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FamilyDear Husband, Are You Sure You Are The Daddy Of Your Children? by Cuterboy(op): 6:58am On Aug 28, 2022
Sometimes ago, the world celebrated fathers. People littered their Facebook, Instagram timelines, WhatsApp statuses etc with heartfelt messages celebrating their fathers, husbands, stepfathers, and the father figure in their lives. It was indeed a day to remember how valuable these men are in the lives of the people around them.

But the day was not without its own troubles. Evangelist and singer, Ositadinma Muolokwu was exposed as an adulterous man by a hacker who hacked his Facebook account.

The hacker littered his wall with screenshots of dirty messages the so-called Evangelist exchanged with women. Now, here is where it gets interesting: all the women who were exchanging flirtatious and dirty messages were all married women!



This now brings us to a more interesting conversation: Every day on social media, we see stories of “Dear Joro, my husband is cheating on me what should I do?” It is mostly women (who choose to remain anonymous, of course) that come on social media to tell Joro on Instagram or Amanda on Facebook stories of how their husbands are constantly cheating on them.

When you see or hear these stories, you not only feel sorry for the women, your mind (begins to) forms the strong opinion that all men cheat. In fact, you don’t even need to hear stories sef, you see so many men around you happily cheating on their wives.


So it may throw you off balance when you saw the screenshots on Ositadinma’s wall because the people he was cheating on his wife were married women!

Here is the unpopular truth: women are just as good in the cheating game as men are. The only difference is that women are more calculated and will cover up their tracks so that it is harder to even so much as suspect them...

Continue Reading>>>https://naijabeat.com/are-you-indeed-the-father-of-your-children/

FamilyAre All Men Potential Rapists Until Proven Otherwise? by Cuterboy(op): 12:47pm On Aug 24, 2022
Can we say that “All Men are Potential Rapists” until we prove them not to be?

Are all men rapists? On what basis do we draw up a conclusion?

This statement has been pushed by many feminists and some men in the wake of the numerous rape stories that have hit the news.

It immediately turned out to be a full-blown gender war with many men and women calling the above statement a very dangerous stereotype.

Rape is a very sensitive issue that plagues our society due to the wickedness of humans but the statement “all men are potential rapists” is not only fallacious but very triggering.

When women rape do we say “all women are potential rapists”? When they enable rapists do we say “all women are potential rape enablers” or “every woman is a potential prostitute” or “every woman is a potential gold digger”.

With the insecurity issues ravaging North-Eastern Nigeria, do we say “all Muslims are potential terrorists”? or “all Igbos are greedy”? or imagine this ideology “all Nigerians are scammers”.

All of these statements and many more are based on ignorance and paranoia. Indeed men need to do better to curb the rape culture but when we generalise based on the evil actions of some then we are ignorant bigots.


For someone who has been a rape victim, had a near rape experience or has followed these awful stories, it is wise to be cautious, wary and probably paranoid but it is wrong to assume that every man is a potential rapist.

Continue reading>>https://naijabeat.com/are-all-men-potential-rapists-until-proven-otherwise/

CelebritiesLady Accuses New Bbnaija Level Up Housemate, Chi Chi Of Attempting To Kill Her by Cuterboy(op): 2:42am On Jul 25, 2022
A Nigerian lady simply known as Brown Sugar Ivy has accused one of the newly unveiled housemates, Chi Chi of attempting to take her life in Cyprus before travelling back to Nigeria.

Brown Sugar Ivy claims that Chi Chi poisoned her food while they were in Cyprus and shared numerous pictures and videos on her Insta Stories to corroborate her story.

Read more: https://naijabeat.com/lady-calls-out-new-level-up-housemate-chi-chi-accuses-her-of-attempting-to-take-her-life/

CelebritiesAmerican Rapper, Souljaboy Attacks Wizkid 10 Years After He Called Him Wack by Cuterboy(op): 4:51pm On Jul 10, 2022
Rapper, Soulja Boy Attacks Wizkid 10 Years after He Called Him Wack
American rapper, DeAndre Cortez Way, professionally known as Soulja Boy has reacted o a post on Twitter claiming he’s wack. The post was made 12 years ago by Nigerian Afrobeat icon, Wizkid.

In his tweet made in May, 2010, Wizkid said the US rapper is wack, he wrote: “I swear soulja boy is wack!..jeeeezzzzz!

Read more: https://naijabeat.com/souljaboy-attacks-wizkid-10-years-after-he-called-him-wack/

CelebritiesRe: Bbnaija Star, Angel Dazzles In HOT!!! New Pictures by Cuterboy(op): 8:44pm On Jul 09, 2022
Solofresh2:
Nice body shape
Would love to fvck her someday
Anyone who has direct contact with her should hook me up
Haaaaa, make dem no catch you oo
CelebritiesBbnaija Star, Angel Dazzles In HOT!!! New Pictures by Cuterboy(op): 8:20pm On Jul 09, 2022
Reality star, Angel Smith has released some dazzling new pictures with a very hot sensual appeal.

