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Uyi Iredia:
@ Cuddle mi >>> what did your lover do to break your heart ? BTW Ilike your write-up. I believe it will have its intended effect

Thanx dear. We are not yet lovers. but about to kind of lovers. He is wants a perfect woman no stain at all. I am running away cos I cant be that. simple

thanx dear. pple think i had an affair here and was heartbroken lolz.

yes pendo

lolz u both are crazy babes

hw do u cultivate this drama or soap

@sillknsteal

Did u have to repeat it 3times, lolz. Its not as deep as that. I am just preventing rather than cure.

Connoisseur:
coming from u, i ll definitely be there
nd dnt kid ursel this aint a victory, its one well deserved.
Dnt let anybody tell you otherwise

i dont need a victory to have fun with my friends.

pendo89:


cuddle!

hahahaha hope u dont think this is about satani. where have u been?

Connoisseur:
One man's misfortune is another man's fortune

hmmm. people are taking this thing more serious than I thot. but it makes it more interesting though

Jackieugo:
I hope it isn't who I think it is cause I almost fell for this same trap. Anyway ndo my sister!

lolz babes u r funny. he is not who u think he is. dis one is 6 feet plus, nice ripped body, caramel, brain box, sexy romantic hot. no need 4 ndo. i am good. we have not gone deep. no biggy!

Connoisseur:
@cuddlemii
congrats on your victory

@james
arent you inviting a brother to the party

There is no victory O. I think James just wants all of us to have fun. I think he invited u too so u can come.

Cuteobi:

What do you want to know apart from his name?

Well expressions is the key

@27naira

This is not about heartbreak. Its about you want something, something turns you on, something makes sense, something has a close connection to you but something is going to be a dictator and you is a stubborn person. cant work out. Understand!

Cuteobi:
Cuddlemii if u wer dat bold to hav him as your lover,u shud be bold enuf to say,'NAME,i no longer want u.lets help u wash your hands off him.

We have not gotten to that stage abeg. We were about to but he has his rules and I have mine. So I dont want to commit myself to a fake life.

In as much as you are right. Domestic violence is wrong and the women should opt out. Several measures should also be taken on the abusers.

You have to also know that:

Women are like flowers. If u cross 30, its difficult to get settled except u look 16 because beautiful ones are not yet born. Men like catching them young. Delay can lead u to arrangee marriage that you won’t see your hubby till after the wedding or end up marrying a man that goes mad at every 3 hours interval. So enjoy your single life a bit. But if u see an upcoming brother who would give u peace, don't dull as long as u r happy.

Forget all these babes that say I'm happy being single bla bla, how long do u want to stay like that. When these babes get into the toilet they would be weeping that they are single or cursed and waste all the tissue in there. They start attending all the church singles seminars.

A man can marry at 50 and even re-marry at 100, men don't age like that and their manhood is always up and doing. They do the chasing so it’s easier for them to delay. Plus they have Viagra and other local concoctions (alomo and jedi-jedi) to assist them.

Need I remind you that, Menopause has started hitting some women in their early 30s.
Don't turn to a meal for prophets. That they would ask you to shout the word "husband" 10 times, the 1st man you see is your husband. If it’s crippled John or your little nephew u see first. That’s another wahala.
That is why lesbianism and the use of dildos are now rampant but it can never be like what your hubby has, that is living and not plastic.

Yes, it’s not by force to be single but it was ordained by God and it’s enjoyable if you marry your own. Just select wisely that’s all.

Roland17:
The look of your face can be replicated in the lines u have posted, love sometimes is never enough to carry any relationship through, sometimes walking away gives u inner strength, realizing when to walk away for Just reasons in a relationship is the epitome of love, it helps avoid regrets. Cuddlemii would be fine, your discerning intelligence and allure would surely lead you to the right person.

Thanx boo. Ur words are always soothing. Its was just about to kick off, like the starting stage. He wants perfection. He doesn't comment here but the education section. But he reads my posts and other posts in general. He got me writing poetry and inspired me to come to the Romance section.

iyatrustee:
190_@ i tink this is your latest baby

Iyatrustee,

rokiatu:
Interesting. Who could be this lover?

I will like to respect his privacy for now. Later I can/maybe spill. Lets see how it goes.

Cuteobi:
Pls put a name to this lover.is it MMM,Mr cork,190,sexkillz?we wnt a name ooh

None of the above.
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=713423.msg8716797#msg8716797 date=1310657069]you write good poetry but what's with the suspense.

hope it's not that small boy matani.[/quote]I will put all these up for him, No. abeg dont let him come and spark here oh for calling him that.

[quote author=sista-jay link=topic=713423.msg8716831#msg8716831 date=1310657415]Ooooh cuddlemii, you make it sound so final. . . . .  [/quote]It is so final. He makes mad sense, I won't lie. But he bases his judgment based on peoples experiences and ideologies. I can't be who I am not. He doesn't understand me, he thinks im some tough babe or something. i don't even know how to explain abeg. This what happens when Im trying to tell him who I am, I end up not passing any reasonable message across. He has that effect.

xkillz:
Flirt Like a guy? Why? Under the Cuddlemii username or . . .

