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coded guy: Levekusen is not putting up much of a resistance.

As United we are still not at the level we are supposed to be.

But am happy with Kagawas game sha.

adebayo201: you can say that again and again!

debosky: Valencia and Rooney shutting up haters.

Ayagayagayagayo!

Purist: That's what you get when you have a proper #10 playing between the lines.

denzel2009: You better advertise on NL for a good girl that can cook and clean like mr corrk does. There's no point dating someone who can't cook. She would be useless like a reverend father's diick.

Purist: A glimpse of Kawaga's magic already in the first minute.

solomon111: Okay,maybe the wordings were wrong.
I didn't really order them.
They wanted to impress me with their cooking and homemaking skills skills especially when its obvious i'm always very busy to even cook.
And btw,if you think expecting good returns for my money is colonial,then you must really be out of your depth.

lady gogo: "if she's a freak in bed, gives awesome BJs with good hygiene, why should something as unimportant as cooking really matter?

you can cook yourself so strap on your apron & your red kitchen hat and make your woman a delicious food. as long as one of you can do the job, there shouldn't be any worry."

Jokes. Your words.

coded guy: Since you don confirm this line up. Let's see how many successful passess kagawa will make, how effective Rooney will be as top striker. Our midfield might be exploited and jones might be overworked and I hope that does not earn him a redcard.

Why is Moyes freezing out Anderson, him follow sha.g him daughter?

elampiro: I doubt if Binghinya has ever used perverted words. We know those who take delight in and fanatize about gayism here. Any coincidence that senior and junior are in the forefront? Now some other guys are gradually allowing the orientation enter their head that they too use those words frequently.

Dem no know the power of initiation.

ileobatojo: Roftl! Coogar being pwned as usual!

By the way, have you pounded yam for Lizzy today?

lady gogo: It shouldnt be expected. There are several ways to show care for each other in a relationship. In your world, if a girl cant cook she doesnt deserve to be committed to.

Chillisauce: @coogar, o have not even finished the story, you've already given me a conclusion.
Anyway, it's solo thread. I don't wanna derail but the koko was, we ate her food, left the dirty plates and zoomed off

That was way back in school Sha. Of cos, the guy denied, saying the girl was his friends girlfriend. Na dem Sabi Sha, cooking will not give you ring o.

Case study my Solomon

mikuz: He has edited it himself already. So please go ahead with your verdict.

Chillisauce: I remember when my friend and I went to her bf house, she was supposed to travel but didn't, we now decided to stop her then bf house to eat something.

Getting there, she tried to open the door with her keys but the door was opened already. We entered and behold we saw a lady wearing bum short.........

To be cont.

lady gogo: Boyfriends shouldnt expect their girlfriends to cook for them. The girls should only cook if they want to.(thats if she knows how to cook anyway). Besides, food isnt meant to be cooked in exchange for christmas and Easter gifts. If he is hungry we can go to the nearest fast food joint or mamaput.

Cuz I killed prekky too, n uv been HAILING HIM ALL WEEK, so I PRAY IBI COMES BIG, last of d top 4, so if you 'would box' I'll put d NAIL IN THE COFFIN/
I'm heavy RAIN IN THE TROPICS, u a pinch of salt, ul get DRAINED IN THIS FLOOD Naughty Lady,
nl dudes like "he CRAZY, HE's gOD" GEEZ,.... all these dudes on ur dick, I doubt that BABY IS YOUR KID/

lady gogo: Touche!. Why should your girlfriend be cooking for you in the first place.? The OP needs to have no expectations in that regard. Cooking for him should be of her own volition. i.e if she wants to.

kandiikane: Lol, isn't it funny that it is the children of two working parents who normally make it to ivy league school. No housewives things.

kandiikane: Lol, what? How is it belittling for me if you're speaking through your azz? Lol stop.

I am guessing you are partially blind. Did you not see where i wrote I roll by myself? So why would I have bedmates? And what ideology is that?

