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RomanceRe: A Friend Needs Serious Advice(in A Dilemma) by Crossroad1(op): 8:20am On Sep 14, 2021
BKsoul:
Na the same thing we dey talk.... Your friend is making that silly woman feel irreplaceable, he should take one of his matured brother, both of them should go to the wife's family, tell her and the mum that since she has refused to come home, that he wants to take a new wife, and he will be going with his kids to go stay with his own mum, let everything be on record, every of thier calls should be on record, because once that silly woman realizes that the grass is not greener on the other side, she will come with blackmail on how she stood by him and made him what he is today but she no fit make herself... On no account should he beg her, he should behave like a strong man, because if he begs her to come home, that woman will use him to play ludo oooh, the next thing you will hear when ever the man says or does anything is shebi you are the one who begged me to come home...
the guy na hard man, he just got soft because of the kids.. Let's assume he has someone he can trust to take care of the kids because his mom too is a very busy civil servant, he won't think twice about her
TravelRe: Nigerian Lady Reportedly Denied Australian Visa Due To Homophobic Post by Crossroad1(m): 7:52am On Sep 14, 2021
grin
UTILITYMAY:
What is this?
check the moniker
TravelRe: Nigerian Lady Reportedly Denied Australian Visa Due To Homophobic Post by Crossroad1(m): 7:46am On Sep 14, 2021
Be mindful of your actions on social media especially those who come online and start insulting others or provoke others without being provoked.
Internet never forgets
RomanceRe: A Friend Needs Serious Advice(in A Dilemma) by Crossroad1(op): 7:46am On Sep 14, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
A manager just like that? grin. A bar manager for that matter? lipsrsealed

First of all,women(bannies) who work in hotels and bars always have a higher tendency of getting proposals from different men...And you and I know that women have a chicken brain that ordinary mere things can easily entice lipsrsealed

Oga op,tell your friend that a nairalander named obax said he should just start counting his loses already because it's very clear that madam is already codedly chewing another sweeter diick lipsrsealed

That woman don go....She has already set her mind to purpose of leaving your friend...If not,those her mumu excuses no join one bit self undecided
I even suspect she is having an affair with the so call manager but I can tell him this make I no kuku finish am..
But what about the kids she doesn't have time for?
And no be say she even get her own apartment, she still lives in a room with her mom, her siblings and the kids
RomanceRe: A Friend Needs Serious Advice(in A Dilemma) by Crossroad1(op): 7:43am On Sep 14, 2021
BKsoul:
I hate it, when you make humans like you feel irreplaceable, be it husband, or be it wife, because the other person tends to take it for granted... That woman never talk wetin dey make her avoid her husband, because a responsible woman sef, will be the one disturbing her husband so much on why they have to be together, not in this case she asking the man to come pick his kids while she continues selling beer... The man should inform thier families..
she said the wife's mother have on several occasions told him to come pick his family.. The mother wants the family together.. The woman left her husband due to violence and abuse which she still suffer back injury from till date but says she regret leaving her husband..
Na the guy wife be the problem now..
CrimeRe: "Women Are Very Easy To Deceive"- Kidnapper Who Lures Girls Via Facebook by Crossroad1(m): 7:38am On Sep 14, 2021
It is hard to deceive independent women..
That's why I always advice women to be self sufficient
PoliticsRe: Buhari Meets Julius Maada Bio Behind Closed Doors On Monday Night by Crossroad1(m): 7:36am On Sep 14, 2021
Ademola47:
https://punchng.com/pictorial-buhari-sierra-leonean-president-bio-meet-behind-closed-doors/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1631595627
buhari might think because it is called free town, everything there is free..
What the dullard cannot think about does not exist
PoliticsRe: Rep Proposes Bill For Compulsory Drug Tests On Politicians, Security Agents by Crossroad1(m): 7:34am On Sep 14, 2021
Long overdue.
They should also do mental or psycho test on them expecially those men in black
RomanceA Friend Needs Serious Advice(in A Dilemma) by Crossroad1(op): 7:26am On Sep 14, 2021
Got talking with a friend who just moved to Lagos about 7 months ago..
About 2years ago, he was in a financial tussle and and couldn't feed his family as things got extremely worst for him.. So his wife advice she goes to her mother's place till things pick up for him. They live in Sango Ota then.. Her wife left for her mother's place at ede with their 2kids..the mother is a civil servant who earns little and she lives in a room.
The wife got a job in a bar where she works from 3pm to 10pm and sometimes 11pm..

