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Ballzproblem2:
I dey laugh you,in other for a black man attract white girls,you have the following


1) good physique (like abs , muscles,you get?)


2) extremely handsome


3) popular


4)rich




don't be deceive by all those fairy tales that white girls don't care about looks or money ,well maybe some ,but women are hypergamous no matter the skin colour.

Number one on your list, can definitely get you lots of sex. Am a living witness

Another kidney and liver killer

MITCHELL96:
You're glady welcoming HIV/AIDs to your life

Can you provide a stat to back up this claim?

ElSudani:
Next time Ndigbo give us someone like Soludo we will support him. But pandora, closet Biafran separatists No.

Whether is soludo or obi, it doesn't matter. You will still spill your hate filled words here. But that doesn't change the fact that obi is your next President

Justicefighter:
I am a very handsome young bizman In my late 30s working tirelessly everyday having no time for women. The ones that try to give me green light are not just too fine for me.

My friends told me to get a young fine girl that can be massaging me so that blood pressure will not go high

if interested indicate o

Gifts and other items are included if well behaved.

Note; I like endowed back and front.

Salary 100k ? A generation idiotic morons

Blessedmercy8:
I don't see anything wrong in what the girl did or said. She already appreciated the 5k and asked for money for shopping, and the guy is busy talking like a chatter box because he sent 5k.

The guy is the one at fault here. Shey because you sent someone a meager 5k that can not even buy a decent sandal, make the girl no talk again or make every body be on standstill? Abeg!

See how he's even talking anyhow because of 5k. No be men dey send ordinary girlfriend 200k commot eyes? How much more someone you want to marry. It's this kid of men that will give their wife 500 naira for pot of soup and be expecting it to last one week with chicken and orisirisi inside soup. Baby girl, leave him. You go see better man.

No matter the pressure, don't marry a stingy or poor man. Abeg I'm out of here.

No better man for her. She should avoid men at all cost

franchasng:
I am a happily married young man, and I can tell you to go and celebrate for you dodged a Russian nuclear missile

Another brilliant mind

pocohantas:
Another foolish female has given a man unrestricted access to personal and even work information in less than 6 months.

Tomorrow when you start going crazy like Empress Njamah’s whatever, people would blame. I don’t understand my gender sometimes.

All those information might just be a decoy. She wants him to feel like he is in control, while she goes around cheating. The moment the guy tried to put those information to good use. Boom !! she dumps him.
She has not explained what she was doing in her office by 11:45 pm that was so important not to pick his calls. She has not explained why she is soo angry that her man called her boss(someone she supposedly spends her working hours with) to know if she is alright

Tonymario58:
Am I the only one not seeing anything the OP did wrong?

Bro, you are not alone

jeromestarks:
There are two kinds Of people on this planet; those who deserve happiness and those who do not.

You're one of those who do not deserve happiness.

You're a fool.
Instead of you to move on and find another girl you're there saying rubbish and wasting your life away.

May you never find peace of mind.

Another myopic and foolish comment. Na call the young make. He didn't kill anybody, you numb skull !! You want to crucify him fir calling his babe boss, because he couldn't speak to her and was still nit yet home by 11:45 pm . Infact all of una be IDIOT

SirJerrie:
My brother...
YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE WORRIED IF THE WOMAN YOU INTEND TO LIVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH BEHAVES LIKE YOUR EX-FIANCEE...

Being OPEN wouldn't cost her anything if she has nothing to hide.
It won't cost her anything to pick up and tell you "Babe don't worry, I'm currently at so so place"

Meeting by "11:45PM"
And she couldn't pick-up her phone to let you know she's okay wherever she was at...
Someone was getting d1cked down and you were getting worried!!!

DON'T LET THESE SERIAL CHEATS HERE ON NAIRALAND MAKE YOU FEEL YOU'RE INSECURE

YOU ARE NOT.
Your reason for being "WORRIED" seems genuine.

SHE HELPED YOU!
OUT OF FEAR OF GETTING CAUGHT, SHE BAILED!!
YOU SHOULD THANK GOD FOR NOT LETTING YOU DIE BEFORE YOUR TIME!!
COUNT YOUR LOSS AND MOVE ON!!!

