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TheEnlightenedO:
Hi All,

I've been a Nairalander for years, since 2008, I never signed up until now because I never had to post anything really, so kindly bear with my narrative...

I have been dating this Akwa Ibom girl for over 2 years now, she's relatively young 22 (still a student but obviously still in that dreamy state; spends most of her time reading novels, completely dependent on me, in fact the entire family is: I got them their 3 bedroom apartment, I send money to her uncles, her mom and send them monthly stipends for food; I most times even ask her to take home the food she stocks up for me in the freezer cuz I'm not going to lie I am lazy with having to get stuff out and microwave, I'd rather eat a snack cuz of my busy schedule, even bought everyone of her sisters the phones they use, sometimes I just send funds to her loved ones whenever I am sending money to my exwife for my child). For reference purposes; I turn 27 this year.

Sometime in November I met this nice Yoruba lady, 30 (intelligent, master's degree, works in an Oil & Gas firm, very dramatic). This yoruba babe had full knowledge of the existence of my Ibom babe from the jump, but we liked each others company and spent time together after work sometimes. I love our mature conversations, but you could tell shes been through alot, Daddy issues, heartbreaks and has a terrible habit of always threatening to commit suicide everytime we have a dispute; it's a very crazy chain of events when this happens, it goes like this: For instance, if we are physically together and we had a small disagreement over how perhaps my worker spoke to her, she starts to rant, I've been married before so I know to walk away when this starts cuz I no get time honestly, she usually either steps in front of me, does that yoruba style 'holding my hand that I'm not going anywhere stance' and if I proceed to leave, she would go as far as showing up at my house even if she knows the Ibom babe is there, all to ask me the same question: 'Are you breaking up with me?' I learnt the hard way to say No to this question after she attempted suicide the first time. I was out of the country and had to beg my friends to go to her home and make sure she was okay, this thing has taken a toll of my friends even... This babe is a standup babe however, amazing and pure heart of sorts but is very petty, she would fight me over posting my exwife who is also the mother of my child's photo on mother's day, all just to say Happy Mother's Day... That led to a 2 hour rant, I had to hang up, then she called my friends and vented about it to them, and threatened suicide again.

My dilemma is this, I love Ibom, but I have spent 2 years trying to build her into something she obviously isn't, I have been married before and my exwife showed me pepper even though we are on decent terms now. I invested alot into that, I also have invested alot into this too but I feel like I may be wasting my time. I am at a point where I have gained it all before, lost it after my divorce, and finally gained it all back, I have helped her and her family without complaints but I feel like perhaps she cant imagine the possibility of losing me in the regard of somewhat losing their breadwinner, truth is I dont feel sexually aroused by her anymore, I have to watch porn or think of someone else to be able to sleep with her.
Even the Yoruba one, she always wants to be on the phone, I am a busy person usually and cant be on the phone all day like I'm a teenager or a fresher in Uni... she expects me to simply dump Ibom and start having babies with her. Besides her always threatening suicide if I dont marry her or get her pregnant, she always uses things I tell her in confidence against me.

I honestly just want my peace... I need advise

Kill urself by urself before u turn 30 yeye dey smell ..

SeverusSnape:
What a waste!.
See fine fine leather shoes.

Some didn't get effected..check d 2nd pic n look at d brown shoe..

Tot it was iz late sister..they look alike duh..

fergie001:
I know KCPresh dem suffer well well...but I beg you in the name of God, tell me that's not E-money.

How them take suffer well well abeg

ikh777:
your MONIKER shows Male..... are you insinuating that you or your boss are GAYbriel?

Read d part where he said oh are u moving with her... that's mean d boss is gay ..

Na them Sabi ..two people I know just got paid 100k each by akwaibom state govt....walai I no go lie i dey jealous...

This is where we need Indian police with there stick

vanida6:
Mine was in 2011 wen i return back from shcool,,i was drop around 12:30am in d midnight,i call everybody at home dere phones re switch off acept our gateman nd e did not pick my calls,,so i decide to walk down to house cuz i cant find any bike man or taxi at dat middle of night,,on my way home i saw one old women in white dress with white goat and a pot in her hand my mind begin to shake seriouse,so i take a chill nd stop walkin nd hide in one place to just view her in 4G,,she begin summond different Gods names den after she finish she just bury dis goat alive with d pot in ground at dat momment my father just call me nd my phone was not in silent i feel like bury mysef wit fear cuz my phone is in my bag keep ringing louder,,shuuu dis old mama just stare everywhere just to know where d phone is ringin to God who save my life dat night i saw a car coming nd i stop d car to help me reach my house wit beggin nd beggin so he take me back to my house,,its not even take a week i come hear one rich man died in dat area ooh,,,up till today i dont trust old peoples wit dere evil acts .

I guest ur mum n dad are still under 16 abi n they will never get old.cus u will hate them if they get older.

Some of them even left there shop open cus of drinks..

Asgard13:
Yoruba and cultism...

