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Travel › Re: How Good Is The Port Harcourt To Warri Road. by CzarChris(m):
avalancheMedia:
Greetings everyone. I want to travel to Warri but I am torn between traveling with my car or entering a public transport.
I honestly don't like traveling long distance on public transport.

So I will prefer to go with my car but I don't really know how good the road is. My car is a sedan car that won't survive bad road.

Please anyone conversant with the road should enlighten me please. Thanks
I travelled through that road to Warri 2weeks ago. The road is in good condition, just don't travel through that road on a Tuesday because Tuesdays are Mbiama market day, unless you like spending a few hours on a hold-up. Like some people commented earlier, that checkpoint after Patani, those guys no dey play o. They search me wetin no good that day. Make sure you no carry any exhibit sha.
Romance › Re: Before You Blame Women, Answer This One Uncomfortable Question. by CzarChris(m):
Pukkalolo:
A goat does not climb a roof unless someone puts a ladder there.

Before you open your mouth to attack “Naija women” for being gold diggers, entitled, or disrespectful, ask yourself one hard question: Who keeps building the ladder?


For every behaviour you complain about Naija women, there are men who encourage it, reward it, and sometimes practically beg for more of it.


Let's look at a few examples.

EXAMPLE #1: Women who are gold diggers and just want to chop men's money.


The women you call gold diggers did not invent the game. They simply noticed that most men still try to buy women's love with money.

If men stopped using money and lavish spending as their primary strategy for attracting women, there would be no such thing as gold diggers anymore.



Example #2: Women who act entitled, rude and saucy towards men

The truth is simple:

A woman does not continue disrespecting a man she knows will walk away the moment she tries it.

But when a woman disrespects you, you double your effort for her. She ignores your message, and you send another message. She treats you like trash, and you keep giving her attention.

What exactly do you expect her to learn from that arrangement?

You’re literally teaching her that the ruder and more saucy she acts, the more you want her.

You become the reason the next man will meet the same attitude.
Jokes apart we have a lot of feminized men out there with savior mentality, who believe that their can save every girl they encounter out there, but they fail to realize(or realize late) is that women are more manipulative, cunning, and cutthroat than men are. When men realize that you can't buy a woman's loyalty, just make her like your personality, because the money you are spending on that girl, there's another man out there that your annual income is his Sunday church offering, and there's another guy that she is spending that money you are giving her on. So no try use money impress woman you go wound o.

Another thing at the slightest sign of disrespect walk away. Women know exactly what they are doing. If it didn't dey, it didn't dey. Don't force it.

One major tip is this, a woman that is into you will make loving her easy. But we no dey hear word, we like the one that doesn't like us and treat the one that likes us as trash. Once you can figure the last sentence out, your good to go.
Travel › Re: Imo: The Only State In Nigeria Where Solar Lights Stretch More Than 200Km by CzarChris(m): 10:18pm On Oct 27
owobokiri:
Solar light tagbukwe gi dia
Chai!!! Honestly, I can feel the venom from this comment.
I just don't understand why Imo State has always been so unfortunate when it comes to governors. After Udenwa, na just tufiakwa we dey get as governors, from Ohakim, to the criminal Rochas, to the more you look the less you see Hope. May God deliver us in Imo State. AMEN!!!
Islam › Re: Muslims Block Yenagoa Road To Pray (Video) by CzarChris(m): 10:31am On Oct 25
[quote author=CyynthiaKiss post=140996942]Muslim worshipers block the road to pray in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State.

Izon brothers, una fall my hands big time. This is a massive aberration.
Romance › Re: A Brother Needs An Advice. by CzarChris(m):
ManLikeL:
Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?

I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.

I haven't really been the type to consider a serious relationship for a while now. It's just been a couple of sex partners here and there. We do it safely and keep things on a superficial level.

Now, recently, there have been demands and questions here and there about starting a family, especially considering that my immediate junior brother is done having children. His lastborn will be three next month, while the lastborn of my family is also done having kids. Her firstborn is already 10 years old.

I seem to be the only odd one out in this regard, even though I'm arguably more financially settled than all of them. Not to brag, please; I'm just trying to paint a clearer picture of the situation.

I clocked 35 in May, and it was as if everyone in the universe agreed to centre their birthday wishes around God providing me with a wife and family. Ever since then, the reminders from my folks have been pretty loud, persistent, and disturbing.

