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khalhokage:
So people are complaining that it's too expensive? nawa, this is much cheaper than the capped plans of Swift and the rest na!
Nigerians will complain about anything.

HsLBroker:
you need to come and see for yourself or send someone down here.

I have my own personal site at SIMAWA too, there is an estate called treasure garden, they are selling their glass house @ N5m a plot, garden of Eden selling @ N1.2m, they are another estate in over 50 estates around this area,

But this particular land is a family land, you will process your personal documents yourself like, survey plan, but you will get receipts and deed of assignment front the families,

I will always be around to help, you will pay N80, 000 after paying for the Land to start construction to roofing level.

Roofing payment is N100k.

Don"t tell me is not applicable in your community.

There is electricity in the Area because are already living there.

Thanks.

linearity:
Vehicles are now compactalized, with a good scanner, your vehicle manual and access to YouTube, you barely need a mechanic these days as vehicles have gone computer.

The truth is, I now only need a mechanic when I need body work or painting done on my car. With my scanner, I can locate the bad component and YouTube have countless videos on how to change them and if it a scanner code can result from the malfunction of more than one component, with my meter and a few more YouTube search, you can acertain the normal readings or behave of the component eliminate the one that doesn't conform.

kcwitch:
Be informed before you speak sir. There is a full scholarship programme for the poor amongst other welfare platforms. Be informed before conclusion. Get all the premises first.

rassan:
My fellow nairalanders, this guy may not be scammer. Because he stated it clearly that the car requires body work. Could u believe that i bought a 2008 honda accord spirit with black leather seat for 500k but I spent 50k to repair the gear box and 40k to overhaul the V6 engine. But the owner sold it because of bad gear box/engine which he has changed up to 3times due to inexperienced mechanics. Owner was afraid of v6 engine which cost almost 500-600k. But by Gods grace i am now a proud owner of honda evil spirit from nairaland with chikele money. So try to examine any car u are buying on nairaland/olx. Most of them are not scammers, But victims of bad mechanics

aieromon:
Wow,if not for the number plate,I would have accused you of posting my ride online....

Happy sales!

x240:
it is not your job to treat her. She has a personal disorder and anger is the only way for her to show it.

What she needs is a psychiatrist to help her overcome her anger issues. You aren't qualified enough and since you play a dominant role in her life and you are a trigger for her anger period. You aren't suited to really help her effectively.


Visiting a mental health practitioner doesn't have to be only when someone is walking unclad on the streets.

She may have chemical imbalances which doubles her anxiety levels and causes such anger episodes and may be given long term medications, things to avoid to help her overcome this.

Her own characteristics is even peculiar as she always likes to make a scene by shouting and inviting third parties. Just a warning to you.... It would aggravate if you continue with her without seeking medical help. She would drag you outside and your neighborhood would have to come settle numerous quarrels and I fear you would spiral out of control one day. Slap her to calm her down or show your superior and things might spiral out of control. It's already happening(You blocking her hands from making phone calls) What wkuld be next? Lock her indoors and wrestle her to the floor so she can't cause a scene?


Truth is, this is not something you overcome in a day. It takes years to undo 20 years of attitude, environment and nature. Stay safe.

mencade5:
Please bear with me. The thread is a bit long. This thread is about me and not my friend. (lol)

i honestly need mature advise from the married and matured folks here.

I am in a very serious relationship with this lady. This is our 12th months together and i plan to propose to her in few months time.

I observe that she has hot temper. Each time we had little misunderstanding she flare up and wouldnt calm down for us to resolve and settle it amicably.

Being a gentleman i believe there are no perfect relationships. Quarrels and disagreements must pop up no matter what.

Yesterday we quarreled due to certain issue we had agreed on. I must confess i caused it but i was quick to realise it and apologise but she wouldnt listen. She made an attempt to call a friend of hers to report the issue. I stopped her. She again wanted to call her pastor too i blocked her hands and was surprise why she is inviting third parties to our matter. She was even voicing it out for people to hear us quarreling and i was calming her down to lower her voice.

This lady is the type every man needs. Religious, good cook, prayerful and she gives me advise on so many occasion.

Her parents are late and she was abandoned by her brothers and sisters due to change of religion. I dont know maybe this affected her attitude.

I myself i have my own wrong sides yet i am ready to accept her wrong and hope she do the same to me. But she wouldnt.

I have talked to her about her anger and made her understand that it is not good for us. Yet yesterdays event surprised me.

Please sorry about the long post. I just need advise or advises about how to handle this issue with my woman.

To add she is 23 and i am 29 years.

MARKone:
Let me advice you as a Junior brother, hold on to that proposal first, till you are sure that she will change, or that you can fully accommodate her anger issues, against all odds. You see, a lot of people do notice some character or attitudinal flaws in their partners during courtship, yet they end up getting married hoping that they can manage it, but they end up getting burnt wishing that union never happened. Anger Is a little fit of madness, it can get dangerous and deadly, as that person at that moment, might not know what he or she is doing. I am telling you from experience, hold on till you are sure, start by telling her plainly that you can't continue with relationship, if she doesn't change. And you, I hope you no be the type wey dey make pesin craze.

chocolateme:
It is well.. So na you and her pastor go dey marry her now, because finally na the pastor opinion and decision go dey rule in your marriage with her.
This is not good at all.

Anwonspee:
Thank you. I appreciate

Enouwem:
If this thread doesn't make front page, BAN ME

Bukaiske:
I know dat with all dis pictures on d Internet, your haters will drink ota pia pia.............Kemi come and see oooooooooo.....Omo Iya eleja ati ponmo is moving forward oooooooooo.......

tolugar:
Op according to your closing balance,


YOU ARE BROKE