₦airaland Forum

Medianna:
Bros...in every financial turn out. Time is a factor. Its not the amount that matters but the time you spent to get the amount the amount of cash..

It took me the whole of 2019 and part of 2020 before I started seeing positive results in what I'm doing.
I didn't just wake to start making good incomes.

Medianna:
Did I just see 19 abi am seeing double?
Final year in uni. Huge financial turn out, when not long ago you needed financial help from your uncle cuz daddy is not doing well.(that mean dad is not doing financially well either)

Abeg which God you dey serve? Share the testimony.

I've always wanted to gain money quick since I moved in with my Uncle maybe cos of the treatment I was getting, came to his house 3yrs ago, that's enough time to have developed myself.

jimmyolasun:
shey you no see say naa Yahoo boy composition he give you... All way naa way shaa

Why do you all feel everyone young earning good income these days are into Yahoo.
I make 6 digits every month from Google.
Die this mindset pls.

tayo60:
Paying your parents rent of over700k, when they are supposed to be living in their own house. When will they continue to pay rent? Instead of using d money for something people will question its source because of your age, why not get a land and develop it first, then move your parents in. Then continue to hustle. Just don't go into internet frauding o.

Well, my dad isn't alright and I've always wanted them to come over to this town where I'm based but there have been hindrance due to my mom's job and besides cost of living here is much more affordable.
I have plans to setup a family house here BTW, pls I'm not into internet fraud.
Thanks

stacyadams:
Mbok .what business u doing.no vex

Web and so much more

Kennyliga112:
Kindly go ahead and rent your own place,but don’t leave his house with quarrel , leave peacefully

Of course I'm peaceful and I avoid any kind of trouble with him, even tho he's a very problematic person.

Goldbw122:
Stay like that don't reveal yourself, people don't like progress...
Prepare yourself to move and find a good place for yourself, peace of mind is next to none.

I don't know, he doesn't care about my well-being that's why I came up with the idea of staying on my own.
Thanks for the advice.

Richy4:
What is the basic year to sit for JAMB in Nigeria again?...Just wondering how a 19 year old would be in Final year...Plus/minus ASSU strike....A lot of teenager abroad starts Uni 18/19 years...

No wonder lecturers ask university undergraduates to kneel down without batting an eyelid

I'll be 20 by December, got into school quite early.
BTW ASSU strike doesn't affect my school academic calendar.

Greetings everyone.
I started living with my uncle who's married after my secondary School and he's also been assisting me in the University. He's been acting very harsh towards me since late 2020 and this is affecting my relationship with him to the point I hardly go to his place even during breaks from school.
I'm 19 currently in my final year and since quarter of last year I've been making huge incomes, my financial turn around started before my industrial training and I didn't stay in his house throughout that period even tho we were in the same town. When the family heard this, they started to query me on why I left his place and truth was that I informed him about my IT and if he has anywhere I could do it and he didn't even respond positively. So I left his place and even at that he didn't want to know where I was at that time, I got an apartment and was hustling while doing my IT.
At the end of the program, I came back to his house but he didn't even change rather he behaves as if I don't exist. I behave like I have nothing when with him and make sure to wash his car every morning before he goes out, even if he treats me like a rag I'm very humble to him. He told me last year not to demand any form of financial assistance from him even when he knows my father is ill and can't provide, so I've been self dependent with little assistance from my aunties and despite that I also ask him for cash too.
I just renewed my parents rent of over 700k at their base and I'm thinking of actually renting my own place in this town and also getting a small car I'll be using to move around after fully setting up my business, should I wait till after graduation or go ahead?
Cos staying at his place is robbing me off my peace of mind.
Modified;
Pls I'm only asking for advice based on my next move and almost everyone's laying emphasis on my income.
I have friends abroad younger than me, more skilled than I am currently making more money than what I make here. Everyone have their purpose in life, all these things don't mean anything to me honestly cos I'm not where I want to be yet.
You shouldn't be surprised pls

Gadafii:
You are weak man

Girl dey tell you she will end your life and then hers, and you no clear her once, that your mama no dey sleep for your matter, she chop winch and craze pass your mommy

I clearly told her I wasn't happy with what she said but she didn't reply reasonably, reason I avoided her for some time until she came apologising.

2ndchildhood:
Hmmm.. upon all the whole comments above, so nobody wan tell this guy the truth on how e go be Later

Seriously, what do you feel it's the truth if I may ask?

BeardedmeatR:
Relax.

Both of you will soon discover a sweeter world outside your relationship and move on naturally.

Funny thing is I've been with my guys who have encountered heartbreaks (National Cake)
I don't think that will be a problem for me tho, even if it comes it won't get to me much.

Goldbw122:
Hmm yeah they can get to that extent well just be careful, find her small trouble first or get her angry so that you will know the level of destruction she will do, then you will rethink of how to leave her.

She's very calm Boss.
Like so reserved, I've tried this.

Please read through and kindly ignore typos.
After my Sec school, I went to reside with a relative where I was hustling and later got admission in 2018. During the course of all these I met this beautiful, brilliant girl from a well to do home just a year younger than me (I'm 20), we've been together since then and she certainly have no issues.... I'm just maybe the one who at times come up with issues, I've not been in any relationship before I met her neither have I even had sex with anyone before.
She got admission into my school and she's been my best paddy since she came, she's in her 200lvl I'm in my finals this year and we're doing very well academically, she gets emotional anytime she remembers I'll be leaving this country after my school and she thinks I'll maybe leave her too but I always assure her everything will be fine. We went out some time and got intimate, it was her first and mine too, was very passionate like the one you see in movies and during the whole thing she said she'll end my life and hers if I should leave her for no reason. While going home I had to bring it up formally and she said she meant it, it got me thinking since then and I started avoiding her. She noticed and came to apologise but it hasn't gotten off my mind.
I really love her and I don't intend leaving her unless something messy comes up but this thing she said it got me worried. It go me thinking like women can really go to that extent?