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Sports / Re: Betwinner.ng Website Not Opening. by cutewahid(m): 1:12pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
anybody using betwinner.ng should please reply i need to know if my account may have been suspended or the issue is general |
Sports / Betwinner.ng Website Not Opening. by cutewahid(m): 12:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
I have been trying to open betwinner.ng since yesterday, it seems their website is expired or something. Please does any one has the same problem opening the website |
Education / Re: I Regret Going To The University by cutewahid(m): 9:03am On Dec 31, 2020 |
dont always say school na scam...U say Nigerian school na scam |
Romance / Re: Lady Uses Chicken Leg As Waist Bead by cutewahid(m): 11:48am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Shanklee:I concur |
Romance / Re: It Takes Three To Tango (18+)...By Abiodun O by cutewahid(m): 7:34pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
great story. I did enjoy the ride! 1 Like |
Health / Re: Share Your Sleep Paralysis Experience Here. by cutewahid(m): 10:17am On Jun 01, 2020 |
I think there different things that causes paralysis but it mostly cause by nightmare. When a having a nightmare or allucination that scares you, you will want to wake up by force, then your body goes into paralysis for few seconds before waking up. I had that kind of nightmare often mostly when i sleep late in night after a movie |
Romance / Re: Mention That Person When U See For Heaven U Go Shout OJORO!!! by cutewahid(m): 11:02pm On May 31, 2020 |
Officialgarri: Officialgarri: |
Phones / Re: Rest In Peace Oppo And MI .. Na The Matter We They Settle by cutewahid(m): 12:45pm On May 30, 2020 |
this matter never settle o, abeg who go come help us settle this matter na |
Jokes Etc / Re: Can Nairalanders Settle This Matter PHOTO by cutewahid(m): 7:14pm On May 29, 2020 |
Romance / Re: Why Do Guys Ask For Sex Before They Can Help by cutewahid(m): 7:29pm On May 28, 2020 |
jonahhh:oga just collect the girl account number send her the money...let shame catch everybody here jonahhh:oga just collect the girl account number send her the money...let shame catch everybody here 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Marry A Woman Who Knows How To F*ck And... by cutewahid(m): 6:43pm On May 28, 2020 |
[color=][/color] iLegendd:and if you can go 50 rounds, she will later cheat on you iLegendd:and if you can go 50 rounds, she will later cheat on you |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Wife Is Putting Me Through This Right Now! by cutewahid(m): 6:16pm On May 28, 2020 |
klenton:overated? i think you are kind of person dat believe every one shuold be like you 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Wife Is Putting Me Through This Right Now! by cutewahid(m): 7:38pm On May 27, 2020 |
Rozz:madam when you marry you can decide not to have sex with your hubby for months.. Am sure your marriage wil b 'happy ever after' 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Is Too Insecure by cutewahid(m): 6:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Donald3d post=89504833] Plain and simple, your wife is an introvert, or at least an ambivert, most likely the former. You need to stop trying to change her, and give her space to be herself . How do I know this ? I am an introvert, besides Nairaland and maybe recently Twitter, I really can't talk much to people face to face, except its business, and I always opt for a WhatsApp chat except it totally necessary to see in person, business is the only thing that "brings me out of my shell", because there is no alternative. This is part of the major reason why I am a freelancer, recently gathered the "courage" to register my business and would be opening a physical location soon. Does that mean I am insecure ? No ! I am sorry I am talking too much about myself, but I believe it would help you better understand your wife. Ironically my babe (wife) reminded me this morning that we have not taken a picture together in a long time. Its true, I take like one or two pictures in a year. Sometimes I don't. She used to think I was insecure until she started understanding me. The "problem" with introverts is that we notice too much details, we pay too much attention, we try to make everything as perfect as possible, because we don't want other people to have the wrong impression of us, at the same time we don't care what people think if we don't talk to them(I know its ironic). We would easily see flaws where an average person won't see one. I was extra shy on my wedding day. I didn't have up to 60 people in attendance.I doubt it was up to 40 sef. I was too shy to look into people's faces to count. I warned family and friends not to share my wedding pictures or videos online. We don't like crowd, we don't like people being in "our business". We value our "space" and privacy more than anything. We also don't like to be constantly in peoples faces or being at the mercy of other people. Some of us are "afraid" of phone calls, its that "bad" Its just who we are . Excessive social interaction , especially when it has to do with speaking or seeing people , just drains us. About going out, just like her , I hate going anywhere. Let me shock you, in the last two years I can count how many times I have gone anywhere, I am not kidding . Out of 365 days in a year, at least 350-360 is spent at home. Yet I work at least 18 hours everyday. What can you do to help her ? 