For the first time in years, I decided to seek a proper relationship, unlike my usual superficial flings and sexcapades.

Come to think of it, I can barely go three days without proper sex. This detail should be useful later.

I met this very beautiful babe from my state. She's 27, a first-class graduate (I am too, actually), and I'm naturally attracted to every facet of intelligence, especially communicative and academic intelligence. She has both, and I'm superbly into her.

She can hold a very reasonable conversation without leaving you mentally exhausted. She's become an integral part of my life, and at this point, I think it's safe to say I'm deeply attracted to her and genuinely like her.

Worthy of note is the fact that I've enjoyed a very unusual level of peace with her over the past three months, which is absolutely unlike me.

I get correct anger ish, although I've learnt to manage it well. I'm not a violent person, but I pick offences easily, and most times, I walk away when provocations get too loud. More often than not, my walking away is goodbye. I'm so good at it.

But since meeting this babe, we've not had any ugly disagreements over these past few months. She's very calm, calculated, and receptive. These qualities have made me like her even more.

She has a reasonably good-paying job, but that's not even an issue. I earn well enough to cater for everything, but she's also financially independent. Gifting seems to be her thing, too, as she's spent quite a sum on gifts for me without expecting anything in return. I haven't even matched up to a quarter of what she's spent on gifting though.

For the first time in my life, I agreed to a no-sex-before-marriage relationship because she's a virgin.

I still dey run my games on a low, so this didn't really look like an ish.

Here lies the rub.

Just last week, she said she had a confession to make, and she opened up about being SS. Mind you, I'm AA, so, by the usual norms, this shouldn't be an issue.

But during one of our previous conversations, she had claimed to be AS and asked if I would be comfortable settling down with someone who was SS. I almost freaked out.

I'm sorry, but I've always wanted to have AA kids. With apologies to those affected, I've always believed that if I ever have children, I owe them the best possible chances at life, including heightened intelligence, beauty, and a sound genotype. I believe I have a reasonable degree of control over who complements my genes to bring these qualities to fruition.

I'm honestly very good-looking and intelligent, so why not get someone who possesses these qualities, too?

Call it insipid or vapid, but I could swear that life has already dealt some people heavy blows by limiting their options in their quest for a future partner. Unlike those of us with AA genotypes, who can consider partners across all the common genotypes without the same risk of having children with sickle cell disease, they don't always have that freedom. I wanted my kids to have that freedom and an avalanche of options, too.

So, when she asked me that question, I sincerely freaked out and couldn't hide my disdain.

This, in turn, stopped her from opening up until last week, when she could no longer hide it.

Funnily enough, I already like her to the point where I don't mind if she's SS, BB, or iPhone. undecided

But the fact that she lied is what actually turned out to be my ish. She's been a very straightforward person so far, and this particular issue has upset our fashioned norms.

I proposed that the no-sex-before-marriage agreement should be off if we were going to be together, and she agreed. But now, I'm beginning to think it might look as though I'm trying to take advantage of her at this point.

Brothers, what will you advise a brother?
Am I being unreasonable?
Considering the emotional supports people with SS need, how challenging can it be? What is the possibility that she lives long enough?

All insults, curses, and whatever are welcome.
T for grateful.
This is a tough one to crack of you ask me. I can understand why she lied, so don't hold that against her. The question here is can you shoulder the weight of being married to a lady who has sickle cell. So at the end of the day, it comes down to you. I had a colleague who was a sickler, he is in his mid forties now and is leaving a premium life now in Canada. But it wasn't easy for him when he was here in Nigeria, he had a crisis almost every other month.
So ask yourself can you handle this? We can't make this decision for you. Weigh it yourself and know what's best for you.


