Are you a cheater?

she should have walked away now she is dead no remedy life has no duplicate

one is too small now ah ah ah make he just marry 700 wives and have 300 girlfriends in this modern age make he see how far

one is too small now ah ah ah ;Dmake he just marry 700 wives and have 300 girlfriends in this modern age make he see how far

that guy no come back from italy with money seriously women marrying abroad based guys are taking a lot of risk abroad is not bed of roses oh , life abroad is hard no place like home you need to see a lot of people suffering abroad. treated like second class citizen no matter your status abroad is not like before anymore things are lot more harder now economic crisis

a woman that want to cheat will cheat attractive clothes or not

give her time to change take her out to outings more often take her to where there are girls wearing classic clothes, she will change because she notice one or two things from those girls she is a human being she will change slowly but if she resist change let her be there is a reason for everything don't leave her because i can assure you would regret it in future all that glitters is not gold

yes sex get's boring

Cammo:

I think she's the only girl in this world who understands me perfectly. She doesn't visit regularly, though, coz her mom is always watching her movement. She's the 4th child and only daughter among 5 children. Her father died last year.

well i understand you are trying to help but it is very risky :- to be on the safe side why not get her something to do to help herself and she doesn't visit you regularly oh well marry her if possible in a low key ceremony because if she walks out it will be very painful good luck

he wants to eat his cake and have it i will advice to look for somebody else, he wants to marry you and yet he cheated and got somebody pregnant and the girl gave birth to a child and he abandoned them like seriously he has no respect for you does he know the word condom like are you ready for more baby mamas to him you are an object yes he does everything for you and pay your school fess is that why he should get someone pregnant the decision is yours but believe me if you get married to this man i do not think you will be happy marriage on a shaky foundation not wise at all but your choice take care

stop crying over spilt milk work on yourself prove to the world that you can make it with or without that guy you did nothing wrong it is just that you can not provide what he wants. make the best out of your life it might take time but he who laugh last laugh best take care

he is a human being there is a difference between checking out your girlfriend and having sex with her do not warn anybody because if your father want have sex with your girlfriend he would and you will not do anything about it warn from now till tomorrow . just behave normal and you will be fine

Is she of benefits to you ? like as in you gain something from her ? i mean something useful to your well being ? and are you sure she loves you ? was she with you when you are a nobody ? if you are benefitting from her fine then you can sponsor her at least if she walks away you gained something but you are not benefitting anything from her , she was not there when you are a nobody then it will be very painful if she walks away if she can compensate you right now in some ways well you can sponsor her so that you gain and also she gain in the relationship

no

i do not blame women who want to marry rich men how you go suffer with man finish he come get come think say you are not good enough where was that woman when the man was suffering some men are heartless you follow them when they are poor the woman is their all and all when they get rich the woman turns to poo. men will push their wives to misbehave thinking she is a fool but guess what she now retaliate husband start shouting men love your wives and your wives will submit if men must cheat respect your wives do not let them know give them that respect as your wife

you are still very young get out of that thing called marriage but make sure you are ok money wise you do not have kids yet and you are so unhappy believe me when kids starts coming in you will regret your decision you will get stucked in the marriage for a long long time :long time unhappiness worst with kids involved marriage with having kids to cater for is not a child play at all marriage as being a first wife is not easy talkless of second wife people will tell you to continue in that marriage but they are not the ones wearing the shoes that you wear they are not in your situation they do not know what you feel do what is best for you and you only because in the end you suffer the consequences of your decision 3 wife is also high possibility too get ready

Youngpo413:
he will not travel abroad.

i laugh you are very funny he will not travel abroad because of a virgin wife hunger never worry them if the man is not OK in Nigeria money wise and sees opportunity to travel abroad he will stay with virgin wife in order to stop other men from sleeping with his wife ah ah ah

BetaSexLife:
If the sex tape was before the man married her, then he is an Idiota because that is supposed to be her past. If it was after the wedding and when he went back to the US, then she deserves it

you are very right her past is her past a lot of ladies with bad past change for good after marriage while a lot that were saints before marriage turn bad after marriage like example a man that married his wife as virgin asked what is her fantasy only for the wife to reply her husband that she wants a man with a big dick to sleep with her that happens so you married her as a virgin does not mean she will be faithful

Youngpo413:
it serves her right,one of the reasons every sane man should marry only virgins,not those useless hoes and their overused pusys.

you can still marry a virgin and have a bad marriage ;virgins can still cheat after her husband dis virgin her due to circumstances yes it happens if a man marry a virgin and travel abroad does that mean because the husband married her as a virgin she would not cheat

ogbonti:
A man can cheat on his wife or girlfriend and know where to draw the line. He can still return back to his wife or girlfriend, loving her more and locking that runs girl out of his mind. Not allowing that fling mess up his home or relationship. This is possible because men are logical creatures. All things being equal, most men will think of the implications of things before throwing their stable relationship away. This is not so with women.


