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If it is true that the jackass that he is has snapped a tendon then it is not a small thing. He will find out after he has had the surgery. It is actually quite an invasive procedure. It leads to muscle shrinkage and requires some intensive physio to get back in shape. This can take a few weeks.

I think he is lying about something. This tendon biz just seemed an easy and safe medical excuse.

Looking forward to enjoying the company, intellect and great humour of a community of Nigerians and brethren. I know there is a lot we can learn from each other and do for each other So I'm just here to contribute to the collective.

Forgive me if occasionally I blow hard, its what we cyclones do 

Dont just jump to the worst possible conclusion. Where is the trust? Maybe the cost of daily phonecalls has become prohibitive. Talk to him about finances and how life is going generally. Find out how things are. Ask him if there is anything you can do to help.

Your actions should show him how much you care. If he cold shoulders you then, maybe it is time to start thinking twice.

If he wants to leave, only he can change his mind so dont get all anxious. Take a step back and take stock of things.