Pls is it wise to leave an insurance job of 40k monthly salary in Lagos mainland to a new job in my field of studies(production) of 60k salary plus acommodation and Health insurance (salary is subject to review after 6mnths probation period)?

In the insurance job, there's a chance of hitting million naira commission on mega transactions but such big transactions doesn't come easily.

Pls kindly advise, I am very confused.

God bless you all�

Pls is it wise to leave an insurance job of 40k monthly salary in Lagos mainland to a new job in my field of studies(production) of 60k salary plus accomodation and Health insurance (salary is subject to review after 6mnths probation period)?

In the insurance job, there's a chance of hitting million naira commission on mega transactions but such big transactions doesn't come easily.

Pls kindly advise, I am very confused.

God bless you all�

Pls is it wise to leave an insurance job of 40k monthly salary in Lagos mainland to a new job in my field of studies(production) of 60k salary plus accomodation and Health insurance (salary is subject to review after 6mnths probation period)?

In the insurance job, there's a chance of hitting million naira commission on mega transactions but such big transactions doesn't come easily.

Pls kindly advise, I am very confused.

God bless you all�

Pls is it wise to leave an insurance job of 40k monthly salary in Lagos mainland to a new job in my field of studies(production) of 60k salary plus accomodation and Health insurance (salary is subject to review after 6mnths probation period)?

In the insurance job, there's a chance of hitting million naira commission on mega transactions but such big transactions doesn't come easily.

Pls kindly advise, I am very confused.

God bless you all�

I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


Fianceè for 3 years?!

So you want to turn her to Lord of the rings abi?

If someone dates your sister or daughter for 3 years without making any serious commitment would you not advise her to try other options?

We were undergraduates then bro.
Besides, she isn't done with her tertiary education yet. She still has 3yrs to finish. I believe before she finish i'll be ready to formally meet her people.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Oga you kept someone's daughter in your house and banged her steady for about 3 years, is that not enough.

Please give another person chance

This is my fianceè that we're talking about here

Pls guys I need your inputs in this matter:
I have been dating my current girlfriend since my 300L in the University, that was November 2017. We have been staying together since then, even when I was posted for NYSC in the North she normally visits.

After my NYSC last year, we have been staying 2geda at Kaduna. 4months ago, she decided to visit home, one of the states in the North. Since she got home I have been seeing strange behaviors from her lately.

This is the lady that usually calls at least 5times in a day but 2days ago, she decided keeping her phone off all thru the day, an unusual behavior of hers, when I finally reach her last night, she came up with excuses that she was busy.

This attitude of hers got me worried bc of the love I have for her, I'm more worried bc the guy that deflowered her is from the same plc with her n I have been hearing that he's making moves to the girl again.
I was planning to engage her next year.

Pls what could this her recent behaviour signifies bc am worried and I don't want to loose her now bc we have taken the whole stuff too far to the extent that the both families know us including all her friends and mine.

Is it possible that she may have entanglement with her Ex again despite all her promises and vows that she'll never cheat on me?

Pls August should do n come I can't wait any longer. Pls guys I hope this August is sure for stream2

Pls help a brother
When will the certificate of fitness be needed?

Pls is it mandatory for everybody to report on camp the same day?

In a conversation that transpired between I n my girlfriend that I met since last year, we've been together since then n i have introduced her to all my people as my wife to be, told me that if she sees her ex boyfriend on the road that she will stop by greet him because she still likes him but doesn't love him again that they didn't quarel and this guy's pictures are still on her FB photos. Pls friends what did she mean by that? Pls advice I'm very very confused.

In a conversation we had yesterday, my fiancee told me that she still likes her ex boyfriend but does not love him again, that they did not quarel. I was very upset by that statement, as it stands now, I'm very confused on what to do. Pls help with your kind advice, God bless.

Thank you all for your advice. I can boldly tell you that I extracted sense from ur different comments. She has even invited me over to come n know her parents, she will ever regret messing up with my feelings.

I met my fiancee for 6months now and when I approached her she told me that she was in a relationship then, after telling her my intention she decided to quit with her ex and be my own.

I later found out that she went back and Bleep with her ex again. When I found this out through the picture her ex posted in his timeline, she then admitted that she did it because she didn't know I was serious about the relationship and promised never to do it again. I pardoned her and ceased her connection with him by buying her new lines, except her glo line, which is linked to her account though she knew his number off head.

On Saturday she told me that she wants to go and see her parents, when I called her line throughout this afternoon it wasn't going through, when I finally got her online she told me that she just decided to switch off her phone, and the way she sounded, my instinct told me that she was with another man n I saw a text message by another man asking her when she's coming home.

Pls friends what should I do because I love her and she claims to love me too and I have already introduced her to my people and they all like her.

Pls your noble advice is of utmost importance nw, thanks.

A friend of mine by name John is seriously in relationship with his lover, Precious, right from his 300L(now awaiting service) in higher institution. Their relationship was very serious to the point that they agreed to marry each other as soon as he is done with his NYSC. But on the course of their courtship, the lady took in which they both accepted in good fate and agreed to keep the pregnancy but now the tension from both families is really putting them in a state of confusion and they are still contemplating whether to terminate the pregnancy or keep.
NB: the lady in question has completed her diploma programme from the same institution this year like her lover.
Pls friends kindly advise them on what to do now ,God bless.

What are my chances of getting a job within 6months with 2.1 degree in Industrial Chemistry?

Don't u think it'll be more pleasurable and romantic if ladies start it?

Please guys I want to know why ladies are not always first at starting sexual intercourse

Perfectly correct