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If as a man you only deal with women who you can only have sex with....then you are still applying low level game, sex is cheap and it is everywhere, you should be more interested in a woman who can contribute financially and open financial doors for you, those are the kind of women you should be dealing with....having sex is no longer a challenge, you should demand more than just sex from a woman.....women who offer only sex are a waste of space.

You have to graduate in game to a point where your diick is a reward for her financial investments in you...that is game!! if you've never had a woman pay the hotel for a room and also beg you to spend time with her(and i am not talking about sugar mummy) then you need to advance in the game and the kind of women you hang with.

Let her hug herself.

For the second time this year i had a very lucid dream. where i see nigeria youths of three major tribes Igbo, hausa and yoruba wage guerilla war on each other, moving in groups and killing each other with knives(no gun).

I fear that if not war some sort of crisis that would cause loss of lives is close, i pray i am wrong.

who has had a similar dream please share!!

I have always wanted to be a forensics expert working in crime scenes collecting finger prints and DNA, I hope now with our NIN and finger prints on our data base i can catch some bad guys and make our society safer.

where do i get special forensics training, not as police but as a consultant??

shortgun:
I was discussing with my Girl today, one talk lead to another and I asked her to give her honest verdict about me in the relationship with her.
I pleaded with her to give a very honest score.

This is how she scored me and I must say that I am disappointed in some of the scores and surprised at some....
I recommend couples do this sometimes.
Love is a beautiful thing people.
Here we go.

Caring.....9/10
Intelligence...7/10
Patience......4/10
Respect for her.......7/10
Value for her....6/10
Sex...............8/10
Open minded...9/10
Truthfulness...5/10
God fearing.....4/10
Boldness........9/10
Neatness.........8/10
Cleanliness.....4/10
Fun to be with......9/10
Anger management...7/10
Faithfulness..........6/10
Romance...............8/10
Trust worthy...........7/10
Love.......................9/10

They say cleanliness is next to Godliness, 4/10 for cleanliness and 4/10 for Godliness, i am not surprised. as for me i thank God i Godly, and say God no unGodly.

GeneralPula:
How much are they charging you?

20k for codedruns site...

I done tire for ph online runs girls...dem too dey charge high.

ziondaughter247:
The same way you will never make it in your prime or in old age. Just watch how you will continue to struggle and look washed up very soon. When you're 40 be looking like 65. I have realized many of you here are very wicked and mean. You make comments without recourse to the fact that you're dealing with a fellow human being who has feelings and emotions too. Do you know how Rita will feel reading these comments? As far as I've known, Rita has always been a decent lady, probably hasn't been lucky in finding love early. Stop mocking her, you are not her God. An alive dog is still better than than a dead lion. You don't know the future, you have no right to call her washed up.

Lol...facts don't care about your feelings...The truth is bitter, there is nothing to enjoy in her again every thing else is makeup and push up bra, remove the clothes and there is nothing pleasing about the body of a lady over 35. one guy ate her wella in her prime 18 to 24, and this guy is probably just managing her cos her kpekus has lost its elasticity even kanyamata cannot save her.

patani:
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women who are ditching women keep hoping from one woman to the other...That's the fact...even biologically, you are prone to testicular cancer if you do not have sex frequently...and yes u can substitute that with masturbation...I am not trying to be a feminist cos I hate that term and I consider myself a chauvinist than a female supporting man...But lets be factual...If you go to most western world these days, women buy more houses than men, they give birth with aid of sperm donor etc and these women without men are happy and fulfilled (I saw it with my own eyes)...forget all the societal pressure on women that is comon in Nigeria..The world has moved on

happy and fulfilled indeed, when statistics show that 1 in 4 american women are on anti depressant pills lonely with their cats and more degrees than a thermometer. men on the other hand are fully happy being alone and having casual sex and baby mamas , and they are living their best lives without committing to a woman. how cool is that?

patani:
your myopic thinking is the problem...Go to western world and see aw women are ditching men....Having a dick doesnt make u special anymore...Nigeria mentality makes u belive its a special thing....

