Small sense like this, dem no get.

May God bless you Mr/Mrs Dada, may God meet you at the point of your need, you will never lack. Your family shall continually be a blessing. No weapon fashioned against you and family shall prosper, we love you.

No 1, let her see herself as husbandless, take up her cross, find pleasure in making money and face her children squarely, making sure she has
d number of children she can handle alone.
Your sister should leave him to marry second wife and still encourage him to marry third and fourth sef, na him go get problem last last.

breakthrough22:


If she stays too long in her father house,I will never accept her back .

Seriously, I have missed my family but I am not accepting her back if she spend the remaining days in January in his dad house and I will never send a dime to them

And that's the worst you can do. Stop feeling some people can't survive without you. Irrespective of your decision, life goes on.

ahnie:
Show her this picture of herself 50yrs from now,I bet she won't be proud of herself.

50 years from now, I feel people will be going about naked and it will look normal while wearing clothes will look abnormal.

You should be grateful

Polygamy is not bad, just that it usually comes with problems and chaos, if it's not coming from the first wife, it will definitely come from second or third wife, or the husband, Even Ned who has all the money, some of the wives still left, obviously there are issues not seen that these people face, and some men are their own problem, they lack that wisdom to generally manage a home as the number one person in the family.
Well... polygamy always sound nice and pleasant until when you give it a trial.

Christmas is about the son of God, Jesus Christ, it is about how he came to give us love, joy and hope. And the same is expected of us to give love, joy and hope among ourselves and especially to the less priviledge during this period.

His eyes Don clear, maybe the new wife is not even better afterall.

Try lumog

When parents neglect their duties like this, the government should collect the girls from them and put them up for adoption since they have decided to keep a spoilt orphan at the detriment of their kids.

If this girl knows all the evil perpetrated by her father, she will go and hide her face. The first man i will see that there was nation wide jubilation when he was announced dead. Abaca bacha a bachaa

Falz is blessed with a God fearing mum. God bless your home mum falana

He is already writing his book. In the next maybe 50 years someone will likely pen down all this or make a film.

Guy, your marriage lack communication, your wife is not seeing your as understanding enough, draw her closer, talk to her, let her see you as her number one. You are the man here, take charge, draw her to yourself, learn how to softly touch her mind, be the brother and sister she seriously crave for. You can easily control a woman by showing her love and loyalty, its starts from the mind.
When a woman starts disclosing things that happen in her home, especially the unpleasant ones, then the husband has not been really meeting up with her commnication needs.

Do you appreciate her too?

Anytime you collect salary call him immediately and beg him to borrow you some cash, if he ask about your salary, tell him you are paying for a loan. Or better still use 80 percent of your salary to collect loan for the next a year. He will learn to be independent financially.

Your husband is still angry with you, you can try to send him a text and apologise for hanging up on him, and if he refuse to respond, then let him be, time heals all wound.

No 2, let your sibling and fiance let him be, no amount of quarrel from you two should be transferred to your families, I feel its because of the respect they have for him they've bn calling, but since he doesn't seem to care, they should let him enjoy his freedom.

If the situation is on the reverse case, I trust the man will never support the woman. Well... don't be fast to divorce, you can just go and stay with your family pending the time you will put to bed, he will likely get a solution that suites you before you get back to him.

Correct

shadrach77:
This Princess is an extremely horrible person inside-out. That's why she is being avoided like a leper in the entertainment industry. Here is someone who married and the marriage lasted three weeks!!!

Okay Baba Ijesha misbehaved but why did she have to ruin his life just to pay him back for jilting her?

Then she still had the audacity to come out and start portraying herself like the victim. In a sane environment she would have been behind bars too cause the girl's abuse was due to her negligence/neglect

If it's your daughter or sister, you would definitely see it from another perspective.

raphroye:

You be dullard.. Imagine if you were the person it happened to

(You be dullard.. ) Same to you.....

raphroye:
Do you think your friend or his wife will be happy with you posting it on a social media?? Things like this should be private... You even posted it with her name really? What kind of friend are you Even toddler would know what to do without bringing it to Nairaland... I hope he won't see your threads, cuz I know they would be pizzed at you

Rest abeg, are you the one to teach him what to do? Or is he a baby? Oversabi

Bring one of your siblings that doesn't tolerate nonsense in. You will thank me later.

Hope your uncle also help the wife too? Because some men are usually fond of saying some responsibilities are purely for the women forgetting they also have responsibilities that are purely for a man too. Which they usually want the woman to help.
They are suppose to be helpmate, if the man is the type that can't help the woman then let him gladly carry his cross. But if he's not, let them get a marriage counselor.

If you are a Muslim, nothing you can do about it because you have been formatted that way. I know of an Alfa who normally use cane to beat his third wife anytime she misbehaves. He said it's allowed in their religion.
You will def kill her one day.

May God bless you sir, and that is the religion of peace and love, unlike our brothers who are always blood thirsty.

It's really painful and shameful to think they call us Nigerians with these wicked animals.

Wicked + ugly

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Let one of your younger siblings who doesn't tolerate nonsense come spend sometime too.

We understand but you guys tried and we don't have any thing against you, we understand the role bubu played in the loss, Nigerians have moved on since