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slimyem:
Well.. I have not been one to sway with general perceptions and I do know this.. nobody needs an excuse to cheat and no excuse is valid enough to defend cheating...

what about the NL's latest fad? the lack of örgasm?

How could he have suspected? Really? All those rebellious acts of hers weren't enough to make him indefinably aware? c'mon, just say it. He's dumb!

maybe he's dumb but what's he meant to do? go through a divorce and impoverish himself? the woman's christian background lured him into a false security. he said she originally wanted to become a missionary - that was why he married her.

If my wife exhibited half the signs she did,my senses would have responded to them as potential danger.

but without an empirical evidence, what could you have done about it? besides, there are extremely troublesome & rebellious women who aren't cheats. the 2 traits can be mutually exclusive.

...and no,he didn't have to make a video to warn other book smart husbands .There's a whole lot of stuff on the internet and out there that's warning enough and it still won't change the world. Totally unnecessary..I'd add again.

that's exactly the point.
if he wrote an article about it, we won't pay attention cos there are millions of it already existing. however, this video blog is a fresh idea and this is why it's gotten our attention.

trust me, the video will help some people.

swezenberg:
Well your thoughts are your imagination. It is easier to cheat in Nigeria than in USA where many women are out there to sniff livelihood out of you and the police is ever ready to corroborate their allegations. You can come and cheat in the state and see if it is easy. You think it is the way you pick up prostitutes in Abj or Adeniyi Jones that they do here. Ordinary talking to a girl about it attract jail terms in my state. It is called Soliciting. The law favours women in the states more than men. Women are protected by the law here. If you can watch the live program on TV on how police disguise as prostitute to catch offenders you will understand better. The TV station is called COPS. I don't know if you have it in Nigeria.

not sure we have such in NTA enugu.
even if we do, where's the electricity to watch such on TV. i am so jealous of your fabulous life.

M4gunners:
U must be one of those unfaithful women cheating on their husband or one of the wicked nigerian men sleeping with another's wife.

you are a tool!

berem:
Seriously, this is something to be worried about. Are they preparing for another civil war if eventually Jonathan loses?
Lord have mercy!

yes they are.....
how many times has dokubo reiterated that? he said anything but GEJ victory this year and he's starting a war against FG. you should see the way he mocked nigerian army. they have got all the sophisticated weapons buried in the swamps. they are just waiting patiently to start a civil war.

Talsima:
How can when some even score own goals?

scoring an own goal from that position would have been a better excuse. at least we would know he gave his best effort but misjudged the direction.

It's an evidence it happens to even natural defenders or world class defenders.

i dare you to produce a clearing header that didn't go further than 2 feet like rooney's poor header. even carrick's weak clearance against bayern that olic scored from wasn't this poor.

I want to believe you never played competitive football. At that point Rooney doesn't see Jones or even hear him. His all attention would be concentrated on preventing a clear header from Kounate or Valencia. The closeness of the ball to the goalkeeper meant anything had to be done to prevent West Ham contact. The cation took part in the 6 yard box.

rooney seeing jones isn't the point. rooney's weak effort is the point. he should be attacking that ball with all power & might. it was a half-hearted clearance. any power to that ball would have taken it out of the box and we can regroup to deal with whatever west ham decided to throw from there.

Two other possibilities. First, a keeper like DDG would have read the flight of the ball and come out to take it in the air. This is the only area DDG has to work on. I see many EPL keepers do this. VDS saved us countless times in situations like this.

that ball isn't a goalkeeper's ball. if he comes out from there, someone might head the ball before de gea gets there into an empty net. you are the one that hasn't played competitive football. the box was crowded and de gea's catching from aerial ball is the best in the league this year.

Second, Phil Jones could have shouted for Rooney to leave, but a lot of risk is involved. Rooney might not even hear and it leads to a collusion or that shout could be coming from a West Ham striker.

thanks for finally admitting jones is a baboon & rooney is a fool. between the two of them, we conceded a needless goal. you cannot blame de gea for that - that is not his ball at all.

berem:
our military have been compromised and ridiculed. All thanks to Jonathan.
Watch Buhari's interview on Al-Jazeera and you will weep for our military what it has turned into

i am well aware of this.
GEJ diverted funds meant for our defence to arm his brothers in the naija delta. miscreants like tompolo are buying warships like ini edo buys brazilian hair.

the kinda weapons in the possession of dokubo & tompolo would conveniently win the vietnam war. GEJ has strengthened MEND at the expense of the nigerian army - it's no news at all.

berem:
Whatever!
Elections must not be postponed again for whatever flimsy reason

GEJ is using fisherman sense here.
the election could be moved again. the same nigeria that basically instituted ECOMOG and forged peace in liberia & sierra leone are now begging for assistance from smaller countries.

