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Kimiso:
are you found in these kind of situation

Just because I am not found in these situations doesn't mean I can't be empathetic to those found in these situations. If we only speak up about things we personally go through the world will be a terrible place. I am also against rape and paternity fraud, do I have to go through them before I speak up?

For example if I speak a truth based on reality especially when its about the plight of men dealing with manipultive and narcissistic women, it's always met with "omg who hurt you"? "Dem done do this one strong thing" they start to attack your person and "motivations" instead of attacking the argument or facts. It's cringe. That is exactly what you are doing.

We can be passionate about what we haven't gone through, it's possible.

I'm actually 6'1
I'm not broke
Not fat(very fit)

Thanks

I'll cancel the wedding when we are about to take our vows or I'll play porn in the reception.

Hahahaha hahahaha

MadamOk:
Keep the picture away from yourself and your mind

Take a deep breath and say to yourself you will not do it again

Lol.
Una funny for this nairaland.
If it's that easy, drug addicts just need to take a deep breath and say they'll not do it again.

Hilarious.

Nyascobar1414:
But when a guy tells a girl the truth like saying the gitl is Ugly and Fat.. They will be like Its not fair, you are being toxic...

Girls ehh...

They want men to consider their feelings but they are ruthless in saying what they like.

Women don't cater to men's emotions, whatever they find unattractive you already know because they always say.
Ugly
Broke
Short
Fat etc.

This thread is unnecessary.

Dorwadora:
70KG for a man is not bad nah. Like men can weigh as much as 75 kg and still look thin ... My oga is 71 and he's thin

That's cos on average men have more bone density.

If a woman complains to you about how bad guys treated her in the past. Ask her how long she stayed with the guys if she stayed with them for more than a year it means she loves the treatment metted out to her by those guys.

Naive you would want to do better than those guys but what you don't know is that there is a reason she chose to date those bad guys, she is damaged and can only be aroused by guys who treat her poorly....if you treat her better she'll be bored, cheat on you and leave.

Nuff said

tayo60:
Continue being the good guy, a good girl will come your way.

Wrong advice. Guys never take advice from a woman. Women are not self aware about what they emotionally respond to.

Don't be the good guy when it comes to women. Love less. Be ruthless when needed. Remain stoic. The good guys don't get them wet.

EFULEFU1:
In an interaction with my fiancee this morning when we were taking our breakfast in bed, she confessed she loves tall and fair guys

And that, bowlegged guys disgust her

Meanwhile I am short and very very dark

With bowlegs

Please advise

Lies.

This we have all seen.

SurvivorM:
So at the end of the day, what you are driving at is an understanding relationship where the woman submit to the man.
But if the man is in love, he will let the woman ride on him because of his emotions and give his individuality up because he loves the woman.

I dont think life works like that, we only live once so why just live a mundane life without excitement or feeling in love, what's the point of loving if you can't take risk.
Been in love is kind of an ecstasy feeling, so why deprive yourself of that, forget heartbreak not every relationship lead to that

Just because something is exciting and feels good doesn't mean it's healthy for you.
"You only live once" that's what drugs takers say until they become addicts...just because of the euphoria and dopamine bliss that comes with drug abuse doesn't mean it's good.
You know that people adopt unhealthy lifestyle after heart break? Do you know that people commit suicide after heart break? Why do we promote being in love and discourage drug abuse when they are the same thing.

Scientist found out that during brain imaging the area of the brain that lights when someone takes cocaine is the same area that lights up when someone sees the person they are in love with. Does that seem healthy to you? Developing a chemical dependency on another person just like a drug addict with a drug? It's no wonder being in love makes people do crazy things.
Go figure.

Realmi:
Them don do this one strong thing


Say whatever u like, all I know is that love is a beautiful thing and everyone deserves to be loved

being loved is different from being in love. Love is an action word. Being in love is a feeling.
Some one can be in love with you without loving you and vice versa.
When God said husband should love their wives. Loving your wife means protection and provisioning. That is how a man shows love. Not these toxic dependency we call love where people stab and kill people they love.
Being in love is not sustainable and is drama upon drama, it's not functional.

Ever wonder why our grand parents arranged marriages seem to work and last longer than all these emotional in love marriages today. It's because they understand that feelings are not sustainable. Instead the man loved(by leading, protecting and providing) the wife arranged for him and she in turn submitted to his leadership.

