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sexiestharam:
She is not your step sister. She is your half sister. Your step sister has no blood connection with you.

Omor, it's a mistake but I still take her like my sister cos we grew together and she's done a lot for us.

Okwyjesus:
You guys may be burden to her. Rest and give her break

Burden?
Financial burden you mean?

UnknownT:
Which candidate did you support during the last election? If it was BAT, did you post it on your status during that period? if yes, there lies your answer

Lol check my topics from here self you'll know who I supported.

Emaprince:
Paid post.

Fake story

Not everyone living a fake life you mf

Appletek:
She fit don dey Panya dey wear orange jumpsuit

Mumu read the post, someone that speaks often with my Mom?

bdon123:
Do u understand she has a life there fat away frm u n might be coping wit something else.a hrt break or anything?let her be

That will make her ignore messages since August?
Seems you have your own problems too, go face them.

id911:
She knows quite well your constant checking up on her is all about money or needing assistance even though u dey pretend. However, she might be going through some issues at the moment so stop the constant messages for now and let her breath. She'll certainly respond to you whenever she's ok to do so.

Seems you're not ohk, what concerns this post with billing?
Make una try dey read.

Martinsmine:
This is not blood ooooo
This is distant love.
Bro even when she think of reaching out she feela u will bill her.... if na me i will keep bombing her with offline messages so far say she never block u

Lol me bill her?
Last time I did that was 4 years ago, since I learned about this black tax...Didn't want to be part of it abeg, can't be entitled to someone's money.

Zonefree:
@bolded is what you should have done before now than coming on a faceless forum to grumble like a woman.

Life is not hard, dey for who dey for you. Stop carrying people like a bag of cement when they can't lift you like a loaf of bread.

I've not experienced such before tbh, I grew up being loved and very bad at this detachment game y'all claim to have (learning tho) but someone you Video call, talk with for hours just stop communicating with you totally when you know you did nothing wrong, it's weird now. In this case it's not a friend or partner rather a very close relative you have a strong bond with.
I have time on my hands though, it's my grumble not yours.

Martinsmine:
She may be focusing on hey job or something is taking her time... do well to pay for her.. she will reply u

I understand this too, I have a job coupled with a side hustle but I find time to engage people I cherish. It's not that hard for real and by the way she communicates with my Mom sometimes so it doesn't mean she don't have my time.
I'll just do well to leave her alone.

NOTE
Don't know how this post made it to FP, y'all saying I'm billing her need to read the post fgs.
She calls my Mom sometimes, that's why I'm bothered why she's refused to answer my messages. Having someone abroad doesn't mean you'll bill them, don't know why Y'all be thinking this way.

I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Sapeleboy911:
Yes oh, German machine is bae. If not for the lack of competent mechanics, in my area, I would have said bye bye to Japanese cars.

I hear this a lot, there's this mad BMW I'm eyeing but fear of bad mechanics dey turn me off.

Sapeleboy911:
They nearly blind my eyes, way back in the days of pencil light Camry. That car is 0/100 when it comes to headlight. I sold the car just because it didn't have a shiny headlight. Streetlights are on still these drivers will switch on headlights to the full brim as if they are searching for a needle on the road. The C300 headlights delivered me from by force blindness and constant headaches.

Finally someone that can properly relate 😂
So you use C300 now?

GanagiBitrus:
Many know, but don't care about other road users. They seem to derive joy from oppressing other road users.

Same with abuse of horns.

And it's very painful oh, someone like me will now have to be using shades to avoid headache.

immortalcrown:
That habit is very bad. But you don't seem to be different. Your life won't get better when you plan to promote bad things in the name of revenge.

No mine will just serve as a correction not revenge, something like a flash. Saw it on a video.
If the drivers don't learn they will, the hard way.

Greetings everyone, I've been driving for over a year now and I've noticed we don't know how to use headlights in this country even my friend that visited from the US complained same thing.
I don't know if it's selfishness or what but how will someone be on very high beam even when opposite an incoming vehicle, I almost entered a ditch because an SUV beamed on my small Corolla to the point I couldn't even see properly, are there rules set for all these in this country?
God's willing if I don't leave this country within the next 2 years I'm getting a bigger vehicle and I will purposely install massive led lights I will be counter beaming people till they notice their mistake.

Aaaaarghmed:
Cant advise here,una still be small pikin.enjoy

So if you can't advise someone you feel you're older than, who do you want to advise?
Well I believe you shouldn't have even commented this if you're in any way matured yourself.

HopeNeverDies:
Lol bro... Sincerely, not sure you've had experiences with girls than me, pls break up!!!
I'm pleading right here... Forget bout anything marriage or some...

Common ur still young bro. Forget bout ur making money or some.. lol

You'll surely see another chicc ... I'm not asking u to break up on the grounds that ur babe can't cook, I'm asking u to break up on two grounds .


U still got a long way to go bruhhh
Secondly, majority of these girls below age 24 know little or nothing, they think upside down bro...

Shiiii can go wrong anytime and she can dump ur ass bro ..



Enjoy 🤳

Bro girls are not my problem to be honest, I've had them plenty during my 5 years in school. I just don't want that kinda life anymore, that's why I chose one, I've got other things to focus on.
Make everything balance, don't know if you understand.

