₦airaland Forum

victorian:
That's the plain truth! I hope she sees his twisted plan on-time. And focus on her kids and job. Simply ignore him. If woman carry man for head, she will just collapse with high bp. Carry man on the shoulder, if he becomes too heavy , drop him and focus on the blessings u have already. Let him keep fighting and keeping malice to himself. He get luck!
I won't take such stress from any man am married to. I don't even have the strength for such emotional stress sef.
What's in this life? Someone will now make unbearable for me in the same house?
He's indeed lucky!

Some men can be a pain in the neck sha. While some men are God sent and easy going.

Dont worry.
He will marry another woman that will take such stress.

If you don't like it, the door is open. But leave his kids behind.

stuffs4me:
Lol And who made you the tyrant that tells people when, and how many kids to have in their marriages.
It doesn't even follow like that, I have seen a family of 9 and all the kids are graduates and doing well. I have seen a family of an only child who turned out to be a thug/cultist that was eventually expelled from the university.

Little shudrens on Nairaland will not kee somborry

I just wonder.

You see 20 year old here trying to tell a family man how many kids he should have.

Some idiots are calling the poor man a bastard .

What is wrong with telling the truth from the beginning?
An understanding man will overlook it. The worst he will ask for is that you get pregnant before he marries you.
It is a major issue, and a major risk that the husband took without knowing, which is what annoys him.

But all these people saying the lady should have lied even after marriage are playing with fire.

If the truth ever comes out, and the man is a real MAN, then the marriage is over.
And you are not going with his kids.

Kinggnicole:
Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.

You want her to leave after deceiving her husband. ?

Well she can leave, but I am sure the husband will never allow her to take his children with her.

She can go but leave the children.

Fariq:
But Obasanjo appoint Moris

So it is no longer Jonathan, it is obasanjo?

When power returns to the south, we will remind you.

Roger3D:
It is perfectly in order. When Jonathan appointed a southerner to that post, it was in order too

But Jonathan appointed a northerner to head inec even when his friends didn't like it, unlike buhari that appointed his family member.

Are you being deliberately stupid?

middlebelter:
This man does not care about the complaints of the Southern and Middle Belt leaders about marginalisation in the Security System of this country.

May God deliver us in this country from sectional leaders.

Buhari and his cabinet does not give a damn what you think.

They have absolute trust in their voters. Most of whom are northern.

Fine boys dey rarely get sense.

Stupidity is nature's balancing act against their fineness .

I am the exception though.

yrex01:
Gathering of pigs !! To those pipu shouting upandwn how many of ur relatives don get gov broadcast scholarship in this n previous gov regime without having connection ? If no ! Goan find jobs !!

My sister won the pressid scholarship under Jonathan.

She is done with her doctorate in the UK.

You are so dumb that you will never be qualified for such.

Pig calling other better human beings pigs.

A closed leg does not get fed.

Isn't that the new motto?

NdiaraIGBO:
Mumu, he is ASIWAJU!

I know there is no order and structure in Igboland, we are not bush dwellers in yorubaland ok!

You wouldn't know anything about order and structure if it kisses you on the face.

Lol @ "order and structure".

These Yoruba clowns no go kill me.

NdiaraIGBO:
We are talking lagos politics and this nonentity is talking igbo?

Who know any igbo in Lagos?

Swerve!

You don't need to know us as long as we keep buying the lands off your feet.

Tinubu will automatically become a pauper because pdp will seize every thing he owns and return it back to the people.

Just imagine the disgraceful herd mentality.

These clowns have nothing on the igbo people, I swear.

Okorocha must wish he is Yoruba. He would be a godfather.

Is it only me?

I don't trust a Yoruba girl to be naturally fair. Their men are often very very dark, so where does the fairness comes from?

If you are a Yoruba lady, and you are not mixed race, but you are very fair, then you bleached, bittch.

Of course, there are always some very tiny exceptions.

ORIENTATION101:
small boy dont mention me again look else where for your mate

Nitwit.

Don't quote me again. Illiterate.

ORIENTATION101:
akapmu so jimmy carter usa president is the foreign politician
Okoro how old are you

Infact dont mention me again

He is a foreign politician, you nitwit. It is deliberate.

The president of Niger republic has taken pictures with Obama.

I am sure he is masturbating to it the way you are.

MariaLavina:

The guy tried no doubt. He is one in a million.


While our nairaland Kids alpha males are busy wailing and bashing women online, some real men are loving up their women. Interesting


Hope you had a nice day. I made the journey today.

So wasting your time doing this nonsense is love to you?

May God give you a man like this.

19 freaking babies?
o boy. The husband was just firing like a machine gun.

