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FoodSolar Cooking by Cousin9999(op): 12:44am On Oct 12, 2025
This is just a place to drop info on what cooking with solar devices is like.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiSqwJe8Bto?si=NUI3NQfPYiy8k_qi
CelebritiesRe: Chuck Nwapa And Nonye Ukoh's Wedding In Italy by Cousin9999: 12:25am On Oct 12, 2025
You're a rich black man and can have your wedding anywhere, and you choose...a white country. Not only do you choose a white country, you choose one populated by some of the most notorious racists. Seriously?

All throughout Africa, there are gorgeous, sprawling mansions. There are beautiful mountains, waterfalls, beaches, and wilderness. If you want a fairytale wedding, you could ride up on a gold covered horse with an orchestra playing, dripping in diamonds, at any of these locations.
CareerRe: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Cousin9999: 9:36pm On Oct 11, 2025
You can raise your kid abroad, or you can do well back home and send them to university abroad. You can go abroad, or just start a business or invest in real estate there. You can try to set your kid up abroad, or set them up very well back home. Why do people focus on just going abroad?
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Prefer Fat Women? by Cousin9999: 6:38am On Oct 11, 2025
This is a lie created by whites. Furthermore, throughout most of their history, whites preferred "fat" women. You see this in their art, and media that isn't that old. Marilyn Monroe was fat.

But getting back to why black men like a certain body type:

- Male biology - A thicker woman with an hourglass shape signals health and the ability to carry a child.

- It feels better - Who wants to rub bony thighs or a flat butt?

- Black men have larger anatomy - Men with smaller appendages tend to want skinny women.

- Black women carry weight well - Other races of women aren't shaped that well, and the bigger they get, the worse they look. It's the opposite with black women.

- Contrast - Some men (and women) find contrast attractive. Hard muscle versus softness. They associate a softer physique with femininity and sexiness.

- Black men like mature bodies - Maybe it's because other races don't age well, but they tend to skew much younger with features they find attractive. But black men like women who look like grown women, so big hips, and everything else.

- Extra portions - It's like double portions of whatever food you like.

ETA: Masculinity and Confidence - Men who aren't secure in themselves tend to like small, frail looking women. Black men don't have that problem.
FoodRe: What Are The Alternatives To Cooking Gas? by Cousin9999: 3:58am On Oct 08, 2025
Solar cooker
https://www.sunshineonmyshoulder.com/types-of-solar-cookers/

4 types:
-Panel
-Box oven
-Parabolic
-Evacuated tube

And no, I have not used one, so I don't know how well they work.
FoodRe: Which One Would You Go For First? (pictures) by Cousin9999: 9:36pm On Oct 04, 2025
Corn
RomanceRe: I'm Just Catching Cruise - Mandy Kiss Begs For Forgiveness Over 100-Men Sex by Cousin9999: 2:50am On Sep 29, 2025
I hope police keep pressure on her.
TravelRe: Cheap Houses In Detroit, Michigan by Cousin9999(op): 1:08am On Sep 28, 2025
JaySterling:
How does one purchase ? Can you help in facilitating the sale
You're dealing with the government to do this, not individuals or private companies.

Programs have official government websites that provide all the necessary information. And there are people within government that you can contact to explain everything and guide you through the process. Government also provides free workshops/classes on the process.
Foreign AffairsRe: No Work Without Digital ID, UK Government Declares by Cousin9999: 12:46am On Sep 28, 2025
Skydivine:
Can you mention 1 or two ways they are messing up other countries?

I know one major problem is the world bank loan which is draining resources from interest payments. But is it their fault that our leaders are thieves and not able to use those loans judiciously.
Or wars? Why can’t Africans live peacefully among themselves?
Or exploitation of natural resources? Why can’t African add value to the natural resources and control price of final product?
Why must we blame others for self inflicted wounds?
These books provide plenty of examples:

Also, American Neocolonialism: Its Emergence in Asia by William J. Pomeroy

FashionRe: Ekwutoziam Chinedu Ogwus Bags Africa UK Best Women’s Boutique Award In London by Cousin9999: 12:34am On Sep 28, 2025
Originalsly:
No doubt ...there are boutiques that sell very expensive shoes etc....the Gucci ..the Luis Vuitton etc ... name brands the ordinary man can't afford but the names are well known.Real celebrities wear these brands. Do real celebrities wear her brand?
I'm talking about boutiques that make everything on the shelf.

