with you because if you start to loose him, small girls with big gODS with snap him up.

Marriage is not always easy There’re no perfect marriages, so learn to compromise and always apply negotiation to avoid having a destroyed home.

From my understanding, there’s something you’re doing that is making him take such a decision and others things he does.

We know you’re a graduate and want to work and all that, but lower your standards and remember that you’re married.

The secret weapon is NEGOTIATION

I wish you good luck