kalu61: My oga, l remember following your for one contribution you made, l was like do we have Africans that can think outside the box. Do connect me into the system Abeg make l be like you too
Boss, if I tell you I know how I got to were I am today, I'm a liar. Honestly, I wasn't the brightest kid growing up. I actually discovered myself after graduation from the University and somehow landing a job immediately after graduation. It was a low paying job (actually I started with 20k a month). Recommendation after recommendation got me to were I am today. Sometimes, I don't even know who recommended me from Adam.
I am purely a product of grace. Keep doing what you are doing and let God do the rest. That's all I can say for now.
Toks2008: Have you been in a situation where you practically shut yourself up or stop yourself from making intelligent contribution to a topic SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO ATTACK YOU FOR YOUR INTELLIGENCE?
I have come to that point now cos I know do many things and this annoys many people who feel intimidated so I just keep mum and let things fly.
Exactly, I'm a university lecturer and a consultant, hell I'm not even a senior lecturer yet, but I find myself teaching professors from different universities even abroad. I work in a university, and you'd think that I'd be free to express my knowledge and exchange ideas.
I was dead wrong. So I just happily mask myself in my office 99% of the time. We are very far in Africa.
Palmerbarry: I've always wanted to ask the above question. I am a very quiet person, an introvert, but in my head, I talk every seconds like a real talkative. From reasoning to prediction to past events, it keeps rotating.
Does this happen to you too, or its just me. If it's just me, how bad is it to my health?
Please I need answers
And let me guess, you also find it difficult to sleep. Welcome to the club. . It's not just a trait for introverts, but if you also find it difficult to sleep, then I hate to be a bearer of bad news, you have a very high IQ. This is because our brains find it difficult to shutdown, it's always working.
Congratulations on being a member of the club of weirdos/nerds.
Rozcol: Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.
He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.
We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks
How much una go pay? My advice is proven to be effective.
Hassanmaye: Lol if na bad boy he for son chop pomo she think you are a nice guy
It's just crazy, my philandering days are over, if I wanted to chop pomo, I would have had her screaming my name on the second day. But I just want a wife, the pattern of doing things must change, I don't want to end up with a psycho.
shegun4sur: You think she's now stalking you. Didn't you say She unblocked you after you went to beg for forgiveness??
Please don't misquote me, I never begged for her forgiveness. I only apologized for asking her out in the first place. There's a difference. Which kin forgiveness, i never did her any wrong, I only blame myself for having such poor taste, I was carried away by physical appearance not knowing she's an unsure psycho.
Guy, women are crazy. Infact, majority of "today's women" are stack raving mad all these tips don't work.
I'm a high value man, and I know it. Met a girl, not quite long ago, took her on dates, invited her to my office showed her what I do, the ease at which we communicated blew my mind. I did everything like a proper gentleman. When I finally asked her for a relationship. She said their normal "she'll think about it". I asked her for answer a few days later, she said no. Do you know she blocked me on all social media. I was in shock utter shock. Traced her to were I'd know she'd be after 2weeks(I'm an extremely busy person). I apologized to her for even asking her out in the first place and left.
She unblocked me that evening, now she's the one stalking me, and I now have to block her on all social media myself.
There are so many uncultured, bitter kids on nairaland hiding under the anonymous covering of the internet to spew all kinds of nonsense online.
I'm not a follower or a believer in the person of TB Joshua, but the decency of a proper upbringing dictates that one should not speak ill of the dead.
People are now being herd off like cattle from their worship place. These people have family members and dependants that have different sense of reasoning, that are looking for excuses to vent their frustrations on the nearest victim, more problems for this funny country. The FG has been demystified, nobody fears the government anymore, what a pity
Nigeria is a country slowly descending into anarchy.
Rossiminku: Oh well. Same thing Ojukwu said before he had to flee to Ivory Coast, saying he was ''coming back soon''.
He actually meant to say ''in 15 years, bro''.