Angel put her beautiful evenly-toned boned on display as she rocked a black swimsuit on a light blue sneakers shared across her social media handles.

The 22-year-old star was the last girl standing and one of the last six housemates in the last season of Big Brother Naija reality show, Shine Ya Eye.

Read more: https://naijabeat.com/bbnaija-star-angel-dazzles-in-hot-new-pictures/

CelebritiesIyabo Ojo Responds To Lady Who Claimed She Called Laura Ikeji ‘ugly’ On Rholagos by Cuterboy(op): 3:47pm On May 30, 2022
Nollywood actress, Iyabo Ojo has responded to a Tiktok user who accused her of calling fashion blogger and entrepreneur, Laura Ikeji Kanu ‘ugly’.

After the last episode of the reality show, the Tiktok user, @strwapril4 took to the platform to air her disgust and reaction over Iyabo’s statement. In the short video she posted, she said:

“First of all, I hate it when the first offence or the first insult for women is…Oh you’re not that beautiful, you don’t know how to dress, you’re ugly.”
Strawapril4 then went on to say that Iyabo Ojo’s statement irritated her so much because she feels she(Iyabo) is not ‘fine’ herself. She stated that it would have been a different case if it was Caroline Danjuma(Carolyna Hutchings) who made such a statement.

Reacting to the video, the Nollywood actress and mother of two refuted her claim insisting that she never called Laura ‘ugly’. In a long clap-back note on her IG page, she wrote:

Abeggggg 1st of all, who is this oloju owiwi, please can somebody help me tag her because i need her to read this…

Aunty mi oni irritation, please get a Pigin English & Yoruba interpreter because you will need it to read this… ko ma lo ya werey lori oro mi �
Read full gist here: https://naijabeat.com/iyabo-ojo-responds-to-lady-who-claimed-she-called-laura-ikeji-ugly-on-rholagos/

Celebrities2baba Visits Sound Sultan’s Grave In The US, Pays Respect To Late Icon(video) by Cuterboy(op): 4:06am On May 23, 2022
Afrobeat giant, 2baba(2face Idibia) pays respect to the late Sound Sultan. He was in the company of some friends at the Masjid Al Aman Cemetary, New Jersey in the United States.

Sound Sultan died on the 11th of July, 2021 after a brief battle with throat cancer, he died in the United State of America.

Before his death, the relationship between the late Sound Sultan and the living legend, 2face Idibia could be likened to that of blood brothers. Their friendship dated far back as the early 2000s when his first (hit) single ‘Jagbajantis’ was rocking the airwaves in the country.



On May 12, 2021, it was reported that Sound Sultan was somewhere in the USA receiving chemotherapy as he was reportedly diagnosed with Angioimmunoblastic T-cell lymphoma in the throat. He died July 11, 2021, at the age of 44 as a result of complications from the illness(Read More...)

CelebritiesDavido Makes Unexpected Announcement Concerning His Label, Reveals What Next by Cuterboy(op): 11:38am On May 21, 2022
Multi-award-winning Afrobeat giant, Davido has made an unexpected announcement concerning his record label, DMW(Davido Music Worldwide).

His announcement a few hours ago via his social media handle has left people wondering what’s next for him and his other artists on the label.

Davido who took to his verified Twitter handle, unexpectedly revealed the signing of a new artist by the name Toby K. However, so much was left unsaid in the revelation. The singer who recently concluded a video shoot for his upcoming single featuring American rapper, DaBaby, simply wrote: Toby k ����� Welcome



Have You Seen This�: Comedian, Bovi Reacts after Wizkid Shared a Post with Very Short Caption on Instagram

HOT New Music�: Lil Kesh – Vanilla Bottega ft. Joeboy

This has left fans of the ‘LaLa‘ singer wondering who the new artist is and what’s next for one of the biggest record labels in Africa, DMW...(Read more...)

CelebritiesWould You Join Your Friends Who “smoke And Drink” If That’s What It Takes To... by Cuterboy(op): 10:18am On May 21, 2022
Looking at the hardship in the country presently and your current account balance, would you join your friends who smoke and drink alcohol if their company is guaranteed to make you rich?

It is of a general opinion that smoking and drinking are bad habits. Not even just smoking and drinking, consider ‘Igbo’, ‘Shayo’ and ‘Ashewo’ too.

There is an adage that says “An evil company corrupts good manners”. But if you have friends who seem to be well connected and living large already but are into kinds of stuff against societal standards, will you stick to your moral value and double your hustle or roll with them to get what you want?(more...)