NB: as one guyman to another guyman, please stop the philandering. I can tell you for free, it's not worth it.
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by CzarChris(m): 9:29am On Oct 14
Truthseeker10:
So are you saying that Arome is the only true man of God that you know and that Odumeje may be a fake pastor?
Could you please stop playing this your sick game. If you have a point to make go straight to it and say what you want to say. Because you are acting like a child that just got access to the internet by stealing the mom's phone for a few minutes.
What I said is simple, through my encounter with the great Apostle, Apostle Arome, God used him to change my life. I don't know odumeje, I have never had an encounter with odumeje, I've not even listened to odumeje's sermon for once, so how do you expect me to vouch for someone I've never even listened to. Please stop mentioning me by quoting me, if you don't have anything else to say than to force words off my mouth.
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by CzarChris(m): 8:53pm On Oct 13
Truthseeker10:
Do you agree that pastor Odumeje has also affected peoples lives too?
I don't know what you'd trying to achieve by twisting my words, but I clearly didn't speak of odumeje, I only spoke of Apostle Arome affecting my life. I've nothing, absolutely nothing with odumeje. Let the people he affected come out and speak for him.
Christianity Etc › Re: Verydarkman Blasts Apostle Arome Over “satan Is Stronger Than God” (VIDEO) by CzarChris(m): 1:35pm On Oct 12
SecurityNgr:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIdc0RCyhxo

One thing is certain: Nigerians have plenty to say!

💬 Whose side are you on? Drop your opinion in the comments—but first, make sure you've heard the full statement in context.
I've listened to that message, why did VDM, crop out his full statement. I pity so called Christians that don't see beyond this charade. But then again, everybody will reap what he/she showed.
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by CzarChris(m): 7:26pm On Oct 11
efemena5050:
Thts the false hood we are meant to believe.......God did not use that guy to help ......rather what was meant for u as prescribed by time chance and grace came to u.......
You don't get it do you? Even Jesus Christ who is God that came in the flesh couldn't manifest until the Holy Spirit rested on Him in the form of a dove as He was baptized by John The Baptist. So he needed the baptism of John The Baptist who is a human being to be announced to fulfil His ministry on Earth.


NB: Ruminate on the above statement a bit more.
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by CzarChris(m):
obembet:
I I believe many Nigerians have been wondering why the great man of God, Apostle Arome, has been trending on social media for the past month. Before I share this, let me tell you a little about him."

Apostle Arome is a man of great inspiration when it comes to the undiluted Word of God, with an ability to effectively deliver God’s counsel to the people.
He is striving towards the rebirth of apostolic Christianity. [b]He founded Remnant Christian Network (RCN) with headquarters in Makurdi, Benue State,
Nigeria and branches in and out of Nigeria.[/b]

Now, here are a few words from Pastor Arome that have made some Nigerians, including the social media influencer Very Dark Man (VDM), challenge the man of God." Some pastors, including Pastor Abel Danima, have directly challenged the man of God over his various claims about his beliefs, while some other prominent pastors have also warned Christians to stay away from any attack on Christianity as one body of Christ.



Here we go!

1 He said he met Jesus at a beach in Tanzania.

2 He said Jesus told him to send N5 million to a pastor in connection with receiving supernatural power.

3 I was in boko haräm territory for 4 years and 6 months -




4 He said he asked Jesus for power to reverse autism.

5 He said an angel touched him and five people subsequently started walking.

6 He said Satan appeared to him and tried to negotiate with him.

7 He described Satan as extraordinarily beautiful rather than physically grotesque.

8 He said The first time I came to London, it took me 12 hours for my tongues to pierce through the atmosphere, making London the worst territory I have ever visited.



9 He said Satan showed him gold and thousands of cards representing access/influence.

10 He said he had power over the weather and could stop rain.

11 He invited people to call him if rain threatened an outdoor meeting, saying he would stop it.

12 He said that if he stood before someone with asthma, the person would be healed

13 He said a woman who had been deaf for 30 years regained her hearing during the meeting where he stopped the rain.

14 He asked church members to give N1 million each within five minutes, presenting that amount as a specific instruction from God.

15 He said that The first time I went to heaven this year was an exclusive meeting with Jesus. I sat with him discussing some things




16 He said Nigeria's national calling is revival rather than primarily economic development.

17 He said God wants Nigeria to generate something spiritually that will be exported to other nations.

18 He described Nigeria as a "key player" or "stakeholder" in what he called end-time matters.

19 He said Nigeria's early intercessors had a covenant with God

20 He said I was flying from Johannesburg to London, and Jesus was complaining for 9 hours about the investment He had made in the Nigerian Church that they began to pursue their own agenda when they became strong.



I did not have the courage to tell Him to test me, and He was crying.”


21 He has taught that believers will continue the principle of tithing in eternity through the Melchizedek priesthood. This teaching has been publicly challenged by other Christian ministers, including Abel Damina.

