₦airaland Forum

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

This people no just get shame at all for this life, when them go get shame 🤣😂

phorget:
Why will you give her money? Have you also.m been giving your niggars some money too?

Killbillz:
There's nothing sexually attractive about another man's wife... Even now as I'm watching the match one young girl has been eyeing me even though she came in with two guys and I just noticed her wedding ring now. So I think the right question should be "how many of u married women can resist single guys"
I'm minding my nourishing big stout waiting for Chelsea to register a goal this second half

I must admit, I do some stuffs you talked about and I really believe all girls are not the same.

Like for example, I'm a veryy good liar, I can practically make you believe me despitte your doubtss but I've decided no lie is worth being told.

All girls are not the ssame.

splasyduicy:
then talk to her

sapele914:
Very funny same ipobians that hated zoo Nigeria just last year, come dey beg for President?

Moh247:
You are Ibo, your entire generation know absolutely nothing about politics

No President in 60 years no vice, no Senate President

Quite useless group of drug dealers

Cherish233:
🦜💭 like I'm shocked here oo😳 soo the politicians care about the poor masses 🤔💭
This is absolutely new.

yarimo:
Please don't waste your time reading, all this long writing is full of rubbish. Thank you

IamPlato:
Those people have always been talking but Una never listened so why are you calling them now?

Like as I have said, the CBN governor is a foolish idiot.

Nigeria that operates on over 3trillion cash is getting 200billion worth of new currency, abeg how will that work out?


Many people have not seen the cash.

Rich people are buying it off before it reaches th banks.

The problem is not people taking old notes to bank, the problem is that the currency is not enough.


There are lots of people in many states who are yet to receive the new notes. They have taken their money to the bank but nothing came forth


Changing currency design is the least of our problems now and we all know it.

Phoen1X:
And where was she and her husband while these people were under constant attack ?....

Localemperor:
Now that the naira is scare, what if Tinubu and Atiku decides to spend dollars on election day. I'm just thinking aloud..

Divoc19:
Speak for yourself bro, you are 1 out of a thousand, broke guys hate on girls.

Persephone1:
You mistake me for the women in your life

Persephone1:
And you think I am obligated to share that with you. Lol

You think too high of yourself.

Magnoliaa:
So everyone has been reeling and giving hot takes on Tsunami Buchi (or should I say BuchiGate) since yesterday and I noticed no one has even taken the time to point out a most crucial fact:

The menace and trend that is called "social media slay men."

I strongly believe men being on the Internet, infact they learning how to operate a smartphone is one of the greatest mistakes we women allowed in the 21st century. Yes. Because all of these nonsense were unheard of when they were only seen at farms and at night to warm the beds of the mistresses of the house, but what do we have nowadays? Weak, demasculinized simps everywhere jumping on trends and being woke and giving opinions here and there, without substance, yet deluding and parading themselves as influencers and content creators. Solomon Buchi is a perfect example of the kind of disaster waiting to happen to all social media attention-seeking manwh*res. Men who talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, and in so doing drag their spouses through the mud and exposing them to the public to feast on. Men like Dusting Powder Korra. Men with low self-esteem who can say the vilest things just for clout and views. The only thing that matters to them is being at the centre of conversations, trending, because it feeds their narcissistic ego and gives them an high. And make no mistake, most men are like that. Anyone of them that disagrees is just disguising. They live for the gram life and live their lives for the validation of strangers online, yet they are without value, guinea-fowl-brained, just big words and swag and hopping on trends and topics to comment on every blessed day.

I hope all Real Women and Chics out there are seeing these things and taking note... never settle for a brhoe who is so obsessed over social media and pandering to people. It is also a low-key way they source for sex and material benefits too, as most of them that you see are into gigolo business, connecting with Sugar mummies on Twitter, TikTok and Instagram while forming life coach and sht.

Most especially, avoid the ones who create a cult following online and that "specialise" in teaching men how to be men. They are bitter and loveless and are simply looking for numbers to take and gumbody...

#StayWokeLadys
#ThePinkPill
#TheLadiesMan
#MasculineMouthpiece4Women

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands 😡🤬

Divoc19:
When you say Nigerian men, be specific because the older Nigerian men are still the most caring of them all. 99.9% of Nigerian men on Nairaland are boys who are struggling to eat good food daily.
And that's why they hate on women alot because women ain't cheap here

Persephone1:


Mexican Men all the way ✈️✈️

yrhuhfy113:
wow, awesome... you are right and have a strong point
A very compeling piece of idea about Nigerian men... sadly its true but wholistically its myopic.


I am not here to make a CASE for men... i acknowledge your expressed thoughts as reality but as INCOMPLETE.