CelebritiesAkudaya: The Story Of The One Who Did Not Die by Cuterboy(op):
ONE WEEK EARLIER
“Anire, take this fifty naira and go and get us matches and two bulbs of onions at Iyawo’s place. She’s the only shopkeeper in this neighbourhood who sells things at the right price,” Wasn’t it only a few minutes ago Mola had said these words to her?

Smiling sardonically, Anire reached out to collect the money. “She’s not a businesswoman, Daddy.”

“She’s a honest person,” Mola half-countered, half-reproached. “The rest of them are not. If we didn’t have good people like her on this street, you and I would have to pay through our noses to get the commonest of items from these extortionists masquerading as salespeople.”

Anire laughed and was already heading to the door when Mola spoke again,

“Anire, where is your crucifix?”


The girl froze; she hadn’t expected him to notice.

“Anire,” Mola called gently, “you are aware that it is an auspicious week and every member of the church is to wear their crucifix during this period. Where is your crucifix?”

“Daddy, I’ve been wearing my crucifix in school since Monday, I swear,” she replied evasively, her back still turned to him.

“You left your crucifix in school? Do you mean to say you travelled back here without it?”

Anire grumbled something. “Daddy I will get my crucifix when I get back to school. Let me quickly go and get what you sent me to,” and with that, she dashed out of the house. Anire knew in her heart that her father wouldn’t be pleased if he found out where she’d really left the crucifix. She didn’t know how he would react neither was she prepared to find out.


Back inside the house, Mola reclined in his chair and heaved a frustrated sigh.

Anire, his niece was many things. Having lost her parents to a bus accident at infant age, she had become his sole responsibility. He’d raised her up as his own so that very few people knew that she was his deceased brother’s daughter. And how he had loved his brother!

Anire seemed to have taken after her father; proud, impulsive, stubborn which made Mola sometimes think that had he been a woman, she would have been addressing him by his name as though they were equals and yet, she possessed a spirit so sweet she brought bittersweet memories of the sacrifices his brother had made for him.

He could trust her to be safe out there. However, during this week, such confidence eluded him. He’d had dreams, strange terrifying dreams of Shimmi and his wife asking him to send Anire to them so much that he woke up at midnights all drenched in thick sweat. He prayed, bound and cast against the spirit of death. This was the main reason he’d sent for her, so that she would be close to him during this auspicious week. He found it quite ironical that he should have such dreams during such a period.
Three successive raps came on the door jolting him out of his thoughts. He opened it to the sweaty face of Chinma, his neighbour’s son. What he heard next sent him out of his house in a mad run.

CelebritiesBurna Boy’s Song Propelled Another Part Of My Music Life – Jesse Jagz by Cuterboy(op): 6:46pm On May 18, 2022
Veteran Nigerian rap artist and record producer, Jesse Jagz says Burna Boy‘s song ‘Bank On It’ propelled another part of his music life.

Jesse Garba Abaga, known professionally as Jesse Jagz and famous for producing songs on Ice Prince‘s “Everybody Loves Ice Prince” debut album has given credit to Grammy award winner, Burna Boy for influencing his new pattern of music. The rapper acknowledged that the song ‘Bank On It’ by Burna Boy is indeed a classic.

The rapper shared this on his official Twitter handle and wrote:

"Burna’s ‘Bank On It’ propelled another part of my music for life.� Forever a classic!!"

‘Bank On It’ is the 15th track of Burna’s Twice as Tall, his fifth studio album which was released on August 14, 2020, under Spaceship Records and won the Best Global Music Album at the 63rd GRAMMY Awards

Full Story: https://naijabeat.com/burna-boys-song-propelled-another-part-of-my-music-life-jesse-jagz/

CelebritiesMan Dodges Family Bullet, Girlfriend Calls Off Wedding by Cuterboy(op): 8:32pm On May 06, 2022
Man shares a true-life story of how his friend managed to dodge a potential family bullet after he refused to foot the bill for his bride’s transportation to his wedding.

The friend who has been scheduled to take his wife-to-be to the alter on the 8th of this month claims he does not have the kind of money to throw away on a flight for the bride’s family to attend their wedding. The girlfriend who believed he has the money but just doesn’t want to spend consequently called off the wedding.

A friend of the groom has taken to Twitter to share the story and in his opinion, he believed that his friend has successfully managed to dodge a bullet by this as such a lady could even be the beginning to the end of his friend’s prosperity if they end up being married.

There is a saying that “no matter how wealthy a man is, a bad wife would reduce him to ruins.”

Read more: https://sosonaija.com/man-dodges-family-bullet-girlfriend-calls-off-wedding/

CelebritiesReality Star, Khloe Flaunts &Put Trolls To Shame With Her Hot Body In New Photos by Cuterboy(op): 5:13am On May 03, 2022
Reality star and former BBNaija housemate, Khloe flaunts her hot body in a new social media post putting her online trolls to shame

Oluwabusayomi Abiri better known as Khloe, took to Instagram on Monday to flaunt her curvy backside in new photos.

