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ModeEbo:
Next time try bringing a brain to this thread

look at this ewu calabar that looks like a frustrated herbalist..

I DON'T KNOW BECAUSE OF WHOM AM WRITING THIS, BUT I HOPE PEOPLE LEARN A THING OR TWO FROM IT..

Being a redpiller is not a bad idea cos some women need iron hands to deal with if not, dem go turn you to simp but out there, you can still get a woman who will match whatever you have in mind only it might be very Rare.

My life started in the late 80's and my father was a very fortunate man.. When I clocked a year old, he bought a bicycle for me and then, it was like buying an expensive toy car or bike for your kids in this dispensation.
He was also a sharp shooter.. I am the first born and I take 8months senior my sister.. She use 1yr 10months senior 3rd born and third born use 3yrs senior 4th born.. 4th born use 10yrs senior 5th born..
He was first a bus driver before fortune smiled on him and he became a cocoa dealer and in some months, he was able to travel out to Austria..
Now, my father disvirgined my mom and I was the product..

But something happened in my father's family, they used his sister as (ODESAN) it's an akoko term and to my understanding, it means her sister married from her mother's family, it's more like a tradition.. I don't know but it seems like a bad thing cos my father get aggressive anytime he remembers this cos he said they suffered her sister while there.. Now my mum happens to come from the area where my dad's sister did ODESAN.. He was young then and maybe observed all evil did to her.. I don't know but that's what he said later in life..

My father traveled and in 3 years, he was sending in cars then and they sell it and send the money back to him after deducting some for all family members..
The biz was booming but 5yrs later, he was back in the country and he said it was my mother's mom that used juju to bring her back into the country.. That's offense no 2 for my naive mom.. Offense no 1 is they used her aunt for ODESAN in my mom's district..
Let me use island for example.. Lekki and ajah are both in island but not far from each other so let's say my mom is from ajah and my dad is from lekki and they used his aunt as ODESAN in ajah so he had hatred for ajah people..I wonder why he married from there. (this didn't happen in Lagos though).

Aside traditional wedding and introduction, till my mom's parent died, shishi dem no see from my pman.
Before he left naija, he Sabi womanize small, like dated 3women while married.
My dad senior my mum with 10 solid years. He was 28yrs and my mom was just a local 18yrs old girl. My dad was already making cool money at 26,he bought his first pickup at 26,bought his second ride a bus at 27 and traveled out at 33..

When baba came back after 5yrs, there are news of infidelity waiting for him.. While he was away, any man that came visiting was a man friend but I know my mom.. Each time we go from akoko to owo to make phone call then, she go dey kneel down dey follow pman talk, I was little so I didn't really know what's up.
I can vouch for my mum cos she was hardworking.. Taking care of 3kids and a pregnancy, while he was away, shuttling from Lagos to onitcha to akoko buying ready made clothes and reselling, she was very hardworking..
So when pupsy came back, so many things were said and my mom had to follow him to swear with ayelala that it was all lie but I guess cos of the hatred he had for his district people, he didn't believe. She swore in 3 diff places..
So we moved from akoko to akure and pman's true color started showing..
He started about 3 businesses that was doing fine and baba was investing in women and by now, we the kids too started feeling the heat.. We were going to one of the best school but na we owe school fees pass..
Baba even dey carry woman go abroad go knack..

My mum started dancing at cultural center akure with some groups to welcome important dignitaries.. She gathered money to register for Abe Ile nursing. When she was done, because my mum's people came to her freedom ceremony, baba was present..
He was able to rent a shop for her and stock it with medicines.. So they both contributed money and bought their second land.. 60/40,mumsy contributed 60% of the money..
After building the house,it was a 6 bedroom. He just floored 3 rooms and traveled again with his ashana to Dubai to enjoy life but before this, there were lots of gbas gbos from him to my mum. Any small mistake, it was gbas gbos with anything he can lay his hands on..

There is a mark at my back where I took a stool he threw at my mom even when she was 9months pregnant,it was this day I learnt they used his sister as ODESAN, he was crying when he said this..
I am not that stable at home, I was shuttling between boarding school, Egbon's house on holidays and our rented apartment sometimes.. My mum gave birth to our last born the following days.. I wept all through, from the house to the hospital.
He didn't take her there.
After birth, my mom was determined to better her life..
Pupsy traveled out with her ashana and Mumsy was left to fend for 5kids alone.
By this time, I had finished sec school so I moved permanently to Lagos to stay with Egbon.

Mumsy moved my siblings to our uncompleted house cos the landlord was already on her neck.. No windows, just entrance door, kitchen door, 3 cemented rooms and nothing.. She used mosquito nets and trampolines to cover each window and na short put dem dey do for there cos there were still bushes around the house..
No family members to help her except small small change I was sending from the hotel job I was doing in Lagos as a barman and waiter, was taking 2 salaries cos of both jobs..

Abeg I go continue tomorrow, this is making me emotional as am typing and it is still a bit lengthy..
Ps: pls am gonna beg everyone.. These are my parents, I purposely didn't put that it happened to some people, it happened to me and pls don't blame anyone yet, I just want both male and female to learn from this story, it might shape some people and make some have a rethink about their actions so pls no insult whatsoever biko...