Now my friend is not dojng bad for himself and decides to move his family to join him in Lagos..
Each time he initiate this move, the wife will look for an excuse not to come.. Said they've discussed this more than 10 times already and just some days ago, the wife told him the manager of the bar she works just got another place and wants to make her the manager..
He said only if my friend could open a shop for her where she sells pet drinks, bottle water and other edible things and my friend said no problem about that but knowing her, she might come up with another excuse.

He just got a 2 bedroom apartment and probability of him leaving Nigeria next year is like 80%..
Pls house, what can he do?
He loves his wife and missed his kids.. Atleast for a year, he want his kids to be with him. They are just 5yrs and 3yrs and they been separated almost 2 yrs now..
The wife even told him sometimes ago to come pick his kids but he won't be able to cope with the nature of work he does and he can't employ a nanny or house help to take care of them going by what happens nowaday in the country..
Sometimes, he can be away for 2days or a week..
Another thing, he said he doesn't wanna look selfish since his wife might be given a manager role in a new bar. He doesn't want to be like a stumbling block to her though he promised to open a shop, stock it even more than she thinks..
He is very confused...

Ishilove
Pocahontas
Abeg nairaland female and males, help me to advice him, I don't like the way he was behaving yesterday, he looks so moody
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:49am On Sep 14, 2021
Prettychild:
I have seen one started and completed in one month in an area close to where I live. They were working day and night, different people. But the fixtures and wiring were done the next month
bungalow, yes. Duplex, not possible
RomanceRe: I Am Really Disappointed And Lonely (Pictures) by Crossroad1(m): 6:43am On Sep 14, 2021
lkillbrokehoes:
This your Photoshop skill is very wack, try again grin
not photoshop.. Do you know how many people use the world disappointed daily? Each time people use that word on nairaland, he will be tagged..
I know he purposely choose that moniker
CelebritiesRe: Reactions On The Internet As 2baba Expects 4th Baby From Babymama “pero” by Crossroad1(m): 6:41am On Sep 14, 2021
Mercychen:
So the pero just sat there waiting for tuface to come around anytime he wishes to use her?

For crying out loud, tuface is married. Let her get herself another man.

Some women act like puppets.
some women don't move on easily not after 3kids.. Same goes for some men too...
RomanceRe: “I Feel Like Quitting My Marriage, S3x With Hubby Is So Painful” – Woman Cries.. by Crossroad1(m): 6:36am On Sep 14, 2021
When women say this, I always believe they are joking or just looking for excuses..
CelebritiesRe: Real Life Vs Instagram - Who Did This To Actress Mercy Aigbe? by Crossroad1(m): 6:35am On Sep 14, 2021
Nowadays, editing has made so many things easy..
A female friend of mine is always dripping on Instagram, whatsapp status and on Facebook..
As in beautifully dripping. No pimples, no acne, no sunburn and her skin always look fresh..
The day I went to her house unannounced because of an emergency, I almost vomited becos of her early morning face.. It was like they are trying to reconstruct a road on an abandoned 120yrs road.. No place in her face is smooth.. Pimples be like gravel sand.. She was visibly angry that I saw her in that state and I told her, if I didn't come, by now you would have been jobless
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:29am On Sep 14, 2021
AntiWailer:
It does not take 3 weeks for any decking to dry.

And whatever the time is it does not mean every other thing must be on hold.

Painting can take 1 - 2 days
Roofing 1 - 2 days
I Don hear you sir
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:21am On Sep 14, 2021
AntiWailer:
How many days for it take for decking to be ready ? Remove it from 6 weeks bro.