Khloe is one of the few celebrities in Nigeria who doesn’t hide their feelings about cosmetic surgeries and their personal journey in the enhancement of physical features.



She has been trolled multiple times but she’s one h*ll of a fighter. Putting on her 8-figure-hugging bodysuit, she displayed it all with protruding confidence!

In one of her Instastories late last year, she wrote:

“I made up my mind in less than two weeks to have surgery on my body and I got it done in less than two weeks. I used to think that I would never do it, I don’t even know if I want to do a procedure again because of the pain but it was worth it,”

See more images: https://naijabeat.com/reality-star-khloe-flaunts-put-tr0lls-to-shame-with-her-hot-body-in-new-photos/

CelebritiesTwitter Users Questions Bbnaija, Maria Chike’s Age; She Responds by Cuterboy(op): 6:42am On May 02, 2022
Maria Chike Benjamin, a reality star from the Big Brother Naija “Shine Ya Eye” season last year was under some fire yesterday as fans questioned her age.

The light-skinned former Air hostess and model who hailed from Imo State had shared some beautiful images of herself on both Instagram and Twitter with the caption “Road to 30”

She wrote:

Road to 30…
I want my 30s to be as peaceful as heaven was described in the Bible.

I want to experience heaven on earth in my 30s. Less sadness and more peace, less noise and more quiet.

So for this look, I opted for Blue, heavenly. Blue is for calm, trust and intelligence, and these are all what I want in my 30s


Some of her fans who claimed to have known her from secondary school and seemed to have issues with the number she declared as her age consequently flooded her comment section.

One Olaedo said Maria was four classes ahead of her back in secondary school, FGC, Owerri.
Read more: https://sosonaija.com/twitter-users-questions-bbnaija-maria-chikes-age-she-responds/

FamilyHow Do You Nurture A Child? 5 Simple Ways To Do It by Cuterboy(op): 9:59am On May 01, 2022
How Do You Nurture A Child?

Nurturing a child entails keeping track of and influencing the child’s development at various stages. Before they become a part of the environment and begin to adopt new templates for psychological, physical, and emotional development, a child’s emotional well-being, financial security, moral ideals, and overall growth begin at home.

This means that you are your child’s first tutor as a parent. And recognizing this is the first step in child nurturing. Is there any parenting manual anywhere? No!, but there are a few suggestions that might assist parents who get stuck on their parenting path.

There will be challenges in raising children since as they grow up, aspects of their lives will change, potentially affecting them emotionally or psychologically. As a parent, there is also the pressure of meeting their every need, including financial, emotional, and the desire for you to be present.



Parents do not take breaks while raising their children, there is no schedule, and you are needed every day of the week. This is a lot of effort, but it pays off in the end because you will end up raising responsible adults. The remaining sections of this article would provide helpful tips on nurturing a child.

Tips For Nurturing A Child



Give the child your undivided attention:


Children are needy beings, do not deny them your attention when they ask for it, some parents make this error. They assume that the part of parenting where their attention is needed the most is the early years of a child’s life.

Whatever stage of life a child is at, you should constantly pay attention to them, especially when they ask for it because they may be trying to communicate with you. Also, stimulate their interest in topics that are important to them; this does not just apply to school-related activities.



Some parents are solely interested in discussing grades and academic achievement, but other areas of your child’s life demand your attention. Some children are inquisitive, they want to ask questions and want immediate responses. If you have a child like this, it is important to give them your undivided attention and to answer all of their questions because they may receive incorrect information outside of the home.

Recommended: Sharing Financial Responsibilities In Marriage

Express unconditional love towards the child


A child who is cherished at home understands what love is and will not seek it elsewhere. Do things with them that they enjoy, be there, get them gifts, and tell them you love them. Be vocal about your love from the moment they begin to understand words, also do things to demonstrate your affection, and assist them in finding satisfaction in the little things of life.



Children can be emotional, for example, when you offer your child their favourite cookie after they ask nicely, they smile. Take note of all of these things that make them happy like when you help them with their homework and they receive a perfect score.

Make a conscious effort to do these things when you notice them. You are not only practising love but also showing the child how love can be exhibited in even the most basic ways. Children imitate what they see adults do, and this is how their perspective is formed. They can already understand what love and empathy entail.

Communicate with the child

This requires not only talking to the youngster but also listening to him or her. Allow them to ask questions about the restrictions you have established for them, children are inquisitive about everything. This is not because kids think they know more than you. Sometimes they just want to know why something is the way it is and it is important to explain why.



As a parent, you must recognize the importance of clarifying things with your child. Such as when you tell them that bedtime is at 8 p.m. If your youngster is truly perplexed as to why they must go to bed at a certain time, you should not be afraid to tell them that they require the appropriate amount of sleep for their age.

