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Summary . . no one is discrediting our 1st class graduates. We wuld appreciate if courtesy is also extended to those without it cos experience has taught me that theoretical intelligence differs from that of the practical. Some people are unable to express their knowledge well in writing but if u put them on the practical job, they excel sometimes even better than those with better grades.

Tatafo

ok.

adim2: For example somebody like soyinka was branded a failure and has nothing to offer but now we celebrate him because another man had shown us what soyinka can do. Had it been he was not opportune to travel out, do you think people would have seen him as an intelligent man? Do you think nigerian's would have given him chance to excel academically? But now we cheer him and proudly associate ourselves with him cos a white man refined him and made him excel in academic, they showed us the intelligence level of soyinka we did not see here in nigeria. Have u ever wonder why these people are quick to shout REMARK when good grades flows in a particular course? And then quickly praise a lecturer if they see lots of F's? Would you conclude that all the students are not intelligent? Making such statement means one has committed fallacy of IGNORANTIO ELENCHI.

I am totally inluv with ur posts! makes so much sense . .

Caracta: Pls date the oyinbo girls and leave us alone biko. Na by force? Hian!

Abi oo . . LOLZ

* Why does ur gender say F?

* Nollywood will explain ur condition as " under d influence of jazz"

* Heard derz a medical condition dat affects d senses sometimes . . dunno d term (im not a doctor) but u may inquire from a doc.

yoyo

WELL . . . he cant say she tricked him into getting preggers cos therez no full-proof contraception. they r not 100% guaranteed to work. and since she obviously dint get herself preggers thru immaculate conception, he needs to take responsibility. If he wasnt prepared for it, he wuld av been more careful and kuku abstain.

Dat said, If shez adamant on the marriage and hez a responsible guy, he'll forget all his doubts and settle with her since they were initially dating so im guessing he has feelings for her. Even marriages started with so much love crumbles sometimes.

Or . . if he can have some legal document binding him to the mother and child's welfare (a certain monthly contribution), it culd suffice. Dunno bout her parents tho . .they'll b d major problem.

He needs to have a heart to heart talk with her on the way forward . .not tossing blames at any1.

Caracta: Gbam! You can say that again.

I checked your profile and saw your location

Hahahaa . . Hez not complaining . .

na wa oo . . .

Can we try making points without insults?

cricifixo: Why is it that the oyinbo girls will have their first date over a cup of coffee, but d "Naija girl" will feed herself like there's famine in the land! You girls seriously need 2 soft pedal o

Y did u take her to a place where she can consume like derz famine in d 1st place? . . . if u have issues with it, look for a gurl who wants coffee and stop complaining.

Tetanus

LOLZ . . . nice thread . . .keep 'em coming!

adim2: Guy if at this level u can't comprehend a fellow man's point of argument then, i don't think you are an intellectual. I have been following ur lines of arguments but in the cause of such you have resorted to using foul languages where as you are not making any point. Its seems you do not understand the politics of education in nigeria. He has no where nor in anyway accused the first class graduates but he has laid emphasis on technical know how also. So next time when arguing don't be force to make hasty conclusion its defeats ur research. For ur information in as much as we are happy with the first graduates, it doesn't mean that they are more intelligent that any individual cos intelligence varies.

Smart. Was just wondering what necessitated all that foul speech . . Kudos to the governor as well as those who truly made the 1st class based on intelligence. Heard some 1st class graduates are yet to get employed cos they r unable to defend their grade . . .except it was forged or bought, i dont c how dat is possible considering the red carpet such graduates receive. .

@Chuckdee . . some valid pointers there . .

Dumbo

Thanx 2 u too dear.. Its all good.

190: come say hi to 190


single females only

LMFAO!!! character!

Better.

HisRib: Judge her? You are telling me not to judge her but the rest of you have judged me. I am not saying a man needs to be rich, he just has to be able to take care of his woman. Lots of you women try to play that "good girl" role acting like you don't care about money but once you are married you will start creating problems because your husband has no money to buy this or that for you.

In life you need to know what YOU want. Why settle for less because you are afraid of what others will say about you?

I would prefer if you said, I will date a man who doesn't have much money as long as he's willing to work hard to change his situation. I can respect a woman who says that. I can't respect a woman who comes on here giving a fake ass speech to gain fans on a message board.

The same girls who 10 years from now will be crying about how much they are suffering in their "marital home." I don't care what ANYONE says. I will do what is BEST for me.

Let's get REAL please.

Babe calm down . . .

Firstly, i never judged u.

Secondly, refer back to my post where i said he has to get something doing inorder to keep body and soul as well as pride together . .

Iv been married for some years now and Im content with mine. U asked our opinion. We all dont have to agree with urs. If he is broke and his girl likes him broke, FINE by THEM. Its not ur place to correct the girl. To each his own. U want roses, look for a man whoz willing to buy u roses. Therez nottin bad in dat either. . no b fight.

fubbyy: Since my elder brother's best friend return from germany with his rover sport and accord latest model, couple with one powerful power bike, he currently opened his house in asaba

He always tell his stories of girls friend zoning him back in the days when he hasn't traveled out, the funny thing now is that no girl wants to put him in a friend zone now, all wants good relationship,all of them are loyal to the core, all of them apologize even when he is wrong,all of them dumping their bfs for him, the current one just break up her 6 years old relationship for him and none of these gurls know he is just playing games of vengeance

He's just wondering if any girl can put him in a friend zone or even say no to him, he vowed that any1 who do so will surely be the one he will make his wife

My questions is, can an average nigerian girl put a rich guy on a friend zone ?

Lolz . . .how many rich dudes d'u want to marry? take 1 and leave the others as friends. SO based on that, YEAH an average Naija babe can put a rich guy on a friend zone. LMAO! funny topic . .

yoddle

HisRib: Child please, you are lying through your teeth. Girls like you are the first ones to marry broke men and then go and complain to anyone who has ears about how miserable your lives are.

Women have to stop lying to themselves.

U'l never rily know someone until u wear that person's shoes. Dont judge her. U dont know her. Not all women are materialistic.

Emotion

dmcdad: Wow... Thank God there is someone with a good head here...

Nice one girl...

Thanx

HisRib: I NEVER said he has to be RICH. The word Rich never came out of my mouth. I said he has to HOLD his own! That's it.

Kindly substitute RICH with HOLD HIS OWN. All otherz remain valid.

nowhere

Broke men are human and as human, they have as much rights as the rich. . . One man's meat is another man's poison. There will alwayz be a babe for dem. We all dont have equal money-making opportunities and one will not force a broke man into rituals just to satisfy a babe.

However, its not an excuse to lay on the roadside doing nuttn. . . He can always find sth doing to keep body n soul together as well as his pride.

Derz no rules to dating. It depends on what u want/ are okay with.

Animal

YEMEN

bukatyne: Can you define what submissiveness mean?

Dat word has been over-used. . . Continue sleeping around cos ur wife is not submissive. U'v only got urself to blame rily when sth goes wrong cos u have the choice to make ur marriage work or destroy it. Enuff with the flimsy "submissive" excuse already . . nowadays, some women r the breadwinners and the guyz shamelessly drink demselvs silly daily and they expect submissiveness? . . Respect is totally reciprocal. . No one is saying the woman wont play her role but PLZZZZ dont make her a slave in the name of submissiveness . . .In those days, women didnt have jobs . . now they do and its not easy tackling both the house work and their day jobs . .KUDOs to ma sistaz jor!