₦airaland Forum

the problem is not your husband ex but your husband. you have no right to call the girl to stay away from your husband, it is your husband that is accountable to you not his ex, calling her will make matters worse your husband has to choose between you and his ex, you must stand up to the ultimatum of 1 month because if it gets to 1 month and you don't carry out your carry out your decision he will continue to contact his ex weather you like it or not thinking you will never leave and enjoying both women at the same time , that is if he is sleeping with her, but if he still loves you he will look for ways to resolve .the issue is communication it is the main key, or leave them pretend they don't exist if you communicate with him he does not want to change involve yourself in things you love doing to keep your mind busy or separate from him for sometime the choice is yours.

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there is always two sides to a coin if she actually cheated with her ex. have you cheated on her before ? because sometimes men do things and sometimes think they can get away with it, but I am not saying cheating is good or maybe she does not want to save her ex number with his name because she don't want to hurt your feelings but she might not be cheating you just have to talk to her and make her see reason why she does not need her ex number any more.

that is very bad your sister when there a lot of other girls outside jeez  that is a big disrespect but you wear the shoes it is only you that can make your decision to leave him or stay, but expect may be another shock of your life if you decide to stay which is possible. can you forgive and forget ?can you leave any of your friends or your other family members with your husband without the thought that he will sleep with them? wont you feel insecure with him ? another woman outside might be understandable but your sister that is mean.

men cheat mostly for ego reasons they want to feel special, they can be very happy in their marriage but they still cheat also for love of varieties of women but it is not only men that get bored with their wives and cheat, women can get bored but women think more of the consequences of cheating compared to men that is why a lot of women do not cheat. men cheat without thinking of the result but at the end of the day regretting cheating if the wife finds out and they still love her, women sometimes get tired of one soup everyday too but women don't just do things like men they will consider advantages and disadvantages of cheating before they make any decision.

looking for a way to get out of Nigeria, visa wife.

how can German police deport someone without passport maybe the deportee was issued Tc and Tc is not a proof of nationality  but passport  is a proof of nationality.
so if  German police officers don't have deportee passport then police in Ghana had the right to send them back, if they had deportee passport it would have been very difficult to deny him as their citizen and who knows the guy might not really come from Ghana[ no proof]

i just hope the guy is for real,a Nigerian man marrying an older woman it is uncommon in Nigerian culture plus you are a white woman hope the marriage works out because I don't believe this is real love.

this is not a new thing, a lot of white women take their bath once in a month or once in every two months but not all but majority, so not taking bath everyday is not a new thing.

it depends on individuals ,but it is very difficult for it to work out, for long distance relationships to work out , the man and woman must be ready to close their ears to each other's faults, because i don't think it is possible to be in a long distance relationship for more than 2 years and stay faithful to each . that is my view

some nigerian girls will tell u no at first, but later if they see you driving expensive car their answer will turn to yes but not all of them ,some of them

as couples they are suppose to work things out . in some women case they will not tell their husband to perform MouthAction if he does not want to. they will just get another man outside their marriage to do that,but she explained to her husband what she wants which is a good thing, may be she is not sexual satisfied, and in marriage if the sex is bad then there is a problem. some women die silently because they can not tell their husband what they want sexually.but she does not have to leave her marriage because of MouthAction but i think if the husband does not do it then she might end up cheating.they should look for solution on how to satisfy each other sexually.

i don't think it is a good idea to travel abroad with newly wedded wife. if u don't have kids together, guys thinks that women in Nigeria's are better but not so. it is difficult to see Nigeria women in abroad having abortion anyhow but go to Nigeria, girls have abortions anyhow,and if u have kids together she will like to stay because of the kids but if both of u don't have any kids and you bring her over to stay with you in abroad she can leave at anytime. the mistake some men even make is that they go to Nigeria see a girl after 1 month they marry her.then he brings her over .how can you expect that kind of girl to love you? and you don't even know the girl's character. and the girl see you as her ticket to come to European how can she say no. i know 1 lady she got married to man that stays in abroad and the man came back with her to stay with him in abroad, she had kids for this man, could u believe once in year this man's wife go to nigeria and have sex with the former boyfriend and the husband and his family knows about it. anytime they talk to man about his wife behaviour the man will tell his family to leave his wife alone that she is just enjoying herself can u imagine that?

taking white women dogs for a walk in the night.

white women are more faithful than black? u make laugh. it is very diffcult for a white woman to say no to sex if she likes u,even if her husband's friend or brother they don't care they just give in.if u don't satisfy white women she will surely be unfaithful.although black women too are unfaithful but white women has more higher numbers of unfaithful women than black women.

why should someone that commits adultery be stoned in the first place. i think it is only God that has the right to deal with anybody if he wants that. he is the greatest in the world.so why dont they leave the person that commits adultery into God's hands. thou shall not kill is that not in the old testament?

why was that 13 years old girl stoned to death did she commit adultery? why didnt they stone the men that raped her also that is just nasty! why must she die for the sin commited by those men they should have stoned the men instead.

he might give u keys today does not mean he will marry u ,i will advice u take the relationship as a normal relationship until he makes his in-tensions known that he wants to marry u,or until u two get married.if i gives u key today does not mean tomorrow he cant collect back his keys and give it to another woman.afterall u are not his wife

question no(1)if u accept ur wife back will the love for her still be there like before ?(2)why dint she tell u she was 5 months pregnant when she was in Nigeria and she even tried to cover the act up,well i will advice u to let her go but assist her in whatever way u can. if u two have kids together i will have advise u to stay for the sake of the kids, but u two don't have kids it is even more easier to let her go now than in future which may be more difficult. but if u want to forgive her i don't think u will ever love her again. well it is up to u. but please if u don't want her again assist her if she still want to stay in abroad or take her back to parents for them to assist her

why will u call peoples muffon because they listen to western media this is a free world,i can think on own what is good or not, likewise u can look at things in a different way,u are free.so if don't accept my ways of thinking does that make u a muffon? next time don't refer other people as muffon everyone is free to do what they like,that does make them muffons, get that