You can also go ahead and tell them the advantages of sleeping early. By doing so, you are instilling consciousness in them that will follow them wherever they go. They would also mention that they need to be in bed by 8 pm. So that their memory stays sharp and they can easily absorb what they are learning.

Set a good example

Children learn by observation, they observe and learn from the adults around them. Most of the time, kids do what you do, so you do not need to spell things out to them every time.
Read more: https://naijabeat.com/how-do-you-nurture-a-child-5-simple-ways-to-do-it/

CelebritiesKizz Daniel Officially Quits Smoking To Celebrate His 28th Birthday(video) by Cuterboy(op): 8:25am On May 01, 2022
Nigerian singer, Kizz Daniel has taken a bold step to forever quit smoking in celebration of his birthday today.

Kizz Daniel who turned 28 years old today says he’s quitting the act of smoking for the sake of his kids and of his people that genuinely love him. He then brought out a pack of cigarettes as seen in a video he shared on Instagram and broke each stick to pieces.
The father of two went further to advise people who might still be struggling with the addiction saying “It is not cool”



It is not cool and it is not good, trust me. May God save us all. Respect, thank you and happy Sunday, he says.

Read more: https://sosonaija.com/kizz-daniel-officially-quits-smoking-to-celebrate-his-birthday/

RomanceThere Are 5 Qualities That Make A Relationship Great by Cuterboy(op):
A good relationship is one in which the partners are honest with each other about their feelings and go out of their way to make the other person happy. It is not always simple due to misunderstandings, and many people must realize that while there is no such thing as a flawless relationship, the difference between a good relationship and a bad relationship is the ability to clear the air and get back on track.

A good relationship might have problems, but partners know how to overcome whatever obstacles they face. When a relationship is good, both partners can deal with disputes and manage them effectively. This mantra can be applied to many types of relationships, including friendships, acquaintances, and even romantic relationships, but this article focuses on the latter.

Qualities Of A Good Relationship

To have a good relationship, both parties must put out conscious effort. Due to differences in origin, environment, and religious beliefs, most couples struggle to develop all of these attributes.

When two individuals get together as a pair, they are coming from different worlds to coexist, therefore having a good relationship will take some learning, relearning, and unlearning.

1. Mutual Respect: In a relationship, respect is extremely important. A spouse who does not respect the other may not see the damage in breaking the boundaries that were established at the start of the relationship.

Boundaries exist in every relationship, for most, they are a code that keeps both parties in check. If a woman in a relationship decides to spend the night out with her friends and then begins to pay attention to another man, she has broken a code and is not respecting the boundaries within her relationship.

The same goes for a man who sees no wrong in going off-limits with other women while in a relationship, mutual respect exists when partners can maintain a positive attitude even when they are not together.

2. Honesty: Honesty is the foundation of a good relationship, when partners are honest with one another, they create space for healthy dialogue. When one partner is known for lying, it creates a barrier between the two of them, and they are unable to agree on anything.

This is why honesty is a valuable attribute in a good relationship. It is common knowledge that lying makes things more difficult and it does not help that it cannot end with one or two lies. As a rule of thumb, after the first lie is uttered, it is necessary to tell another and another until the situation becomes suffocating. Good and healthy relationships flourish when partners stay honest with each other.

Continue reading: https://naijabeat.com/5-qualities-that-make-a-relationship-great/

FamilyEffect Of Domestic Violence On The Victim by Cuterboy(op): 10:33pm On Apr 28, 2022
Domestic violence is a virus that leaves its victims dejected and defeated if it does not kill them. it can occur in quite a number of ways, both in a marriage or relationship. Perpetrators of this type of violence always have a grip on their victims, and they use physical, sexual, emotional, and verbal violence to maintain that grip.

Domestic abuse has no regard for a person’s gender, age, race, or colour. Although statistics show that women are the most common victims of domestic violence, anyone can become a victim, male or female. Children in these households are particularly vulnerable, the repercussions of domestic violence can spread from the abused partner to the children. The purpose of this article is to assess the indicators of an abusive relationship as well as the effects of domestic violence.

Signs Of An Abusive Partner

Do you have a relationship that disrespects you, does your partner listen to you when you express an opinion on any subject? Do they treat you with respect both inside and outside of the house? If your partner constantly tries to silence you when you try to participate in a conversation.
This would make you feel bad emotionally and lower your self-esteem even more because it implies that your perspective is not valued. If your partner treats you like this, you are better off on your own because this is one of the less visible indications of an abusive relationship.