You stand out and really made alot of sense. He has every right to be worried, if she is not picking her calls by 11.45pm. So what them was the purpose of giving him access to her company info, if not to call when things seems to be wrong ? She could be having a sexual relationship with her boss and she is sad that her boss, now knows about you . Her job is more important to her than you. So she has to do away with you, to keep her job.
Under normal circumstance, nobody will break up with a fiance for just calling the boss, because you are concerned about her whereabout

DispatcherLagos:
Thanks...I will still patronize her in the night

Mumu . Na sex go kill all of una. Always embarassing responsible men

Evilstorm:
It might seem far from our problem in Nigeria, but if you look closely, had it been we have more strong and effecient men, our nation will develop. How can the majority of men demean their selves to simping and u expect a good country

Is always about women for them. Very useless generation of men

Devdevdev:
That guy has a part foreign accent. He doesn't live in Nigeria and obviously didn't grow up here. I'm referring to Nigerians living in Nigeria.

Coding takes time and effort to master. Nigerians only patronise quick money scheme

Chee59:
Do you want the mop and bucket now or later?

You will definitely need it, before 2023 shiloh

Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1, he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects.
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, he will dedicate his finances to that habit.
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5, his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him.
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8, no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected.
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19

I agree with her 100%

Lol. Them never show interest in you, and you are already giving conditions. Nawa oo

Chee59:
To pray not to be as unfortunate as your mom to have a son as you, for sure.

And God keeps giving you what you deserve. Dissapointment year after year. You will still visit shiloh 2024, but the outcome will not be different

Chee59:
You don't know the purpose of shiloh it seems. So daft.

But i know why miserable ladies like you, visit shiloh.

Chee59:
I was at shiloh this year. One of my prayer requests is to never cross paths with deadbeats like you.

Deadbeats ? I could possibly be the most responsible man you have ever come across, in your miserable life. Even cousines and friends can attest to this fact. Just that i don't like idiots like you. But i have a prophesy for 2023. Chee59 will definitely attend 2023 shiloh. Is written in stars.

BigBashiru:
What if the man makes his own money and spends his money on himself and the woman makes her own money and spends the money on herself.

Someone like me I must have my concubine no woman can restrain me cos if she was still in her prime she would do the same i.e. have side boyfriends!

Not a bad idea. That is why is good to be daring at times. You have your own money, and you abandon her with your baby and moves on with your concubine. Then she abandons your baby and goes out with a sugar daddy. When you come back home and meets no food and your children on attended to. You start looking for your wife to beat up. God help your soul, if she is my sister. I will smoke your a$$

Ikennaford:
I keep saying this, real men don't cheat, but keep our options open, nothing deh pussy, is just not discipline, that's why women are emotionally stronger than men..
I'm just looking at the innocent kid, I almost shed tears

Money that should have been used to take care of the poor baby

uptownemmygee:
The man nah apamu, why him go follow side fowl go salon

Na real idiot. Him never take care of him family finish, him dey waste money on one mgbeke

greenmonk:
What right do you have in an organisation if you are not a financial member?

Can that man back that baby and moving around in that manner ? Most of you are really sick

peepydelano:
A mature and well cultured woman will walk away and sort it out with him whenever he returns home.

Did you type this on the thread, where a married man caught his wife with a pastor ? Is so easy to blame others

Jman06:
Unless the wife contributes to the man's finances, she has no right whatsoever to question how the man spends his money!

Maybe the side chick is his source of happiness, sexually and otherwise, hence his decision to spend on her. The wife should deal with that and make do with whatever the man decides to give her.

But if the wife contributes equally to the family's finances, then the man is wrong and should be crucified

I do not know how they live at home or the type of personality the woman has, but would you have typed this, if the woman was caught spending on a random guy ? Would you have typed this, if she is your sister ?

If he is tired, he can officially divorce the woman and let her move on. We should never condone evil, when the opposite gender is at the receiving end of it

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

I don't like the way she reacted. But i can understand her pains. The irresponsible man did not even provide money for the mother of his children, to get a new hair, but could afford one for another woman. That is very unfair. Am sure you will feel very bad, if she is your sister

Chee59:
When you're through crying, use this

Crying about what ? Am not the looser who started a thread, to wail about her inability to find a husband. Your ordeal is just starting. You go visit shiloh tire

Chee59:
What's terrible attitude?
1. A man who's in his 40s but still a playboy and a chronic liar or
2. A 30 year old who is learning from her mistake and very cautious. She won't give sex until she's sure you both are heading somewhere.
This is the behaviour of most ladies above 30.
Say the truth to yourself. Is it bad behaviour because as the men are playing games, she choose not to?

And who is talking about sex here ? Go and fix your terrible attitude, and responsible men will ask for your hands in marriage

I hope sleepy joe and the democrats gets indicted and justice served

Jakumo:
No fess grandma. De ting get as e be.

Who is your grandma ? Was your grandpa a gay ? Dumbo !!

Slynation:
All this stress to what essence...?? ladies love attention, you can bring them back from Mars if you can starve them of such attention...!!

My guy

Just read her message and don't bother to respond