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freecocoa:
What do you mean by not having a right to live in the house? You guys are married, where would you rather she stayed? The house is now also hers by virtue of marriage.

the same marriage you don't longer desire?

I don't want to believe the law presumes, there's no way you have all evidence that your wife physically abused you and you'd still be the one getting arrested.

she only needs to cry to be believed. the cops will arrest the man instantly before he can spell freecocoa.

They were shipped from their villages to come and work, are you saying their husbands gained nothing at any point in time from the women's earnings?

gained what exactly?
how was the hubby surviving before shipping her over? who paid for her ticket and the entire process to migrate her? who paid for her nursing school, transportation to school and other miscellaneous bills?

so this man suddenly became poor to start depending on the wife?

Ofcourse she works but he fathered the kids, he might be a danger to them, that doesn't mean they have to suffer for his madness, 50% of his assets combined with hers, goes into their well being/upkeep.

if you don't want a man, leave his properties alone. walk away....work out how much his quota would be in supporting the kids and let him pay it. allow him supervised visits to his kids & i can assure you 100% he will not come for you with a semi-automatic weapon.

Lay off the pie sweetie, it's bad for you.

pie is my addiction.

freecocoa:
his daughter ended his happiness.

the mother forced the daughter to lie against her dad. the daughter was just 9 years of age when this false claim was made. the mother ended his happiness!

freecocoa:
I'd love to think we are keeping the OP in mind while having this discourse, having said that, I don't agree that a woman can just end a man's happiness if the man hasn't been found wanting by the law.

like this example, i guess....

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2397002/Daughter-sent-father-prison-40-years-lying-raped-pleads-release.html

edwife:
@Mutter i have to say this,you have won my respect over again,for you to have handled the attack with grace shows how mature and a lady you are.

please please please.....
don't claim our mutter. mutter is a gentleman with a bushy tache to boot!

freecocoa:
Take the kids and go back to her father's house you say, now I think you are just being funny.

that's the fair deal. if you didn't contribute a kobo to the acquisition of the house, you have no right to stay in it.

How is it possible that she told lies against him and the law just swallowed it, giving her all he has? Who is to say she didn't invest anything financially in the marriage? From the OP, it's clear these women work their black nyashes off everyday, so what are you talking about?

because in the west, men don't have a voice. if i report you to the police that you physically abused me, i would be the one that would get arrested. the law presumes men are the primary aggressors.

from the OP, the women were all shipped from various villages in nigeria - many of them couldn't rub 2 nickels together. the men already had their houses before bringing her in. so what has she contributed?

Are you saying she should leave with nothing to take care of her kids with? So the only way to strike back if he feels he's been cheated is murder?

is she not working, like you have claimed?
didn't you say she must have contributed financially to the upkeep of the house & yet she still wants 50% of his assets?

Coogar what have you eaten today?

shepherd's pie.

Timbuktou:
Coogar already answered this well. Just wanted to add/ask, is abuse the only reason divorce happens in the west? Google up frivorce. Western men are committing suicide en masse because their wives can end their happiness because she's bored.

i am surprised nigerian men haven't been blamed for this. aren't we the beasts who cannot cope with the modern way of life? aren't we the monsters scared of western women?

pickabeau1:
Lol
Our ladies love us as we love them

I'm still yet to see any lady who is happy go lucky about marriage even though they bash marriage so much

There is one thread about a lady who's been with a guy for 10 yrs and said she is wasting her time

she should wait two more years to complete the cycle: 12 years a slave.

freecocoa:
If the man is a danger to them all, it's best to kick him out, how do you compare the two btw?

if the man is a danger? why can't the woman take the kids and go to her father's house? a man worked all his life to get a house, he pays monthly mortgage on that house, he brings in a greedy woman who made series of lies to have him kicked out - he will still continue to pay the mortgage while he's out there homeless and you do not expect that man to strike back?

freecocoa:
And this is something to be considered normal?

kicking a man out of his house, restricting him from visiting his own kids, taking half of his assets, etc is normal?