He said everything needed is on ground so not as if u are waiting to contribute money for stuffs.
it takes 3weeks to a month to have a sturdy decking.. So 3 weeks will finish a duplex?
Wiring, roofing, plastering, painting, flooring, paving, plumbing, pop, finishing?
PoliticsRe: House Of Zamfara Speaker, Others Set Ablaze By Bandits by Crossroad1(m): 6:19am On Sep 14, 2021
They will still use our tax to build another one..
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:17am On Sep 14, 2021
Randy111:
5 bedroom duplex under 50 days? Bros lie small small na
people just believe construction is rocket science. They forgot some many things will have to factor in. No wonder they build collapsed houses. Ideally, it will take 3months minimum
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:15am On Sep 14, 2021
Prettychild:
If you want it done in one month it’s possible, na your money go tell you. Employ more laborers who would walk day and night.
you can't get a duplex done in a month..
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:12am On Sep 14, 2021
AntiWailer:
6 weeks.

I have seen building germinate in my estate like maize.

Get a good developer and I will have it delivered In 6 weeks
6 weeks for a duplex, really?
Duplex wey go get decking o!
PropertiesRe: How Fast Can A 5 Bedroom Duplex Be Built In Nigeria? by Crossroad1(m): 6:11am On Sep 14, 2021
To have a sturdy building, I will say 3months
PoliticsRe: Umahi: South East Loses ₦10 Billion Every Sit-At-Home Day by Crossroad1(m): 5:59am On Sep 14, 2021
How did he come about this figure?
But to be sincere with ourselves, the country is hard enough. Making people sit at home is wickedness on the part of those who survive on daily earnings..
At the same time, they shouldn't force this marriage called Nigeria.
Na forced marriage dey make people reason to poison each other o..
CrimeRe: Rita Amenze: Why Nigerian Was Killed By Her Italian Husband Pierangelo Pellizzar by Crossroad1(m): 10:03pm On Sep 13, 2021
Though this story seem to click but it still sounds somehow..
Betrayal is bad but this is the first time a Nigerian woman is doing something from the norm..
Technology MarketRe: Amgray Logistics: We Help You Buy On Ebay, Amazon Etc And Ship To Nigeria $4/LBS by Crossroad1(m): 9:29pm On Sep 13, 2021
AmgrayLogistics:
never a scam

amgray Logistics all the way
isn't this the company many people complained about?
That steal or remove people's items?
RomanceRe: Dear Ladies You Ain't Looking Sexy In Those Bum Shorts by Crossroad1(m): 9:23pm On Sep 13, 2021
pocohantas:
Why don’t you like bum shorts? You have said this way too many times.
if my wife is around and not wearing bumshort and loose singlet at home, I go just leave house for am
PoliticsRe: Malami Warns Judges, Lawyers Says Justice Not For Sale To Highest Bidders by Crossroad1(m): 7:33pm On Sep 13, 2021
grin
In Nigeria?
FamilyRe: My Family's Story, (my Mum Won This Time) by Crossroad1(op): 6:49pm On Sep 13, 2021
bukatyne:
Yes, Akoko and my mom told me about it.
you are definitely from oka
CelebritiesRe: Alexx Ekubo Honoured With A Doctorate Degree From A University In Benin by Crossroad1(m): 6:48pm On Sep 13, 2021
ModeEbo:
my parents is an Idiot.
FamilyRe: My Family's Story, (my Mum Won This Time) by Crossroad1(op): 5:49pm On Sep 13, 2021
bukatyne:
Our ancestors were very 'colourful' grin

No, it is an old practice.
you Sabi this thing Sha, are you from ondo state?
FamilyRe: My Family's Story, (my Mum Won This Time) by Crossroad1(op): 5:45pm On Sep 13, 2021
bukatyne:
Odesan means 'home is good' or 'no please like home' sort of.

A man marries the first daughter(s) of his sisters or very close relatives.

If his parents are from different villages, he can marry very close relatives from either parents' village.

The whole idea is the daughter (s) especially first marrying a man very very close in the family tree.
this is more like it but she was treated badly or something like that
PoliticsRe: Canadian Court Describes Nigerian Police As Murderous, Corrupt by Crossroad1(m): 2:50pm On Sep 13, 2021
100% no lies.
Both ordeals have had with Nigerian police is saddening..
Na person wey first report dem dey listen to even if he or she is at fault...
They are so wicked and Inconsiderate..

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