And celebrities are not a measure of anything.

I'm not pulling her down for building and growing a business ... my problem is not with her but with the report. Is it a must to exaggerate? That has a negative effect.
Better to "exaggerate" someone doing something good than hyping do-nothings. You keep talking about celebrities when a significant amount of them are h00kers, drūg dealers, pīmps, child abusers, wife bēaters, r**ists, and racists.
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Cousin9999: 10:21pm On Sep 27, 2025
Read this book:

TravelRe: Japan Scraps Africa 'Hometown' Initiative With Nigeria, others by Cousin9999: 10:00pm On Sep 27, 2025
And nothing was lost.
Foreign AffairsRe: No Work Without Digital ID, UK Government Declares by Cousin9999: 9:50pm On Sep 27, 2025
This won't be as strong of a solution as they think.

There's a lot of money in illegal immigration. And the illegal immigrant networks can do everything, including getting a real digital ID.

The other reality is that employers who prefer human trafficking to employment will look the other way. If they really want to stop this, they'll put those people in prison. Not a fine. Not a slap on the wrist. Prison time.

If they really, truly want to solve this "problem," they'll stop messing up other countries' economies. Almost no immigrant wants to go to UK/US/AU/CA. They're refugees of neocolonialism.
FashionRe: Ekwutoziam Chinedu Ogwus Bags Africa UK Best Women’s Boutique Award In London by Cousin9999: 9:29pm On Sep 27, 2025
Originalsly:
Which celebrity wears this brand? ...local or international? Competing with world renown brands? ...when not a house hold brand name locally? Instead of building a brand we're beating our chest .... chicken just hatch and we're bragging about the golden eggs it will lay. Is it a must to exaggerate?
There are tons of boutiques that sell really expensive shoes, dresses, and etc. that only the very rich know exist. Do you think someone selling shoes for $3000 a pair or dresses for $10000 each cares whether they're a household name?

Also, it takes real talent, study, and hard work to do what she does. If someone can't respect that... people celebrate people for much, much less.

You have all these trashy, talentless entertainers that get hyped up. There are people who are celebrated for doing nothing but having a rich daddy. How are people complaining about someone who actually does something of value? And again this is something built with her own two hands.
RomanceRe: All This Porn Stars .. by Cousin9999: 2:41am On Sep 27, 2025
erniok:
Do you have an e-copy?
No. Sorry.
RomanceRe: Why I Support Monopoly In A Developing Country by Cousin9999: 2:38am On Sep 27, 2025
Nah, bro.
RomanceRe: The Sad Reality Of Most Men Who Wish To Get Married. by Cousin9999: 2:34am On Sep 27, 2025
If that's how you view women, you shouldn't be marrying anyone.
FashionRe: Ekwutoziam Chinedu Ogwus Bags Africa UK Best Women’s Boutique Award In London by Cousin9999:
Tendd:
Our women must learn to take their health serious.Too many are either overweight or obese.Not appealing at all.
She's neither overweight nor obese. She's beautiful. Sexy.

You seem jealous.

Do you even like women?

ETA: This woman likely has big hips, big booty, and big thighs. Like bodybuilders, that shape can look fat in certain clothes. Women with big boobs can look fat in certain shirts.

Also, she seems to carry weight away from her abdomen. Research shows that people who carry weight away from organs are healthier. That means that not only is she not fat, but she's healthier than someone at the same weight who's not shaped like her.
RomanceRe: A Woman Is A Supernatural Creature That Operates In A Different Realm by Cousin9999: 3:18am On Sep 24, 2025
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RomanceRe: The Myth Of Monogamy’s Perfection by Cousin9999: 4:01am On Sep 22, 2025
Plenty of men whine about dealing with one partner and a couple kids. Imagine them with two and three, and a dozen kids.
RomanceRe: Why Are The Gen Z Inconsistent And Hypothetic?? by Cousin9999: 3:56am On Sep 22, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
You should be happy she was honest with you with her reply.......Cuz,come to think of it,what else does she really has to offer?, angry
Ancient Romans thought of women this way. Modern West Asians view women this way. And they both heavily engage in homosexual sex.
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Cousin9999: 11:39pm On Sep 21, 2025
UncleHaba22:
Beans and Yam with Kpomo

Special 😋
This reminds me of how people on here keep saying people shouldn't eat kpomo/ponmo or that it's weird (silly), and that reminds me how:

- People throughout the Caribbean eat it. But it's in soup, and includes part of the foot too.