Seriously stop talk rubbish. In which book did you read that feminism is about a woman not needing a man in their lives? I want the name of the author and the book and chapter you got that quote from. See, start reading because you know what you just wrote is full of nonsense.

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle - Gloria Steinem

Sëxual struggle is a fight for power – Kate Millett

Seduction, consensual sex, lovemaking are all forms of institutionalised female coercion, they are in fact rapë in disguise! – Susan Brownmiller

Heterosëxual intercourse is about power and dominance, colonialisation of the female body, all heterosëxual intercourse is rapë!!! – Andrea Dworkin

Penetrative sëx is rapë and men are rapïsts – pure and simple! – Phyllis Chesler.

It annoys me when you are arguing with someone and they change their tune. I thought you said a father cannot stay at home and this isn't about money. If it isn't why should a man stay at home? See, how your argument became mine. Annoying! Stop it! Your argument was no to career woman, women should be at home and men working. Men cannot naturally care or nurture children. Stick to that.

If a woman decides to be a housewife she should have income coming in. Whether it is business or marketing. Designing websites. Yoh must have money going in your own account. You hear?

Stick to your argumemt joor. So, now it is ok to be a career woman as long as you make more than the husband so he can stay home and phuck up the children since men cannot naturally care, nurture and feed children or teach them how to fend for themselves. Oh, gee, thanks coogar.

If someone is neither for or against, they usually say nothing. They just sit on the fence, watching. You were clearly against. Maybe now those for the working woman have convinced. You seem to be now in agreement but because you don't want to back down easily, you're arguing but unfortunately changing yout initial stance. You were clearly against necause you advised men to stay away from them. Chase her career aggressively? Wdh does that even me? You either have a career or you don't. Or you mean those who don't have a career but chasing after it aggressively to get one?

A blind calling someone blind. And where did I mention, you mentioned self worth? Ohh, so now a woman can have a career but can nurture the children for a few years and go back, yes? Well, duuuuh! this is something majority of working mums do. That is why the government even gives maternity leave! You have changed your stance completely and it is annoying

No, coogar, I overestimated your intelligence but this thread has show me otherwise. You are just anothe4 clueless man beating his chest, huffing and puffing to make a clueless point. You cannot even stick to your argument.

What a stup!d comparison. Your comparisom doesn't even make sense to what I wrote. Tell how do they relate. Trying to make another clueless point which makes no sense. You should have used a car if you were going to make a senseless comparison. Atleast, we have more deaths in cars than planes. We get on a plane because we want to get somewhere. We go to school because we want to fet somewhere. We get our degrees not to decorate our living room but because we want careers that will bring us money. Now, there is no point in being on a plane of you don't want to go anywhere and there is mo point being on school if you just want to be a housewife.

Try to comprehend what people say, please. If she had something she won't be standing there like an ediot probably begging. She would have quickly driven to her own place to go over what happened. Lol, a working woman knows she cannot get kicked out. She knows her investments in that property.

And oh yes, you think it is that easy to just get 50% of your husband's wealth. Stop! Even if, women should be happy about that? Oh yes, i can be a housewife because I know when we divorce half of all this will be mine?

Oh please, don't flatter yourself. We know you have nothing tangible to say but please continue typing nonsense because you are a 'career' man.

I hardly have these long azz debates because I am hardly ever interested in them but when I do I want someone with good arguments that would even make me think twice, not someone who cannot stick to the initial argument.

Atleast a pubic lice has more sense than you. Your whole argument is stup!d. You cannot be a xareer woman, wait, Ohh, you can be a career woman, yes, as long as you take 4-5 years to bring up a child. Yes, that is all i can give you. If you want to be accepted by us you must take 4-5years, we permit you because we are Man. See, we are very lenient. If you cannot take 4-5 years out then we will shun you and you will have to turn to a lesbian because we don't want you. I know we initially said no to you but your argument was very convincing so we will give you a chance to marry too.

