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If u love her and can keep her son, u can go ahead and marry her. If not let her go.

@ taryour, we're saying same thing.

I've seen a mad woman in Ajah with two kids (a boy & girl). I do c how caring dis lady is to her children talkless of a mother who is not insane with two legs and hands coming after 23yrs to tell u stories (dat's bullshit man).

Stay with ur adopted parents and don't make dem feel bad, they deserve ur love now (let dem reap what dey sow).

If I were in ur shoes I'll still prefer my adopted parents because dey cater for me all these years.

I guess ur real parents only came back because dey had no boy. U can still visit dem but don't change ur names, if dey love u so much they won't ve done what dey did, but wd hustle to keep u.

@virgo Pls are u a member of Chris Okotie's church?

I tire

Earnestly, am touch by ur story. Pls don't send d boy to the father or anyway. U've been doing it for 15yrs, u don't need to complain now dat u're about to reap what u sow. Continue without complain and God will bless u and even d boy won't forget u in life.

U might think d son's father takes u as mugu, not to worry. Just continue to be d mugu. Be dat mugu with all amount of happiness and thank God for giving u the grace to provide for him.

Pls, don't destroy the good relationship u've built with the boy for yrs. He'll take his decision when he's a man.

Pls can I inspect dat a room self contain by 6.20pm today. I am interested.

What's d total package?

Expect reply soon.

A quote "Just like hunters has learnt to shoot without missing, birds has learn to fly without perching".

Am a lady, let me tell u most guys proposed to see d lady's pants and some after dat will say bye ooooooooooo or tell u tales by moon light.

After d proposal, what's stopping u, go ahead and get it legalise and stop complaining.

Anywhere, she ought to ve made it clear right from d day u proposed.

@ op get born again. (good talk)

Let me know which area it's located in Thomas Estate. Will I pass thru. Doren Hospital or dat Orphange home

I don't need d one dat's very expensive. When u mention dat area I knew it'll be much.

My budget is 1m

Babe, am so glad u're relieve now. I know what it means to be in such circumstances. FOLLOW UR MIND

Thank God u can cater for urself and daughter. Relax & be prayerful, u'll get a man beta dan ur 1st guy.

Pls can u post d pics here.

Does d landlord stays dey.

Hi Kufre,

What's d cost of d land?

I felt since it's d man's first daughter, dat's coming for summer. Let her stay with u from dey u'll be able to get the truth of the matter.

What I know is dat ladies would be d first to kick against their dad remarrying but for her to accept that means the fault might not be from d man.

If he can established u in yankee, I mean go ahead and settle ur life dey. Even if he dies as some commented u've something to fall back to.

Am a single mum though ve a single guy who's interested but ve neva let him know my investment. I pretend like I don't ve d coins but I do. They are so many things I stated at the beginning of the relationship e.g. no intimacy till after marriage and I stick to it etc....... Once bitten twice shy. From day one, I had told him I've a son who's 4yrs and he knows him.

My dear, let both u state rules & regulations dat u both will abide to or else show him d road out. I don't believe in all what dis ppl are saying, d probability of getting to a single guy is hard. Each and every one of us destiny is in God's hand.

In all, I will advise u "FOLLOW UR MIND". [/b]if ur mind says single guy u'll definitely get one even if he 2yrs younger dan u. U CAN STILL MARRY A SINGLE GUY.

[b]JUST BE WISE Try to avoid the excessive u had with the former guy, he will respect etc.

Pls is it still available. If yes let me know so I can inspect today.

go ahead & marry dis man. Stop wasting ur time waiting for single guys dat will end up frustrating u.

Hi Emma,

Pls what's d name of the place u're refering to (near teaching hospital). What's the cost?

do u ve any at Sangotedo with the same amount? Preferably virgin house, with water & good road & electricity.

Pls let me know.

If u're a lady. U've not even seen d house ur saying nothing according to ur specs.

The house is lovely & constant electricity.

There's a very decent one, big room (ensuite), virgin house, good water, good roads etc. U'll like d house.

It's in an estate, Salvatn, Ajah

I need a lady. If u're a lady u can call me on 08099894742

Total package N175,000.00. Am not an agent, anywhere.

A room self-contain at Salvatn Estate, Owode, Ajah

There's water, light & good road

House - N125,000.00
Agent/Agreement - N 50,000.00
Total package N175,000.00

It's a suite, virgin house. There's bathtub etc.

Call me on 08099894742 or sent mail to confido200899@yahoo.com

don't bother ve find out fm a colleague. It's off my route

Which side of d Thomas Estate? Do I pass thru. Addo Road dat's after Blenco supamkt or where u've dat Orphanage home?

I'll be dey either today or 2morrow evening.

Thx

I am interested. How big is d room, is it upto 12 x 12?

Is it a new house?

I can be reach on confido200899@yahoo.com or 08099894742

Where is Akowonjo? Is it after Awoyaya or Sangotedo?

Meanwhile, if it's around Ajah area. Is there water, light & good accessible road?

Let me know so I can give u a call asap.

Tell ur friend to go to America. So dat by morrow she won't say HAD I KNOWN. Opportunity comes but once. She might be lucky to meet a guy at the Airport. Most guys dey love ladies dat's new to the place and will want to hook up asap.

Forget about ppl saying, her destiny is different from theirs. She shd believes dat her stories is different.

If there's any, just contact me. My budget is 250k

Hi all,

Pls do anyone has a land at Uyo for sale. Am interested.

@ OP

I can see u're still bearing grudges about ur son's father, pls drop it. Forgive him and move on perfectly in life. It's not bc he treated u dat way, u think it's all the same. Am a living testimony.

I can assure u, u'll still get a younger man who will appreciate u and ur son. We're d product of what we think. If u feel like knowing me beta because I want to see dat u forget the past and move on with future. Let me know, we're in same shoes. God has been faithful and wonderful to me and my lovely son and I don't ve any regrets at all.

Do u know dat God has forgiven u even when u did it outside wedlock, so u ought to forgive.

@ OP

I undastnd what u mean bc am in ur same shoes. The truth is life is full of ups & downs. U can get a single guy dat will accept ur son wholehearted. U can also get a man in ur same shoes. It's a two way coin.

Pls don't fix ur mind on, it has to be a man with kids. Nothing is impossible.

Dear nairalanders,

Having many suitors at a time but love a particular one who is not yet ready. My questions: is it right to inform him dat u've other suitors or will it make him feel u're cheating on him.

NOTE: The lady deosn't have sex with any of them.

Advise needed, pls

Pls do u ve any in Uyo. Do try to include locations in ur post and not just PH (where precisely).