1.Constantly remind her of how proud you are of her 2.Tell her how beautiful she looks. 3.Giver her space 4. Understand that this is who she is and don't try to judge her. We feel really sad when the people we love, don't understand us. You should not bother about her reaction to other people, because it would most likely never change as long as she isn't rude to them. In fact she would be too shy to be rude sef. Be more concerned about her interaction with you and treat her with love and understanding. You honestly have no idea how awkward she feels, when you try to force her to interact or socialize with other people. It was insensitive of you to share her videos and pictures with your child online without her permission. I know how she felt, she felt like the ground was going to open and swallow her up. The same thing happened with the video call you forced on her, she was just giving excuse of not having make up on to evade the video call. I am sorry sir, this may sound insensitive or rude, but you don't understand your wife Sir. I do a lot. Please sit her down, may be let her read this post and ask her how she feels about social interactions and you would be amazed when she opens up to you. People have a very wrong notion that all introverts are extra quiet or have low self esteem With our loved ones and people we "allow" into our space, we are very free and can share or talk about almost anything and are very conversational (that's the reason she slept with make up when you just met her, she wasn't comfortable enough to lay her "introvert shield" down). Please try and understand her Sir, and stop trying to force social interactions on her, you would only succeed in pushing her away more. You would drive her deeper into her shell Are introverts psychologically damaged people ? No, we are one of the smartest, strong willed and motivated people around, because we have enough time to pay attention Are we awkward ? Maybe Do we love being this way ? Yes, It blissful Are we sweet and caring ? More than you can imagine Do you have more time to spend with us ? Big yes If you focus on her benefits than her disadvantages, you would enjoy your wife much more than you can imagine. This person nailed it 4u. GBAM! 2 Likes |
Science/Technology / Re: The Owl's Long Legs by cutewahid(m): 9:44pm On May 09, 2020 |
just now
31 years 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys, Have You Ever Had A T.hree.some? Share Your Experience. by cutewahid(m): 9:40pm On May 09, 2020 |
Shukusheka:o boy ur case funny die 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by cutewahid(m): 9:24pm On May 09, 2020 |
oh boy dis fight no b here o 1 Like 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Urgent Vacancy by cutewahid(m): 11:05am On Jul 08, 2013 |
am interested but dnt hav parsonal computer...any help u can render i wil gladly appreciat... busari waheed 12 owoseni street oshodi 08085075430 busariw@gmail.com |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Unadvertised Vacancies by cutewahid(m): 2:25pm On Jun 03, 2013 |
helo, pls i need a job around oshodi. Am a ssce holder...pls help me out...my email is cutewahid@yahoo.com |
Adverts / Re: Best E-payment Site That Enables You Make Same-day Payments Abroad by cutewahid(m): 3:04pm On May 20, 2012 |
did you guyz have a local contact numbers i can call as your uk contacts never go through |
Adverts / Re: Best E-payment Site That Enables You Make Same-day Payments Abroad by cutewahid(m): 8:29pm On May 09, 2012 |
i have registered on your stite. I have made a transfer transactions recently and i select card payment option but no payment page shown. I also called the numbers on the website it didnt through.can you explain what is going on |
Adverts / Re: Best E-payment Site That Enables You Make Same-day Payments Abroad by cutewahid(m): 9:54am On May 04, 2012 |
i dont have a paypal account unless you can pay to the beneficiary paypal account on my behalve |
Adverts / Re: Best E-payment Site That Enables You Make Same-day Payments Abroad by cutewahid(m): 7:35pm On May 03, 2012 |
what are your charges for sending to marcedonia |
Adverts / Re: Best E-payment Site That Enables You Make Same-day Payments Abroad by cutewahid(m): 10:02am On May 03, 2012 |
please can u help me make western union transfer of £30 to abroad |
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