Family › Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by coputa(m): 7:41am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ThinkFreely: You guys are funny.
You think he won’t regret it either if he stays in that marriage?
You think you can force love? Love grows, if waters(nutured). |
Family › Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by coputa(m): 7:28am On Jul 07, 2020 |
@ollins,you could have married an angel,but unfortunately,angels dont marry,let me tell you the truth,mrs right is never found anywhere except in dreams.My favourite saying about marriage is that." Don't marry who you love,love who you married" because we all have our short commings,including you the op,some will say couples should be compactable,yes,compactibility here means you should consider one another.it is you that will make things work out.learn to like and love her attitude and character,since they 're not harmful to you.if you dont change your mindset towards women,you will marry the whole world and still not satisfied. |
Crime › Re: Army Flags Off ‘Exercise Sahel Sanity’ To Stop The Current Spate Of Banditry by coputa(m): 7:05am On Jul 07, 2020 |
hidhrhis: They are code names to label different operations
They cannot use the same code name or pattern for a new operation you do not understand,Nigerians are tired of hearing different code names,we want result,not names,the top echelon of the army should be restructured. |
Crime › Re: Army Flags Off ‘Exercise Sahel Sanity’ To Stop The Current Spate Of Banditry by coputa(m): 7:00am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Haywhysat: I pity North, na only them get bandit, ansaru....., boko haram, iswap, herdsmen and others... God will help them The problem is that they don't have a reason for their senseless fight,unlike the niger delta millitants that are fighting against cheating |
Crime › Re: Army Flags Off ‘Exercise Sahel Sanity’ To Stop The Current Spate Of Banditry by coputa(m): 6:51am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: 4 Popular Nigerians That Have Been Charged & Arrested Abroad For Fraud by coputa(m): 6:40pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
einsteine: What is this one saying?
He was a Nigerian. The grandson of Ajayi Crowther who translated the Bible to Yoruba and wrote a textbook on Igbo grammar Samuel Ajayi Crowther is the maternal grand father of Herbert Macauley.Herbert macauley was born to krio parents,originally from sierra leone,his father Reverend Thomas Babington Macaulay was a prominent lagos missionary.Herbert macauley is a sierria leonian. |
Politics › Re: Hushpuppi: Protesters At US Embassy Demand Investigation Of Atiku by coputa(m): 4:35pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Godmademan: Nigerian Embassy in US looking like Nigeria. If dem give these ones 2months inside California dem go turn am to ebute-meta they are not in the US,but at the American embassy in Nigeria. |
Politics › Re: Hushpuppi: Protesters At US Embassy Demand Investigation Of Atiku by coputa(m): 4:20pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Show me your friend and i will tell you who you are....Birds of a feather flock together.Hush .P is an internet f.ster while Atiku is a politician.A fraudster and a politician has a lot in common.he may not be laundering money for them,he may be a major financier of some of these top high profile politicians in and outside government,i suspect that's the major reason our anti graft agency turned a blind eye to his activities. |
Crime › Re: 4 Popular Nigerians That Have Been Charged & Arrested Abroad For Fraud by coputa(m): 3:57pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
einsteine: Fraud has been synonymous with Nigeria for a long time. Even Herbert Macaulay on the one Naira note served a jail term for fraud. Herbert macauley is not a nigeria,he was a cameroonian |
Crime › Re: 4 Popular Nigerians That Have Been Charged & Arrested Abroad For Fraud by coputa(m): 3:56pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
einsteine: Fraud has been synonymous with Nigeria for a long time. Even Herbert Macaulay on the one Naira note served a jail term for fraud. |
Crime › Re: 4 Popular Nigerians That Have Been Charged & Arrested Abroad For Fraud by coputa(m): 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
You will hardly see the northerners involve in this get quick scheme abroad,they 're mostly silent.the south east and west are the one's soiling the name of this nation,and they 're the one's hustling to lead the country,i still prefare the northerners,hausa/fulani,they are less greedy.you have to choose between two evil. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Bomadi: Pray For Goodluck Jonathan, They Will Send Assassins To Kill Him by coputa(m): 12:24pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Poshriel: I know.. I have food and all but I don't have a kobo
Pls sir pls help ... Its the one for 1800 Some of you have taken begging to a new high,if u must beg,it should be for eitherfor food,clothing or shelter and not for luxuries.If u want luxuries u work for it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Bomadi: Pray For Goodluck Jonathan, They Will Send Assassins To Kill Him by coputa(m): 12:12pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Who would want to kill the man that brought goodluck to nigeria,Nearly all the laudable policies of this government were his brain child.He is was the only educated nigeria president with first degree and a Doctor of philosophy(PHD).If they touch him,they 've cut the veins that is supplying blood to the country. |
Agriculture › Re: My Poultry Farming Experience! by coputa(m): 10:21am On Jul 06, 2020 |
zekepio: Thanks for your advice. The death rate has slowed down, only 1 died in the last week. They're now 19 from their initial number of 50. I'm looking forward to selling them soon to Hausa men. How old are the birds. |
Travel › Re: Aerial View Of Warri City Delta State (pictures) by coputa(m): 10:19am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Nairalandmonika: I don't agree with u sha.
