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If they insist, let her go, you can't love her more than her parents.

MS247:
Ode blame your simp nephew

My elder brother took me to each and every land , property and asset he owned..

Because he took you there does not mean it belongs to you o. It belongs to his children, go hustle for yours too.

Should we say you know not the meaning of bullying? Clout chaser.

Continue, shebi na because you get good health, when you pick one or two infections from them, your brain will reset.

Ujay01:
Congratulations Ilebaye , Gen Z Baddie.

Congratulations to Tatiana4u, Kowema, Nhazeru, FrankGiel, ChristoBam, Seunomobo, AwkaFinest, and all Ilebaye supporters here. You all did great, defending your girl when necessary and voting to ensure she is crowned the winner.

Thanks to the defenders, some of us can't defend much but we can only xpress our feelings by voting. Congrats Baye. Do us well by making us proud.
And please say no to oppression n bullying. Let love lead anywhere we find ourselves.

chichriso:
PLEASE, READ THIS POST VERY WELL AND DROP YOUR COMMENT/ADVICE FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS IN PAIN RIGHT NOW.

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I have come to love this blog like my family, I visit here like no man,s business, even my husband knows but he is a very busy man and doesn't do blogs. We've been married for 9years and have 4 children. I love him like kilode and he does too to the extent his friends use us as example of what a marriage should be.


Now, the issue ‎is, a month ago my husband said we should have anal sex, I thought he was kidding because our sex life is already very wild and adventurous, so I was wondering what else he wants; 2 weeks ago he pleaded again that we should try it,to make him happy I agreed, but we had to stop because I almost fainted in pain.


Now my hubby is ignoring me for days now.


I even wanted to check if he is having an affair but i'm not the snooping type because we trust each other; I have prayed, cried and tried talking to him, still no headway. How can a marriage going so smoothly suddenly turn to this? We haven't talked for days now as he keeps ignoring me, only attending to our kids.

I'm becoming mentally and emotionally frustrated and I don't want to talk to any of my friends about it, so I decided to write to here for advise. Please, help, what should I do?‎



http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/07/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_27.html

If you like, die because of a man, wo... no man will die for you, don't let anyone force you into doing what you don't want. Na one life we get oooo

Sanqa:
Someone help me with the scores

Venita : Baye

Ven : 99% points insults
Baye : 120 milli

The only reason people are japaing, even with your money n fame, you're nor still safe.
It is well.

fitzmayowa:
If the HMs give audience to IIebaye more, most of them would have seen her differently, my respect for her grew when she advised Ike about controlling his demons and this is someone that damaged her property.....

Imagine It was Seyi, Ike or Pere that was given that kind of treatment, I trust them to revenge even if the world apologise to them.

fitzmayowa:
They all treat her like a small kid who isn't suppose to be amongst them, she can't contribute to a convo because they don't value her opinion, worse of all they expect her to be kneel and greet them everyday to show them respect, now top that up with everyone giving her this strange look of we are going to end you soon.....


In of all this will want to make her go apologise so she can be comfy in the house a bit.....

I really feel for the girl. I know many of them could have done more or even worse if they were in her shoes.

They are only helping her game, but I pray the girl will be able to stand strong

Ilebaye will win, I use to divide vote for her and seyi before, but right now, my votes for ilebaye or no one else.

Giel:
Big brother asked ilebaye what's going on between herself and the hoh

Ilebaye says ike keeps stepping on her toes
She gives multiple examples

1.
When he made toast. She told him to wash the toaster since he's the last person that used it and he exploded on her saying he'll be the one to give her the 3rd strike.
She had to calm down and not say anything.

2nd time.
She and Ceec cooked because of their punishment they Prepared chicken and beef and Ike came to ask for but ceec told him. Ike insisted and they told him. If you take. That's your share, We many not give you another one and before they finished talking Ike took a big piece meat and ran away.

Later he came back, She had to give him a small piece because if someone takes a big meat that's what they do. They give a small piece of meat again
Ike also went off on her again. Told her again that she'll get a 3rd strike
She didn't say anything again.

3rd
There was a time when he was sharing things
and there was a razor that she and Doyin ordered, so when she stretched out her hand to collect it. He slapped her hand away. She had to calm down and tell ceec to help her get it.

Ilebaye starts crying.

Awww I feel bad

She says Doyin came to tell her that Ike and mercy were discussing her and that they'll give her the last strike, doyin had to go ask mercy about it.

Ilebaye says she hasn't done anything to him
She has done her best not to react but he's stepping on her toes.
She feels he should just stay on his own lane.
She's says she's learning her lesson on how to react to things.
Then she another example

4th example
There was a time she was sleeping and from her sleep, she heard him shouting her name ilebaye. She didn't want to answer because she didn't want anything to trigger her.
Doyin even told him she's going to collect ilebaye's batteries but Ike didn't listen he came to drag the duvet away from her body. She says if someone does it to him he won't be happy.

Ilebaye then said she wants biggie to help her talk to him to stop saying that he'll make her get her 3rd strike and let him stay on his own lane and let her stay on hers

Big brother tells her the good thing is that she's learning to manage her emotions
Big brother also tells her to read the rule book and again and says he'll consider her request.

I feel her pains, and It brought tears in my eyes, because I have experienced such frustration before, don't worry, I'm sending my love to you with some votes.

May God heal them in the North

With what is going on in this country, you guys still have mind to do gender switch palava... your school fees will soon be switched. Its then you would understand your present status.

Boiled, I hate stress

Lori iro

Am happy for banky w, Davido has finally rescued him.

Re tarded people with a st*pid religion, fighting for their God. Una no dey think atall?

Exmilitant:
In movies kids sleeps in a cot in a separate room.
Shouldn't it be so in real life?

How old are you?

Funny enough subsidy will be removed, money will be channeled to politicians pockets. The fuel will likely get more n more expensive, light will not be available, while masses keep buying more fuel.

Japa

Hello fellow n power beneficiary, let storm our new president page congratulating him and demanding he retaing current serving npower. Anything is possible. Ask and it shall be given.

Not a bad idea if he stayed with his parents but he shouldn't marry there, else the marriage is doomed to fail.

Because he's a human activist, so he doesn't deserve better and quality health care when he worked for his money.
Most of the good doctors have relocated.
You wan kill our boy abi?

She's likely pregnant.

Never lend money to Nigerians, except you know you can let go of it.

Marriage is not even for everyone.

Think well o, if your mum next of kin is not you, if she dies , your properties don go be that.

Normally, it should be the wife, but if she's greedy and senseless, go for your child, but if you don't have child yet, then the mother if she's sensible too. Because woman na woman o, and the one that will be senseless will be senseless.

A woman who is sensible is already sensible, it doesnt matter weather she is a mother in law or wife, woman na woman, but the ones who have sense is an exception n special. A wife can have sense while the mother in law is senseless, and the mother in law can have sense while the wife is senseless, but then, they are both wives to different men, both of them can have sense and they can both choose to be senseless.

You can not please a man, therefore do what makes you happy. No matter how much you try he will likely please himself. Never let your happiness depend on anybody.
Try if you can, and if not accept yourself and choose to be happy, the worst that can happen is him taking a 2nd wife.