ORIENTATION101:
okoro stop sipping kai kai you re disgracing yourself here obj has been dining with world leaders when aunty ngozi was still in school

A picture of a sitting president with a foreign politician is what you are showing us as what?
Even sitting presidents of small Third World nations have pictures like this that they masturbate to.

You want me to show you pictures of ngozi hobnobbing with world powers as far back as year 2000 through her intellectual capacity as a World Bank executive?

Quit eating amala. It dulls the brain.

fasterwell:
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Under the same NOI Nigeria debt profile was $63 billion.

So why the noise?

Lies.
Divide it by 10 and you will get the real value of Nigeria's debt under ngozi.

Even Nigeria does not owe that much right now under this calamitous government..

That is bigger than your foreign reserves.

Lie with sense abeg.

erico2k2:
Save how, from where ECA? or from not paying subsidy? which we now know they lied eve though they increased pump price?

Imagine.

And the sad thing is that the vast majority of Nigerians are too stupid and get befuddled by these apc propaganda machine.

ORIENTATION101:
so how much did aunty puff puff saved from 51 trillions naira nigeria made from crude oil proceed under her watch

The reserve you claim you have today was created by that puff puff woman.

Cancelling your debts of over 30 billion dollars through high level diplomacy and World Bank connections is enough for you to worship her for the rest of your days.

ORIENTATION101:
you re a fool to say a former minister is bigger than

A general
Ex head of state
2 times president of a country
Ex chairman of association past presidents in the whole world.
Obj attends un meetings every year

Ngozi is just a career stooge

Are you kidding me?
You must be kidding me.

You think Nigeria's presidency has the same weight as the US presidency ?

Your obj is nothing. He has no intellectual input to the world.

NOI sits on the board of more than 40 global multi nationals, most of whom run the world.

Obj ke? Don't compare sleep with death.

ORIENTATION101:
foolish goat.

Tell us the amount we had in foreign reserve and excess crude oil account when Gej handover to buhari

Let kemi save her own.

Nigeria's foreign reserves was practically created by NOI in the obj administration from practically nothing.
The sovereign wealth fund was also her idea.

We have seen NOI save and multiply Nigeria's wealth .

Let us see kemi save. Instead the reserves are falling and debts are rising.

babaolofin:
Obasanjo was not a Finance Minister but had initiatives & connections with leaders all over the world that changed situations.

The IBOs are the majority of ignorant & lazy youths fighting psychological warfare online. Ngozi Okonjo - Iweala is a failure who is supposed to be tried with her accomplices if Nigeria were to be China. In her book, she was defending herself. Peter Obi also tried to defend her by saying opposition & governors made her to share the money they looted.

What saved them is Emefiele at CBN. Buhari is only being magnanimous by giving him chance to complete his tenure. President Buhari has given the reason why he gave him a benefit of doubt. The actual reminant out of the $50 billion inherited from Obj as at May 29, 2007 was around $26 billion as May 29, 2015. As at today, the reserve is over $44 billion.

Okonjo - Iweala that was brought to testify against Obj during Yaradua govt when Ndi Elumelu led committee on power was probing Obj. Mrs Amina statement was misrepresented & misinterpreted. IPOBS are propaganda expert.

GEJ & Okonjo - Iweala left Nigeria highly indebted as at May 29, 2015 despite making the HIGHEST REVENUE in the history of Africa till date saving no KOBO, spent everything, borrowed & depleted inherited reserve by over $20 billion. The god of Nigeria will never forgive them. They borrowed to pay salary before they handover to PMB

Obj inherited $5.5 billion from Military as at May 29, 1999 & left over $50 billion as at May 29, 2007. CBN & DMO should tell us the total debt as at May 29, 2015

Illiterate.
NOI was a senior member of the World Bank then.
Obj hired her for her connection, and not the other way round.

Look at where she is, and where obj currently is.

Which of them is the bigger global player right now. ?

The way your Yoruba illiterates just turn facts on the head is outstanding.

Damn.

This guys are very comfortable insulting Nigerians.

Just imagine. Statement that will get you impeached in any sane clime.
An act of corruption and nepotism.

These apc politicians at the federal level are so confident in their supporters, that they don't bother about what the rest of us think.

They just vomit nonsense and dare us to do our worst.

yommen:
Afonja Amaka Now a flat brain!!!

Do you have a cone brain like your forefathers?

You seem to be obsessed with shapes.

emezuo17:
. There is nothing he would have done, if you receive money from a stranger mistakenly and decide to keep it, you can be traced easily, and your account can even be blocked if the person who made the mistake complains

True.

The money is not worth the stress she would incur if she spends it.

She is probably smart enough to know that too much of her details is out there and can be tracked.


My respect goes to the fellas who actually found huge monies in toilet or taxis.
Those ones are the real heroes, because if they run, you can't get them.

na igbo man like me be her baby daddy o.

That guy must have a fetish for bones.