Our drainage is very bad, that's one of our major problem but even if our drainage was good, there are still other cities in Nigeria that are more develop. Name them,not state capitals |
Education › Drop Your Thought For The Week To Motivate Someone by coputa(op): 9:25am On Jul 05, 2020 |
This thread is to motivate ourselves by droping a strong thought for everyone weekly,it can go a long way in sharpening our vision,thoughts and ideas. Mine is this: There is this three R's that must happen to everybody,they are: retrenchment,retirement and resignation,these three R's must happen to everyone,wheather you like it or not,we should always plan for them,because if they plan for you,it means it is finish.think about it. |
Travel › Re: Aerial View Of Warri City Delta State (pictures) by coputa(m): 9:02am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Jizu: What I like about warri is the indigenous tongue and ofcourse Banga soup Not only that,haven't you heard of the saying "WARRI NOR DEY CARRY LAST KPATAKPATA NA DRAW" it means warri is first in many good things;warri is a very sociable city,very hospitable people. |
Travel › Re: Aerial View Of Warri City Delta State (pictures) by coputa(m): 6:18am On Jul 05, 2020 |
olmoRoc: The last time I was there (Waffi) was more than 25 yrs ago and I don't see lots of changes you lied,mention one state capital in the west aside ikeja that is as refined and develop as warri. |
Travel › Re: Aerial View Of Warri City Delta State (pictures) by coputa(m): 6:14am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Nairalandmonika: Currently akwa ibom is doing better than Delta but u can't compare akwa ibom to Delta. I think Delta is amoung the few state in Nigeria that has more than one major city. Asaba, sapele, warri and even ugheli.
I have traveled through most state in Nigeria and I found out that it's just the capital of the state that's usually develop. Every other local government na just village. Take rivers for example, apart from port Harcourt, there's no other develop local government in Rivers, same with akwa ibom. You just spoke my mind,warri as a city is competing with many state capitals in the country.a blessed city,the major problem in warri is drainage,aside that,warri is most developed city in nigeria. |
Travel › Re: Aerial View Of Warri City Delta State (pictures) by coputa(m): 5:56am On Jul 05, 2020 |
proeast: Not in the least impressed. For God's sake, this is supposed to be an oil city for several decades and these are all you got!?
Asaba is even more developed and that is in part due to its nearness to Onitsha.
Niger Delta cities ought to be world class cities by now yet all we have are one-horse towns. SMH! Onitsha did not contribute to the development of Asaba.the former is a commercial city ladden with gully and dirt,while the later is an oil rich state capital,although to our standard,it is still a glorify village because of the inability of our leaders to develope it. |
Family › Re: How Do You Feel If A Much Younger Siblling(s) Pays Your Bills by coputa(op): 5:23pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
chii8: No it doesn't make you a never do well or failure.For me,it will kind of give you hope and morale to work harder.You are lucky your younger one is willing to help you.Most times,first born in most families are always financially unstable than their younger one, parents use them as samples to set up a good record for the other siblings following.This slows them down in life as they are similar to an experimental object in the laboratory.Their younger ones learns from their mistakes and move ahead of them, whilst the first born are still struggling to rise from that mistake.
