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Shut up jare.
What's the meaning of confronting in public?
You mean he should worship her for cheating or plead with her in private to stop cheating? Must you speak?

Mhizzard:
You said she has no evidence of you philandering,to be sincere,is it true you are into it??
initially,why would you confronted your wife publicly.this relationship of yours is already shatter

1.Never forgive a cheating wife you married with your money.
2. A cheqting wife caught is deadly, she can eliminateyou.
3. She doesn't rate you one bit.

And to your question, no you didn't overreact. You actually dodged a bullet of fathering a bastard

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

I guess you live in the creeks. A portion of your one month salary my foot. In this Nigeria that majority earn 200k below. Be capping rubbish.

Cregon:
BE WISE

A PORTION OF YOUR ONE MONTH SALARY IS ENOUGH!

Anything above that, you are living above the reality of your current financial level.

If you spend 2k daily for tfare, that's 44,000, assuming you only go to work 22 times a month.
And 44,000 multiply by 12months will cost you 528,000 per year. Meaning you spent more on tfare than on your sanity.

Makes no economical sense. I used to think this way, but I learnt that "life no too hard"

Oyindamolah:
Okay, salary 100k house 150k
Job location, Victoria Island.
House location, Sangotedo, Awoyaya.

Transportation 2k daily=52k

House at igbo efon, agungi, osapa, ilasan, ologolo and chisco 500-600k
Transport N600 =15k

I don't know but please if you pass mathematics in school you can help

Hahaha hahaha, you must be a clown from venus.smh

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Those Israeli females you posted are reserve soldiers that were called up. They are not full time career soldiers. This is why Israel uses airstrikes to back their positions, they dare not go face to face with Hamas, even their men are scared.

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Let her marry her Eex. Useless genZ generation forming baddie, just like the one bbn made popular. Nonsense.

What does this said girl do? Is she a graduate? Is she doing anything relevant to better her life? Or you just impregnate a 22yr old girl and think you should be given a medal? Guy hide your face in some shame. You want to put a teenager in family way without thinking about her future. See I have no remorse for you.

Brokendad:
If you support this as a woman, then there's a problem.

We can fix date and get married. People have been doing it for ages. I love this girl and she loves me too.

She wanted the baby, reason she has agreed to keep it until this time

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As usual, you have nothing to contribute other than throw insults around. Anyway, no need engaging a dull brain. Good day

Zooposki:
I wanted to rebut your reply but just simply gave up. I don’t have the strength to deal with a low IQ nigga today.

Ok. Noted.
Women used to be voiceless too, in churches women were not allowed to minister, women were seen as second class citizens, they were also denied education and not allowed to work or drive.
Should we go back to living that way cos it used to be the norm?

Or you just quoted what suites you?

Zooposki:
Your ancestors used to walk around naked.

What's your definition of sexual harrasment? 'Cos most girls in Lekki and Lagos continually to sexually harrass men everyday with their dressings, showing cleavage and bums on the streets.

Some even go as far as wearing just pants and bra in public. Tuehhh

I don't think there's any offense greater than this rn.


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Impossible.
That's just for photo Op

His name is confusing my confusion.

Which one is Mohammed Chukwunonso kwa?

Anyways, I which him safe return

Prayer is the key.

Take it to God in prayers

I feel your pain bro. I even find Abuja boring, not to talk of a place like this. I can't cope. I'm used to Lagos hustle and bustle

envoymedia:

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One night stand girls are just everywhere on Nairaland.

"PAST SHOULD BE THRASHED" useless generation. After leaving their lives waywardly, they will come to sm to cry, let past be past.

I pity their husbands. Mtwwww

victorclean:
Don't he has his body count as well?. Marriage is for future and past should be thrashed totally for peace

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Amazing skills.

I won't kiss another man for a second, even if were offered citizenship of all nations of the earth.

God punish all ALPHEBET people, including you that will spew rubbish under my mention. Tueh

KaptainRobin:
Nigerian men, would you perform a sexual act with another man for one hour if you were guaranteed American citizenship, be honest.

Like for YES, share for NO.

Hahaha haha, MTN agent spotted. That thing is the greatest fraud of the century

kunlesehan:
Very very nice

I like it because it's durable and rugged
I've been using it for 5 years plus now

From the way people sound, you know their level of thinking
But I won't join issues with you.
There are people who do not have more than a child, but things are very difficult for them still. Just thank God for your life, and stop thinking those that has not made it are lazy, or stupid. Life can happen to anyone. Stop being proud. Cos we've seen those that where up yesterday stay down today. Lastly pride goeth before a fall. Use this information however you deemed fit

jmoore:
If you like go and born six and be struggling. Born the one you fit take care without burden.
Taking care of a child should not deprive the parents from having a good life.

No wahala, just make sure you too, you leave properties and wealth for your grand children.


Alot of these generation don't know how hard it took their parents to careter for them, depriving themselves of the good life.
Smh

jmoore:
Parents should leave wealth that even their grand children will inherit.

It is an error to intentionally make your children as your retirement plan.