How stup!d is this? I am done with this. If anyone wants to argue with coogar, go ahead. He is still high on dog shyt and doesn't know whether he is arguing front or back. As you can see, he is now ok with a career woman.

He is now giving them a chance. 4-5 years or no husband. With all my 8 children that is going to be 25-40years. Loool. Those of us wanting big families we'll be going back to our careers when we are in our 50s- 70s..

bukatyne: You did not understand question 2, let me rephrase... According to you, our society has degenerated because house helps now raise our kids...

And my questions:

If parents now have failed because they raise kids with helps, who raised the failed parents?

Do you think the youth and kids of today (raised by helps) are worse off than the adults (raised by mama)?

Oghos1: lol. Did u play football when u were young? Just curious

elampiro: The real suspicion here is actually between Senior and Junior. True.

True Senior and Junior attraction to the words 'dk' 'sck' "a$s' 'deep in 'throat', etc, is appalling. Na so crase dey start.

nitlad:
Oloriburuku ni bobo yi. . . .
In your face eh?

bukatyne: @bolded,
1. How long should the wife stay at home considering the fact that 0 - 5yrs is crucial and they might not have 1 kid and the wife has to stay at home till the last kid is 5?

2. If the society is what it is because Ekatte's raise the kids, who raised the parents who now use Ekattes to raise their kids? Do you mean that the youth and kids now are worse than the adults (who were 'Mama' raised?)

Will appreciate answers to my questions without long story. Thanks in advance

chaircover: Lair!!!! As if you are not the one who does all the cooking, even the ogbonna while ileoba puts her feet up and watches the X-factor

chaircover: Gerrout

Dont let me call ileoba here

MMotimo: @Topic
@ Coogar, I'm curious.
Have you found a woman who shares your views

Is she Nigerian?

Is/was her Mom financially independent and/or career focused?

In your world, are there stay at home Moms?
Pardon me if I'm being intrusive. I ask these questions because of certain observations I have made about Nigerians and the topic of stay home Moms , you could say it is part of my "research."

I have been a stay home Mom before, after tge second child came (not affordable after the first one) but some things don't last forever because as needs rise, income is needed too. I cannot count the number of stay home Moms in my world - my boss' wife, my sis-in-law, colleagues' wives, my BFF, acquaintances, friends, neighbors, teachers' wives, etc so I have first as well as second hand accounts and no, it is not like Nollywood nor is it like what happens in homes where it is not an affordable choice. I probably won't be back here till the evening but I would appreciate a response to the questions up there.

For now, all the stay home Moms feeling a need to hide because you do not want to be ridiculed - ponder this, the person who claims to be a career woman and is ridiculing you might just be a money launderer for proceeds of her husband's 419 crimes. Keep your head up!

The fact is that you really will not care. Your pride and I cannot even call it pride. Your "whatever it is you are feeling" is more important to you that your wife and kids living their lives to their full potential. Both my parents are in their 60's and always worked. They both have established careers and so do most of my family members. There are no people running to divorce courts everyday.

Your posts just reek of selfishness. A poor trait in someone who claims to be the head of a home. With that mentality you can very easily cripple everybody in your family all in the name of "whatever it is you are feeling".

yellowpawpaw: CC, did u say ogbonna? .

elampiro: There are reasons to suspect that many guys here, if they are not gays already, their brains and perverted minds will soon lead them there. They can't make comments without mentioning 'suck' 'deep in throat' 'man's ass' etc etc.

I won't be surprised if some guys here link themselves up as it is becoming obvious their sexual preference is shifting. Before fire and brimstones will rain here from above, I would have left this land.

ileobatojo: Well I'll try. But lord knows I don't appreciate unwarranted attacks on my person.

Ole. Go and make do with the yams you collected before round 1. Abi you ate them all already ni?

ileobatojo: ..