Which part of yorubaland is safe?

Just read n pass if u got nothing to say pls.m not a yoruba or igbo but pls stop this hate.

ManOfSteel2:
Just can't forget my encounter with her sometime at independent layout, Enugu. Came to see an aunt that just arrived from Germany.

Maybe she thought I was one of those big boys whose parents own duplexes in that posh neighbourhood. Said she came to see a female friend even when it was obvious she received cash to come get laid.

Those cameltoe and large bossom will only make my "gbola" happy for few minutes

ManOfSteel always tell them "oloshoism" doesn't pay

But bro nobody ask u question na

EjaikreTheViper:
that's a cojoined snake. they won't worship it because they know about it more than you.

What breed of snake are u

Person wey kill this one na coward by attacking him from d back...

yeye na now they want bring 4g network come naija..they gave us 3g name am 4g...

kchaste:
Two males left from this litter of 5.
Puppies are 6 weeks plus.
Location is Benin City
09033989966

Can u deliver to sokoto state??

Indians go begin worship this one..

Ihatefeminist:
Hollywood and western media have so deceived us men ehhn
In medival times women like these weren't even considered by the majority of men.

See the way they look sef;No yansh, coupled with their almost non existent boobs

I will pick a real woman with full breasts and ass over these skeletons any day!!
Rubbish!

my nigga chop knuckle...

OgThanos:
It's not working here..

Get a new sim...mtn app dn spoil my own..mine stop working the day I downloaded mtn app.i bought 1.5gb from d my app..after day one finish I say mek I go back to my awoof plan of 1gb for 200,e no work again..

setobaba:
Good morning and thanks to you all
The good news I’ve gotten the Dog before these advices falls in. For now i only need tips on how maintain the dog and how to handle all the basic traning like sit, stand, where to poo and waterview.

Below is her recent picture

Baba how far No fear just calm down n continue taking care of ur pup u wud soon find out how easy it is.. ur money no go finish in Jesus name forget those we dey put fear for ur mind..my gsd is 4yr old na wetin I eat she go eat even chinchin n yam.

Abfinest007:
rumors mongers

Lol u for tell am where the 3children wey Niki born for am dey na..

comshots:
She went to Dubai with her politician sugar daddy.Na hotel she from dey snap this pix.

The lockdown no allow her come BK to naija.

MrBrownJay1:
you cannot be a hypocrite, you have to take EVERYTHING (that is written in the bible) for granted or nothing... that same holy book also tells you to murder your kids if they step out of line, would you also do it? it also says you should stone non virgins, would you also do that?!

Dude just STU pls...chuchuchuchuchu wetin u dey yarn sef

She not d first or last..I like d former Adele with chubby cheek.

KosiGee:
Nagin

Old man... that's mean u still remember Sunita

Gandollar:
Telephone without waya! Shattap!

Aburo oloshi.. telephone without waya is called cellphone..na land line u still dey use ba

praiseneo:
lol no reason am we know women maybe the man just push am going one side but iya de shout say ogbamileti just to gain sympathy lol

If d man is truly innocent I swear him for dn take action as a naija police man..but na d bad thing wey him do na em make am calm down like day.

See as chioma hold pikin like say no b her pikin..her eyes still dey outside cus people like her barely have time for der child na nanny b everything,..

Millenniumlady:
Say waiting happen no be him mate dey buy the original one Ladies if your bea buys this for you break up with him

U dn buy market..them boys will come for ur head now...

NextD18:
Do you know what it means to slap a Nigerian policeman 13 times? The guts!!

She's wayward, wild and very lucky she did that to a tolerating man, because a typical Nigerian policeman would have shot her to death out of anger.

They should please jail, prosecuted and penalized her thoroughly, because a woman who's capable of harassing a policeman in such manner can comfortably kill her husband or anyone around her.

She's a time bomb.
I wonder how many innocent men she has raped.

Just shhhhhh there if u don't understand Yoruba language..didn't u hear her saying d man slap her..

CrazyMan:
You can't comfortably buy and maintain a germarn Shepard with that income.

Let's be realistic here. Most Gsd puppies are sold between 50-90k depending on the breed.

Feeding alone would be costing you between 5-10k monthly minus veterinary and other miscellaneous. And you say your monthly income is what again?

Truth is you'll be overwhelmed by the huge expenses your little pet is going to give you and most likely run out of cash before the end of the month. Cos you'll have to fend for yourself as well.

The only breed I can recommend for you with that income is the Calabar yellow hound aka ekuke dog. The only money you'll spend is in the purchasing which would be less than 2k. As for feeding and maintenance, you have absolutely nothing to worry about cos the calabar yellow hound is capable of surviving with or without your support.


Good luck.

U know nothing about dogs bro.. nothing at all...I doubt if u av ever train a dog before..

Geepee77:
You gave estimate of one month, will he be buying dog every month? He has done the most important job and that's buying the dog, the rest is minor. He cannot spend more that 20k monthly.

Chop knuckle..