22. he said a girl said he's too proud during service and went dumb immediately

23 He said . “For the first time in my life, I saw Satan in my dream. He came to plead with me, I need your help.” “the Satan i saw did not have horns, he was most beautiful creature”



Reporting - Obembe Tosin
Apostle Arome is a Man of God, I personally know what God has used this man to do in my life. Let everybody continue moving mad and say anything and everything they feel like, there's always a day of reckoning for all of us.

Peace.
Celebrities › Re: Reaction As Nigerian Lady Flaunts Business Built From “hookup” Earnings (Photos) by CzarChris(m): 10:39pm On Oct 07
Rebuker:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CZckHJt_0s
It's the innocent face for me. Lord help us.
Romance › Re: What Got You Irritated By Someone You Once Had A Crush On Or Liked Very Much? by CzarChris(m): 9:52pm On Sep 24
Before we started dating, she was a very quiet and sweet girl. Her "innocence" was what attracted me in the first place. When dating began, that was when I found out that that girl was pure evil. Her entitlement mentality was out of this world. I literally ran for my life.



Fear some of these "quiet" girls ooo, they are not quiet, they are diabolical.
Sports › Re: 2026 Ballon D'or: Who Is Winning The Award Among These Names? by CzarChris(m): 10:38pm On Sep 14
Hemanwel:
The 2026 Ballon d'Or is going to be keenly contested between Harry Kane, Kylian Mbappe, Jude Bellingham, and Rodri. Who do you think is most deserving of the award this year?

Personally, me thinks the WC shouldn't be the only criterion to determine who wins the award this year. I mean, it was just a one-month tournament, which took place in the middle of the year; and we have players who have performed right from the beginning of the year.

Therefore, I tip Harry Kane or Kylian Mbappe to win the 2026 Ballon d'Or
Well, FIFA wants to appease the English FA, so harry Kane is taking this
Business › Re: Look At How Much I Owe Opay by CzarChris(m): 10:57am On Sep 09
Sirchiboy:
May God help me and deliver me
I get hope ooo!!! I get hope!!!
Shuuuuuu!!! shocked
Politics › Re: Name One Thing That Has Become Cheaper Under Tinubu. by CzarChris(m): 11:16pm On Sep 01
absingle:
“Name one thing that has become CHEAPER under Tinubu.”
People's dignity.
Romance › Re: 10 Signs Your Woman Has Lost Respect For You by CzarChris(m):
OverCalculating:
Ladies, let’s be real for a minute. We can still love a man and lose respect for him at the same time. And when respect dies, love starts struggling to survive. It’s not always dramatic. Sometimes it’s eye-rolls, cancelled plans, or the way we stop asking his opinion.

I’m writing this not to bash women, but to help men see the signs early before things break beyond repair. Here are ten signs your woman has lost respect for you from the opposite sex.

1. In public, she tries to control you.

She may humiliate you by giving you commands or berating you in public, thinking you'll just put up with it.

2. She ignores all of your requests, even the most basic ones.

She frequently brushes them off or tells you to take care of things on your own.

3. She discusses her ex-boyfriends without caring


She brings up former loves without taking your thoughts into account, demonstrating her lack of concern for your feelings.

4. She departs without informing you of her destination.


She acts careless or secretive about telling you where she is, and she doesn't tell you about her intentions.

5. Despite what she gives, she expects more from you.


She treats your efforts as though they are owed to her and continuously expects you to put up effort while providing little in return.

6. SHE BECOMES ABUSIVE

She might resort to harsh words or even physical aggression, displaying behavior that’s disrespectful and unfeminine.

7. She doesn't answer your calls or texts.


She shows a lack of concern for your feelings by taking her time or not bothering to respond to your messages.

8. She asks if you're a man.


She pushes your buttons to reveal your vulnerabilities and criticizes your skills or manhood in an attempt to make you feel insecure.

9. SOCIAL MEDIA IS MORE IMPORTANT TO HER FOR VALIDATION THAN YOU


ARE her lack of respect evident in the fact that she is more interested in getting attention from others online than in your love?

10. She doesn't care about intimacy

She seldom engages in the bedroom, exerting little effort as though she's simply waiting for it to be over.