Igbo land(Anambra and Imo State) has the 3rd highest gas reserve in Africa behind Algeria and Mozambique, because 80% of the gas reserves in Nigeria are in the southeast google is your friend, check NAPIMS data on gas reserves in the Nigeria. I work in that industry, so I know. So continue fooling yourself. Other countries are even moving to renewable energy and you are here boasting about the Niger-delta. Niger-delta that will disappear that will disappear into their own country immediately Biafra is independent.
I don't support the Biafran aggetation or even ipob, but people like you are making me rethink the relevance of ipob. Wetin dey play sef? This intimidation is getting out of hand.
AlexReports: Ex Beauty Queen Beauty Instifanus 5 Months Marriage Crashes, Cautions Ex- Husband On False Allegations
Nigeria Beauty Queen and former Miss Common Wealth, Her Majesty, Queen Beauty Instifanus has roared at the recent ursurge of rumours trailing her recent divorce with Ehis Tsapel Douglas. In a statement which she released few hours ago during an exclusive discussion with StatePress Correspondent, Beauty Instifanus stated clearly that her relationship and marriage with Ehis Tsapel Douglas has long ended.
She noted that there was no longer any existing connection with her ex-husband, stressing that they had gone their separate ways. She further cautioned her Ex-husband to respect her privacy and stop connecting himself with her. She says, "am not his wife or friend in any shape or form plus am single and not searching".
She however warned him about making frail statements and accusations about her, as she threatens to tell the world everything about his ill doings, if she hears any more negative falsehood sponsored or ingnited by her Ex-husband to sabotage her image and integrity.
Ehis Tsapel Douglas had earlier gotten married to Beauty Instifanus last year in December 2021, after an amazing 4 momths on-stage engagements. Unfortunately, the relationship and marriage was later halted after several issues which the both couples were embattled in. The marriage only lasted for about five months before the eventual divorce.
Alexgman1: At childhood we all have that dream career we wished and aspired to become at adulthood.
Some of us wanted to become a doctor, nurse, pharmacist, radiologist, surgeon, engineer, banker, economist, agriculturist, politician, pilot, journalist, athlete, pastor, fashion designer, educationist, scientist, a soldier, navy, airforce, e.t.c.
As for me my childhood dream career was to become a PILOT but today am an ECONOMIST.
WriterNig: Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez were married in an intimate ceremony over the weekend, Billboard can confirm.
The couple started dating in early 2020 and shared their engagement news in December with a series of photos Grande captioned "forever n then some." According to TMZ, which first reported the news, they were married at their Montecito, California, home with fewer than 20 people in attendance.
"The room was so happy and full of love," a rep for Grande tells People. "The couple and both families couldn't be happier."
Grande and Gomez, a real estate agent, have kept much about their relationship under wraps in their year-plus together. But there have been some glimpses here and there, including a brief (albeit cropped) appearance from Gomez in Grande and Justin Bieber's "Stuck With U" music video and some photos here and there on Instagram.
This was the first marriage for Gomez and Grande, who was previously engaged to Pete Davidson but never married.
Kai! My crush that year, so Kat no gree wait make I make that 7 billion dollars I promised her.
Fu*k the poor reviews, as an MK game addict it hit all the right spots. Why isn't anybody talking about the fatality modes brought to life in this movie?
Abeg , I've watched it 4x already and I'm still not bored with it.
The only thing wack about the movie was that Cole character, dude has real wack acting skills.
JohnspeakU: Some people are always quick to curse guys who claim to have slept with married women. But my question is, what about those married ladies that will never tell you they’re married?
So guys, have you dated a married woman unknowingly?
Let’s share!!!
Yes I have, she was so fine and young? We dated a bit, thank God I didn't close the deal as soon as I would have, God really saved me. She never wore a ring, so how was i to know that she's married? But before I could do sh*t God exposed her through my lil sis. Infact, I still owe my sister a debt for that quick save. Honestly!