GEJ is too daft to lead us for another 4 years.

Talsima:
There was nothing wrong with that header, except there was no one to clear. We have seen Rooney, Mata, Fellaini clear a second ball from Smalling's weak header.

it's the poorest clearing header you will ever see at the top level, the ball didn't travel more than 2 feet.

* Let me take you back. Di Maria missed a one vs one against Arsenal. Do you remember how that move started? The ball was cleared into our box by a defender, then Rooney was on hand to pick it up, went past one or two markers before sending Maria through...

we didn't concede from it, this example is irrelevant.

The mistake was allowing so much space for an opposition to have to have two seconds with a second ball.

the poor header caused the space. rooney took the ball away from jones who was in a better position to head clear. jones had ceded his good position by colliding with rooney. that momentary lapse gifted kouyate all the space he needed to drive his shot into our net.

slimyem:
Satan resides in the belly of many other women and men alike. Women have been cheating since forever and it isn't about to stop so what's the big deal in the story that he had to make a video about? there's no twist,no particular scheming of any kind. Nothing surprising or exceptional about it all. Just a load of regular rubbish he could have spared us.

perhaps he is warning other book-smart husbands like him to be more vigilant. your "women have been cheating forever" sentence made me laugh. that's not what we have been led to believe here. the general perception here is nigerian women are saints. they never cheat & when they do, it's in vengeance or retaliation of their hubby's infidelity.

This revelation makes him the silliest of men, a weakling and a dumbo. To think that he never suspected her and also didn't believe her confessions of infidelity at first makes him the more so.

how could he have suspected?

the general perception is.....

•wives don't cheat until their husbands start cheating.

•wives only cheat when the husband is twice her age.

•wives only cheat when US-based nigerian men go to nigerian villages to search for brides.

•wives only cheat when husbands are poor or when husbands depend on wife's income.

so my dear, this is a new twist & an eye opener.

Talsima:
How can you rule that someone who attempted to prevent a close header on DDG did more damage? Have you not seen world class defenders headed weakly into their own box? Rooney has been very good in clearing balls for us from dangerous situation in the box. He was put under pressure by a taller player.

what rooney has done in the past with clearing header is irrelevant here. his clearing header was poor and he gifted kouyate an assist. if he cannot defend headers, he should get out of the box. blind was covering the flight of the ball and would have dealt with it had rooney not attacked the ball timidly.

I will like you to review all Madrid goals conceded by Madrid, particularly the 4th goal. I can't find it yet on youtube. Rooney won't do as bad as Verane did that day. Never ever and ever.

don't use varane's poor performance to excuse rooney. madrid were not playing west ham. if hapless teams like west ham can bully rooney in the box then why is he playing for united? rooney - useless in attack, even more useless in defence.

Talsima:
Watch that clip again. Rooney did well to have won that header against a much taller Kouyate. But there was no one on hand to close Kouyate down as Rooney struggled to regain balance.

It's a goal from a goalmouth scramble. Chikena.

rooney shouldn't have headed the ball at all then. he made an assist to kouyate. if you are going to touch the ball, go hard with it and put it out of the danger area. rooney did more damage by touching the ball, west ham wouldn't have scored had rooney missed the ball completely.

rooney's incompetence gets worse and worse the more you look at the goal we conceded. phil jones shouldn't be starting for us. smalling-rojo partnership secure us better than clueless jones.

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Talsima:
Even the best defenders and midfielders make more serious mistakes. Rooney even tried to have got a head to that ball in a densely packed box players ruffled themselve. I am sure you saw Athletico's goal (4th goal), the defenders went to sleep when a simple ball was allowed to drop from on high unchallenged to standing Athletico Madrid players.

rooney tried?
tried to get contact with the ball? why the heck is he getting paid? if he's not suited for that role, why was he in the box at all? the goal we conceded was disgusting. kouyate made 3 toüches in our box before scoring.

it's criminal!