Men, I hope this helps.
My last relationship, was my worst mistake. She dated a yahooboy (scammer) as her 1st ever relationship before I came into the picture, this boy don over use money spoil this girl, her entitlement mentality truly needs to be studied by Sigmund Freud. So when she wasn't being appreciative of major things I was doing, like she felt she was entitled to it by virtue of being my babe. Omo I run o!!! She had like 70% of those signs up there.
Pets › Re: Which Dog Breed Actually Suits The Nigerian Lifestyle? Guard,Family Or Show Dogs by CzarChris(m): 6:09pm On Aug 01
lamentor78:
Ekukesian aka Bingo best for Nigerian homes
Ekukesian?!! I love this. grin grin grin
Borrowing a leaf from the above comment, Ekukesian is the best breed.
Politics › Re: INEC Publishes Atiku Abubakar, Amaechi's Personal Documents by CzarChris(m): 4:05pm On Aug 01
There's a massive gap in amechi 's records, but who I bi? Make God save us for this country
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hamas Accepts Full Gaza Disarmament by CzarChris(m): 10:03am On Jul 31
Honestly, this is good news. Clearly the Americans and the Israelis know what they are doing. Iran has always been the invisible hand sponsoring hamas and other terrorist organizations. This is a classical example of "cutting off the head of the snake".
Let these people just allow peace to reign for once.
Education › Re: Can You Solve This? Very Tricky Math Question (see Picture) by CzarChris(m): 12:55pm On Jul 29
ManirBK:
Let's see who the real mathematicians are on Nairaland. 👇
It took me a while but the answer is B.
You simplify the fraction of denominator, combine it with the numerator. Expand the denominator and take the reciprocal of the entire denominator. Problem solved. grin
Politics › Re: Soludo, Wife Join Son Ozonna's Dance Challenge (Video) by CzarChris(m):
Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSIEbsJhr9c?si=jiCuLoxPB3FiWZC_

Soludo and Wife Join Son Ozonna's Dance Challenge Amid Relationship Rumours

Anambra State Governor, Professor Chukwuma Soludo, and his wife, Mrs Nonye Soludo, have joined their son, Ozonna Soludo, in a dance challenge to his latest song, sparking reactions across social media.

Ozonna shared the heartwarming video on TikTok, showing himself dancing alongside his parents as they celebrated his music. In the caption, he described the moment as the Governor and First Lady of Anambra joining him to dance to his song, which he called the "international national anthem."

The video quickly attracted attention, with many social media users praising the family moment, while others linked it to previous online conversations about Ozonna and his father.

Ozonna, who has gained attention for his music, fashion, lifestyle and creative content, has often sparked reactions among Nigerians with his unique personality and public appearances. His activities have sometimes fuelled discussions about his relationship with his father, particularly following online claims that there was tension between them.

However, there has been no confirmed evidence that Governor Soludo and his son have a strained relationship. If anything, the latest video appears to paint a different picture, showing the governor and his wife publicly supporting their son's creative journey.

The family dance challenge has since generated widespread reactions, with many Nigerians describing it as a display of the strong bond between a father, mother and son, despite the speculation that has surrounded Ozonna online.

The video also comes shortly after Governor Soludo and his wife travelled to the United Kingdom to celebrate the graduation of their daughter, Oduko Soludo, who earned a First Class Honours degree in Neuroscience from the University of Nottingham. The back-to-back family moments have given the public a rare glimpse into the governor's private life, portraying him not only as a political leader but also as a supportive husband and father.


Source: https://gtvdaily.com/ozonna-soludo-shares-sweet-family-dance-as-governor-first-lady-join-big-flex-challenge/
Truly madness is free. Your local police abi na vigilante dey flog and arrest other people's children for looking exactly how your child looks. Hypocrisy at it's peak, continue sir.

Politics › Re: Atiku Will Win 2027 Election by CzarChris(m): 8:17pm On Jul 26
OLABAMIJI99:
As Tinubu suppporter, I can confidently tell you that Tinubu has no pathway to Aso rock in 2027 because all odds are now against him unlike 2023.. I am being factual here , and Let’s not deceive or lie to ourselves to feel happy.


In 2023, the Late Buhari internally worked against Tinubu, but he had no option than to throw his weight behind him at the general election because he’s the flag bearer of his party APC which his cult followers also did as Buhari commanded. Despite that, millions still voted against Buhari’s wish especially the politically exposed Hausa Fulani Muslims who voted for Atiku ..

In 2027, Buhari is no where to be found, who is going to influence votes for Tinubu like Buhari did in 2023 ?
Is it the nothern Governors whose bodies are in APC but souls are sitting with ADC ?, the same thing is applicable to some South South and South East Governors where Obi’s candidacy has caused uncertainty in the aforementioned region..