When your partner tries to dominate you by threatening you if you disobey their orders. If you try to persuade them that the decision they are making has a bad impact on you, they will ignore you. Take the threats seriously because that is your cue to leave that relationship or marriage.
When your partner suggests that you cut ties with your friends and family. An abusive partner’s attempt to remove you from loved ones is a dubious move. If your spouse ever gives you this impression, be wary since you could be in serious trouble. This is a warning sign that you should be aware of your relationship.
Forms of Domestic Violence

1. Physical violence: The act of inflicting harm on another person is known as physical abuse. Abusers utilize a variety of methods to inflict agony on their victims, including kicking, beating, stabbing, and more. Scars, joint dislocations, bruising, and even death can result from this type of maltreatment. This type of maltreatment is common among domestic violence victims.

2. Emotional Violence: When one partner in a relationship or marriage constantly tries to embarrass the other, this is known as emotional abuse. It could be due to their weight, money, or a lack of certain lifestyle amenities. Manipulation and demeaning of one’s partner are examples of emotional abuse. Like when you are trying on a dress and your husband keeps telling you that you need to lose weight or that your stomach fat makes the dress inappropriate. Emotional abuse includes verbal abuse.

Read more: https://naijabeat.com/effect-of-domestic-violence-on-the-victim/

RomanceSigns That Show Someone Genuinely Loves You by Cuterboy(op): 3:50pm On Apr 28, 2022
Has it ever bothered you that you cannot tell how genuinely someone loves you?

If they love you as they claimed, what signs should they naturally exhibit or show off?

You see, the truth of the matter is when someone claims they genuinely love you, there would be one or two signs that obviously give them away. You wouldn’t look too hard before confirming their true love for you.

Why should we look out for these signs?
We fall in love for various personal reasons. It could be for some sort of similarities for some people while for others, they just want to connect. You could love someone for their personality, charisma, physique or even their athletic abilities. Have you at some point met someone who completely sweeps you off of your feet even when you thought you were standing firm? That’s how it starts, that’s the way love begins to grow on you. Love is a beautiful thing but that begins to change when the one we thought loved us isn’t actually loving us. You don’t want to be the only one on this sheep, do you?

So should you continue to believe they love you when every other thing you feel says otherwise? What if you’re the only one in love here?

We have put these signs together below, as a guide to help in knowing whether it is the right thing to do to accept them into your life wholeheartedly.

Is the person you love loving you back? Does true love exist?
If you find yourself constantly questioning their genuineness or you are always having a feeling that what they claim to have for you isn’t coming off as natural as possible, you might just be right.

Genuine love is one that is sincerely interested in how you feel. Your well-being, your immediate and future goals, your career and other similar kinds of things. It should and be obvious of course come off naturally, it’s not forced.

Although, people differ and some people need more time for you to completely understand their nature but it shouldn’t be an eternity of studying, no. When a potential partner or friend claims that they genuinely love you, within a little time, you can tell that even when issues arise in the nearest future, you will sort it out amicably. Some, however, do sincerely need that more time.

We have listed more than 12 easy to note signs that show someone genuinely loves you below:

Safety
Personally, for me, safety comes first. How safe are you around them?

If someone genuinely loves you, they will ensure that you are in safe hands. Now, this does not automatically make them your bodyguard, no! The simple point is that you will feel very safe and enjoy a great level of comfort whenever you are around them.

Communication
When you have someone who is open to sincere communication, the rest is easy. Communication is a vital key for any serious relationship to survive. When you get this part right, you will be able to talk about each other’s needs which might include finances. It would also make it easy to work on each other’s shortcomings.

A person who genuinely loves you understands the need for proper communication, they will find a way around whatever their schedule is, tight or not. Mentally and physically, they will be available.

Encouragement
When you are feeling down and confused about which way to go next in certain situations, you would be able to count on them to lift your spirit. Their presence will give you joy because you know they won’t add to your problems. Someone who genuinely loves you will encourage you to be a better version of yourself.


You will often hear words like “You are the best darling”, “You can do it”, “Don’t stress yourself too much baby”, “You have tried”, “You will get it done on the next try”, “Let me help you with this” and so on from them…

Empathy
A genuine lover will try harder to understand why you have done them any wrong at all. They wouldn’t just get angry when you are behaving in a way that is to them unpleasant or annoying, they will want to know why you became this way. They will want to know if you are simply having a difficult time or you are trying to get their attention or even pass a message before they react at all.

When someone says they genuinely love you, they most likely feel and share your pain. They make it a habit to make you feel better. Although, great care should be taken when trying to observe this sign.

You should not frequently look for ways to make them angry. Don’t create future problems for your relationship simply because you are trying to know if your partner is empathetic, this might not happen in your favour.

Read more: https://naijabeat.com/signs-that-show-someone-genuinely-loves-you/

CelebritiesDavido Completely Transformed Physically Challenged Businessman’s Life Just By.. by Cuterboy(op): 1:50am On Apr 25, 2022
Nigerian multi-talented singer and record label giant, Davido has completely transformed a physically challenged businessman’s life just by liking his tweet.