A WOMAN CANNOT EASILY SPLIT THAT... once a woman is messing with another man, the husband or boyfriend, if observant, will know too quickly beca use women are emotional creatures.

A man can have sex without falling in love, but except a woman is a prostitute, she can't receive a man's liquid during sex without feeling love/loved.

Some females have been known to conniving with the new chap who straffed them to take out their husband or supposed lover.

In summary, the dick and vagina have different stimuli to the brain. A dick is the attacker during sex, while a vagina is beaten up during sex.... Thi n k about it, who feels subdued after a fight, and becomes loyal? The victor or the victim? That's My 2 kobo

not all men draw lines between wife and side chick some guys ruin their homes because of side chicks it happens a lot; some men beat their wives because of side chicks a lot of men allow themselves to get emotionally involved with side chicks not all men are logical ; some girls have sex with men without falling in love some sleep with men for fun yes there are girls like that some girls that have being treated badly by guys have sex with men just to ease sexual urge without emotion because they do not want to get hurt

that man is sick

madridsta007:


Admittedly, he didn't- or if he did, it wasn't properly done. I'm sure he gave it to his friends to do and not his mother- his mother would have done a more thorough job.

Also, the lady should have come clean about her past.

I gather that only traditional wedding had been done. Within that perspective, there's nothing wrong in what he did.

why will she come clean about her past you don't want her to marry a man based abroad if the man abroad knows about her past will he marry her she want abroad base as a husband aka big chick people pick money on streets
abroad they do not work for money at all

that man is not serious at all a lot of girls are in Nigeria he did not marry he visited Nigeria to marry an actress what was he thinking i want to marry an actress for status to be an actress is easy in Nigeria only to marry her leave her in Nigeria and come back abroad as a married bachelor the man is a saint abi he does not have past there are a lot of girls that are abroad; men abroad will not marry i want to go Nigeria and marry only to go and marry a woman you will not wish for worse you come leave her there; is she a wood .she will have sexual feeling once in a while; she is a human being the man sleeps with women over there in abroad he is not a saint : the girl is also a fool there are lot of guy in Nigeria she will never marry i want to marry a guy from abroad guys in Nigeria are not my type both of them are stupid they want to make name why will they get married and stay separately one in Nigeria one abroad :what kind of marriage is that why get married in the first place foolish couples marry woman carry her come abroad guys go fear say na the woman go be the head she go get power pass them marry her leave her in Nigeria guys for Nigeria go marry her dey wait for you curse you join say make you fly come you go still send money take care of her think twice before getting married consider your situation before anything

love as a little to do in marriage understanding goes a long way, compatibility another key factor, and so on he is good man marry him there some people that get married because they were love with each only to hate each other after marriage because of the word .....[we are not just compatible]

do not divorce him yet : your son is still young( secure yourself financially have a side boyfriend so that you won't have emotional pain it will be very difficult for you to change your husband's cheating ways the only way he may change is if he experience something bad while cheating why will he change he knows if he cheats you will still not leave him after all you are his wife i do not see him changing any time soon

Youngpo413:
handsome and rich guys are not supposed to be faithful,they have so many things to offer,if one lady leaves,10 other b!tches will gladly replace her,any lady who needs a faithful man should date the broke ones.

what about broke guy become rich some will start to cheat it is only by God's grace

Demex40:



my friend must i do what u are doin?? I dont share is as simple as that

no be by force you must not share ,maybe you have a girl that loves you or you are rich to share no be by force na your choice every men no get that kind of opportunity

sorry she is stupid do not mind her what has love got to do with checking if both of you are medically clean

girl get married to that man * since you are not young anymore now after getting married to him cheat on him like no shit although be careful about it anyways 2)secure your self ,money as in money wise have a child or two by him take of yourself and your children forget about him then you are all good he is not worth your stress

bettercreature:
OP beware,this is AFRICA! only men is allowed
women are not allowed to cheat

times are changing a lot of married women cheat nowadays

individual choice if that will help fine she wears the shoe she knows where the shoe hurt her why judge

yes you can meet another woman but it will take a lot of time to like the new girl the question is are your ready for marriage if you are not ready do not rush into marriage take your time so that you won't regret you decision marriage is not easy