@sexykillz u hv been asking for poetry, there u go

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-713423.0.html

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=713423.msg8716527#msg8716527 date=1310654486]huh[/quote]190,

I refuse to laugh abeg this is some serious matters of the heart. I'm letting go of something good.

It took me days to let go, but I will let go

You are wondering why?

I calculate and foresee great dangers ahead.

We both know we are the perfect fit,

We both know the pleasures ahead,

But you see yourself in the eyes of your friend.



I have never been this expressive

I took the risk and it payed off,  So I can be poetic too.

I don't think you know me yet and I am not willing to show you.

You said you wanted to love and be loved right back,

I was going to give you that.

Your indecisiveness in a relationship makes you imitate what others do.

This is the real world, they might just be acting, but I will rather show you.



I will go back to being me but I won’t return to my comfort zone.

I will take risk and challenges because that's what life is all about.

I have a secret, I am not as tough as I play out to be but I'm as soft that I don't want to be taken advantage of.

So I wear a mask and everyone seeks refuge under my umbrella

I seek refuge too but I express it with my user name.



I front that’s because you are fond of getting what you want, even in my weakness lies a stint of pride

I am your confidant, thank you for telling me so many deep things. I didn’t tell you deep things because a defeated lady has no hiding place.

We flirt, we say everything about life.

We laugh at each others jokes but you just want so much at the same time.

I wanted so much too but got my fingers burnt once. That singular act was good enough for me



You need to see the world with your own eyes.

You are not perfect but want perfection,

I am realistic and want a realist but if I get perfection then I earned it.

You are perfect enough for me that was why I never judged your escapades.

I was just honored that u trusted me enough to share.

You don’t know much about me because I have been listening to you.

Some of your explanations about games, I’ve written on here before.

I got you going from class to adapting, you now use words like Igwe and speak pidgin english once in a while on Nland.

I also got you listening to seal all day.

You like R&B, soul music now. I like music in general because of my name.



Even with my farewell, I’m still smiling,

That’s to show your worth.

But I will never ever change who I am to please no one.

I wish my weakness was senseless so that I can be who you want

I never asked for more because I am just fine with the way you are, thank you!

Now you will never find out my recipes,

But its life so we are still in it.



I know you would want to discuss this but I never go back on my words.

You still owe me that fish stew,

only now you get to cook it with your clothes on unlike what we imagined.

I was going to get us to act my fantasy together but I will just change the player, the story is still the same.


Damn good byes are so hard, just remembered you keep fit a lot.

I’m fit too, so I will just steer at caramel six packs at the gym.

Breakfast in bed, victoria secret on the beach, massage,

All we planned to have in 6 months time is no more again.

Wish it was you because you are everything I want

But I will always be a realist first before my heart

So I let you go

Wow I finally said it, it wasn’t so hard

koolkamzzy:
Even Nigerian Army dont understand the operation of the BOKO HARAMS

HOPE YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO ARRANGE HER FOR YOUR SEF

I mean im curious of what yinka is saying jor. What my biz with u fighters

James and Koolkamzy,

Please! Please! Please!

I am curious here

yinkalink:
A friend in need is a friend indeed!
@ cuddlemii, el guapo is my nl hubby but i wasnt referrin to him wen i said v found love.
I was talkin abt my real bf who is also a nairalander.

James james!

Noted!
So who is ur friend who is my admirer? Why is he not expressing himself by himself

Hi sexykillz

I am alright but I am switching roles for the week

Ur post inspired me. I will flirt like a guy for a week

@james
hope u r good

Party ke

I am going to just flirt for the next 1 week

Its high time we switch roles. I will be a guy for 1 week

Hmmmmm

Just be you

Cos one day you would forget the you that was sold to him

What happens when he discovers the real you and can't handle you

You are back to square 1 again

Any man that can't accept the real you, doesn't deserve you

Look closely, he wears a mask too

@Sexykillz u have been hiding. Stop selling your ideologies to women. Let them make their mistakes and learn from it. All your point does not guaranty a man liking you or not. What if he sees right through you, men are too clever for all these. The only thing I believe every lady should have is pride and integrity, No matter what.

giorgie:
Lol joker ! If I was looking for your type , I would have been married and divorced at least 5 different times , hehehehe .

I actually respected you because of your maturity and sincerity but this statement is not appropriate. Dyt is my friend but sentiments aside, you never insult a lady like that if you really want to get settled with one. What message are you trying to pass across. She was just having fun on your thread. I expected you to have laughed it off and feel more at home. Or better still ignore the statement, silence sometimes speaks more volume. Best of luck with your search, dyt didn't mean any harm. She is one of the friendliest around.

190:
^we want your nyash - is that too difficult to produce  

if wishes were horses, , (fill in the blank spaces)

James can handle rams but definitely not 2 power house

even all the power horse in this world cant make him keep up

dyt love miss u, r u on ym

men im working on 2000 papers that are going to another state for processing

im still embarrased by last night sha, me acted like a baby.

so the mighty can fall too. hmmm

@leu, i see u have been toasting babes all over. be warned!

Bhu baby, hi!

So its El guapo that she found love with, hmmm