In 2023, Obi’s candidacy made Tinubu to win

In 2027, Obi’s candidacy will make Atiku to win..

Well, what do I know ?

Let the best Muslim emerge.
You see why I keep saying that we are not ready in this country. Hungry never catch una reach. Imagine your last sentence, voting along religious and ethnic lines. Mark my words, if atiku by any stroke of bad luck becomes president, we won't have anything remaining for us as a country, we would be wishing for the days tinubu the way we are currently wishing for the days of Buhari. A man that his history and records are there for all to see.
Keep voting along religious and ethnic lines. Body go really tell all of una.
Politics › Re: Who’ll Visit Boko Haram, Bandits Like GEJ, Osinbajo Visited Militants – Gumi by CzarChris(m): 11:57pm On Jul 25
Kuginzi:
https://punchng.com/wholl-visit-boko-haram-bandits-like-jonathan-osinbajo-visited-militants-gumi/
Why is this demon walking around freely in this country? How many civilians did the Niger-Delta militants kidnap or kill? I've worked in the creeks for years, you will see real pure abject poverty staring in the face and you'll also see the wealth of Nigeria follow through those communities through pipelines, their water is polluted, so there's no way for them to make a living. Now these demons called Boko Haram and bandits, what is the reason behind the continuous kidnap, rape and killing of innocent people? Their raiding and wiping out of villages/communities?

This man should be behind bars.
Politics › Re: Atiku Vows To Prioritise Local Production If Elected President In 2027 by CzarChris(m): 10:37am On Jul 21
esnbrutality:
So borrowing machine called TINUBU hasn't sold your so called country?

Carry nonsense propaganda outta here angry
I was seriously expecting this response. Well, I'm not a tinubu fan boy, I'm 100% pro Obi, I'm not a politician, but believe it or not, Atiku would be the worst thing to ever happen to this country if ever elected.
Politics › Re: Atiku Vows To Prioritise Local Production If Elected President In 2027 by CzarChris(m): 10:26am On Jul 21
SlavaUkraini:
https://www.thecable.ng/atiku-vows-to-prioritise-local-production-if-elected-president-in-2027/
Atiku would be the worst thing to happen to this country if elected. Infact, instead of atiku to be president make tinubu continue, this man would sell the entire country, won't have a country remaining if this man is allowed to enter Aso Rock as president
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pictorial Depiction Of Government Debt In Africa by CzarChris(m): 10:18am On Jul 21
Children of delusion go think say na A.I. Somebody please show me at least 5 productive venture projects that justify this amount of debt
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by CzarChris(m):
QuinQQ:
But this is NOT about parternity fraud. Remember, we don't know that there's been any adultery. This is about govt recognizing that once a man accepts a child and bonds with the child for several years, THAT IS HIS CHILD!! And making laws that encourage him to focus on raising that precioous child to adulthood (18), rather than spending time and 100's of thousands on DNA tests!

Remember there haven't been DNA tests throughout human history yet we have somehow managed to survive. All those diseases you mentioned can also be hidden in the lineage of someone you married. Also the opposite can also be true - the child could carry greatness genes
Oh don't worry about not having a DNA test in the old days. If you really want to know who your father is, go and provoke your village people to anger or take a share before an elder does, you go hear your full genealogy in one sentence.
You gave a man a child that is not his and you expect him to sit back relax and accept wetin? Infact, DNA tests has to be mandatory at birth, if the man chooses to go ahead and raise that child so be it. Don't take away the dignity of the man to choose. Let him choose for himself wether to go ahead or say no.
Sports › Re: England Vs Argentina: World Cup 2026 Semi-Finals (1 - 2) On 15th July 2026 by CzarChris(m): 9:40pm On Jul 15
Anyway this game likes let it go the English media machine is a well oiled one, Messi's football legacy is finished and fifa finished it for him. I can see it happening now BBC documentary on "Messi: FIFA pikin". grin grin grin
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by CzarChris(m): 9:08pm On Jul 15
QuinQQ:
Passing on what legacy? Here's what I wrote earlier:

Nature gave WE animals an extremely strong instinct to have OUR genes survive and most of our actions are dictated by that instinct. But as humans with brains why must we be exactly like lower animals?? We ought USE OUR BRAINS to see that survival of our particular genes benefits us NOTHING! What is important is that we live a fulfilled, satisfying life that includes as much of life as possible, including fatherhood!