SEE, MEN ARE NOT LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY... We are only LOVED BY MERIT, RAISED AS HUNTERS TO COMPETE AND PROVIDE else we are not competent.

THE THINGS YOU MENTION WE LACK ARE ACTUALLY NOT LACKING BUT SURPRESSED BY THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE WE HAVE LIVED THROUGH....


Let me explain... EVEN on the case of wooing or getting a LADY for sex or marriage... LADIES GENERALLY FEEL SAFER WITH A RICH DUDE, THAN A CARING, EMPATHETIC S.O.B. Whyyy because the COUNTRY IS HARD.... and Ladies think of the FUTURE ALOT.
So after being drilled by our parents to always COME FIRST IN CLASS, and being punished for not coming first or not outdoing others.... we now enter a tetiary institution where only the BEST GRADUANDS are assured of jobs or connections... so we have to compete, hustle for money and do everything possible to be among those who thrive or survive.. AFTER YEARS OF LIVING AS A SURVIVOR.... we now marry, with HOOOOOGEE responsibilities, wife and kids... most likely WIFE HAS NOTHING DOING OR EARNS LITTLE YET FEELS ENTITLED TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.... Then we should let down our GUARD and still be as caring, as emotionally sensitive, as all that you women want us to be??
C'mon sis... YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Marry unambitious men from other countries who are not living in the same terrible conditions we have had in NIGERIA... they have emotions to spare, because THEIR FINANCIAL SYSTEM WORKS and is DEPENDABLE... not here. So you can't come here and GENERALIZE, when majority of your GENDER.... WILL CHOOSE SIX CARS OVER SIX PACKS. Pls... have some balance.

Little wonder why MEN are no longer interested in MARRIAGE... because it has become like an orphanage, so baby mama is now what many opt for, so as to retain their freedom. Ladies wanting EVERYTHING yet offering so little JUST BECAUSE THEY EXIST, is the highest form of lowkey witchcraft ever.

ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME..... MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE..... BUT MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO ALL.

copyrites:
Hear what late Prof Dora Akunyili said about Peter Obi.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufS2K5wYpjM

Kewtt:
https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1614523964998524928?t=M8TwAa4_Vfh26oIFsrdp2Q&s=19[/quote]Mumu !! Obi is already sold to nigerians. You cant change that

oyin44:


Being an obidient is a failure

President no be by force....the simple truth is that ,Nigerians don't want obi ..

Tinubu vs atiku is ok with them

DopeAngel:
you mean i should just let it go. there is really nothing i can do? what if something happens eventually, my brother wont be the only one to suffer the pain. we all as a family would still provide solution together. bro if i am not ready now to accept this. then i would not be ready to help solve an issue that was borne out of a decision i was totally against. His decision was made out of fear of further disappointments if he lets go of this one he has now. He is not balanced emotionally right now.d girl wants to tie him down cos ders no age on her side either. Mid 30's and late 30's

ranmoor:
If your bro is rich or d wife, then there is no prob. They can conceive thru IVF. Using in vitro fertilization, they can fertilise the healthy cells and discard the sickle cells... They just have to make sure baby making is thru ivf..
Anything aside that is a real problem! Even the child will not forgive them.
Peace!

eyinjuege:
They are not your children, the stress will be on their parents. Provided they know what they are getting into, its still their decision.
I wouldn't advice 2 people with AS genotypes to marry, but if they decide to, i can only support them and wish them well. I will not try to control their decision and choice, I will not try all the drama the poster is trying to cause at all.
Someone has once told me, the solution to eradicating sickle cell disease is to kill all AS persons as they are the ones passing on the disease. I chose to believe he was joking, but who knows what such a person can do if given the power to. Your own solution is asking them not to marry, not as extreme but still can be taken too far as the OP apparently wants to, in his bid to have the perfect family.
You can advice and educate them on the trials sicklers face, the stress etc but that's all required of you.
I know a lot about sicklers, and i know some so dont think i don't understand where you're coming from

eyinjuege:
Its not your relationship, neither is it your business.
The main thing is for both of them to understand the risks involved, and if they're ready to plunge in, goodluck to them.
Your place as a brother is to support. Not dictate, not rule or instruct your brother.
You should learn to respect your brother's choice and wishes. If you're not ready to support him, you can disown him.

DopeAngel:
this is not really about god. it is about the much disappointments he has faced. he says he is not ready to face any other disappointments while his mates are married so he wants to go ahead with the marriage no matter the cost. its like making decision when pushed emotionally. he is not in his right sense. fear of disappointment and age is behind this drastic decision he took

sapele914:
What is Hahaha? Pdp will win Delta State hands down.

beautyhd:
He (Ihedioha),vilified Peter Obi and condemned the people’s choice hence the rejection.

Although he later apologized but the damage done remained indelible in the hearts of many.