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Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Confidant010(m): 10:17pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Please guys I want to know why ladies are not always first at starting sexual intercourse |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by onihaxxy: 10:19pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Confidant010: so that guys will not end up creating a thread about them on how were free givers 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
What do they ever initiate?? They are always at the receiving end bro 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Sunnymatey(m): 10:20pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Cus they pretent a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Airforce1(m): 10:21pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Nigerian girls But it's not all of them . |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Confidant010(m): 10:21pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Don't u think it'll be more pleasurable and romantic if ladies start it? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Elparaiso(m): 10:22pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Wait small? Are you talking about your babe or someone you just met. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by CplusJason: 10:32pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
I have never seen a "female fowl" chasing a "male fowl" for sex. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Who initiates sex I think is a personality thing than gender. Truly men are constantly under d influence of testosterone and tend to initiate it more than women. But extroverted women confidently make d first move and they do it so jovially and jokingly. Most women who are bold to talk to a guy first are sanguines who crave admiration a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by GraGra247(m): 10:51pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Because they're not created to desire it like men do. In fact 90% of women can live their entire lives without it but same percentage of men probably can't. But the society & media always misrepresents this basic fact. They always present women as whores who will die without regular sex while in actual fact we men by nature deserve that title. If a woman ever asks for sex, its either because she wants to use it as a vehicle to achieve a beneficial motive. Either to get attention of her man or to make a baby or for a favour, or money. Modified: Don't even use pornography as standard cos women are paid a lot of money to say and do all they do there. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by abeeee(m): 10:57pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
GraGra247:my guy you tried but all what you said is not true |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
onihaxxy: |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Belafonte(m): 11:01pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
They don't really like sex like that. They mainly have sex as investment; to hold a guy down or get him to buy then stuff. Nothing dries up a woman's vag like a guy who can offer her nothing new. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
GraGra247:I disagree with you in totality. Both gender crave for sex. The difference is: women are wired to crave less for it but that doesn't mean they never need it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Snow02: 11:02pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
onihaxxy:LMAO this made me spill my drink but it's true one other Mumu made a thread about how he slept with a girl after buying coke and gala or something like that SMH Mumu boys 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
GraGra247:I lawve you!! Chop kiss |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Snow02: 11:06pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt:I agree about the personality thing |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
kimbraa:you repeated wah he just typed |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
GraGra247:They themselves present themselves as whores who have sex very often through the way they dress. For some who have not had sex in a long time, it will be hard to believe that they don't have sex with different guys at least 5 times a week with d way they present themselves in dressing. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
julietkcee: GraGra247:We didn't say the same thing. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
kimbraa:suit urself... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Elparaiso(m): 12:58am On Jan 09, 2018 |
kimbraa: Crave less? Says who? You can say society has groomed women to suppress their libidos. Not that nature made them that way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by lenghtinny(m): 2:05am On Jan 09, 2018 |
CplusJason:Even dogs and goats too |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by lenghtinny(m): 2:07am On Jan 09, 2018 |
kimbraa:Wired by who? You go see wireless connection |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by GraGra247(m): 7:09am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Elparaiso: This is not true. Same Society has used every means to groom men to suppress their overactive libidos because of massive numbers of sexual crimes. So why didn't that work. Due to sexual crimes, men are mobbed, beaten, imprisoned, even killed, yet that doesn't deter the same men or other men from committing sexual crimes. Why? because of lack of control of libidos. Society never stopped women. They naturally have total control of libido, if they even have libido at all. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by GraGra247(m): 7:17am On Jan 09, 2018 |
kimbraa: Where is the women's crave for sex. They never ever ask for it since the world began till now except when they want to impress or win the heart of a man they really like or want to receive a reward from. Show me just one hotel or brothel in Nigeria where women go to pay just to have sex because they crave it. But I guess you can't count the millions of brothels on every street corner where men can't help to go regularly to pay for sex. Your definition of crave must be really different from mine. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Elparaiso(m): 11:25am On Jan 09, 2018 |
GraGra247: True, sexual molesters are punished. We're not talking about sexual crimes, we're just talking about libido. This society sees any guy that has a steady influx of girls into his bedroom as a champion, a god amongst men sef. But if a woman were to be visited by 3 different men in one week, tongues will wag differently. That's when she gets labeled as a ho, ashawo, olosho. It's natural for humans to desire multiple sexual partners, but only one gender is applauded for actually doing so. Another thing, a man is expected to be a knowledgeable expert in the bedroom even before marriage, in fact he can brag about it in public. Any woman tries to be an expert, she is immediately called ashawo. Now, even in religious homes, any guy that doesn't even try to have a girlfriend before marriage is looked at as abnormal or even gay. Yet, the average woman is caged in until she is ripe for marriage. With all these, which woman wan claim say preek dey hungry am? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 10:46pm On May 02, 2018 |
julietkcee: "I rather kiss a Miss than to miss a kiss.. #smiles" Are you a lesbian ? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:22pm On May 02, 2018 |
IamaNigerianGuy:#smiles any problem? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 11:25pm On May 02, 2018 |
julietkcee:Never mind. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by Nobody: 11:51pm On May 02, 2018 |
GraGra247: Bro, don't be stupid. I don't know you, but from what you wrote up there, it shows you have little or no experience when it comes to women and sex From my own personal experience with women, I think they love sex more than men. Most of the time you would know because In public and social media, they often maintain a wholesome innocent appearance while in private and oza room, most of them are porn stars.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Hardly Initiate Sex? by dasparrow: 12:12am On May 03, 2018 |
Confidant010: Because romance is more important than the actual act of sex. Women don't have semen over-filled scrotum to empty out so their sexual needs may not be high. |
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