We concede from set plays too when Samlling plays. It's just that you over emphasize something at all of a sudden they look true. But a second look for any who cares to investigate usually reveal otherwise.

conceding from set plays isn't the issue here but the manner by which the goals were conceded. if kouyate had scored from a straight header then one can raise his hands up that he was just better at heading the ball than his marker but was that the case here?

slimyem:
yup!
Coogar,is this man not a disgrace to men like you?

he's not.....
initially, i felt like you did too. when i saw the video, my opinion did a 180 degree turn. he married a she-devil. anyone that tells you the devil is in hell is lying to you. satan resides in the belly of mrs rosemary.....

drlawizle:
The guy no be better pastor...he has every right biblically speaking to divorce his wife as that's one the grounds God gave for a divorce...there's a trend in women & once

you see it just 4get it she's gone o..

in america, divorce cost money.
more money than those society weddings you see in nigeria. he's bound to lose more if he suddenly decides to walk away. this is why it's not really an option for most nigerian men. it's easier for the women to go for the divorce.

slimyem:
This man is such a sissy!! This is so beneath what a grown man should do. Very juvenile. If all women that have been cheated on all make videos like his,www would probably have shut down long ago.
As it was in the beginning.....
He just needs to suck it up and move on...!

oluwaslimyem, na your face be this?

before we blame van gaal for selection problems.....i hope you guys are aware star players like rooney, RVP, mata, falcao, di maria all have a huge clause in their contracts stating how many games they must play. that quota has to be filled regardless of form.

i think LVG's hands are tied.
falcao was ed woodward's signing to prove to united fans that what happened last season was a fluke. somehow, he must play in most games. RVP + rooney have endorsement clauses to fulfil, so are di maria & juan mata.

Talsima:
I think Gaal doesn't always have to wait till half time to pass instructions. He can send Giggs to shout his instructions. Gaal saw we lost every second ball. He saw many back passes, but he waited till half time. Sometimes, the player might not even know they are doing something wrong.

we lost every second ball because the rooney you hyped over the weekend as a midfield general was hopeless in the midfield. he assisted kouyate's goal. with a much more power in his header, that ball would have been cleared.

this is why smalling must always play when fit. he's the only defender in our squad that wants the aerial ball pumped into our box. he goes for every one of them and he wins most of them. jones was badly positioned for their first & then collided with rooney.

instructions are overrated......
wenger stood all through at the technical area against spurs and they lost. a good manager ought to have dished out instructions before kick-off. van gaal is not an apprentice, he's an old dog in this game. when he won 6 in a row, was he at the touchline barking out instructions?

mbulela:
How can an intelligent man like you generalize so easily?
The fallacy of a single story.

you are getting hyper-emotional.....

we played so well yesterday.........but the disappointing thing was that it was only for about 20 mins - after west ham got their goal.

if we played like that in the first half, we would have won by 2-3 goals. even within that 20 mins, we could have scored more goals with falcao missing a big chance.

nwando:

Didn't he know she was married before seducing her

and the woman that was married allowed herself to be sedüced and fücked like a stray dog?

i am surprised you haven't suggested ovie drugged & räped her surely, this woman couldn't have consented to sleep with ovie. she was threatened to do it.

nwando:
The ikwokirikwo with ovie was when again?
Why are you not googling the lover boy?
See partiality

wetin concern ovie?
who made vows at the altar? ovie or rosemary?

baby124:
She's richer and has a more demanding job. If he played his cards right, he would have had the kids and she would be the one paying heavily. He's quite a slow guy and too emotional, that it takes over his sense of reasoning

the kids?
he was convicted with a violent crime. no family court would let such a man keep any kids. he would be seen as a threat to kids or the wife.

nwando:
Please stop commenting
The thread is closed
Have mercy on the family

because she's a woman, we should stop commenting?

wait till people see this tomorrow. you would be begging the woman to commit suicide. there's no need to protect this she-devil.

nwando:
The man should have never left NY or NJ area
That move was the wrong move to make
How can a man leave a 6 figure income job with Morgan Stanley to follow this undeserving woman to texas
He should have never even moved to the USA sef
After allowing her family pressure him into quitting a high end job with NNPC,he makes a second foolish move
Stepping his foot down and remaining in Nigeria with the ability to visit the USA whenever he liked would have suited him better
He lost his manhood by that first move

as at the time he moved from NY/NJ, he didn't know she was sleeping around. he's a pastor. is he meant to give up on his wife? jeeez - he persevered hoping things might get better. it's not his fault the wife acted like an animal.