Reminderz:
wow you guys are even still young and you don dey think of marriage?? young man, you have a long way to go that making women your sole purpose... shey you think say na love love be marriage abi? you're obviously still under your parents and you still haven't gotten any clue where your life is headed yet.. get your life together first, elevate yourself, make money, for now what you guys are still doing is child's play..

don't be even surprised when she clocked 21 or so, she starts seeing someone else and dump you... for now, you should be more focused on yourself...

Lol not everyone within my age limit is broke.
At my level I know my priorities.

Reminderz:
she doesn't want to continue doing wife things for you only to end up being dumped by you... you should only be worried if she can't cook or she's generally lazy... then that's something to worry about... but as long as you're doing husband things for her which you're not supposed to do for a girlfriend, the she's expected to do wife things for you which she's also not expected to do for a boyfriend... if she spends time with you in your apartment, she's expected to do some certain things which cooking is also one of them unless na outside food una dey waste money on... just know that, the habit she adopts while dating is what she will continue when you marry her... and shey you guys don do blood test to see if you are compatible, nor be say after una don waste each other time una go dey talk say"had I know"??

but come to think of it, you guys have been fornicating for 4 years, you guys should better marry each other because I don't know why it took you this long to know if she won't cook or can't cook..

We're not so old like you think she's 20, I'm 22 and we only started seeing frequently for the past 2 years. She only visits twice a month mainly on weekends, we've never co-habited for a whole week.

This girl and I have been dating for the past 4 years, but she has never cooked for me, she's very cool tbh, but I'm totally fed up with this part. She's not broke herself, but I do everything I can to make her happy financially or emotionally, and she can't even do the barest minimum for me by cooking. Normally I don't care about anyone cooking for me because I can even do it better, but I believe a woman that loves you will never leave you to worry about food. During my days in school, female friends cook for me unprovoked and my girlfriend complains about it.
We've spoken over this before, but it continues, honestly I can't marry someone like this.
Please, I need your advice.

There was this topic discussed on Twitter weeks ago about old money and new money.
It got me really interested for real, there's this flex that comes with new money normally been the one who made it out of nothing but I believe coming from old money is totally better.
Basically I think what they meant by new money is maybe someone who comes from a poor background but broke out and is now rich and as for old money, I think it just refers to a family that has been on generational wealth and riches.
Myself, I don't come from a very poor background, just really average but I'm doing well for myself right now and I wish for family for my generation to become old money some day.
So which do you prefer old money or New money?
And also share any encounter you've had from the both.

I noticed a trend with these miserable agbadorians, as seen Atiku went to court to verify Tinubu certificate but I don't know why it's Peter Obi that is receiving attacks from these people.
Peter Obi is obviously the biggest politician in Nigeria right now giving them sleepless night, is that exactly the reason?

Leggodeals:
"Entitlement" Satan's new highlighted word to propagate wickedness among humans.

If you are not entitled to help from people you call your brothers and sisters, is it strangers that are responsible for you in time of need?

Like eehn.
I really want to believe people that stated those rubbish are not from functional homes.

Kobojunkie:
Most people use religion instead as a convenient shield for their evil and wicked deeds.

Yeah right but what can we do?
We should all try to make this little world a safe place in our own ways.
Cheers

Kobojunkie:
Let's first leave the Bible out of this.

This is an issue at the core of the individuals here. Religion is just a cover used when necessary to cover up so remove the cover during discussions..

I believe as humans, some of us believe in our religions and as our religions demand so should we do .

So I came across this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7850172/brother-not-helping-me-he
This guy was complaining that his Bro starves him, that even if there's food the bro eats it alone and I've been seeing really bad comments on that thread.

I believe as a brother which I am, I will stand in for my sibling where needs be and clearly the guy's brother have failed to do that which is very wrong in my opinion.
But another shocking stuff on that post are people that are commenting "Your bro doesn't owe you" bla Bla Bla, omorr is this really how people Reason or is it that some of y'all here don't have family?
Even the Bible asked us to be our brothers keeper.
It's very disgusting to see such people with that kind of mentality.

M4A1carbine:
So living in the East is pocket friendly right?
Good.

Dey play, East costly oh chairman.

Aguilar:
Come go find work if e easy

If you read my post, you'll see I was able to buy myself a vehicle before graduation. Getting a job isn't necessary for me at this moment, but I will try after I finish my masters.
Thanks.

Limassol:
Congratulations!

Wouldn't it be better if you detailed what skills pays the bills for you so other students too could benefit?

Think about it, it's way more meaningful and better than trying to show off, oppress or trick others.

Oh, come on man, I never intended it this way.
I joined the Crypto bandwagon early 2020, then I started trading/vending, I also engaged in airdrops too, and I currently own a crypto-based youtube channel, earning monthly from Google Adsense.
I was just updated with the right infos.

GodWrites:
How do I tell op that his GP is useless without a good network? The job market is horrible at the moment. Even those with masters are struggling to get a job due to intense competition. Create a Linkedin account and start building your connection. Because if you are hoping to get a job by applying to any job openings, you will suffer from depression. And when you do the job, never stop looking for new opportunities. Your job can fire you at any time due to a little mistake. I learned the hard way. In fact you should settle me for this insight.

One of my dreams has always been to work in an established multinational tech company, although I don't even need a job to survive at the moment, but I want to grow career-wise. So hopefully I may obtain my MSc any moment.
Thanks.