Darkrebel666:
I have called him out ..but he didn't accept..
if he feels he would beat me then why isn't he sparring?


I have been trying to figure out what went wrong in my recent brawl... and I realised that my Audio battles affected my text pattern ..but now I think I got it and I am ready ...

Tell him to accept .... !!

loonatik is afraid to lose.
he will never accept your call-out here on NL. at best, he would want it on facebook where he has all the judges on his payroll.

Timbuktou:
She's probably trans-gendered. I'm aware her gender is constantly called to question. Well, since we have no proof of her sex we might as well go with the crowd and assume she's male. After all, only a man can be logical and honest about marital issues.

mutter, where are you?
come and show us your tache.

i think darkrebel should battle loonatik!

the battle will make sense. grudge battles are always the best.

Timbuktou:
Mehn, I just tire. I'd haave ignored this thread totally had Mutter not been victimised so callously. I actually logged in after reading comments disparaging her carelessly. Otherwise, I'd be long gone

And they have the gall to mention logic? Laughable to say the least.

you haven't gotten the memo then.....mutter is a misogynist. in the next few hours, another brain-dead bimbo would question her gender for speaking the truth they don't want to hear

Timbuktou:
You beat me to this. Let all these ones be forming modern woman. Their ends look nearer than they know.

they are just trolling.....
look at how they are comparing it to the women in nigeria. so women in nigeria get kicked out of the houses they built in their names, they are forced to pay child support for the kids they don't always see?

hahahaha - the daftest analogy i have read here this year. if this isn't intentional trolling, i dunno what it is. some females don't even deserve your replies. they are too mentally sterile to cope.

Timbuktou:
Boom. He who hath an ear, let him her hear.

and the ones who are scared of prison life go the whole 9 yards to kill the wife, the kids and themselves.

they would rather be a dead man than let an obnoxious greedy wife walk away with their assets.

Lagunna:
sure..

please yeyenatu to bring my wife along.

pickabeau1:
This is it in plain cold words
When you are pushing that man to the pit, you think he wont be tempted to drag you in

most of these men would rather go to jail than let the wicked wife have the house, kids & half of his assets.

some of those naija men in the article called the police themselves and handed themselves in. they are prepared to die in jail than let the wife walk away with their assets.

TV01: Ihedinobi, Crackhaus, 5minsmadness, An0nimus, Netostse, Nonso23, Njokusboy, Coogar(where are you sef?)

present, sir!

elampiro:
I get you but it's still 4-3-3. But even Gareth Bale doesn't run the ball down the line to deliver a cross. Iniester doesn't run down and whip a cross in.

Our match against Inter Milan at OT, Rooney and Giggs swap positions at half time (I saw the whole match again recently), Rooney gave an intelligent connecting cross for CR7 to score the 2nd goal. It must not be a Valencia's speeding and whipping style.

4-3-3 can be broken down into 5 parts.

4-3-1-2
4-3-2-1(christmas formation)
4-3-3(wide)
4-3-3(narrow)
4-3-3(regular)

mutter:
Well women are doing it and have been doing it.
All the men that dies mysterious deaths in Nigeria. I wonder how many were poisoned?
Women kill their husbands and even their children sometimes. It does happen.
Look in certain parts of Nigeria, they take these children to spiritual churches and claim they are evil and witches and get the children tortured and even killed. Women that throw away their babies.