- I think that this is the reason Black Americans eat pig feet. They think it's "slave food" (undesirable stuff given to enslaved people) that people kept eating, but I think their ancestors substituted one thing for another.
RomanceRe: Saw My Self Naked In The Dream Roaming In Market by Cousin9999: 11:06pm On Sep 21, 2025
Naked dreams can mean:
vulnerability:
When you are without your clothes, you are also most vulnerable. There is absolutely nothing that you can hide behind. Thus the dream may parallel a waking situation where you feel helpless or where you have completely let your guard down.

fear of exposure:
Becoming mortified at the realization that you are naked in a public place may reflect your fear of being exposed and feelings of shame.

insecurity:
Your naked dream may also point to insecurity issues. You feel that all eyes are always on you - laughing at you, judging you or criticizing you.

feeling unprepared:
Nudity also symbolizes being caught off guard, not measuring up or not being ready for some important task.

arrogance:
Some dreams where you find yourself naked may be pointing to your arrogance in some waking situation. By stripping you down to your birthday suit, the dream may serve to humble you.

freedom of expression:
If you dream that you are proud of your unclothedness and show no embarrassment or shame, then it symbolizes your unrestricted sense of freedom. You have nothing to hide and are proud of who you are.

attention:
In some cases, dreaming of being in the nude implies that you are looking for attention. You want to get noticed,
RomanceRe: Stop Calling It "Sex Work" by Cousin9999(op): 10:54pm On Sep 21, 2025
Why Pr0stitution is Not “Sex”
...The presence or absence of mutuality is the determining factor in a psychologically and emotionally healthy sexual exchange, not consent.
Why Pr0stitution is Not “Work”
Not every activity which is compensated should be dignified by the terms ‘employment’ and ‘work.’...prostitution is an irredeemable form of exploitation and in no meaningful way comparable to actual work.
https://endsexualexploitation.org/articles/why-prostitution-is-not-sex-work/
RomanceRe: Stop Calling It "Sex Work" by Cousin9999(op): 10:46pm On Sep 21, 2025
Many that use the term ‘sex work’ and ‘sex worker’ do so for good reason, and genuinely believe this language is more respectful of the women. In fact, women in prostitution rarely describe themselves as ‘sex workers’. The term belies the reality of prostitution, and dignifies the buying and selling of women’s bodies, rather than the women themselves.
Sex buyers have described prostitution as like “renting an organ for 10 minutes”...this experience serves to dehumanise the women, and the effects of this are wide-ranging, including depression, su*cidality, post traumatic stress disorder, dissociation, substance abuse, eating disorders and more.
https://juliebindel.substack.com/p/weasel-words-there-is-no-such-thing
RomanceStop Calling It "Sex Work" by Cousin9999(op):
https://www.feministcurrent.com/2024/05/15/the-dystopian-place-sex-work-is-work-takes-us/
We are talking about sexual exploitation, abuse, and trafficking. We are talking about the trade of human beings and selling access to the bodies of women and girls.

No matter how much men who pay for sex might like to see this as a mere transaction, for the human being being penetrated it is her body at its most vulnerable. One does not separate the vagina from the being nor the verbal and physical abuse inherent to the sex industry from the soul. The standard progressive, feminist view that having sex with someone against their will is rape is mysteriously disappeared when money exchanges hands, as though payment nullifies trauma or the fact that a man knowingly having sex with someone who doesn’t want to be there is a reprehensible being.
RomanceRe: The Porn Myth by Cousin9999(op): 10:27pm On Sep 21, 2025
People really need to read this book.

People need to understand how damaging this stuff is.
TravelRe: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by Cousin9999: 5:10am On Sep 20, 2025
Just got to the US? Need a hustle? Winter is right around the corner:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e8R2bfeCqQ?feature=shared
RomanceRe: All This Porn Stars .. by Cousin9999: 5:03am On Sep 20, 2025
Olaolar:
THE HAVE PARENTS ALSO?
Nah one mama born them o..
Came from one home, they've also be a child before ..

So how comes they turn to like this?
When?
How?
Why?
Its because of MONEY or FAME ?
Some of it is human trafficking.

Some of it is behavior stemming from abuse.

This book does an excellent job of breaking it all down:

TravelRe: Young Nigerians Wasting Away On Canadian Streets After Relocation Dreams by Cousin9999:
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