Imbecilicsamuel:
Seek therapy.

k

lexy20I4:
Mugu simp don drop quote,lol.

k

Datboredberri:
Yeah... I am...

I agree completely... It's hard to manage one's expectations... That's usually the problem... We expect our partners to be perfect, especially if we've been disappointed before...

I do believe in love... I'll always be a helpless romantic... I'm still learning what it means... And not from the disney dictionary...

I read an essay recently... That love is more hate than love and I can totally relate...

Anger, jealousy, doubt, insecurity, etc... These are some of what the most in love couples deal with but hide from the rest of us cause it's not 'love'... So were left with a blurry edit of what love is...

It's not really fun... Anything but it...

Love or what we know as love is a toxic situation really. But we are not ready to have that conversation. Look around and see the damage people who have the chemical dependency we like to call love have caused. It's not a place any sane person should crave for.

It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wanting to be around her all the time. When you imagine your life without her. There's a physical pain in your chest.

That is a toxic life. And no woman should have that much power over a man. That is what the bible call giving your strength to a woman. It never ends well. Because women ultimately seek power, and if they can drain your energy they will, and they'll go look for another challenge. That is another energy to drain.

I know I will get a lot of who hurt you....bla bla
Because they have no superior arguments, just emotional sentiments to justify their weaknesses.

Thos who get it get it

Nuff said.

It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wanting to be around her all the time. When you imagine your life without her. There's a physical pain in your chest.

That is a toxic life. And no woman should have that much power over a man. That is what the bible call giving your strength to a woman. It never ends well. Because women ultimately seek power, and if they can drain your energy they will, and they'll go look for another challenge. That is another energy to drain.

Nuff said.

Payperboii:
Who has fb account for sale?
Payment after confirmation of login details.
WhatsApp +1(775) 238-3862

This wouldn't work unless you see face to face.... nobody is that stupid to give you login. Just the way you are not stupid to send money fess

Why is it that after pranking someone in the streets or campus they don't ask the person for permission to put their face online, they just go ahead because they know most people can't sue or don't have the means to.

Unlike places like America after pranking someone they walk up to you and ask if you give your permission to be on their video.

Here anybody can just hold a camera and start recording people and use them to make money without their permission...see what ignorance and lack of exposure has caused, people don't even know they have rights.

Hustlers...They hawk pussie

My friend you don't know what to use money and do...Just go to her pop, take pictures with her, take her out to eat, go home and gift her your D.

Don't say I did nothing for you.

Lol

kayjay69:
If you think this acquisition was made because Elon Musk cares so much about free speech then you are dumber than rocks.

Mr smarts please tell me... Why do you think he purchased it? you know we learn everyday. If you can't tell me then make Ogun kill your papa

AmazonTopaz:
You are just a clown

Free speech indeed lol e go shock una

K

Elon is a legend.
Futuristic.

A win for free speech.
Let the liberals and leftist go eat shit.

Very nasty shameless set of people.

Power

If you count it are you going to return it if you don't like what you see?

That is rude.

We the redpillers are tired.

We cannot can again on nairaland, there's just too many of you simps.

I give up.

Animegirl:
Marriage does work.
Hustling in an honest way does pay of.
School is important.
Dreams do come true.
Nigerian girls ain't useless.


We experience life differently and that's fine.

This doesn't make sense. Discourage is a strong word. more like you should warn people you care about of the possibility of the same thing happening to them. but they get to make the final decision.

If a girl was raped in the night passing a certain street, would it be wrong to "discourage" her younger sister from passing that same road at night? After all just because she was taped doesn't mean her sister would be raped.

See your logic?

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HRHQueenPhil:
the HookUp Master, can't wait for u to come to Christ and repent genuinely
the thought of ur precious skin burning in Hell won't let me stop remembering u in prayers
i pray u will have a prodigal son experience and it would not be too late

Preach to me about the love of Christ not the fear of hell. You cannot threaten me with hell. I'm a sinner (who isn't?) But I love Christ.
Alot of Christian serve God not because they genuinely love Christ but because they fear hell fire...Christ looks at the heart, he knows if you are serving out of fear or out of love.

And please if our body is buried in this world after we die, please tell me what skin actually burns in this your hell?

When last did you watch a full movie?
People these days have a short attention span.
We only watch short skits.

When last did you complete a full movie in one sitting?