My opinion ooo even if you do not,what of others,like your friends,family members,parents and even your spouse n children(if you are married).they feel you are lazy. |
Family › Re: How Do You Feel If A Much Younger Siblling(s) Pays Your Bills by coputa(op): 5:08pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
SLAP44: "Onye ji ife kwaa nna ya, obughi di okpara gburu ya". - Igbo proverb. @SLAP44 please interprete. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Richmond Leigh Is Dead by coputa(m): 5:02pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Enosa1: Just as he will always say "the worship must continue". Hallelujah yes o |
Family › How Do You Feel If A Much Younger Siblling(s) Pays Your Bills by coputa(op): 4:50pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Life is unpredictable,it is not for the swiftest or the smartest,it comes with a lot of opportunities and challenges.We all sometimes find ourselves at a dead end: rent arrears,school fees,car repairs,medical bills,food,clothings,marriage. etc and the resources to rescue ourselves is not within reach.and a much junior sibbling(s)cames to our rescue,how do you feel,does this makes you to be a never do well or a failure. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Richmond Leigh Is Dead by coputa(m): 4:27pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
He was a medical doctor,but he resigned and followed his calling to be a pastor.he was a philantropist,he gives,he gave out food items to the needy during the lockdown.residence in warri will mis his yearly jesus mega party hosted every new year eve.one of the most hospitable pastor in warri.he will be mised by all. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are You A Prophet Or Need A Prophet: Come In by coputa(m): 2:41pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
judedwriter: You aren't going to easily find people with prophetic gifts on a forum like this. It's a nice try though.
The gift of prophecy is not given to everyone but we all can access prophesies by the Holy Spirit.
One way is to live a lifestyle of praising God. The more you praise God, the more He speaks to you.
It's not easy though, but as one persists, you will access God's voice easier. A prophet can be found anywhere,even among unbelievers,prophesy is a gift barring your location,age or social status. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are You A Prophet Or Need A Prophet: Come In by coputa(m): 2:37pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Minsk24: Oga you misunderstood me... I referred to the gift of prophecy when i talked about not harnessing prowess... What i mean is this... Due to religion, Africans have demonized their heritage and most Africans have little or no info about the spiritual things going around them because we have all clinged to religion.. People who have the gift of prophecy will run to the church and get themselves indoctrinated into a different thing and start prophecying rubbish... Things we call juju here are part of our heritage and what our extra terrestrial creators left for us but we dont have any info about it.. People dream and it comes tru but they don't know how they can harness things like this instead of running to church.. Thats my point.. Our African heritage has bn decimated by religion Africans have killed their traditional heritage.prophesy is a gift from an infinite source to help humanity.the few that has the gift were discouraged. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are You A Prophet Or Need A Prophet: Come In by coputa(m): 2:26pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Textra: Oh! Now I get you. But here, we are talking about prophecy inspired by God's spirit, Holy Spirit. Pure, undiluted flow of the Spirit. It is different from spiritism or juju. Thank you. I will talk more about that later. Prophecy is a big topic, one must be careful. Many hear from infinite sources for prophesy and solutionr right from their birth or at a particular time in their life,most of them dont go to places of worship,are these powers not from God. |
Family › Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 1:08pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ....So what stops this guy from avoiding this said lady?
Since one of her I'll characters has been exposed?
Do you want him to keep enduring and suffering in marriage out of pity? You 're getting it all wrong, i told you earlier that no woman is one hundred percent good,if a man sees something bad in every woman(which he cannot endure) then that man is not matured enough to get married,even when the unseen one's have not rear their ugly head.marriage is tolerance,endurance and patience.if you dont hv this dont go into the institution. |
Family › Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 12:53pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ....Why enduring when you can avoid it? You can only avoid what you see,women character are hidden,they 're shown bit by bit. |
Family › Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 12:47pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
GIdiata: THAT'S WHAT MEN THAT HAVE SENSE WANT TO CORRECT. WHEN A WOMAN DO WRONG. U COME AND PREACH EMOTIONS TO US.
oga it's STALE Wrong! You can never correct or change a woman,you endures.ask your elders. |
Family › Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by coputa(m): 12:27pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: ...Keep it up.Thats your choice.
As for me,I ve never taken what does not belong to me and I can't marry such a person. take note that a dishonest woman during courtship can make a good wife,ditto,a honest woman during courtship that latter tears her marriage apart.have you not seen a pastors wife stealing and telling lies,did the pastor make the wrong choice at the onset,NO. |