This is not a "man thing".

spot on!
men are more victims of crimes of passion than women can ever be in nigeria. yes, women don't go on a shooting spree in Nigeria and men do not either. guns aren't that easily accessible.

nigerian women are mostly passive aggressive. slow poison, delayed poison, metaphysical powers, witchery, etc are some of the weapons women use in nigeria to ruin their spouses.

aisha2:
Again I was not talking to you. Thank you for pointing out my " gross stupidity "

do i need to subtitle my last reply to you or something? you don't have to talk to me to call out your idiöcy - my freedom of speech guarantees that.

when they say women are their own worst enemies, you scream like a rhesus monkey. you are using another woman's past ugly ordeals against her in public just to make yourself feel cool?

how could you stoop so low?

aisha2:
I am not talking to you please.

that doesn't mean i cannot point out your gross stüpidity. if you want to talk to yourself, there are various sanatoriums in your city.

elampiro:
Mr Parrot,

But you can see already an instance of Rooney in the wing from that line up. I will provide more line ups and possibly BBC live commentary to back my argument further. From my investigation, SAF adopted 4-3-3 for 2005/6 season. Nistelrooy or Saha was the middle forward while Ronaldo and Rooney flanked.

Further investigation revealed that SAF persisted with 4-3-3 in big games between 2006 and 2009, with Rooney used in the flank.

elampiro, there are many variants of 4-3-3. just because rooney is on the outside of a 3-man attack doesn't make him a winger. you can have 2AMs behind a striker. i don't think i have ever seen rooney run the ball down the touchline and deliver a cross.

mutter:
When you have nothing to live for, then you have everything to die for!

The fact that it keeps happening shows that the men are not all suddenly going mad.

A man that had worked so hard brought his much younger wife here to Germany, when they come to church the wife was so rude to the man, perhaps because she was better educated. I quickly grabbed hold of her and drew her aside. I warned her that her husband was respected in this community and if she ever tried it again where I was I would shred her to bits. Foolish girl!

These greedy bitches accept a man they do not love and are ashamed of just to get out of Nigeria and then they want to ruin the man.
Do you know that these men have worked so hard for so many years! Received all kinds of insults from society and then you bring this young girl and she gives you the final insult to let you know you are = 0.
How many of them come here with nothing and soon the man is out of his own home on the streets and having to pay maintenance.
When the study in America, they are able to do so because the man brought them there.
Nursing is not even a good paying job, like any menial job you can gather money if you work enough hours. While they are at work they cannot perform as wife`s so of what use is the work if it does not benefit the family?

No matter how educated or how much money they have a woman must humble herself and treat her husband with the utmost respect in all situations. That is not just good for the man but also for the children. The children are raised in an environment where the learn respect and manners.
That is what you get when a man that has struggled for years gets dragged into the mud in his own home. A man that has struggled and faced discrimination and abuse outside. Treat him like a king at home so that he can feel like the man he is, that will give him the strength to keep struggling.
Instead these women get rude, function like they don`t have a family, neglect the welfare of their husbands and homes and go running after the dollars.

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aisha: I can't even deal with this line of thought, all women abroad are not evil, marry who you know and stop running to marry girls you don't know just so you can act like a barbarian abeg.

This is sad coming from someone abused so all thosr times you got beaten shebi you provoked your ex? You make it sound as if these women earn their deaths did you earn every slap and belt you received

this is silly coming from you.
why are you putting her personal stories here just because her opinion is different from yours?

you are irritatingly immature!

Odunharry:
Coogar come see ur boy Blind

blind >>>>>>>> matic!
no debating....

moonraker:
Mehnn, there are just there.. I cant seem to get past div 3 though. for real. I almost got relegated to div 5 yesterday if not for Ibra.

i reached division 1 in tournaments but i just started the other one of league. i won division 9 and 10.....haven't started division 8 at all....

Lagunna:
Yeyenatu is now Yeyenati. .

You can battle emaprince, kr0ne or ksslib..
Or maybe a rematch against Ibime. .
Abi na so u wan make ibime beat u go

if i battle ibime now, i would kill him.
the magomago he pulled the last time won't work again. i am in a different realm these days.

Ibime:
No, just that then we converse with our rhymes.
Niggas are too slow witted these days to converse with rhymes.
There is nothing a ninja can say on chatroom he can't say in bars.
Instead of for example Rebel and Warriblood to be cursing each other, posting pictures saying "I'm balling, I can feed your family, you can't even take your chick to cinema etc", in 20mins they could go back and forth with quick rebuttals and freestyles.
See how DBR and I used to hold those same conversation in rhymes in time past.
https://www.nairaland.com/200489/flow-rank/71

DBR & ibime were vets then.
how do you expect newbies of nowadays to hold conversations with bars? you also forget back then, the music section was a place where people chat to unwind and relax. that has changed now. i doubt 90% of the textcees on this section have ever posted on the music section - so this level of chit chat should be expected.