Go to the western world and see how men are ditching women also via the redpill movement, and the Mgtow(men going their own way) movement....Men do not need women.

Zzor:
OK but he should have a back up

There you go again with your foolishness, the backup does it stop anything if the important files contained in the laptop gets to the wrong hand?

fish brain.

Zzor:
Is he not supposed to be a big boy? why is he disturbing the cyber space with his stolen laptop

Mumu don't you know that important files could be in the laptop, small sense you don't have. the content of the laptop cost way more than the lappy.(sex tape,unreleased music files)etc.

stop spreading foolishness.

patani:
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I think its the other way round...every man need a woman or women....Without woman/women, men live short live span...bbut its the other way round for women...However, biological chemicals has made women behave like they need men like air ...but its changing on countries where women are empowered

This one doesn't know anything...men need women for pussy women need men for diick and commitment.

Someone else had her at her prime, you shouldn't have her at her decline(in looks).

Anosike should smash and run. because it never works out with old washed up evening fliers.

Tales by yoruba moonlight...just as elijah ascended with a chariot of fire abi? or animals followed noah 2 by 2. Lmao

cooooooks:
God forbid my sister or any woman in my family marries someone that will be salivating at their younger, possibly underage, female siblings/relatives.

okay...that you consider someone attractive doesn't mean you salivate or even think about sexing that person. you can say God Forbid from now till tomorrow, but we don't choose we we are attracted too, and sometimes life happens regardless of your wishes.

cooooooks:
Any married man that cannot talk with his wife honestly is counting the days to divorce.

You can't be honest in everything, sometimes too much honesty causes more harm than good?

For example if you happen to find your wife's sister sexually appealing, and you wife asks you if you find her sister sexually appealing...would you say yes?

Or your wife's mother is rude and has a terrible behaviour, if your wife asks what you think about her mother would you be completely honest? No! .

Women appreciate little white lies, especially of they cannot handle the truth.

Lalasticlala let people share their views on this na

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I know married men who go remote hotels writhin the same town to spend a week to recharge, pay for an apartment should not be a big deal

Thank you jare

RisenPhoenix1:
You could if you wanted to, all men should have a personal space where they can go to when they need to unwind and think alone. But I don't support being deceitful to your wife about your whereabouts. I sometimes take a weekend off by myself and I always tell my wife where I am so she can reach me in case of emergencies. Also, you don't want to limit yourself to a flat in a specific location. I've found that the best thing that works for me is to lodge at a hotel over the weekend. Your getaway location can be more flexible this way.

hotels are cool too....how does your wife respond to your telling her you want to lodge alone in a hotel?

Mariangeles:
Lying about it would be wrong and cowardly.
Why would a man want to lie to his family?

To save her the stress of thinking i am cheating. the end justifies the means, the end is a peaceful productive less stress marriage.

Mariangeles:
Do you know that most women feel that way too? If not more, but are not bold enough to say it...

If you agree that it is not out of place for your wife to ask and be given breaks (from you, the children and everything) once in a while to just be by herself and to catch her breath, then what you're asking for is not too much.

If you feel that way, I think you should have that discussion with your wife.
I believe the feeling is valid.

I am not married. but i believe when i do marry i would rent a small apartment for my alone time...and i wouldn't have the "discussion with my wife". she'll want to know the place and she wouldn't believe i am not cheating. no need to complicate things. so i'll just tell her i am travelling for a meeting with business partners.

and women do this too, they say they want to visit their mother or sisters for a few days, the mom looks after the kids while she has a good rest...

Regex:
Most cartoons I watch that is about families, always do they show that the man of the house has a secret place where he spends time alone and always sneaks there in heat of things in his house.


Never took notice of it except now you brought it up @op.

It's not a bad idea, and should be encouraged.