Ewuro4:
Lol .. As long as you hit the gspot and stay longer then , she's is safe

there's no g-spöt, it's a myth.
if a woman has the gift, she has the gift. if she doesn't have the gift then there's nothing vagínal sëx can do to get her there.

I didn't read the subpoena but ouch that's terrible and could make the man commit murder. A well to do ma reduced to nothing! Lesson learned.

i read it

he got convicted - a community order for few years. an aggravated assault charge. this means he's out of the house and may never see his kids again. this was exactly what we were saying on the other thread about husbands shooting their wives........

nwando:
Honestly I feel for the man but I suspect his sumtin must not have been performing optimally

why didn't she buy a dïldo?

nwando:
Watch the video please!!!

she said she wanted out of the marriage & that was why she had sex with ovie.

women!
women!!
women!!!

babyosisi, deny it that i haven't been vindicated with this incident.


was she the beret-wearing type in school?

nwando:
But he was chasing her with hammer after she came home from who knows where

that's her version of the story jor....
if he's guilty, why would he appeal it? he got community service, not a custodial sentence. this was a cooked-up story by the wife.

what a sad story.....

the woman got an assault charge slapped on him. he got kicked out of his house as usual. if he loses his appeal, he will have a criminal record on his file.

cheiiiiiii - lessons painfully learnt, mr obuludu.

Ewuro4:
That is no news coog.. The best man takes it ALL

it's news to me.
technically, only 25% of the women get orgašms via vagïnal sex. so the women getting it normally are very very few.

this naija women theory baffles me.

baby124:
Hard work awaits you. The woman found a younger lover that could give it to her strongly. You know it takes more than 5mins to please a woman. Be warned Coogar. The younger the woman, the harder the work. Be warned. Hahahha. If you are not dishing out orgasm's Hmm, one small boy will take over.

hehehehe
alomo bitters is greater than all of una - younger women.

cococandy:
you don't know? Better learn how to give her big Os.
How body go be you after sex and no orgasmm for prolonged periods
After you will the average naija babe has the libido of a bathroom slipper.
Now see one with good libido and you're complaining

the average naija woman has the libidò of a shoe.

some naija women in america need deliverance.

so a woman hasn't had sex if she doesn't get orgäsms?

this is an eye opener.

nwando:
Please do
It is just the man basically telling his story
Kinda sad.
Shortly after marriage ,in fact one month after while in Lagos,he comes home to a see a woman with all her bags at his doorstep
Who was it
His wife's much elder sister and she moves in
And he is helpless
When he talked the woman called him a small boy and cursed him out her parents and wife supported her
Tua
The man saw pepper
Wife will call American police and allege he beat her,then police will find out she was lying and she gets handcuffed,he pleads to get her freed

you can tell this man is one of those effiko boys in uni. he's book smart, not street smart. the woman wouldn't have achieved this with a proper lagos man.......and this is why i kinda pitied him. he's a christian, he pastored a church in nigeria before moving to USA.

his sister in law & mother in law moved into his house a month after their marriage. that's cold! they disrespect him in his own house & all kinda bullshyte. he's been through a lot. i hope these videos he's making heals him. rosemary is a direct descendant of jezebel.

nwando:
I pity him
Imagine quitting a senior associate job with morgan Stanley to please the wife
Chai

he gave the wife too much - he was always going to get burnt doing that. a man this cool & brilliant didn't have to go through this at all.

Ewuro4:
Be serious coogar jare .. Where specifically in Nigeria? I need to warn my brothers

south east nigeria.
the queen had to practically send british marines to fight them so they can stop selling slaves. google arochukwu confederacy.

nwando:
THE MAN IS FUNNY WALLAHI

can you now see this man has mentioned virtually everything we say here? he's not twice her age. he didn't go to nigeria to marry her.

he was a chartered accountant - assistant chief internal auditor for NNPC. he was rolling in money in nigeria - until this evil wife pushed him to USA.

what's the excuse?

Ewuro4:
Abeg osisi and co, what is Aroochukwu ?

it's a village in nigeria.
they are responsible for 95% of all the slaves taken abroad in the dark era.

nwando:
THE MAN IS FUNNY WALLAHI

the wife is evil.....

she denies him sëx, she calls police on him whenever he demands his conjugal rights. all along, she was giving it to ovie free of charge while starving her hubby. on top of that, she compares her hubby with her co-worker.

he met her on campus & she was a christian while in school o. the next chic that tells me she's born again would get a dirty slap from me.

buncha hypocrites!