Joshuabase:
.
Are Yeyenatu and vivky bash still active?

ask lagunna.
he's yeyenatu's first cousin.

cherryice:
Is this is a form of interview../
You should know i already cleared that view/
trying to get me to the floor right now should be a review/this is too sad making me look like a novice to those who view/
no matter what you do nig, I got barz parked up like a place called ParkView/..
Still learning!!

nice!
you have what it takes. a little tweak here and there and you will be catching bodies soon like my protegë called teddymiyaki.

darkrebel666: Teddybiyasi for example only drops verses when she's to brawl..Coogar also, guykhena etc.. If most emcees are dormant, what do you expect?
what kind of rapper writes a verse only when he's to brawl sef? ..

i have run out of people to battle. kim has not improved & theprekky retired again. we asked for facebook cats and you said none of them is worth brawling.

shey na kr0ne i go battle or yeyenatu?

moonraker:
Shedren shedren

Play nice now.

No need for all these ewars.

Its bad enough that there is a lot of bullcrap on fifa and now this??


Coogar, you self need to calm down. If the guy doesnt want to produce his PSN ID, then he doesnt want to.

There is nothing you can do about that. I am not sure why he would lie about that though.

i was just teasing him. he's my paddy from yonder.

waddup with you?
how are your blue cards doing on FUT?

Ibime:
A chatroom created to keep you lot from desecrating FFR where you flood the place with chats.

Base is from a breed of emcees who rap first and chat last.

If not for NL crash, thís thread would be past 1000 pages in the last year alone.

In the days of Base, FFR would cross 300 pages and Chatroom will be struggling to reach 10 pages.

Now we go soon rename thís place Romance section, the way some conji-starved ninjas are carrying on.

there are more posters these days unlike the days of joshuabase. more people means more talks - more friendliness also breed more chit-chats. it's better this way than to defile the legendary FFR thread.

Joshuabase:
I'm boutta close the lady of the realm sign up thread
Signees are;
Mathematical
Gladyys
Teddybiyasi
Tifanee
Was hoping to see khim white tho'

include yeyenatu, vickybash & khimwhyte.

cherryice:
Ok! Am Asian by the papers.
altho wasnt groomed to battle but I grew up in the streets and the streets taught me what I know today as rap..

spit some bars......

mikuz:
Have you checked any of my audios out?

http://mikuzchat.wapka.mobi/site_33.xhtml?&get-file=80&get-dir=3

http://mikuzchat.wapka.mobi/site_33.xhtml?&get-file=86&get-dir=3

mikuz, is that your voice?
you sound like a girl. what the fückitty fück? you need to sound confident on the mic....your voice projection is horrible.

the flow is nice though but the delivery & cadence need help. you have learnt what to say, learnt when to pause, etc. you now need to work on how you say it. you are almost there but men - that your voice won't convince anyone you are from the concrete streets.

cherryice:
one of my followers brought me here..
where am I from, how? I dont get it
Where are you from?

i'm from basra!
groomed & trained to battle from an early age. when mikuz & co were playing with strollers and barbie dolls, i was counting clips for kalashnikov rifles and burying jihadists.

Lagunna:
https://i.imgur.com/CtTvQ.gif

hahahaha.....
dunno why smack stopped using don demarco to appreciate good bars.

cherryice:
I'm cherryice

we know that already.
where are you from and how did you find this haven of extreme metaphor spitters?

teddybiyasi:
who & who

teddy vs coogar.

just 4 lines(1 quatrain)
i don't have time to write 10 quatrains.

cherryice:
sorry?

it's self-explanatory.....
introduce yourself!