I think it can actually save marriages.
The guy can let of some steam, forever is a long time

Ahmad62:
I suspect something fishy here...

Lol...like what?

Liposure:
It depends. I thought marriage is stress free

Lies...no marriage is stress free

Sundrus:
That na when married man wan stylishly run away from him responsibility. Him presence na part of the marriage commitment. U wan marry & u still wan live like bachelor. Una go wan eat una cake & still hold the cake.

being away for a couple of days is not running away from your responsibilities....marriage can be overwhelming i think its healthy to take a break.

Mariangeles:
Are you having that thought?

I am actually, sometimes a man needs his space to recharge.

Should a married man rent a secret apartment where he can go for a couple of days to refresh and recharge his spirit with some alone time away from the whole marriage something?

In the guise of 'i am going for a business meeting or seminar for a few days'

Tall girls above 5'11 look weird, it's not good on them except they are very beautiful, like models.

But tall guys above 6ft look good.

CandidNotes:
Do a search on Nairaland.

Your head is not correct oga!!
I have searched nairaland and there is no women hate redpill teaching anywhere.

if you count all those small boys coming here to say all women are evil, as redpill then i repeat that your head is not correct.

The problem with people like you is that you try to summarize human interactions in to husbands love your wives and wives submit to your husbands as if man woman relationships are black and white.

There is a whole grey area of relationships that involves a lot of power play, deceit and manipulations. The redpill teaches how to respond if you find yourself in such circumstances, so you can protect yourself.

Don't speak of what you know nothing about.
in your mind now you think this jargon you wrote makes any sense. men teaching other men how to protect themselves from manipulative women is women hating....teach your son to be a man that exposes himself to manipulations from women because he doesn't hate them and leave other woke men to be liberated.

rubbish.

CandidNotes:
I digress.

Feminism

I am not a feminist but I believe that IN THE WORKPLACE every gender should be treated equally and paid fairly. But in the home, a man is the incontestable HEAD. I have never seen a team with two Captains, at best it's a Senior and Junior Captain. In every sport, endeavour, religion, there's only one Leader. Even in the Trinity, there's God the Father, the Son and the Holyspirit but God the Father is the Head. The human family is a trinity itself comprising of the Father, Mother and the Children, the Father in this case is the Head. Attempting to have two Heads will only lead to conflict as the unit will constantly be pulled in two different directions. The mother will not be happy, the father will not be happy and the children will be raised in a toxic environment. Nevertheless, a man should treat his wife with love and kindness and the woman should respect and submit to her husband.

I have observed that the original feminists are HERMAPHRODITES and MASCULINE LESBIANS who feel like they are actually men but are trapped in female bodies (you need to live abroad to understand what I mean). Hence, they feel that they are being treated differently from their male counterparts and would like to get the same treatment. These "women" have more testosterone than estrogen, they regularly engage in the exact same professions as men: Military, Construction etc. Rather than be honest and ask for equal rights because they are "men" in and of themselves, they hide behind the cloak of ALL women thereby destroying the lives and homes of unsuspecting, regular women. Please note that Feminists are brainwashing you.

Red/Blue Pill and Simps

When you are done converting all the males around you to black women hating men (as is the current situation in the US) I hope you can guarantee/understand the following:

1. You will be lucky enough (LOL) to find a white woman to marry.
2. Your daughter from your white wife will favour her white and not her black side (Mikel Obi's daughters).
3. Your black daughters and sisters will get the red pill treatment from their boyfriends and husbands.
4. Your cousins and nieces etc will get the red pill treatment from every man they encounter because of the mindset you are promoting.
5. Your granddaughters will have it worse because the red pill treatment will even be worse than it currently is.
6. Find a way to make every female in your family WHITE otherwise they will all be single or get the red pill treatment since that is what black women deserve.

Good luck!

What is the redpill treatment?

and please explain how redpill teaches black women hating.