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One of the worst persons to date or marry is a person who can dump you and move on so easily without wanting to see you again, except you did something very horrible, bad or so bad. But if it is just a simple or basic misunderstanding or issue, harsh and ruthless breakup is not fair

People breakup for one or more reasons, but if the breakup is peaceful, mutual, considerable, negotiable etc, that may be fairer.

Be careful so that you don't date people that will breakup with you and act like you never existed, even when the cause of the breakup is basic or not that bad.

Akpu and pizza?

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My heart almost blew when my hubby was waiting for the DNA result.

I and samuel married in 2003. We dated for 1 year before the wedding and I could remember that I had sex with my EX few days to our wedding day. I had sex four times and it was without protection.

Samuel was the best person for me. He was a committed Christian, loyal, faithful, rich and a Pastor in our church. Prior to our wedding, he was already in pastors training.

My marriage is beautiful and peaceful. It is an enviable one, but I was still communicating with my EX once in a while.

I went for a free training on animal husbandry in Ibadan, and on the second day of the training, I saw my EX with his wife and two sons. His wife was one of the trainee. We spoke for some minutes and started going naughty in our conversation. We then agreed to meet on Wednesday. The training was for Monday and Tuesday.

On Wednesday, I lied to my husband that the training was extended for one extra day and that some good practicals will be done. I left Lagos to Ibadan, met my EX at an eatery, we ate, chatted for 2 hours and then he suggested we go to a motel. I couldn't resist but went. We had sex three times without protection and I hurriedly left to meet up with my journey back to Lagos. I didn't want to return home late.

In summary, after that encounter, I kept on committing adultery with my EX for 4 years. During that period, I gave birth to a boy and a girl: Jude and Tonia. I couldn't point out if the kids were from my hubby or my EX. I also have a first child too. His name is Douglas.

In 2015, I planned moving abroad with my hubby and with my 3 kids too. During the process, DNA test was requested. Samples were taken and we waited for 2 weeks. My brothers and sisters, I nearly drank sniper because I had been sleeping with my EX without protection, and all the three kids could be linked to the times I had unprotected sex with him.

The result finally came out and all the kids were for my lovely, faithful, hardworking and excellent husband.

Truly, after the result, I gave my life to Christ and repented deeply. I also cut off ties with my EX.

In 2016, I confessed to my husband everything I had done. He forgave me and warned me never to try such again.

Its been about 10 years now and I have not cheated on my husband and no man have seen my pants after I repented.
Couples, be faithful in your marriage.

#Fiction.

Several people belong to different denominations. Now, the question is: has going to your church transformed your life in any of these ways.

(1) Helping you get genuinely born again.
(2) Making you heavenly-conscious and ready for rapture.
(3) Empowering you with ideas to change your world.
(4) Improving your character in a better way or to the best.
(5) Improving your prayer life and bible study life.
(6) Improving your soul-winning life.

You can say yours

Please whenever you are becoming emotionally helpless and hopeless in a relationships. Instead of being fully made to look so worthless, go on a week fasting and prayers, telling Jesus Christ to make your emotions die. You need your emotions to die, then if it is fully dead, tell Jesus Christ to start your emotions afresh; then use your emotions to serve God.
When you meet your God-ordained spouse, use the emotions for them, while given God the most of it.

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Rituals is the most useless way of getting rich.

Another most useless part of rituals is selling human part for like 30k.

With all the people killed for rituals, where has the country moved to? Is it better than Canada, UK, Ireland, Norway, Sweden etc.

Stop wasting human life and follow Jesus.

If you ask your Mum, she may tell you she never loved bad guys when she was young. And if you check, the bad guy stuff may be common amongst new generation and Genz ladies.

Now, why did several of our fathers succeed as good guys.

(1) We had several good ladies in those days who valued and stayed with guys that truly loved them, appreciated them, treated them kindly, adored them, respected them e.t.c, but today some or several ladies may prefer guys who are sexually rough in bed, toxic, disrespectful, wild, drug addict e.t.c.