Few weeks ago, Davido shared on his social media handle that he’ll be giving out N20 Million to 2o lucky people to assist in whatever business they are into with the current situation of hardship in the country. He enjoined anyone with a business idea to share it in the comment section of the tweet.
In his tweet, the singer wrote:

Country hard right now sha … let’s give 20 m to 20 pple on Friday … send in your business ideas or start up ideas … more details shortly #Wrblo

Consequently taking to his comment section, the 33-year-old physically challenged man, Adebisi Michael, said he simply shared his business idea and Davido “liked” his tweet. His life has completely changed since then, he said.

Reacting to the turn of events in an interview with BBC, the young man, Adebisi Michael said the tweet really changed his life as he would never have believed himself to have enough money to roof his business centre.

Read more: https://sosonaija.com/davido-completely-transformed-physically-challenged-businessmans-life-just-by-liking-his-tweet/

CelebritiesRe: Put The Egos Aside, Teebillz Tells Burna Boy, Davido And Wizkid by Cuterboy(op): 5:54pm On Apr 19, 2022
DigitalStepdad:
Talented ones are still coming ... But I will say if not for the talent of music producers ...who don't get recognised by the way .... most of this so called artiste don't have what it takes ... imagine davido as a contestant in a talent hunt ... Or wizkid or burna self. Hahaha
But how many artists in Nigeria do we have today that came from talent hunt shows? And millions are being wasted on the so-called Nigerian Idol and the likes yearly
Celebrities“baby Calm Down” Unilag Replies Rema After He Complained About ASUU Strike by Cuterboy(op): 5:51pm On Apr 19, 2022
The University of Lagos (Unilag) has responded to Rema after he complained that the ASUU strike was keeping him from resuming since he got admission to study at the school.

The singer had tweeted earlier: “ASUU, since dem give me admission I neva start school o, e don do nau!”

Bowen University then saw it as a chance to advertise their institution so they tweeted at Rema, writing: “ASUU can’t delay you if you’re enrolled in Bowen University.”

Rema replied, telling Unilag that another school is “toasting him.”

He wrote: “Unilag private university don dey Toast me o, I’m blushing omg stop it.
Unilag replied: “Hmm… Rema dear, UNILAG has chosen you o, Hmm… so don’t let anybody come dey change your mind o… Rema no dey vex for us o.”

Rema responded: “Awww Unilag end the strike or I will go ooo, we want to go back to school pls the youths are not happy!”

Unilag then wrote back to Rema: “Baby calm down.”

Full gist here: https://sosonaija.com/unilag-replies-rema-after-he-complained-about-ASUU-strike/

CelebritiesPut The Egos Aside, Teebillz Tells Burna Boy, Davido And Wizkid by Cuterboy(op): 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2022
Media personality and showbiz manager, Tunji Balogun popularly known as Teebillz has called on Burna Boy, Davido and Wizkid to put their ego aside and tour the globe together.

He mentioned that God made the three of them the global representatives of the Afrobeats genre for a reason and also hailed their founding fathers, 2Baba, P-Square, D’Banj and Don Jazzy for paving the way for them.

The 41-year-old talent manager who was once married to Tiwa Savage took to his social page to encourage Burna Boy, Davido and Wizkid to see themselves as one to achieve this goal.

Read more: https://sosonaija.com/put-the-egos-aside-teebillz-tells-burna-boy-davido-and-wizkid/

CelebritiesHow I Almost Ended My Acting Career After Relocation To US – Toyin Abraham by Cuterboy(op): 1:02pm On Jan 07, 2022
Popular Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham Ajeyemi, has revealed that she once wanted to end her acting career when she relocated to the United States years ago.

The actress took to her Instagram page to reflect on those “very dark times” in her life, where she was almost giving up her fame because she was tired.

The motive of her post was to celebrate one Wale Olaleye, who helped her to embrace her career and go back to acting during those times of her life.
Read more:https://9jabeat.com/how-i-almost-ended-my-acting-career-after-relocation-to-us-toyin-abraham/

CelebritiesAdekunle Gold: Hitmaker And A King Of Transformation by Cuterboy(op): 1:40am On Jan 07, 2022
It is no doubt that Adekunle Gold makes hits upon hits without stress plus AG Baby is a King of transformation too.

In 2020, the 28-year-old father of one released his highly anticipated sophomore album ‘Afro Pop Vol. 1’ which embodied singles such as AG Baby (feat. Nailah Blackman) and Okay among others. These two tracks with their accompanying music videos dominated the airwaves and rubbed shoulders with the likes of Davido’s FEM and DJ Neptune, Joeboy & Mr Eazi’s ‘Nobody‘.