BennyDGreat:
May God give you the strength to move on no matter how tough it looks

move on how? This happened about four years ago, the topic just brought back memories.. I didn't even think about it

Depressed101:
apart from titties and booties, and fine faces.. Nothing kills me more than a girl in fitting red dress, red panties

ashewo
Only you

debbydams:
orisirisi

use this one cool down

Amhappy:
Only a grateful heart appreciates good done to him. His reaction is only excusable if it's a frequent request. During the planning of a friend's dad burial a man showed up and took up undertaking service free of charge. The man is an undertaker and the dad helped him land a huge contract. His family didn't even know that he gave such help to anyone.

you are wise, thanks.. So many people won't understand..
I was still the one who paid the 300k cos then, I was cash trapped

22marvelous:
Good afternoon sir, my name is chima Michael Ewelike, an indigene of imo state from ngor okpala local government area,I am based in Lagos state sir, I ve been one of ur fans and admirers for a while now,but I never knew you were into photography,frame and video editing,it has been my passion to learn such skills,but paucity of funds has been my major setback,I would forever be indebted to you sir if you can take me under your tutelage and teach me this skills that I ve passion for, I am versatile,hard working, dedicated,God fearing and humble,pls give me a chance to prove my abilities sir, and i promise you that you will never regret knowing me, here is my mobile number 08139224904.
I hope you put my request into consideration, thank you sir and God bless you.

heyaaa a sorry brother, I left photography almost 4yrs ago now, no vex baba

chiiraq802:
Nothing turns me ON in a woman. I ON and OFF my urge.

If ah never catch Konji cruise or ah dey reason mulla matters,

if you like naked for my front ah no go reason your matters.


But when the Konji cruise come, I go nack you major regardless of whether you strip or you wear hijab. Na to

quench my urge ah dey reason.

na so he dey do better guys now, but na when the konji hold you we dey talk now

BabbanBura:
Man I love side boobs and hairline like fire!

are you there?

Emmadoc:
Okpor

ko kporr ke

See, if you are slim, chocolate or ebony, a bit curvy, small or moderate boobs, small or moderate yansh, then we are game..
But the pics below shows what really turns me on..
Side boobs and tummy hairline, I die there mhennnn
If we are both home alone and you put on bumshort and loose singlet revealing your boobs expecially the side boobs and hairline, you Don kill me o

samsard:
Your idea of appreciation should not take the value of someone's work away. Na like this una dey do dey send more people come. I have seen people who abused this kind of thing and because the person wouldn't speak out they kept taking a hit.

bro, have seen people who go all out for you when they don't even know you.. If not for the circumstances at that time, I won't even ask.
I was the one footing the 300k

samsard:
Call me ungrateful if you wish. But asking for a discount from 900k to 300k is just stretching it. That is way too much.

this is not too much for someone who even made that dream possible..
It's just a day's event, if I were to be in his shoes, I will just say, pay for frames, photo book and feed my boys then leave the rest to me, that's showing appreciation but well, no be all of us Sabi appreciate.
If he was to be considerate, it shouldn't be more than 500k, normal charging

mysticgal:
But pursue money with sense or it takes your being

of course sis

Mr100Dollars:
30 is the most annoying age...

30-36, most confusing age

Remember I helped a friend fund a photography business back then and it cost me..
When I needed this guy to help another friend who is not a mutual friend, the guy was short of cash and he needed photo and video for his wedding. So I contacted this my friend although I know he is not gonna do it for free but just reduce price from 900k to 300k cos of me, alaye stopped picking my call and when this my friend called him direct, this is what he said..
**shey because he help me set up business na why he dey follow me talk nonsense abi? Shey na him train me ni?
When I no get money go training center, shey him fund me ni? Oga if you no fit pay 850k,make una Bleep off..
This was recorded..
I just laugh it off..
This is someone I got camera for, drone and screens.
And even gave him some cash because he was just starting up then..
I told myself, if am gonna help people, I will help and do my own for God but that someone will now come and start forcing my hand, na curse the person go collect.

Am versed in photography, do photobook, frame and video, you will still have enough change from that 300k

The only flower a Nigerian girl wants

kahel289:
Hi, great people of nairaland

Recently, I've been trying to edit videos on my system and the video software runs into problem and keeps freezing.

Today it had Frozen like 4 times. So devastating.

I wanna ask, which brand & spec is fit for video editing & gaming (secondary)

please which do you recommend under N150,000 only.

Thank you guys.

what's your laptop specifications?
There are some laptop dedicated for graphics

Maybe she is done using the man to aquire whatever she wants. Maybe a pr or something else..
Cos I know she will know from onset this man is possessive and dangerous..

mysticgal:
4.We pursue money till death

to live a good life, you need money

ogwumgbe:
That's the truth, yet we are not interested in the Nigeria project anymore, we have tried for Nigeria so we want to stay on our own

What I meant is, he is trying to play on the intelligence ibos..
Everyone knows ibos are intelligent and industrious. So for buhari to now behave as if he making a discovery is foolery

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That guy that embedded a diamond in his forehead nko? Oh I forgot when he nearly died, he removed it
Make he carry this head come mushin

We too will get there someday.
Keep it up weezy

That jobless idiot should go and get a job and before that, they should put him in the sell for 2years.
And while at it, they should give him 40 srokes of Cain daily for being stupid

Lazy to read..
Pls in one sentence or two, what are they saying?
Gtbank na crook, agreed.
Have they upgraded from crook to armed robbery?

I don't know if it is klepto but ezinne stole my 100k.
Got that money from the bank, crisp 100k I wanted to use for torime at a friend's wedding.
She stole it and denied it.
Wanted to strip search her, she change am for me dey form vex say I no trust am..
Haba, we were just 2 in the house and nobody came in now..

There is no town you will visit in Nigeria without seeing the Igbos being in-charge of economic activities. The evidence is there for everyone to see, that Igbos are in charge of Nigeria’s economy


Originally, na hypeman buhari suppose dey do for club..
See whinning..

Ok

Until I see the complete story, I won't give my verdict just yet.
Make I naked baff if I click that link

Shey u Don get money or are you still broke?