(2) We had several ladies with purpose in those days. In the olden days, a good man who is successful in academics, career, vision, job, education in general e.t.c, may be the favourite of several ladies as many of them may have a trained and correct mindset in life, and may also be focused on career, academics, vision etc also. But today, some ladies in Nigeria may prefer a yahoo boy, fraudster e.t.c to a hardworking and legit career person.

(3) Good Taste: Several ladies of those days had good taste and some had good family upbringing. A lady with good family upbringing may find it uneasy aligning with a bad guy.

(4) Virginity and Chastity: In those days, virginity and chastity was on a better level than today, and the good guys were probably good in making such prosper.

(5) Masculinity: We may have more masculine men in those days than today. So we may have a good guy who truly behaves like a man.

These ideas are a mixture of mine and one or more persons.

PheelzAlmighty:
Can we allow God to do the judging

Be like a Christian if you can.

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You can bring your good points too.

If you check in some churches, you will see guys with plaited and probably see ladies and guys with coloured hair. You may even see guitarists with plaited hair. Is this right for a genuinely born again Christian?
The bible says in 2 Corinth 6:17 "Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you".

True born again Christians should appear in a way that sinners will not have doubt about their Christian faith. They should appear in a way that people can receive the gospel from them without doubting them as true Christians.

A true born again guy should not be seen with plaited hair, neither should guys and ladies have coloured hair.

TRUE CHRISTIANS SHOULD BE THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD.

Please stop listening to those who pervert the gospel.

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Maybe each state should start propagating their achievements on social media. The Northern states should display their rich men too.

FearlessYoruba:
Your useless Jesus can't save one of his sheep and you are blaming Yoruba.

You need Jesus Christ to save your poor and wretched soul. Jesus can set you free and deliver you from eternal hopelessness.

S

Orissodiq:
When is he going to react to the recent issues happening in Anambra?

When is the President going resolve the issues happening in Nigeria and Anambra? Is Peter Obi the President of Nigeria?

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Several people go to church every Sunday, but many of them are not transformed and do not show forth the nature of Christ. Are we to say it is majorly the fault of the Pastor?

Signs your preacher is preaching the true gospel.

(1) When members drop bad ways because of what is being preached. E.g. Members doing hookup abandon it and prefer to suffer than to return back to hookup.

(2) Heaven-consciousness: If you often have the consciousness of heaven and eternity because of what is being preached.

(3) Developing Exemplary Lifestyle: If you or your church is known for certain good character etc, then you are likely to have the right preacher.

(4) Death to Worldliness: If your Pastor of Preachers message makes you loose taste for worldly music, worldly dressing, worldly lifestyle etc.

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It is a beautiful year, still pray.
Its a New Year to pray. Even the devil did not go to sleep. He is still causing trouble and some who shouted Happy New year may be no more alive.
Hold unto Jesus Christ. Repent from sin and accept Jesus Christ. Tell Jesus Christ to come into your heart. He is the only way.

Its a New Year to pray. Even the devil did not go to sleep. He is still causing trouble and some who shouted Happy New year may be no more alive.
Hold unto Jesus Christ. Repent from sin and accept Jesus Christ. Tell Jesus Christ to come into your heart. He is the only way.

Do you remember when Yoruba's were known for education?
Do you remember when Yoruba's were not known for rituals?
In the past, Yoruba's may be one of the more
"upright" tribes in Nigeria.

This may be Obafemi Awolowo's leadership impact.

It is not about insulting one tribe or the other. If any tribe is failing, let them repent.

It is well in 2025

Some of these deaths are witchcraft.

At your dying moments and even now, never fail to tell Jesus Christ to forgive all your sins and come into your life.

If your friend, neigbour, relatives are close to death, the best medicine you can give them is to tell them to repent of their sins and accept Jesus Christ.

Jesus Christ is the only way.

In the future or nearest future, several GENZ may start suffering the consequences of what they have been doing.