This was when Adekunle Gold redefined his new look, the true king was emerging. His “Sade” punk and soft highlife were completely gone! We now have a finer and chubbier afro-pop artist looking like a dark-skinned Jiddena on braids. The beards too…FANTASTIC!

When initially criticised for his new direction in music and change in style, he was quick to say he has no apologies whatsoever for choosing to evolve with time and grow in his craft.

On his verified Twitter page, Adekunle Gold aired his view about these complaints, he said:

Read more: https://9jabeat.com/adekunle-gold-a-hitmaker-and-a-king-of-transformation/

CrimeRe: Jennifer Anthony: Missing UNIJOS Student Found Dead In Hotel, Eyes Plucked Out by Cuterboy(op):
This is not fair o. Nairaland removed my post and replaced it with Lindaikeji's link cry
https://9jabeat.com/girl-last-seen-with-boyfriend-found-dead-with-body-parts-mutilated/
Cuterboy:
Missing UNIJOS student reportedly found dead in hotel 'with her eyes gouged out'



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/1/missing-unijos-student-reportedly-found-dead-in-hotel-with-her-eyes-gouged-out-2.html
CrimeRe: Jennifer Anthony: Missing UNIJOS Student Found Dead In Hotel, Eyes Plucked Out by Cuterboy(op): 10:46pm On Jan 06, 2022
My point is, these criminals hardly use their own residence.
Senomi:
And so? Is there anything wrong with going to hotel
CrimeRe: Jennifer Anthony: Missing UNIJOS Student Found Dead In Hotel, Eyes Plucked Out by Cuterboy(op): 11:32pm On Jan 05, 2022
He took her to a hotel...something is not right
Senomi:
Y are y'all blaming the girl? She must have dated this guy for long thinking he's a good guy before he eventually decided to use her for money rituals, most times it's not the girls fault abeg, y'all should hold the males accountable for suddenly becoming too money conscious,you fit date guy for 3yrs he can just decide one day to kill and use you. Men better stop this rubbish they're all doing just for the sake of nonsense money, it's not worth it atall
CrimeJennifer Anthony: Missing UNIJOS Student Found Dead In Hotel, Eyes Plucked Out by Cuterboy(op): 10:03pm On Jan 05, 2022
Missing UNIJOS student reportedly found dead in hotel 'with her eyes gouged out'

A missing student of the University of Jos, Plateau State, identified as Jennifer Anthony has been reportedly found dead.

The 300 level Special Education and Rehabilitation Sciences student went missing since December 31, 2021, New Year's Eve.

All attempt to find her proved abortive until her body was recovered in a hotel in Jos with both eyes gorged out, indicating she may have been killed for ritual purposes.

One Daniel Olugbenga Adediran had earlier appealed to the public for help in locating her whereabouts.

"We haven't seen or heard from her for some days... Please if you have seen her somewhere from 31st December 2021 please let us know 08135892060 09069498376 300Level Student Special Education and Rehabilitation sciences @ university of Jos Her name is Jennifer Anthony." he wrote.
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/1/missing-unijos-student-reportedly-found-dead-in-hotel-with-her-eyes-gouged-out-2.html

Science/TechnologyBlackberry OS Phones Cease Operation Today, January 4th by Cuterboy(op): 12:36am On Jan 05, 2022
Tech giant, Blackberry Ltd has ended all functionality of their classic OS phones today, 4th of January 2022.

The Canadian firm, now focusing on software licencing and cyber-security have decided to turn off all its support for the BlackBerry OS.

One contributing factor to the close of operations for the Blackberry OS would be the advent of touchscreen phones without any physically attached keypad(which of course takes up space). Apple iPhones and the overwhelming demand for rival Android devices, smartphones from the likes of Samsung, HTC, etc also contributed to the extermination of the once-respected brand.

Read more:https://9jabeat.com/blackberry-os-phones-cease-operation-today-january-4th/

It is definitely the end of an era!

CelebritiesBurnaboy Vs Shattawale: The Difference Between A Globally Recognized Artist &... by Cuterboy(op): 8:52am On Jan 03, 2022
[center]Burnaboy Vs Shattawale: The Difference Between A Globally Recognized Artist And A Local One[/center]

The ongoing rift between Nigerian singer Burnaboy and Ghana’s Shatta Wale seems to be one-sided and it’s really getting obvious.

Damini Ogulu aka Burnaboy has deleted almost all his rants against Shatta Wale as instructed by his management and has promised never to speak again on the matter but the 2014 Vodafone Ghana artist of the year isn’t backing down.

Shatta Wale has gone ahead to accuse Burnaboy of rapping girls and spoke ill of the African Giant’s mother...

According to the Duke of Ibadan, this clearly shows the difference between a globally recognized singer and a local one.

Read more: https://9jabeat.com/burnaboy-vs-shattawale-the-difference-between-a-globally-recognized-artist-and-a-local-one/

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