As for the rest, that's outside our discussion. What we are discussing here is uwarranted DNA fishing expeditions. This is about settled families! We don't even know wether there had been infidelity. What we do know is that a man accepted a child from infancy, bonded with the child, and has been happily raising the child.
"Uwarranted DNA fishing expedition" is years later suddenly going on DNA amidst all that.
The state's concern is to discourage such, and encourage that the man saves his money and simply and happily keep raising a child that knows only him as farher and is very likely his biological child!
That's what the govt concern is - Uwarranted DNA fishing expeditions that are actually of no benefit to that family or society!
Interesting! Actually the government should make it a law that DNA tests has to be a must upon the birth of the child. Because first of all legally it's paternity fraud, breach of trust, and conspiracy to commit perjury(because she knowingly lied to the husband and other parties about the paternity of said child) and the government should make paternity fraud a punishable offense by way of sending both the woman and her illegitimate partner to prison without bail. Because it is a massive breach of trust and legally marriage is a contract and if one party goes against the terms of the contract there has to be consequences.

Scientifically, there are traits/genes that are passed on from father to children. Imagine giving birth to a child with epilepsy, sickle cell anemia, schizophrenia or any other mental health issues which is not found in the family? Let not even go towards the aspect of criminality like kleptomania which is also hereditary.

Paternity fraud is evil and should be completely condemned. Infact people should serve life sentences for it.
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Relationship Red Flag You Ignored And Regretted? by CzarChris(m): 3:00pm On Jul 15
Boxnaijatv:
We've all done it. Saw the sign clear as day, felt that small alarm go off somewhere in our chest, and still convinced ourselves "maybe it's not that deep" or "people can change." Then months (or years) later, we're sitting there like "ah ah, but I saw this coming now."
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‎Let me start us off honestly:
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‎For me, it was someone who talked badly about every single one of their exes — like every single one was "crazy," "toxic," or "the problem." At the time I thought "ah, this person has just had bad luck with people." Fast forward into the relationship myself, and guess who eventually became "the crazy ex" in somebody else's story? Should have picked up on that pattern immediately — when everyone before you is "the problem," you're just next in line, not the exception.
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‎Some common ones I've seen people mention over time:
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‎🚩 "I don't really have close friends" — and thinking it makes them more focused on you, when really it can mean isolation later
‎🚩 Love bombing early — excessive attention, gifts, "I've never felt this way before" within the first few weeks
‎🚩 Getting weirdly upset over small things very early — a preview of how conflict will actually be handled later
‎🚩 Money inconsistencies — vague about income, spending habits, or debt, brushed off as "we'll figure it out"
‎🚩 Watching how they treat waiters, drivers, or people who "can't do anything for them"
‎🚩 Jealousy disguised as "I just love you too much"
‎🚩 Anger issues explained away as "I'm just passionate" or "that's just how I am"
‎🚩 They talk about family in a way that quietly foreshadows exactly how they'll eventually treat you
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‎The scary part isn't that we don't see these signs. Most of us do. We just talk ourselves out of taking them seriously — "maybe I'm overthinking," "nobody's perfect," "the good outweighs the bad right now." And by the time the red flag fully reveals itself, we're already emotionally invested, sometimes years deep, sometimes with kids or finances tied in.
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‎So let's hear it — what red flag did YOU see clearly, ignore anyway, and later regret not taking seriously? Doesn't have to be dramatic, even the "small" ones that turned out to matter a lot. Let's help someone reading this recognize theirs before it's too late 👇
Her ex was a yahoo boy, worst mistake of my life.
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by CzarChris(m): 2:52pm On Jul 15
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QuinQQ:
God has blessed me and continues to bless me.
But never mind me, can you tell us how it benefits the man, the child, or society when a man accepts a child, bonds with the child, then years later start screaming DNA
Before you got up to type that nonsense up there, did you stop to imagine the psychological damage to the man? The betrayal? The heartbreak? That your write up there is nothing short of the highest level of demonic witchcraft. Do you know how many men, that kind of betrayal led to suicide? You denied a man the dignity of passing on his legacy and you call that what? How do you even sleep at night with this kind of mentality?
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by CzarChris(m): 7:58am On Jul 15
QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!
God punish you.... Respectfully of course.

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